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"Ignorance really pisses me off, I deal with people all day long and it really pissed me off sometimes when you don't get a please or a thank you, or they are in a round and order one drink at a time then disappear off to see what someone is drinking, especially when we are really busy Rant over" More inconsiderate really. I get it all the time in my job but there are many that make up for the inconsiderate ones. | |||
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"Is this an alcohol fueled rage perchance? " t total rant | |||
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"Time for a career change?" difficult when it's your own business | |||
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"I don't know how you cope with people who ask "can i get?"." My passengers say that all the time | |||
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"I don't know how you cope with people who ask "can i get?"." You just tell them to help themselves to a packet of salted peanuts from behind the bar? | |||
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"I don't know how you cope with people who ask "can i get?". You just tell them to help themselves to a packet of salted peanuts from behind the bar? " Or to the bleach from the toilets. | |||
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"Ignorance really pisses me off, I deal with people all day long and it really pissed me off sometimes when you don't get a please or a thank you, or they are in a round and order one drink at a time then disappear off to see what someone is drinking, especially when we are really busy Rant over" Hazzard of the job. I know how you feel!!! | |||
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"Not everyone can be decisive and remember or know what people want to drink ,especially if they've already had a few, flip it and someone comes to the bar and shouts out a string of drinks while they remember what's wanted and bar staff say hold on or wait a minute as they cant remember or put the order in till etc who's being ignorant? Insensitive maybe I think more a case of just having a night out and paying for you to give them what they order and it may take a bit longer but as the saying goes "its a service industry" And yes I have my own businesses and am in the service industry just not pubs " after 30 plus years in this job, it's not that difficult to remember a round of five or 6 drinks, we do a lot of cocktails which can at times be time consuming, however mixing three at a time is no problem, it's when they order one, you make it, they order another take the first one back to the group, you make it wait for him to come back, they order another takes the second and so on, you have now spent 10 to 15 minutes serving one customer, yes he is paying for the drinks, but sadly I am not someone's personal barman | |||
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"I don't know how you cope with people who ask "can i get?". You just tell them to help themselves to a packet of salted peanuts from behind the bar? Or to the bleach from the toilets." It's when they do a runner with the bogroll and leave half of it scattered around the place Ah sorry, that might be puppies | |||
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"Ignorance really pisses me off, I deal with people all day long and it really pissed me off sometimes when you don't get a please or a thank you, or they are in a round and order one drink at a time then disappear off to see what someone is drinking, especially when we are really busy Rant over" I agree fella. To be onist i say thank you and say to people have a good day. I try to stay positive and say posative things. Its like driving i always give way and say thanx. But you always get one fucker in a rush or just rude. Life ay and its not getting any better | |||
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"Not everyone can be decisive and remember or know what people want to drink ,especially if they've already had a few, flip it and someone comes to the bar and shouts out a string of drinks while they remember what's wanted and bar staff say hold on or wait a minute as they cant remember or put the order in till etc who's being ignorant? Insensitive maybe I think more a case of just having a night out and paying for you to give them what they order and it may take a bit longer but as the saying goes "its a service industry" And yes I have my own businesses and am in the service industry just not pubs after 30 plus years in this job, it's not that difficult to remember a round of five or 6 drinks, we do a lot of cocktails which can at times be time consuming, however mixing three at a time is no problem, it's when they order one, you make it, they order another take the first one back to the group, you make it wait for him to come back, they order another takes the second and so on, you have now spent 10 to 15 minutes serving one customer, yes he is paying for the drinks, but sadly I am not someone's personal barman" As a flight attendant I get that too. Someone asks for a drink, I go back and they ask for another, I go back and the person next to them now wants one. It’s part of the job unfortunately. x | |||
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"Ignorance really pisses me off, I deal with people all day long and it really pissed me off sometimes when you don't get a please or a thank you, or they are in a round and order one drink at a time then disappear off to see what someone is drinking, especially when we are really busy Rant over" I think the rule of thumb is: Don't let the bastards get you down. A lot easier said than done I know, but do you really want an asshole to put a dampener on your day? | |||
