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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it just me or are a lot of members more interested in just chatting lately, ive seen a lot of statuses and even a few threads asking to chat on various platforms, have most given up and trying to meet now and just use the site for chat only?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm only here for the beer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm only here for the beer "

well it’s 5 o’clock somewhere, right?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"is it just me or are a lot of members more interested in just chatting lately, ive seen a lot of statuses and even a few threads asking to chat on various platforms, have most given up and trying to meet now and just use the site for chat only?"

Wotchoochattin’bout,Willis?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"is it just me or are a lot of members more interested in just chatting lately, ive seen a lot of statuses and even a few threads asking to chat on various platforms, have most given up and trying to meet now and just use the site for chat only?

Wotchoochattin’bout,Willis?"

80s flashback!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're trying to arrange a meet for tomorrow. It's not easy

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Yes i think there are a lot of people - guys in our situation, that want pen-pals.

I’m starting to wonder if HMP are giving their residents fab accounts to while away the hours

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

God knows what's going on any more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're trying to arrange a meet for tomorrow. It's not easy "

yes i can relate to that, tried a few times on our couples profile, weve given up trying to arrange for another guy to join us, very chatty until the day comes, then nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lonely people about, it’s more interesting than Facebook isn’t it. Well usually.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We only use the site to pass the time of day and be nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're trying to arrange a meet for tomorrow. It's not easy

yes i can relate to that, tried a few times on our couples profile, weve given up trying to arrange for another guy to join us, very chatty until the day comes, then nothing "

Yeah that sounds about right or just just wanna chat about the meet so they can wank thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does seem to be that way, getting hard to arrange meets at the moment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There do seem to be a vast number of “chatters” of late. Not my thing, but each to their own. I like real people, so I’m off to a club to chat outside the virtual sphere tonight.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Yes i think there are a lot of people - guys in our situation, that want pen-pals.

I’m starting to wonder if HMP are giving their residents fab accounts to while away the hours "

There'd be far less trouble for staff if they were

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I guess I'm one of those unwanted chatters of late. Relationships and life stresses left me not wanting to meet for a bit but I'm getting back into it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess I'm one of those unwanted chatters of late. Relationships and life stresses left me not wanting to meet for a bit but I'm getting back into it! "

Yeah, this is how I feel. Sometimes I don’t even feel like doing the chatting part...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll chat and chat and chat until I find someone worth meeting. Have been called a fussy cow in the past though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots are just talking in the forum. Maybe they have a couples account to arrange meets or find what they’re looking for on fab? just a thought.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I'm only here for the beer "

Showing your age there.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I guess I'm one of those unwanted chatters of late. Relationships and life stresses left me not wanting to meet for a bit but I'm getting back into it!

Yeah, this is how I feel. Sometimes I don’t even feel like doing the chatting part... "

That's why Ball Gags were invented ya know

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"is it just me or are a lot of members more interested in just chatting lately, ive seen a lot of statuses and even a few threads asking to chat on various platforms, have most given up and trying to meet now and just use the site for chat only?

Wotchoochattin’bout,Willis?"

Showing your age there 2

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Hey there’s nothing wrong with chatters. What gets up peoples noses are folk that mislead and make out they will meet, when actually they have no intention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad it's not just me.

Seems to be a lot of messages not even read, I understand some get swamped and can't reply but not even open it?

Maybe it's just to encourage lots of messages to feel popular?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of people meet regularly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loads of people meet regularly."

and loads don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for the chat, woman and just the one very hot delicious man

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I'm only here for the beer

Showing your age there."

Well ma Gran used to like Double Diamond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess I'm one of those unwanted chatters of late. Relationships and life stresses left me not wanting to meet for a bit but I'm getting back into it!

Yeah, this is how I feel. Sometimes I don’t even feel like doing the chatting part...

That's why Ball Gags were invented ya know "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey there’s nothing wrong with chatters. What gets up peoples noses are folk that mislead and make out they will meet, when actually they have no intention. "

Yep. At least those upfront that they don’t meet aren’t wasting anyone’s time but their own.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Lots of people meet, the easiest way to shut down the fakes and timewasters is not to give them what they want. Don't chat on other platforms don't give them the sex chat they are after and they will go elsewhere and you are left with the genuine people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have just got back into it and finding it a little different.

Think clubs are definitely the way forward for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried to chase a meet a for 2 weeks just a real life chat would have been enough

Now im not arsed chasin too much effort il stick to forum until im asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad it's not just me.

Seems to be a lot of messages not even read, I understand some get swamped and can't reply but not even open it?

Maybe it's just to encourage lots of messages to feel popular?

