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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Do guys on here prefer larger ladies? I met a few guys then they meet a larger lady and I don't see them again?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Not my cup of tea.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Depends on their personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably more likely that the blokes you have met are looking for one off encounters. There's plenty like slimmer ladies XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define large plz

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

dont put yourself down.

those that did move on was more after just a score move on to the next lady

there is plenty that like all different shapes of lady even on here

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Define large plz "

I dont want to categorise, just bigger than me x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Some do some don't I suppose.

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"dont put yourself down.

those that did move on was more after just a score move on to the next lady

there is plenty that like all different shapes of lady even on here "

Yeah it's just prob a fuck everyone thing lol

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Joking btw

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

"

Love it x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Perhaps they got a better personality

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Depends on their personality. "

Yeah, what Stevieboi said

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

"

Please, I was not calling you fatties, as I said no offence to anyone, just wondered if guys preferred larger girls? If so I will stop dieting for more fun lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

"

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Perhaps they got a better personality"

Thought I was quite friendly?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Every person is different, we all have our preferences.

Maybe don't read the verifications after you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hope so

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Every person is different, we all have our preferences.

Maybe don't read the verifications after you."

Are they bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly? "

If you are, I’d be well up for a meet

I like all shapes and sizes but the better sex I’ve had has been with women who have more cushion for the pushin, as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders in

Reads thread...

Backs away silently

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

If you are, I’d be well up for a meet

I like all shapes and sizes but the better sex I’ve had has been with women who have more cushion for the pushin, as they say"

Fair play! I spend my whole life trying to be slim but perhaps I will put on some pounds, I just want some fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked to see them again and they've declined or just faded away kind of thing

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Maybe they just did not want to see you again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fair play! I spend my whole life trying to be slim but perhaps I will put on some pounds, I just want some fun xx"

I don’t think size matters, it’s all about how into the other person you are. Just be happy in your own skin and others will love you too

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Wanders in

Reads thread...

Backs away silently

"

Don't back off, I'm serious and not going to judge anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define large plz "

Always one who can't use a dictionary

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

Please, I was not calling you fatties, as I said no offence to anyone, just wondered if guys preferred larger girls? If so I will stop dieting for more fun lol"

I know sweet I was joking.

I do think sometimes larger ladies like myself are a little more relaxed and less selfconcious of their bodies.

We know we are fat, we can either worry and try to suck our bellys in and stop our bingo wings flapping in the breeze while our boobs and flabby tummys give us a round of applause for our performance, or we can shrug and enjoy ourselves.

From experience with slimmer friends at clubs they are often very self critical and worry about how they look rather than going with the flow.

One of our dearest friendsis a stunning 5ft 5in curvy size 10 and she will not go naked even with her partner.

Go figure.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

"

That last bit was funny!

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Have you asked to see them again and they've declined or just faded away kind of thing"

Said they would meet again then meet someone else, don't think I'm a bad person that's why I can't understand it?

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Maybe they just did not want to see you again?"

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Maybe they just did not want to see you again?"

Very true, but they text me the next week wanting to meet??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in

Reads thread...

Backs away silently

Don't back off, I'm serious and not going to judge anyone x"

Now that is a trap

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Define large plz

Always one who can't use a dictionary "

Obviously Clem doesn't need one

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

Xxx

Please, I was not calling you fatties, as I said no offence to anyone, just wondered if guys preferred larger girls? If so I will stop dieting for more fun lol

I know sweet I was joking.

I do think sometimes larger ladies like myself are a little more relaxed and less selfconcious of their bodies.

We know we are fat, we can either worry and try to suck our bellys in and stop our bingo wings flapping in the breeze while our boobs and flabby tummys give us a round of applause for our performance, or we can shrug and enjoy ourselves.

From experience with slimmer friends at clubs they are often very self critical and worry about how they look rather than going with the flow.

One of our dearest friendsis a stunning 5ft 5in curvy size 10 and she will not go naked even with her partner.

Go figure."

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Wanders in

Reads thread...

Backs away silently

Don't back off, I'm serious and not going to judge anyone x

Now that is a trap "

No way, just wanted to know peoples thoughts x

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Have you asked to see them again and they've declined or just faded away kind of thing

Said they would meet again then meet someone else, don't think I'm a bad person that's why I can't understand it?"