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"I don't know how you cope with people who ask "can i get?". You just tell them to help themselves to a packet of salted peanuts from behind the bar? Or to the bleach from the toilets. It's when they do a runner with the bogroll and leave half of it scattered around the place Ah sorry, that might be puppies " we have frommtime.to time the hand cream nicked out of the ladies loo | |||
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"Not everyone can be decisive and remember or know what people want to drink ,especially if they've already had a few, flip it and someone comes to the bar and shouts out a string of drinks while they remember what's wanted and bar staff say hold on or wait a minute as they cant remember or put the order in till etc who's being ignorant? Insensitive maybe I think more a case of just having a night out and paying for you to give them what they order and it may take a bit longer but as the saying goes "its a service industry" And yes I have my own businesses and am in the service industry just not pubs after 30 plus years in this job, it's not that difficult to remember a round of five or 6 drinks, we do a lot of cocktails which can at times be time consuming, however mixing three at a time is no problem, it's when they order one, you make it, they order another take the first one back to the group, you make it wait for him to come back, they order another takes the second and so on, you have now spent 10 to 15 minutes serving one customer, yes he is paying for the drinks, but sadly I am not someone's personal barman As a flight attendant I get that too. Someone asks for a drink, I go back and they ask for another, I go back and the person next to them now wants one. It’s part of the job unfortunately. x" as a rule I don't normally get pissed off, but this guy did it three times tonight, hence the need to blow off some steam | |||
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"We've just got in from a night at a casino where to bar staff were utter pish. Rude, slow, clearly in the wrong jobs. I went to the bar where there were 4 staff. It was busy but hardly overrun, Ive been in busier pubs. It came to my turn; "NEXT?!" the barmaid barks... she's a pretty but stern faced woman of about 30 ish. "Oooh yes, thats me, thank you..." I smile and ask "could I have 2 largers a gin and tonic, 1 pint of Guinness and a lime and soda please?" "Bottle or draft?" Miss grumpy barmaid asks "Oh sorry, yes draft please" "Pint or half" (Do people still order halves?) "Pints please" im trying to make eye contact, she looks bored out of her brains. She pours the pints and plonks them on the bar. "I think Id better have a tray if you have one please?" Again I smile at her. She audibly sighs and reaches under the bar and plonks the tray down in front of me. By now Im thinking somebody must be having a really shit night. I put the pints on the tray as she goes to the optics (she's already set the guinness to settle mid pint) but she's at the vodka bottle..."Oh no, sorry, it was gin and tonic I ordered" Again an audible huff. Plonks the gin and tonic on the bar, next to the tray. Pours a lime and soda, again that goes beside the tray. She goes to the till... "£23.80 cash or card?" I paid and left with the drinks wondering why on earth she was doing a job she was so unsuited for. Not a single smile, moment of eye contact, pleasantry, shred of basic manners, no customer service skills... downright bloody ignorant! " completely agree, no need for it, I am lucky I have good staff, and insist on good friendly customer service | |||
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"We've just got in from a night at a casino where to bar staff were utter pish. Rude, slow, clearly in the wrong jobs. I went to the bar where there were 4 staff. It was busy but hardly overrun, Ive been in busier pubs. It came to my turn; "NEXT?!" the barmaid barks... she's a pretty but stern faced woman of about 30 ish. "Oooh yes, thats me, thank you..." I smile and ask "could I have 2 largers a gin and tonic, 1 pint of Guinness and a lime and soda please?" "Bottle or draft?" Miss grumpy barmaid asks "Oh sorry, yes draft please" "Pint or half" (Do people still order halves?) "Pints please" im trying to make eye contact, she looks bored out of her brains. She pours the pints and plonks them on the bar. "I think Id better have a tray if you have one please?" Again I smile at her. She audibly sighs and reaches under the bar and plonks the tray down in front of me. By now Im thinking somebody must be having a really shit night. I put the pints on the tray as she goes to the optics (she's already set the guinness to settle mid pint) but she's at the vodka bottle..."Oh no, sorry, it was gin and tonic I ordered" Again an audible huff. Plonks the gin and tonic on the bar, next to the tray. Pours a lime and soda, again that goes beside the tray. She goes to the till... "£23.80 cash or card?" I paid and left with the drinks wondering why on earth she was doing a job she was so unsuited for. Not a single smile, moment of eye contact, pleasantry, shred of basic manners, no customer service skills... downright bloody ignorant! " Oh no, you were looking forward to that. Did you still manage to have fun? I’ve been in my job for 21 years today, I still love it. I think 6 nights in St Lucia helps sometimes. Not looking forward to working home tomorrow night but I will be all smiles for 8 hours. | |||