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I have a lot of unread messages at the minute.. I’m not being rude to people just Im mostly just on the forums when I log on!! It’s definitely not to encourage messages to feel popular!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"We have just got back into it and finding it a little different.

Think clubs are definitely the way forward for us."

We think the same. Problem with clubs is you lose all ability to filter. I mean if you had anything that was a preference or even hard limit like age, sexuality blah blah. For me it’s safe sex and whilst i accept I need to look after myself I also don’t want to play with prolific barebackers, and with club meets you just don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of people meet regularly.

and loads don’t "

so thats that then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of people meet regularly.

and loads don’t "

My glass is half full fella

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Glad it's not just me.

Seems to be a lot of messages not even read, I understand some get swamped and can't reply but not even open it?

Maybe it's just to encourage lots of messages to feel popular?

"

Do you assume that every lady spends 24/7 on here sifting through the inane drivel that clutters up their inbox?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

What does that even mean to a woman "talk the talk"

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

But doesn’t chatting lead to flirting which then leads to .....

just remember the largest sexual organ is the brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does that even mean to a woman "talk the talk" "

They know exactly what ‘talk’ means ... it’s getting them to shut up, that’s what they don’t get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have just got back into it and finding it a little different.

Think clubs are definitely the way forward for us."

Yep couldnt agree more, Fab has become a place to come to whine and bitch about anything and everything, blokes join thinking its gonna be a fuck fest and try and moan about every smallest detail about the scene just to get any kind of interaction

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"We have just got back into it and finding it a little different.

Think clubs are definitely the way forward for us.

Yep couldnt agree more, Fab has become a place to come to whine and bitch about anything and everything, blokes join thinking its gonna be a fuck fest and try and moan about every smallest detail about the scene just to get any kind of interaction "

Some come on here to moan about why they can't get a meet, others use it as a place of interaction, and end up with a babe in their bed

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"is it just me or are a lot of members more interested in just chatting lately, ive seen a lot of statuses and even a few threads asking to chat on various platforms, have most given up and trying to meet now and just use the site for chat only?

Wotchoochattin’bout,Willis?

Showing your age there 2"

So if I quoted from Pliny the Elder, I’d be an AD79 roman? Okaaaay.....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"So if I quoted from Pliny the Elder, I’d be an AD79 roman? Okaaaay..... "

I did Latin at school if that's any good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have just got back into it and finding it a little different.

Think clubs are definitely the way forward for us.

Yep couldnt agree more, Fab has become a place to come to whine and bitch about anything and everything, blokes join thinking its gonna be a fuck fest and try and moan about every smallest detail about the scene just to get any kind of interaction

Some come on here to moan about why they can't get a meet, others use it as a place of interaction, and end up with a babe in their bed "

Exactly, if you come here expecting to get messages along the lines of "Im ready for a fuck come and get me" you are gonna spend a whole lot of time disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure a good chat is a great precursor to.....you know what!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure a good chat is a great precursor to.....you know what!!!"

A good blocking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup.... chat. And the few meets I have had have left me unsatisfied and frustrated.

A lot of men promise a lot and actually deliver very little.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m happy to chat at the moment. I don’t get a lot of free time to meet people anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its hard to het good timing to meet.life normally gets in the way

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

A lot of people have regulars they meet and go through phases of not meeting anyone new - real life gets in the way sometimes, but when it does people often still take part in the 'community' life of the forum. I think that's a normal healthy thing to do, so you may find a disproportionate number of 'chatters' on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people are here only for chat and people who do meet probably have people they meet regularly so are not looking to meet new people.

Other people realise the site isn't a good place to meet people from and it is easier to go to a club or meet people at socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here for the beer "

I'm here for the crack.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

When I was meeting, it was the ppl I was chatting with that became meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey there’s nothing wrong with chatters. What gets up peoples noses are folk that mislead and make out they will meet, when actually they have no intention. "

I make it very clear on my profile what I’m here for, if it so happens that it ends up in an actual meet then it’s a bonus IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots are just talking in the forum. Maybe they have a couples account to arrange meets or find what they’re looking for on fab? just a thought. "

I’m only here for the forums as I have my hands full right now getting to know someone. We shall see how it goes and if that can turn into a couples account. Wishful thinking but fingers crossed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m also on other sites/apps so not the only place I would be active in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with a good chat..

I certainly wouldn't want to meet anyone i hadn't chatted to and found out a bit about first..

Plus people can't always meet straight off anyway

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"There's nothing wrong with a good chat..

I certainly wouldn't want to meet anyone i hadn't chatted to and found out a bit about first..

Plus people can't always meet straight off anyway"

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're trying to arrange a meet for tomorrow. It's not easy "
i know what you mean its hard even trying to get an answer from a lot of people nowadays x

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