It is a site for swingers and those into casual no strings sex. They meet others, nothing to stop you doing the same.

Maybe you suggest another meet? If they won't, ask for some constructive feedback?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Maybe they just did not want to see you again?

Very true, but they text me the next week wanting to meet??"

which is completly opposite to what your op says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked to see them again and they've declined or just faded away kind of thing

Said they would meet again then meet someone else, don't think I'm a bad person that's why I can't understand it?"

Unless they said they would only meet you as an exclusive thing then thats the fab way isnt it. They probably still do want to meet you too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No comment

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Have you asked to see them again and they've declined or just faded away kind of thing

Said they would meet again then meet someone else, don't think I'm a bad person that's why I can't understand it?

It is a site for swingers and those into casual no strings sex. They meet others, nothing to stop you doing the same.

Maybe you suggest another meet? If they won't, ask for some constructive feedback?"

Oh he wants to meet again but just don't wanna be second best x

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Maybe they just did not want to see you again?

Very true, but they text me the next week wanting to meet??which is completly opposite to what your op says"

No, never said he didn't wanna meet again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like larger ladies if they have a quick wit same rule for all tho be funny and you pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanders in

Reads thread...

Backs away silently

Don't back off, I'm serious and not going to judge anyone x

Now that is a trap

No way, just wanted to know peoples thoughts x"

It's fab. It happens. Comparing ourselves with others is probably not the best way to view it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they just did not want to see you again?

Very true, but they text me the next week wanting to meet??"

Surely that is the way of fab? To meet more than one, if they choose to? Maybe they are attracted to different body shapes. If they still ask to see you again, what makes you wonder if they only go for larger?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Consider letting them go and not following up.

Many people here just form very loose connections with people and take little notice of what is in their trail. Do this, try that is typical.

With no strings meets it can mean someone assuming that others are behaving how they do because of them - when it's just a reflection of how many people use the site and take each day as it comes, in a very care-free style.

The factors influencing who gets the next shag are many and varied - timing, wife suddenly absent, their health picks up, no football on and a load of other things. It's a mistake to conflate ourselves and someone choosing bigger, smaller etc, when it's probably almost never about us.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Have you asked to see them again and they've declined or just faded away kind of thing

Said they would meet again then meet someone else, don't think I'm a bad person that's why I can't understand it?

It is a site for swingers and those into casual no strings sex. They meet others, nothing to stop you doing the same.

Maybe you suggest another meet? If they won't, ask for some constructive feedback? Oh he wants to meet again but just don't wanna be second best x"

Then there is the issue.

It is no strings fun they want. You want strings.

Don't rank yourself as second best to anyone. There can be no comparisons.

Just enjoy the time he is willing to share with you while you can.

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

This thread is all about what guys want, not my situation, can we keep it to that?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly? "

Your status isn’t very friendly. There are ways of saying things that don’t make people see you in a negative light. You may well be friendly but men go by what they see in a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked to see them again and they've declined or just faded away kind of thing

Said they would meet again then meet someone else, don't think I'm a bad person that's why I can't understand it?

It is a site for swingers and those into casual no strings sex. They meet others, nothing to stop you doing the same.

Maybe you suggest another meet? If they won't, ask for some constructive feedback? Oh he wants to meet again but just don't wanna be second best x"

How would you be second best? Because he met someone else? That doesn't make you second best at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is all about what guys want, not my situation, can we keep it to that?"

Again I’ll confirm for you, guys do like women of larger sizes, just some of them don’t appreciate them or the meets with them.

I think everyone on here is sceptical of the fuck an go which makes women doubt themselves. Don’t worry, you’re great as you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many of us like a larger lady, I like all sorts of shapes but larger gets me going for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F ucking

A wesone

T raverse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op

Great thread, ummm any chance you could pm me the details of the guys your meeting hunny so I can get a heads up?

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

Your status isn’t very friendly. There are ways of saying things that don’t make people see you in a negative light. You may well be friendly but men go by what they see in a profile. "

That's true but there are guys on here that are not very nice, just trying to keep them away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

Your status isn’t very friendly. There are ways of saying things that don’t make people see you in a negative light. You may well be friendly but men go by what they see in a profile.