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"We've just got in from a night at a casino where to bar staff were utter pish. Rude, slow, clearly in the wrong jobs. I went to the bar where there were 4 staff. It was busy but hardly overrun, Ive been in busier pubs. It came to my turn; "NEXT?!" the barmaid barks... she's a pretty but stern faced woman of about 30 ish. "Oooh yes, thats me, thank you..." I smile and ask "could I have 2 largers a gin and tonic, 1 pint of Guinness and a lime and soda please?" "Bottle or draft?" Miss grumpy barmaid asks "Oh sorry, yes draft please" "Pint or half" (Do people still order halves?) "Pints please" im trying to make eye contact, she looks bored out of her brains. She pours the pints and plonks them on the bar. "I think Id better have a tray if you have one please?" Again I smile at her. She audibly sighs and reaches under the bar and plonks the tray down in front of me. By now Im thinking somebody must be having a really shit night. I put the pints on the tray as she goes to the optics (she's already set the guinness to settle mid pint) but she's at the vodka bottle..."Oh no, sorry, it was gin and tonic I ordered" Again an audible huff. Plonks the gin and tonic on the bar, next to the tray. Pours a lime and soda, again that goes beside the tray. She goes to the till... "£23.80 cash or card?" I paid and left with the drinks wondering why on earth she was doing a job she was so unsuited for. Not a single smile, moment of eye contact, pleasantry, shred of basic manners, no customer service skills... downright bloody ignorant! Oh no, you were looking forward to that. Did you still manage to have fun? I’ve been in my job for 21 years today, I still love it. I think 6 nights in St Lucia helps sometimes. Not looking forward to working home tomorrow night but I will be all smiles for 8 hours. " We had a fab evening thank you, apart from the staff... we had already given up waiting for the table service staff! The food was a bit meh but we had a laugh. We had to come away before our party moved onto the casino bit, id imagine they will be there way into the see small hours but Cheffyhas RFU work tomorrow early morning. Not sure Id bother going back there... apart from our party the other punters were dressed very casual. Shorts and flip flops casual Its was a bit like a big arcade at the seaside with a couple of roulette, black jack and poker tables. | |||
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"We've just got in from a night at a casino where to bar staff were utter pish. Rude, slow, clearly in the wrong jobs. I went to the bar where there were 4 staff. It was busy but hardly overrun, Ive been in busier pubs. It came to my turn; "NEXT?!" the barmaid barks... she's a pretty but stern faced woman of about 30 ish. "Oooh yes, thats me, thank you..." I smile and ask "could I have 2 largers a gin and tonic, 1 pint of Guinness and a lime and soda please?" "Bottle or draft?" Miss grumpy barmaid asks "Oh sorry, yes draft please" "Pint or half" (Do people still order halves?) "Pints please" im trying to make eye contact, she looks bored out of her brains. She pours the pints and plonks them on the bar. "I think Id better have a tray if you have one please?" Again I smile at her. She audibly sighs and reaches under the bar and plonks the tray down in front of me. By now Im thinking somebody must be having a really shit night. I put the pints on the tray as she goes to the optics (she's already set the guinness to settle mid pint) but she's at the vodka bottle..."Oh no, sorry, it was gin and tonic I ordered" Again an audible huff. Plonks the gin and tonic on the bar, next to the tray. Pours a lime and soda, again that goes beside the tray. She goes to the till... "£23.80 cash or card?" I paid and left with the drinks wondering why on earth she was doing a job she was so unsuited for. Not a single smile, moment of eye contact, pleasantry, shred of basic manners, no customer service skills... downright bloody ignorant! Oh no, you were looking forward to that. Did you still manage to have fun? I’ve been in my job for 21 years today, I still love it. I think 6 nights in St Lucia helps sometimes. Not looking forward to working home tomorrow night but I will be all smiles for 8 hours. We had a fab evening thank you, apart from the staff... we had already given up waiting for the table service staff! The food was a bit meh but we had a laugh. We had to come away before our party moved onto the casino bit, id imagine they will be there way into the see small hours but Cheffyhas RFU work tomorrow early morning. Not sure Id bother going back there... apart from our party the other punters were dressed very casual. Shorts and flip flops casual Its was a bit like a big arcade at the seaside with a couple of roulette, black jack and poker tables." Not very black tie then, sounds like Vegas attire in casinos. x | |||
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"We've just got in from a night at a casino where to bar staff were utter pish. Rude, slow, clearly in the wrong jobs. I went to the bar where there were 4 staff. It was busy but hardly overrun, Ive been in busier pubs. It came to my turn; "NEXT?!" the barmaid barks... she's a pretty but stern faced woman of about 30 ish. "Oooh yes, thats me, thank you..." I smile and ask "could I have 2 largers a gin and tonic, 1 pint of Guinness and a lime and soda please?" "Bottle or draft?" Miss grumpy barmaid asks "Oh sorry, yes draft please" "Pint or half" (Do people still order halves?) "Pints please" im trying to make eye contact, she looks bored out of her brains. She pours the pints and plonks them on the bar. "I think Id better have a tray if you have one please?" Again I smile at her. She audibly sighs and reaches under the bar and plonks the tray down in front of me. By now Im thinking somebody must be having a really shit night. I put the pints on the tray as she goes to the optics (she's already set the guinness to settle mid pint) but she's at the vodka bottle..."Oh no, sorry, it was gin and tonic I ordered" Again an audible huff. Plonks the gin and tonic on the bar, next to the tray. Pours a lime and soda, again that goes beside the tray. She goes to the till... "£23.80 cash or card?" I paid and left with the drinks wondering why on earth she was doing a job she was so unsuited for. Not a single smile, moment of eye contact, pleasantry, shred of basic manners, no customer service skills... downright bloody ignorant! Oh no, you were looking forward to that. Did you still manage to have fun? I’ve been in my job for 21 years today, I still love it. I think 