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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After a couple of years on here I've developed a fairly thick skin. But rejection still chips away at you and hurts you every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile and wave.

Move on as for tomorrow is another day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve all had to learn to deal with rejection on here. Best advice I was given was that if you like the look of someone, read their profile to make sure you’re what they’re looking for. Nothing in life is guaranteed, but you’re giving yourself a better chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a daily thing for me I don’t let it worry me though it’s nothing personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a numbers game so just think every knock back is just one person closer to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How original your thoughts are

Theres litterally a tread almost exactly the same its like 3rd newest

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

If being rejected is getting you down its time to take a break from approaching people. Just use the forums or chat rooms and engage with others without having any expectations of meeting or fucking them.

Eventually you will repair that ego, self esteem, and feel you can again start searching and messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not being funny butwhat exactly do you expect ?

It is part of the game player, if you don't like to lose, do not play the game.

Sometimes, u win, sonetimes u lose. Such is life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How original your thoughts are

Theres litterally a tread almost exactly the same its like 3rd newest

"
so there's a theme

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am not being funny butwhat exactly do you expect ?

It is part of the game player, if you don't like to lose, do not play the game.

Sometimes, u win, sonetimes u lose. Such is life. "
noted so not allowed to express ones feelings or emotions on here. Excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not being funny butwhat exactly do you expect ?

It is part of the game player, if you don't like to lose, do not play the game.

Sometimes, u win, sonetimes u lose. Such is life. noted so not allowed to express ones feelings or emotions on here. Excellent"

I haven't said that. I just expressed mine after you expressed yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am not being funny butwhat exactly do you expect ?

It is part of the game player, if you don't like to lose, do not play the game.

Sometimes, u win, sonetimes u lose. Such is life. noted so not allowed to express ones feelings or emotions on here. Excellent

I haven't said that. I just expressed mine after you expressed yours.

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and I thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not being funny butwhat exactly do you expect ?

It is part of the game player, if you don't like to lose, do not play the game.

Sometimes, u win, sonetimes u lose. Such is life. noted so not allowed to express ones feelings or emotions on here. Excellent

I haven't said that. I just expressed mine after you expressed yours.

and I thank you "

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a couple of years on here I've developed a fairly thick skin. But rejection still chips away at you and hurts you every day. "

Then maybe this isn't the place for you. Look after your mental health x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not being funny butwhat exactly do you expect ?

It is part of the game player, if you don't like to lose, do not play the game.

Sometimes, u win, sonetimes u lose. Such is life. noted so not allowed to express ones feelings or emotions on here. Excellent

I haven't said that. I just expressed mine after you expressed yours.

and I thank you

You're welcome "

Nobody said you’re not allowed to express opinions OP, but I can only hope the messages you’re sending to people don’t come across the way that comment did

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I am not being funny butwhat exactly do you expect ?

It is part of the game player, if you don't like to lose, do not play the game.

Sometimes, u win, sonetimes u lose. Such is life. noted so not allowed to express ones feelings or emotions on here. Excellent"

OP I seem to remember your posts have always come across as hurt and needy - I know we all need sex whatever we're going through, but please do not look to a place like Fab to find healing, you may be sorely disappointed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Nothing worse than thinking you had something and then they tell you “I like you as a person”.

Onwards and upwards.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It reminds me of the ‘sore misgivings’ scene from Carry on Camping.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've put a new thread up now

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