That's true but there are guys on here that are not very nice, just trying to keep them away x"

And also guys like me who are really aliens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

Your status isn’t very friendly. There are ways of saying things that don’t make people see you in a negative light. You may well be friendly but men go by what they see in a profile. "

Haha men don’t go by what they see in a profile, other than the pics

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% I love older and bigger women always have skinny girls do biting for me curves all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I’m confused, your first post says after they’ve met a larger lady after you, you don’t see them again, but then you say he’s text asking to meet. So why haven’t you met him again? It seems it’s you that’s stopping it not him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

Your status isn’t very friendly. There are ways of saying things that don’t make people see you in a negative light. You may well be friendly but men go by what they see in a profile.

Haha men don’t go by what they see in a profile, other than the pics "

I go by neither i use the force

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op

Great thread, ummm any chance you could pm me the details of the guys your meeting hunny so I can get a heads up?

Would love to so you don't have to put up with their shit!! Can we do that here?

"

I meant because I'm a larger lady hunny xx lol

And for what it's worth, I think there is a real mix on here who love all different shapes and sizes. You just have to click and collect

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Very large ladies we both struggle with, now fuller figures mmmm.

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"100% I love older and bigger women always have skinny girls do biting for me curves all the way "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are the 2 things related though?

They meet you, then they meet someone else. It shouldn't be a reflection on you who else they meet?

It's like anything else, some guys prefer blondes, some guys prefer tall girls. There's no universal preference and 9 times out of 10 it's about a connection so physical attributes are less important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to take this opportunity and say that any slim ladies reading this, please contact me immediately

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"OP I’m confused, your first post says after they’ve met a larger lady after you, you don’t see them again, but then you say he’s text asking to meet. So why haven’t you met him again? It seems it’s you that’s stopping it not him "

It wasn't about meeting a larger lady, it was about being lied to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I’m confused, your first post says after they’ve met a larger lady after you, you don’t see them again, but then you say he’s text asking to meet. So why haven’t you met him again? It seems it’s you that’s stopping it not him

It wasn't about meeting a larger lady, it was about being lied to x"

What was the lie?

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Are the 2 things related though?

They meet you, then they meet someone else. It shouldn't be a reflection on you who else they meet?

It's like anything else, some guys prefer blondes, some guys prefer tall girls. There's no universal preference and 9 times out of 10 it's about a connection so physical attributes are less important. "

Well that's true, don't meet me if you don't like my hair colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big girl and have had one offs.

Infact if I look at a profile and all his verifications are from slimmer women I assume I'm not his type

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Wanders in

Reads thread...

Backs away silently

"

What's all this third person nonsense lots of people are using in here?

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I'm a big girl and have had one offs.

Infact if I look at a profile and all his verifications are from slimmer women I assume I'm not his type "

I dont have veris from women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I’m confused, your first post says after they’ve met a larger lady after you, you don’t see them again, but then you say he’s text asking to meet. So why haven’t you met him again? It seems it’s you that’s stopping it not him

It wasn't about meeting a larger lady, it was about being lied to x"

Now I’m extra confused. What was the lie?

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Wanders in

Reads thread...

Backs away silently

What's all this third person nonsense lots of people are using in here?"

I'm talking about me, no third person.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Im a fat woman.

Ive been here forever.

I had around 17 regular FWBs as a single woman.

Different men for different occasions or mood I was in.

All knew the score and accepted it.

They met who they wanted to, I didn't need to compare myself to their subsequent meets, they always came back for more.

ONE FWBs developed over time and here we are.

The others are still all friends. Some of the best infact. They respect Im no longer available for the benefits.

I really think the issue here for you Polly is you want a monogomous relationship in a polyamorous enverinment.

There is nothing wrong with you or what you want but if guys are telling you they want the same Id agree its a little deceitful to then go on meeting others.

Maybe build up to the monogamy slowly over time? I can and does happen.

I wish you lots of love and love while you find your dreams x

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

To clarify to all, said he was a man to meet a woman, then met a larger woman, after he said he wouldn't!

Anyone bigger than me, he is the one in the wrong x just wanted your opinions xx

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

To clarify to all, said he was a man to meet a woman, then met a larger woman, after he said he wouldn't!