6 nights in St Lucia helps sometimes. Not looking forward to working home tomorrow night but I will be all smiles for 8 hours. We had a fab evening thank you, apart from the staff... we had already given up waiting for the table service staff! The food was a bit meh but we had a laugh. We had to come away before our party moved onto the casino bit, id imagine they will be there way into the see small hours but Cheffyhas RFU work tomorrow early morning. Not sure Id bother going back there... apart from our party the other punters were dressed very casual. Shorts and flip flops casual Its was a bit like a big arcade at the seaside with a couple of roulette, black jack and poker tables. Not very black tie then, sounds like Vegas attire in casinos. x" We had a private room for our function and all at that wore black tie, evening dress or very dressy. It was just the rest of the punters using the casino looked a bit casual. | |||
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"Ignorance really pisses me off, I deal with people all day long and it really pissed me off sometimes when you don't get a please or a thank you, or they are in a round and order one drink at a time then disappear off to see what someone is drinking, especially when we are really busy Rant over" OP. I work in Hotel Management, plus hold my Personal Licence. I've been in Licensing all my life. What you state is just part of the job. Yes, it's annoying, a right pain in the butt, yet you just have to rise above it. One can always recall the eejits but try to consign them to history & remember the good customers. | |||
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" It's when they do a runner with the bogroll and leave half of it scattered around the place Ah sorry, that might be puppies " Awwww, that's lovely | |||
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"Ignorance really pisses me off, I deal with people all day long and it really pissed me off sometimes when you don't get a please or a thank you, or they are in a round and order one drink at a time then disappear off to see what someone is drinking, especially when we are really busy Rant over" Unfortunately, it’s one of the hazards of the job and I understand. I work at a petrol station and whilst most customers are polite and courteous, there are a few that treat staff like dirt. They tend not to speak and just throw the money at you; expect you to accept them jumping the queue, or take their money whilst serving someone else; expect you to answer their question, or expect help when serving someone and they’re just walked in; not to mention the times I’ve tried to apply health and safety on the forecourt, i.e. asking them to stop smoking...However, these are only the minority and I kill them with kindness. | |||
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"One consolation,vwhat he spent alone paid my staff wages for the night" That's good. Still rude of him. | |||
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" It's when they do a runner with the bogroll and leave half of it scattered around the place Ah sorry, that might be puppies Awwww, that's lovely " Not when you are sat on the loo with the last of the big roll vanishing under the door it isnt | |||
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" It's when they do a runner with the bogroll and leave half of it scattered around the place Ah sorry, that might be puppies Awwww, that's lovely Not when you are sat on the loo with the last of the big roll vanishing under the door it isnt " You men are never prepared I always have tissues in my hand bag OR pockets just in case such a calamity should arise | |||
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" It's when they do a runner with the bogroll and leave half of it scattered around the place Ah sorry, that might be puppies Awwww, that's lovely Not when you are sat on the loo with the last of the big roll vanishing under the door it isnt You men are never prepared I always have tissues in my hand bag OR pockets just in case such a calamity should arise" I just wipe my arse with puppies instead | |||
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"I hate it when I am in a queue in a shop or anywhere else and a person in front is talking on their phone whilst the assistant is serving them. It's so bloody rude to the person serving them. They should just get off the phone and ring back later or stand aside and finish the conversation. A bit of respect for sales person goes a long way xxx" Have it all the time at work, people expecting me to take their food order whilst their talking on their phones. Seriously? No chance, I walk past the table multiple times, if I hear them tell whoever they're talking to that they'll call them back or to hang on I'll stop, other than that nooooo. I can see them looking at me but I refuse to go over. Once their finished I'll go right over, but I do make it known the reason for my delay "Hiya darl, I didn't want to interrupt your call" | |||
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"I hate it when I am in a queue in a shop or anywhere else and a person in front is talking on their phone whilst the assistant is serving them. It's so bloody rude to the person serving them. They should just get off the phone and ring back later or stand aside and finish the conversation. A bit of respect for sales person goes a long way xxx Have it all the time at work, people expecting me to take their food order whilst their talking on their phones. Seriously? No chance, I walk past the table multiple times, if I hear them tell whoever they're talking to that they'll call them back or to hang on I'll stop, other than that nooooo. I can see them looking at me but I refuse to go over. Once their finished I'll go right over, but I do make it known the reason for my delay "Hiya darl, I didn't want to interrupt your call" " Good for you! | |||
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