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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is kissing much more intimate than sex in your opinion?

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Might depend which part of the body you’re kissing

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes it can certainly feel like it,not sure why though. Maybe because you're actually looking each other in the eye's,now that is more intimate kissing with your eye's open. I freaked one guy out not closing my eye's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Might depend which part of the body you’re kissing "

Haha yes that's true

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Yes I think it is. Sex without kissing would feel almost clinical to me .... not that I would meet someone who didn’t kiss.

The kiss tells me everything I need to know and gets me everywhere I like to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it can certainly feel like it,not sure why though. Maybe because you're actually looking each other in the eye's,now that is more intimate kissing with your eye's open. I freaked one guy out not closing my eye's."

Haha that's weird to close your eyes all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I think it's much more personal. Kissing is so intense and emotional.

I could probably have sex with someone I didn't fancy in that my body would react and the physical act would probably feel good but kissing someone I didn't fancy would just feel wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be..

With the right person..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think kissing is incredibly intimate... and can be more intimate then sex... the time taken to kiss someone... look in their eyes... explore their mouths and body with your lips... the feelings it can generate can be absolutely mind blowing!!

Also depends on the situation and the type of sex your going to have too!!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Yeah I think it's much more personal. Kissing is so intense and emotional.

I could probably have sex with someone I didn't fancy in that my body would react and the physical act would probably feel good but kissing someone I didn't fancy would just feel wrong. "

This

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes hence why quite a few couples profiles state no kissing. Not something we could manage on a meet.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I think so. You can express so many feelings, desires & emotions through a kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it can certainly feel like it,not sure why though. Maybe because you're actually looking each other in the eye's,now that is more intimate kissing with your eye's open. I freaked one guy out not closing my eye's."

How did he know you hadn't got your eyes closed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm I don’t think so...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Yes it can certainly feel like it,not sure why though. Maybe because you're actually looking each other in the eye's,now that is more intimate kissing with your eye's open. I freaked one guy out not closing my eye's.

How did he know you hadn't got your eyes closed?"

He peeked and saw me staring at him.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I love kissing and I think it is very intimate...I am genuinely gutted if I kiss someone and there is no spark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think so. You can express so many feelings, desires & emotions through a kiss."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it can certainly feel like it,not sure why though. Maybe because you're actually looking each other in the eye's,now that is more intimate kissing with your eye's open. I freaked one guy out not closing my eye's.

How did he know you hadn't got your eyes closed?

He peeked and saw me staring at him."

That'll learn him

Who doesn't want to look into the eyes of the person they fancy enough to swap lick with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cher said it’s in his kiss and who am I to argue with the her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cher said it’s in his kiss and who am I to argue with the her. "

Cher

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I think kissing is incredibly intimate... and can be more intimate then sex... the time taken to kiss someone... look in their eyes... explore their mouths and body with your lips... the feelings it can generate can be absolutely mind blowing!!

Also depends on the situation and the type of sex your going to have too!! "

Not sure I can word it any better than this

Kissing is incredibly sensual and intimate and the path to so much more as well as the perfect accompaniment to it

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Yes for me, I won’t kiss a playmate, been told I’m weird for it when I’m happy to let someone else fuck me, but kissing is saved for hubby who is my love, but fucking is just for sexual pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes yes and yes

no kissing no nothing

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Not for us. We can kiss others, and it's little more than flirting, but sharing your body is more intimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i’d say yes, it’s probably the most personal thing you can do, my kisses have been described as lushious and very sensual in the past....... just saying

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There


"Yes it can certainly feel like it,not sure why though. Maybe because you're actually looking each other in the eye's,now that is more intimate kissing with your eye's open. I freaked one guy out not closing my eye's.

How did he know you hadn't got your eyes closed?

He peeked and saw me staring at him."

Would certainly freak me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i’d say yes, it’s probably the most personal thing you can do, my kisses have been described as lushious and very sensual in the past....... just saying "

We will take your word for it big guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think kissing is like fucking... you can make love with your mouth... slow and sensual kissing... lips barely touching... soft bites and licks... losing yourself in someone else’s eyes... but kissing can also be so highly charged and erotic... hard ...deep... passionate... when you can hardly breathe and you totally lose control!!

God I love kissing!! It’s my top thing to do!! But sadly It doesn’t happen as much as I’d like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i’d say yes, it’s probably the most personal thing you can do, my kisses have been described as lushious and very sensual in the past....... just saying "

Girls will say anything to get in your pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is kissing much more intimate than sex in your opinion?"

Yes. I’ve fucked people I wouldn’t kiss, I need to fancy someone to kiss them.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"God I love kissing!! It’s my top thing to do!! But sadly It doesn’t happen as much as I’d like! "

How disappointing. I love a good kiss.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Yes it can certainly feel like it,not sure why though. Maybe because you're actually looking each other in the eye's,now that is more intimate kissing with your eye's open. I freaked one guy out not closing my eye's.

How did he know you hadn't got your eyes closed?

He peeked and saw me staring at him.

