FabSwingers.com forum: Lonley

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many single people are lonely?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Sometimes yes but enjoy my own company, pottering around, mincing about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The fact that your not wanted by anyone

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

Lonely sometimes yes xt

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Defiantly when hubby is away but the unicorn in the kitchen keeps me sane

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just like someone to lie with in bed and feel complete with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No . I actually enjoy been single. There are some things I miss. like snuggling up on the couch whilst watching tv . but I don't miss all the shut that goes with a relationship

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

"Sometimes yes but enjoy my own company, pottering around, mincing about"
yes just keeping busy getting those little jobs done around the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and obviously alone, I can't say I'm lonely, but it is nice to have company now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just single people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No . I actually enjoy been single. There are some things I miss. like snuggling up on the couch whilst watching tv . but I don't miss all the shut that goes with a relationship "
shit not shut

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Loneliness can be a good thing gives you time to reflect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very but I've come to accept that this is how it will always be and I just need to get on with it

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

"The fact that your not wanted by anyone"
I dont look on it that way , its not all bad being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single people are lonely?"

No idea but I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ....loool

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I miss the conversations the closeness and just holding someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How many single people are lonely?

No idea but I'm not

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why reply to the thread then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I feel a bit lonely, I think about the possibility of having a family and not even getting a minute to pee, and so I’m savouring my alone time!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm glad of almost enough personal time that I have and am comfortable single or in a relationship. It's easy enough to spend time with friends doing most things that I'd do with partners - partners aren't any special, exclusive sources of companionship, just sometimes different.

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Loneliness I a good thing reaffirms ones self I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single people are lonely?

No idea but I'm not

why reply to the thread then?"

Its not much of a thread if its all one sided..

All im saying is not all single people are lonely thats all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many of us are looking for sex on here or sex and companionship.i know I'm looking for both

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

It does feels shit sometimes OP especially when all you want is some company and a snog but plenty of downsides to relationships.

My neighbours row pretty much constantly, she's always screeching. Really no idea why they're together. Would rather be alone than deal with unnecessary drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lonely but was more lonely in my abusive relationship that I put up with for 18 months

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It does feels shit sometimes OP especially when all you want is some company and a snog but plenty of downsides to relationships.

My neighbours row pretty much constantly, she's always screeching. Really no idea why they're together. Would rather be alone than deal with unnecessary drama"
totally agree with you.just feeling lonely tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single people are lonely?

No idea but I'm not

why reply to the thread then?

Its not much of a thread if its all one sided..

All im saying is not all single people are lonely thats all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm lonely but was more lonely in my abusive relationship that I put up with for 18 months "
know how that feels my first relationship was physically abusive try telling people that your female partner knocks shit out of you

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

The older I get the more I enjoy my own company.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Owner Of A Lonely Heart - Yes

www.youtube.com/watch?v=SVOuYquXuuc

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"The older I get the more I enjoy my own company. "

Exactly, and everything is precisely where you left it

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You can still feel lonely in a house full of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I feel a bit lonely, I think about the possibility of having a family and not even getting a minute to pee, and so I’m savouring my alone time!

Ive had a child or dog accompany me to the loo pretty much the last 12 yrs . Oh to pee in peace

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I feel a bit lonely, I think about the possibility of having a family and not even getting a minute to pee, and so I’m savouring my alone time!

Ive had a child or dog accompany me to the loo pretty much the last 12 yrs . Oh to pee in peace

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lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"You can still feel lonely in a house full of people

Never a truer word spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine a lot of people are, but I also know some people who are in long term relationships/marriages yet feel incredibly lonely....and that can be the worst type of loneliness by far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine a lot of people are, but I also know some people who are in long term relationships/marriages yet feel incredibly lonely....and that can be the worst type of loneliness by far."
I was very lonely for the last year of my marriage

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I quite enjoy my own company - no one to answer to, run round after, feed etc

Just me and the cute wee dawg ... bliss! Company is nice though sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lonely sometimes, more often than I used to.

It passes though.

Feel better soon OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm available for hugs if needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry"
I don't feel lonely . I have a great life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry"

No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.

Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry"
we all have them moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im never lonely. I must be weird. I love spending time with family and friends but I'm also always itching to go home again. I have kids so by the time I get them all to bed I am just dying to be on my own. Couldnt imagine having to make time for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry

No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.

Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others."
Thank you for your advice will try and pick myself up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry

No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.

Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others. Thank you for your advice will try and pick myself up"

There's nothing wrong with not being ok!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get lonely sometimes, more often than I used to.

It passes though.

Feel better soon OP

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thankyou will try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry

No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.

Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others. Thank you for your advice will try and pick myself up

There's nothing wrong with not being ok!! "

Exactly, happens to us all at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry

No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.

Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others."

I completely agree!! A few years ago I used fab to try and find what I was missing in my life which was a big mistake!! I have since made massive changes to my life and it’s not always easy and yes sometimes I do get lonely... but on the whole now I am happy.... it is true happiness comes from within... as corny as it sounds... fab can make you feel even worse sometimes!! Fab now is here to just compliment my own life and is no longer a substitute!!

The feeling will pass... sometimes you just have to go with it!!

Sending big squishy huggles!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry

No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.

Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others.

The feeling will pass... sometimes you just have to go with it!!

Sending big squishy huggles!!! "
I am probably the opposite . I joined fab when I was in a bad place . but been on fab changed my life and gave me back my confidence and have met some lovely friends

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"The fact that your not wanted by anyone"

Isn't that what the cats are for?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I am probably the opposite . I joined fab when I was in a bad place . but been on fab changed my life and gave me back my confidence and have met some lovely friends "

I have met loads of people off here, and can totally get where the OP is coming from though. I have vanilla friends, although they seem to be dropping like flies in the past few years due to cancer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact that your not wanted by anyone"

You may be wanted by someone, you just haven't met them yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Night times get me. I dread it when it starts getting dark. It's almost as if it physically hurts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we will never be everyone's cup of tea but we will always be someone's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry

No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.

Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others.

The feeling will pass... sometimes you just have to go with it!!

Sending big squishy huggles!!! I am probably the opposite . I joined fab when I was in a bad place . but been on fab changed my life and gave me back my confidence and have met some lovely friends "

That’s good! I think fab affects people in different ways... it can be a great place to meet people... or on nights when you feel naff you can post on the forums etc... but sometimes if your not careful i have found it can make you feel worse but that’s just me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to post this people just feeling lonely tonight.sorry

No need to apologise OP but you should maybe try being pro active in the 'real world'. Fab can be a difficult place to be if you're feeling lonely/low/unhappy.

Make some plans to meet friends or find a hobby that entails you getting out and about wirth others.

The feeling will pass... sometimes you just have to go with it!!

Sending big squishy huggles!!! I am probably the opposite . I joined fab when I was in a bad place . but been on fab changed my life and gave me back my confidence and have met some lovely friends

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No . I know exactly where you are coming from ..it can knock you down as quickly as it picks you up if you let it get too you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loneliness can be a good thing gives you time to reflect "

It can also be a very dangerous thing,depending what you are reflecting upon.

I miss my single times of quiet nights of planning World domination and the perfect murder..... my partner just doesn't understand!

lol.

Dessie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In seriousness though,I always found being single lonely. I think that no matter how fulfilled someone's life is generally,some people just function better in a relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single people are lonely?"

Can honestly say I was never lonely when I was single. Good family and friends played a big part in that x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"In seriousness though,I always found being single lonely. I think that no matter how fulfilled someone's life is generally,some people just function better in a relationship x"

Ah, stick the kettle on then mi duck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP, been lonely in the past, it's kind of like depression, spirals in on you and makes you more lonely / depressed.

The worst thing you can say to someone in that spiral is "pull yourself together, and find a solution" but ironically the only thing that will stop the problem is to pull yourself together , and find a solution.

Fight the loneliness, get out with people and get involved, something physical is always good. But it's the conversation no matter how limited that makes you better. Which sometimes takes a false bravado to get the party started.

Hope you find your surface soon. Loneliness can be a bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the occasional twinge of loneliness,usually on nights when I can't sleep.

I just cuddle my teddy bear,have a little cry,remind myself how suffocating relationships can be and I feel much better.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"How many single people are lonely?"

I'm noticing that I am a lot at the moment.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I felt lonelier in my marriage, than I ever have being single.

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