Anyone bigger than me, he is the one in the wrong x just wanted your opinions xx

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Im a fat woman.

Ive been here forever.

I had around 17 regular FWBs as a single woman.

Different men for different occasions or mood I was in.

All knew the score and accepted it.

They met who they wanted to, I didn't need to compare myself to their subsequent meets, they always came back for more.

ONE FWBs developed over time and here we are.

The others are still all friends. Some of the best infact. They respect Im no longer available for the benefits.

I really think the issue here for you Polly is you want a monogomous relationship in a polyamorous enverinment.

There is nothing wrong with you or what you want but if guys are telling you they want the same Id agree its a little deceitful to then go on meeting others.

Maybe build up to the monogamy slowly over time? I can and does happen.

I wish you lots of love and love while you find your dreams x"

Fair play, have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify to all, said he was a man to meet a woman, then met a larger woman, after he said he wouldn't!

Anyone bigger than me, he is the one in the wrong x just wanted your opinions xx "

Ohhhhh I get it. So you’re offended that he would fuck a fat woman as well as fuck you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a fat woman.

Ive been here forever.

I had around 17 regular FWBs as a single woman.

Different men for different occasions or mood I was in.

All knew the score and accepted it.

They met who they wanted to, I didn't need to compare myself to their subsequent meets, they always came back for more.

ONE FWBs developed over time and here we are.

The others are still all friends. Some of the best infact. They respect Im no longer available for the benefits.

I really think the issue here for you Polly is you want a monogomous relationship in a polyamorous enverinment.

There is nothing wrong with you or what you want but if guys are telling you they want the same Id agree its a little deceitful to then go on meeting others.

Maybe build up to the monogamy slowly over time? I can and does happen.

I wish you lots of love and love while you find your dreams x"

Obviously got your head screwed on the right way hunny. Love this x

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Im a fat woman.

Ive been here forever.

I had around 17 regular FWBs as a single woman.

Different men for different occasions or mood I was in.

All knew the score and accepted it.

They met who they wanted to, I didn't need to compare myself to their subsequent meets, they always came back for more.

ONE FWBs developed over time and here we are.

The others are still all friends. Some of the best infact. They respect Im no longer available for the benefits.

I really think the issue here for you Polly is you want a monogomous relationship in a polyamorous enverinment.

There is nothing wrong with you or what you want but if guys are telling you they want the same Id agree its a little deceitful to then go on meeting others.

Maybe build up to the monogamy slowly over time? I can and does happen.

I wish you lots of love and love while you find your dreams x"

Thanks, I don't think it's here tho, you carry on having fun, fair play xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

Your status isn’t very friendly. There are ways of saying things that don’t make people see you in a negative light. You may well be friendly but men go by what they see in a profile. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify to all, said he was a man to meet a woman, then met a larger woman, after he said he wouldn't!

Anyone bigger than me, he is the one in the wrong x just wanted your opinions xx "

I suspect he’s either telling you what you wanted to hear or he went against his preferences for a shag.

What’s the issue with larger women?

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"To clarify to all, said he was a man to meet a woman, then met a larger woman, after he said he wouldn't!

Anyone bigger than me, he is the one in the wrong x just wanted your opinions xx

No issues at all, was just the situation caused by him, I have no issues with it, please don't judge me, I love everyone x

I suspect he’s either telling you what you wanted to hear or he went against his preferences for a shag.

What’s the issue with larger women?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify to all, said he was a man to meet a woman, then met a larger woman, after he said he wouldn't!

Anyone bigger than me, he is the one in the wrong x just wanted your opinions xx

No issues at all, was just the situation caused by him, I have no issues with it, please don't judge me, I love everyone x

I suspect he’s either telling you what you wanted to hear or he went against his preferences for a shag.

What’s the issue with larger women?"

Not judging

Just wondering what you meant.

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"To clarify to all, said he was a man to meet a woman, then met a larger woman, after he said he wouldn't!

Anyone bigger than me, he is the one in the wrong x just wanted your opinions xx

No issues at all, was just the situation caused by him, I have no issues with it, please don't judge me, I love everyone x

I suspect he’s either telling you what you wanted to hear or he went against his preferences for a shag.

