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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am wondering from the perspective of a vanilla person....looking at a swinger.

Does the vanilla person look at a swinger in same light, as say a hooker, pro, escort?

(Call them what you wish)

The reasons behind this are simple. What is the diffence between meeting someone off a swingers site and having 'free' sex and meeting someone who you pay for services.

To each and every one of 'us' swinging is different, but surely vanilla people would see it kind of the same?

The reasons behind this are this..

Met some one off here. Five verified, three showing. Met up. Whole weekend of kinky sex and bits of sleeping, eating and fucking in various positions, using all sorts of furniture. Even fuckin so hard at one point the mattress came off the base and we just carried on fuckin on our flying mattress.. bed knobs and broomstricks...only the knob was my cock

Anyway after whole next day, eve time,lay in bed, kissing,arms wrapped, chatting laughing... she goes on too say that, she had been really skint lately and had been doing something she never thought she would do...that was suck and fuck for money. She then got all upset as said really liked me, but 10 mins before I met her, she had sucked off a 65 year old bloke for £70.

Bit steep I said but thought fuck her bjs are epic. Then said you hot sexy fuckin minx...got her on all fours...spanked her sporty fit ass...for being so norti and doing that before meeting me (trying desperately not to think how we kissed at her door), rimmed her,fingered her,much oral delights yet again... rain down on me..oh how the flood gates opened once again

We fucked lots more and fell asleep...

So it turns out she been doing it for a while escorting...so if I seen her..it would stay the same.

I was unsure myself despite the fit, slim, body and most amazing tight ass and pussy in these parts

Lasted 19 weeks

So wonder would guys walk away knowing a hooker or stick with it?

Sorry for long post

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Yes a big difference between recreational sex and paying for sex...i would assume anyone would see the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is a difference. One is for pleasure the other is for financial gain.

I think even "vanilla" people could make this distinction and while they may negatively judge both they probably have a lesser view of one or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and as for sticking with it or walking away it's not something I could answer unless I was in that situation, it would depend on the person and our relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s too long.. email me a shorter version

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s too long.. email me a shorter version "

Yeah guess bit long for you.

Must get uncomfortable sitting for long periods, after a good ol banana stuffing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes there is a difference. One is for pleasure the other is for financial gain.

I think even "vanilla" people could make this distinction and while they may negatively judge both they probably have a lesser view of one or the other. "

But most escorts, especially the high class 1k night kinda thing, often I hear says...in it for pleasure, enjoy job etc.

Some as guess everyone knows are students, trying to fund university degree or so some press, states.

So really what is the difference?

Its pleasure for you, if you have to pay for sex, what's different in going to a swingers club as a single guy and paying so much.

Paying I must add, paying for what, access to sex. So how is paying one person to access sex wrong?

Yet paying to enter a place so can maybe have sex, that ok in your book?

Logically what's the difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes a big difference between recreational sex and paying for sex...i would assume anyone would see the difference."

So really what is the difference?

Its pleasure for you, if you have to pay for sex, what's different in going to a swingers club as a single guy and paying so much.

Paying I must add, paying for what, access to sex.

So how is paying one person to access sex wrong?

Yet paying to enter a place so can maybe have sex, that ok in your book?

Logically what's the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes there is a difference. One is for pleasure the other is for financial gain.

I think even "vanilla" people could make this distinction and while they may negatively judge both they probably have a lesser view of one or the other.

But most escorts, especially the high class 1k night kinda thing, often I hear says...in it for pleasure, enjoy job etc.

Some as guess everyone knows are students, trying to fund university degree or so some press, states.

So really what is the difference?

Its pleasure for you, if you have to pay for sex, what's different in going to a swingers club as a single guy and paying so much.

Paying I must add, paying for what, access to sex. So how is paying one person to access sex wrong?

Yet paying to enter a place so can maybe have sex, that ok in your book?

Logically what's the difference "

Ok I thought you were meaning would they be judging the girl but even so.

Paying an escort is paying for sex. It's a business transaction-they are providing a service because you are paying them to. The fact they enjoy sex is irrelevant really, I enjoy my job but I wouldn't do it for free.

Paying to enter a club is just that, you are paying to be in a social situation with people who enjoy sex. It's not guaranteed and is much more a recreational thing.

There's no right or wrong, one isn't any better or worse than the other in my eyes but I can see how people would judge.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Yes a big difference between recreational sex and paying for sex...i would assume anyone would see the difference.

So really what is the difference?

Its pleasure for you, if you have to pay for sex, what's different in going to a swingers club as a single guy and paying so much.

Paying I must add, paying for what, access to sex.

So how is paying one person to access sex wrong?

Yet paying to enter a place so can maybe have sex, that ok in your book?

Logically what's the difference "

By that logic paying for dinner is prostitution so it's no logic at all.

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