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By *r n Mrs Naughty OP   Couple
over a year ago

eccles

We prefer club meets. But were getting a lot of messages asking for private meets.

Is this just a couple thing?

Or is private meets the new thing?? Luv Jen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As some would say a change is as good as a rest and maybe people are tightening their belts and finding a club meet is now far to expensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both private and clubs . We can't accommodate so often try and arrange club meets as there is less pressure to play if we dont all connect but we also don't mind hotel meets . We find these quite exciting ...sneaking in and out and it often sets the atmosphere but would only do a home ( theirs) or hotel if we had at least met for a social to know we all get on . Xx

Mrs xx

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By *r n Mrs Naughty OP   Couple
over a year ago

eccles


"We like both private and clubs . We can't accommodate so often try and arrange club meets as there is less pressure to play if we dont all connect but we also don't mind hotel meets . We find these quite exciting ...sneaking in and out and it often sets the atmosphere but would only do a home ( theirs) or hotel if we had at least met for a social to know we all get on . Xx

Mrs xx "

Yes we're the same. Club meets so no pressure but hotel sounds fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like both private and clubs . We can't accommodate so often try and arrange club meets as there is less pressure to play if we dont all connect but we also don't mind hotel meets . We find these quite exciting ...sneaking in and out and it often sets the atmosphere but would only do a home ( theirs) or hotel if we had at least met for a social to know we all get on . Xx

Mrs xx

Yes we're the same. Club meets so no pressure but hotel sounds fun x

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Oh they are fun ..... we are always respectful not to make mess or too much noise ,but there's just something that feels more exciting / naughty about meeting in a hotel room .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tried a club once, never again, prefer private meets

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

OP; are you talking about pre-arranged meets in clubs, rather than just visiting a club and seeing who is in on the night?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

With you on preference of clubs OP.

We rarely arrange a meet, prefer to go to a club and see who’s there.

Even if we don’t play, we will still have a good social.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"With you on preference of clubs OP.

We rarely arrange a meet, prefer to go to a club and see who’s there.

Even if we don’t play, we will still have a good social."

This. I just like to go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are open to most ideas of meetings tried most in the past,got club meeting Saturday evening,and a private meeting following week

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"With you on preference of clubs OP.

We rarely arrange a meet, prefer to go to a club and see who’s there.

Even if we don’t play, we will still have a good social.

This. I just like to go with the flow "

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"With you on preference of clubs OP.

We rarely arrange a meet, prefer to go to a club and see who’s there.

Even if we don’t play, we will still have a good social."

This.

Too much agro organising private meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never been to club then again iv only ever had 2 meets both with same lass so maybe i shoulnt comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really enjoy private meets and find the excitement of socials and, ‘what’s to cum’ very horny. Hotels mainly for us, occasional visits to homes.. Really not sure a club is our thing, too many bad stories from others put us off.. but never say never.. (Female half)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We really enjoy private meets and find the excitement of socials and, ‘what’s to cum’ very horny. Hotels mainly for us, occasional visits to homes.. Really not sure a club is our thing, too many bad stories from others put us off.. but never say never.. (Female half)"

When we started out swinging ,we never thought we would like clubs but after biting the bullet and a few visits later we love them ....we had the impression they would be quite sleazy but they really arnt anything like we imagined . Everyone's quite friendly and there's no pressure at all to do anything , we have often just played on our own if we haven't met anyone that night . Our only problem we have ever had was in the dark room and a few guys just wouldnt take no for an answer ....we choose to play in couples only or private rooms now but the majority of guys are very respectful . Xx

Mrs

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve tried my best with club visits, and failed every time. I’ve been stood up for a social once, and had one lady postpone on me, due to her monthly. Apart from those, I’ve found private meets simple and successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve tried my best with club visits, and failed every time. I’ve been stood up for a social once, and had one lady postpone on me, due to her monthly. Apart from those, I’ve found private meets simple and successful "

We really feel for single guys at clubs as they often look lost . We always try and be polite by saying hello to break the ice even if we arnt looking for them that night or if we are in a sauna / hot tub we try and include them in conversation so they don't feel awkward . Not keen on the creepers that follow you around though lol. Xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I’ve tried my best with club visits, and failed every time. I’ve been stood up for a social once, and had one lady postpone on me, due to her monthly. Apart from those, I’ve found private meets simple and successful

We really feel for single guys at clubs as they often look lost . We always try and be polite by saying hello to break the ice even if we arnt looking for them that night or if we are in a sauna / hot tub we try and include them in conversation so they don't feel awkward . Not keen on the creepers that follow you around though lol. Xx "

I’ve given up on the clubs for the time being, they’ve been a complete waste of time and money for me

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By *leasureherCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

Over 14 years swinging we initially only did hotel meets and visited their home, but because of the amount of time wasters, pic collectors, wannabes and fakes we started going to clubs and parties about 6 years ago, we thought they would be bad but were surprisingly pleased, we only do their home and hotel meets with guys we have already met, cuts out all the messing about and the crap, we have tried clubs all over the UK and you can find reasonably priced events, if someone fails to show up you still have a good night out and there are other people there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 14 years swinging we initially only did hotel meets and visited their home, but because of the amount of time wasters, pic collectors, wannabes and fakes we started going to clubs and parties about 6 years ago, we thought they would be bad but were surprisingly pleased, we only do their home and hotel meets with guys we have already met, cuts out all the messing about and the crap, we have tried clubs all over the UK and you can find reasonably priced events, if someone fails to show up you still have a good night out and there are other people there. "

We haven't tried party's yet even though we have been invited to plenty .... we arnt sure what they are like and maybe need to try one to find out jus5 like we did with clubs . We just don't like pressure to play if we dont get on with people and a few of the ones we have heard friends going to ,it's been a mass orgy ....not for us unless we know and like everyone involved in it and at least chatted to first . xx

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, Bananaman prefers private meets

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex


"We prefer club meets. But were getting a lot of messages asking for private meets.

Is this just a couple thing?

Or is private meets the new thing?? Luv Jen x"

Neither...stay faithful

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I prefer a club meet as I feel safer there xx

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

I have done both.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Never really thought about hotel meets. Might be my new ‘thing’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no clubs near us so clubs meets aren't an option. Never met in a hotel and usually do private meets or go for a bit of outdoor fun. There doesn't seem to be an awful lot of parties up our way either.

~Mia

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By *vengers seekingCouple
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

We meet privately and in clubs, sometimes we like a private meet just because it is private, and you haven't got half a dozen guys stood round wanking while you're trying to have fun

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