What’s the issue with larger women?

Not judging

Just wondering what you meant. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d be disappointed if a lady I had sex with on here then didn’t have sex with someone else. I like sexually active women.

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Was a bit pissed about him saying how fit I was and what a loverly figure I had and wants to meet me again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still confused sorry. He told you he wouldn't meet a larger lady?

Was it her size was the issue or do you mean he said he wouldn't meet anyone at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was a bit pissed about him saying how fit I was and what a loverly figure I had and wants to meet me again lol"

So do you think he was being insincere with his compliment to you on your slim body, because he was then attracted to someone larger? Is that the lie you mean?

I think it’s perfectly possible, and common, for men to find more than one body type attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is all about what guys want, not my situation, can we keep it to that?"

So are you offended he met a larger woman than you after he said he wouldn’t?

How can you be second best? It’s a swinging site, people share each other for different experiences with each other.

If he has texted you asking for a second meet, Why not meet him again? If the first time was enjoyable. Or wouldn’t you want to meet him because he met a larger female after your first meet?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Every person is different, we all have our preferences.

Maybe don't read the verifications after you.

Are they bad?"

I wouldn't know.

I've not looked at who you've met

But you've obviously looked at who they have met since you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like to take this opportunity and say that any slim ladies reading this, please contact me immediately "

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Depends on their personality. "
haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was a bit pissed about him saying how fit I was and what a loverly figure I had and wants to meet me again lol

So do you think he was being insincere with his compliment to you on your slim body, because he was then attracted to someone larger? Is that the lie you mean?

I think it’s perfectly possible, and common, for men to find more than one body type attractive "

It's almost like men are human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was a bit pissed about him saying how fit I was and what a loverly figure I had and wants to meet me again lol

So do you think he was being insincere with his compliment to you on your slim body, because he was then attracted to someone larger? Is that the lie you mean?

I think it’s perfectly possible, and common, for men to find more than one body type attractive

It's almost like men are human."

How very dare they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a larger lady but would love to experience one riding me hard and fast .

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Sorry OP but you sound a tad insecure.

For those who can get meets on here, it's a veritable pick n mix. Why do you care if he shagged a fatty or a skinny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do guys on here prefer larger ladies? I met a few guys then they meet a larger lady and I don't see them again?"

All ladies are fine with me, personality is more important...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be that she isn't his idea of large.

Or, he got desperate one night, fucked a large woman and realised he liked it.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Sorry OP but you sound a tad insecure.

For those who can get meets on here, it's a veritable pick n mix. Why do you care if he shagged a fatty or a skinny? "

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Fatties are useful. Hear in winter shade in summer.. can't beat that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do guys on here prefer larger ladies? I met a few guys then they meet a larger lady and I don't see them again?"

I can't speak for all men but personally I don't like fat women!, sexualy I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about personality for me.. But looking at your profile pics I would describe you as average not large..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

Please, I was not calling you fatties, as I said no offence to anyone, just wondered if guys preferred larger girls? If so I will stop dieting for more fun lol"

Do things for yourself, not other people. Just be you and if they are not interested....NEXT!!

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By *OCKDUDE1Man
over a year ago

TROWBRIDGE/BRISTOL

I think a lot of single guys on here are probably after notches tbh so maybe they moved on then kept moving??? maybe just coincidence that after you there were some larger ladies?? Plus there are a hell of a lot more curvy girls on here than skinny women so....

In terms of what men want, Men (I believe) aren't quite as choosy as women (women can afford to be with 100+ messages a day....yes I've seen my GFs messages! haha) speaking personally, It's not just looks but attitude and style too, I fancy all different types of girls (looks, style and attitude) I like girly girls, emo girls, punk girls, shy librarian type girls, nerdy girls, rock chicks, posh girls, super hot types, even some chavy girls! hippy chicks, curvy girls, very curvy girls, skinny girls (especially if very short) brunettes, blondes, multi coloured hair, dreadlocks, scruffy hair, straight hair, tattooed, non tattooed, pierced, non pierced, genes n flats, slutty dresses n heels, 50's pin up look is a fave! guys generally just like girls! haha...I think the main thing though is a connection, how much you laugh, how flirty you are, do you like to dance, are you comfortable and easy to talk too...some guys say bigger girls are more fun???? I've no idea if this is true, I think anyone can be fun...it's the attitude that counts, maybe , just maybe some slimmer girls have been told their whole life how hot they are and so have a bit of an "i'm too good for you" attitude, but certainly not all like that...to conclude, I certainly wouldn't take it personally, Guys like all sorts, and lets face it, not many people are on here to "stick around" just be confortable with the body you've got and guys will love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly? "

'Married, attached men, Fuck Off!' as an opening line. You seen quite friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

'Married, attached men, Fuck Off!' as an opening line. You seen quite friendly. "

Tbf, I felt like screaming that at one point after getting fucked around by attached men who lied about their situation. I put it on my status after being upset but took it off after an hour. I get what she is saying but maybe needs to tone it down and put a polite message in profile. It can get bloody annoying though.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

On the whole I believe in the old saying "you reap what you sow".

If you project negativity thats what you will generally get back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

'Married, attached men, Fuck Off!' as an opening line. You seen quite friendly.

Tbf, I felt like screaming that at one point after getting fucked around by attached men who lied about their situation. I put it on my status after being upset but took it off after an hour. I get what she is saying but maybe needs to tone it down and put a polite message in profile. It can get bloody annoying though."

Well, I'm sorry to hear that you've been fucked around. Not all adopt that approach, eyes wide open and all that.

There will always be grievances of some nature, a niggly, annoying thing that when repeated by several over time can be frustrating.

I imagine women have a lot more to contend with than men but I do believe we should treat people as we would want to be treated. Unless they show us that they don't deserve it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

'Married, attached men, Fuck Off!' as an opening line. You seen quite friendly.

Tbf, I felt like screaming that at one point after getting fucked around by attached men who lied about their situation. I put it on my status after being upset but took it off after an hour. I get what she is saying but maybe needs to tone it down and put a polite message in profile. It can get bloody annoying though.

Well, I'm sorry to hear that you've been fucked around. Not all adopt that approach, eyes wide open and all that.

There will always be grievances of some nature, a niggly, annoying thing that when repeated by several over time can be frustrating.

I imagine women have a lot more to contend with than men but I do believe we should treat people as we would want to be treated. Unless they show us that they don't deserve it... "

Totally agree. Luckily it’s only happened a couple of times for me but I think polly keeps getting burnt. I just want honesty really but hard to find. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

'Married, attached men, Fuck Off!' as an opening line. You seen quite friendly.

Tbf, I felt like screaming that at one point after getting fucked around by attached men who lied about their situation. I put it on my status after being upset but took it off after an hour. I get what she is saying but maybe needs to tone it down and put a polite message in profile. It can get bloody annoying though.

Well, I'm sorry to hear that you've been fucked around. Not all adopt that approach, eyes wide open and all that.

There will always be grievances of some nature, a niggly, annoying thing that when repeated by several over time can be frustrating.

I imagine women have a lot more to contend with than men but I do believe we should treat people as we would want to be treated. Unless they show us that they don't deserve it...

Totally agree. Luckily it’s only happened a couple of times for me but I think polly keeps getting burnt. I just want honesty really but hard to find. x"

Have a look at my profile - open book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps they got a better personality

Thought I was quite friendly?

'Married, attached men, Fuck Off!' as an opening line. You seen quite friendly.

Tbf, I felt like screaming that at one point after getting fucked around by attached men who lied about their situation. I put it on my status after being upset but took it off after an hour. I get what she is saying but maybe needs to tone it down and put a polite message in profile. It can get bloody annoying though.

Well, I'm sorry to hear that you've been fucked around. Not all adopt that approach, eyes wide open and all that.

There will always be grievances of some nature, a niggly, annoying thing that when repeated by several over time can be frustrating.

I imagine women have a lot more to contend with than men but I do believe we should treat people as we would want to be treated. Unless they show us that they don't deserve it...

Totally agree. Luckily it’s only happened a couple of times for me but I think polly keeps getting burnt. I just want honesty really but hard to find. x

Have a look at my profile - open book. "

I can see that. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of single guys on here are probably after notches tbh so maybe they moved on then kept moving??? maybe just coincidence that after you there were some larger ladies?? Plus there are a hell of a lot more curvy girls on here than skinny women so....

In terms of what men want, Men (I believe) aren't quite as choosy as women (women can afford to be with 100+ messages a day....yes I've seen my GFs messages! haha) speaking personally, It's not just looks but attitude and style too, I fancy all different types of girls (looks, style and attitude) I like girly girls, emo girls, punk girls, shy librarian type girls, nerdy girls, rock chicks, posh girls, super hot types, even some chavy girls! hippy chicks, curvy girls, very curvy girls, skinny girls (especially if very short) brunettes, blondes, multi coloured hair, dreadlocks, scruffy hair, straight hair, tattooed, non tattooed, pierced, non pierced, genes n flats, slutty dresses n heels, 50's pin up look is a fave! guys generally just like girls! haha...I think the main thing though is a connection, how much you laugh, how flirty you are, do you like to dance, are you comfortable and easy to talk too...some guys say bigger girls are more fun???? I've no idea if this is true, I think anyone can be fun...it's the attitude that counts, maybe , just maybe some slimmer girls have been told their whole life how hot they are and so have a bit of an "i'm too good for you" attitude, but certainly not all like that...to conclude, I certainly wouldn't take it personally, Guys like all sorts, and lets face it, not many people are on here to "stick around" just be confortable with the body you've got and guys will love it!

"

I’ve now got the Calvin Harris song ‘The Girls’ running through my head......

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By *losfukbudsCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Either is good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify to all, said he was a man to meet a woman, then met a larger woman, after he said he wouldn't!

Anyone bigger than me, he is the one in the wrong x just wanted your opinions xx

Ohhhhh I get it. So you’re offended that he would fuck a fat woman as well as fuck you? "

That's what I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the whole I believe in the old saying "you reap what you sow".

If you project negativity thats what you will generally get back.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

Please, I was not calling you fatties, as I said no offence to anyone, just wondered if guys preferred larger girls? If so I will stop dieting for more fun lol

Do things for yourself, not other people. Just be you and if they are not interested....NEXT!! "

Like a meat conveyor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

"

Hahaha yes they do compensate for their size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d me more upset if I walked away feeling like the fat girl fuck really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

Please, I was not calling you fatties, as I said no offence to anyone, just wondered if guys preferred larger girls? If so I will stop dieting for more fun lol

Do things for yourself, not other people. Just be you and if they are not interested....NEXT!!

Like a meat conveyor. "

I don’t think you’ve ever seen a meat conveyer.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Personally I prefer curves.

However a nice / good / fun personality is a definite must have.

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

Hahaha yes they do compensate for their size "

"They"???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

Please, I was not calling you fatties, as I said no offence to anyone, just wondered if guys preferred larger girls? If so I will stop dieting for more fun lol

Do things for yourself, not other people. Just be you and if they are not interested....NEXT!!

Like a meat conveyor. "

Haha, not quite but just move on and forget the ones that wasted your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

Please, I was not calling you fatties, as I said no offence to anyone, just wondered if guys preferred larger girls? If so I will stop dieting for more fun lol

Do things for yourself, not other people. Just be you and if they are not interested....NEXT!!

Like a meat conveyor.

I don’t think you’ve ever seen a meat conveyer. "

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Thanks for all your input, do actually feel better now, changed my opening line on profile and hope to meet some nice people in the future x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

"

Hahaha!!!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Thanks for all your input, do actually feel better now, changed my opening line on profile and hope to meet some nice people in the future x"

Really pleased to read you feel better today.

Dig deep and find the most positive thoughts you can and maybe reword your profile to read what you DO like and want, include that ideally you want something ongoing and mutually exclusive if that is what you do want and don't let anyone tell you you are wrong for doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all your input, do actually feel better now, changed my opening line on profile and hope to meet some nice people in the future x"

Good to see a positive Polly today. Well done girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think guys just meet again if they had fun and you both clicked

I doubt that size has anything to do with it

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I am still chuckling over this comment..the best of the week. thanks Etonmess

Its coz us fatties are bloody awesome in the sack and really make an effort to make up for our size. Besides, we suck cock like we've not been fed in a week

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