Would certainly freak me out "

It was funny he kept telling me to close my eyes which killed it for me. I like kissing a guy looking into his eyes at time's,I like seeing that raw animal instinct in them (if it's there).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it can be very intimate, I’ve recently been told I’m a passionate kisser x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i’d say yes, it’s probably the most personal thing you can do, my kisses have been described as lushious and very sensual in the past....... just saying

Girls will say anything to get in your pants "

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Have been told i kiss like in films. Hardly surprising had to teach actors/ress how to kiss as a living.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes- we are wired to read emotions in the face- can't get much closer than touching lips-it can be so nuanced, or passionate, or emotional, or a hundred different things combined.

And you can kiss someone all over their body- exploring with lips, tongue, teeth.

For me it's a gateway to further intimacy. If the kissing doesn't feel right, I am unlikely to want to take it further.

I couldn't fuck without it as a precursor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have been told i kiss like in films. Hardly surprising had to teach actors/ress how to kiss as a living."

Wow, what a guy. Expect you work down the soup kitchen helping out the homeless too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes- we are wired to read emotions in the face- can't get much closer than touching lips-it can be so nuanced, or passionate, or emotional, or a hundred different things combined.

And you can kiss someone all over their body- exploring with lips, tongue, teeth.

For me it's a gateway to further intimacy. If the kissing doesn't feel right, I am unlikely to want to take it further.

I couldn't fuck without it as a precursor."

I totally agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends how and who you're kissing.

Certain passionate kissing on the mouth can be very intimate much more so than a condom sheathed penis in a vagina. I won't kiss anyone that way other than my partner.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I think kissing is like fucking... you can make love with your mouth... slow and sensual kissing... lips barely touching... soft bites and licks... losing yourself in someone else’s eyes... but kissing can also be so highly charged and erotic... hard ...deep... passionate... when you can hardly breathe and you totally lose control!!

God I love kissing!! It’s my top thing to do!! But sadly It doesn’t happen as much as I’d like! "

Will you please stop saying the things that I'd say but so much better than I do....am starting to get a complex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think kissing is like fucking... you can make love with your mouth... slow and sensual kissing... lips barely touching... soft bites and licks... losing yourself in someone else’s eyes... but kissing can also be so highly charged and erotic... hard ...deep... passionate... when you can hardly breathe and you totally lose control!!

God I love kissing!! It’s my top thing to do!! But sadly It doesn’t happen as much as I’d like!

Will you please stop saying the things that I'd say but so much better than I do....am starting to get a complex "

oh I’m sure you can say things just as well!! I just visualise what I’m thinking while I write!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way.

Think back to your younger days, that first kiss behind the bike shed then your first sexual experience.

In a night out you'd be snogging people in the nightclub, yet wouldn't go around having sex with them all.

Sex is so much more intimate in a totally different level to kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re not mutually exclusive, done together both at the same time takes it to another level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so. The face had eyes, nose and mouth, which all stimulate and help to arouse.

If someone touched my pussy without kissing me it wouldn't feel as intimate as with being kissed. I can get very wet from kissing because of the closeness of a man's face to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a tongue inside my mouth feels more intimate than on my pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They’re not mutually exclusive, done together both at the same time takes it to another level."

Stat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s incredibly intimate and one of my favourite things. Like someone said, sex without kissing would be clinical and cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who where when for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They’re not mutually exclusive, done together both at the same time takes it to another level.

Stat."

Stat ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not for me. I enjoy sex to be passionate and intense so it feels more intimate to me than just kissing.

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By *parkle7Woman
over a year ago

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Sometimes just kissing alone turns me on soooo much I am weak to his advances and the sex that follows is wild, fun, passionate and more than satisfying for both of us.........sorry - just having horny flash backs!!!!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Is kissing much more intimate than sex in your opinion?"

No of course it isn’t .

When we were kids and played such games as spin the bottle , a kiss was always the dare , not a fuck !

Look at the amount of kissing that goes on in films and tv programmes compared to fucks . A kiss determines whether someone wants to partake in further fun .

Kissing is a form of foreplay , a precursor if you like and without kissing the sex is never going to be the same , but the actual kissing is never going to be as intimate as full sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They’re not mutually exclusive, done together both at the same time takes it to another level.

Stat.

Stat ?"

It means immediately. I suppose I mean correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They’re not mutually exclusive, done together both at the same time takes it to another level.

Stat.

Stat ?

It means immediately. I suppose I mean correct."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say more intimate, but a good kiss has the ability to take my breath away and feel like you just want to melt into them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say more intimate, but a good kiss has the ability to take my breath away and feel like you just want to melt into them and jump on his cock

"

You poet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say more intimate, but a good kiss has the ability to take my breath away and feel like you just want to melt into them and jump on his cock

You poet! "

Not just a pair of tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say more intimate, but a good kiss has the ability to take my breath away and feel like you just want to melt into them and jump on his cock

You poet!

Not just a pair of tits "

Errmmm read it back what you wrote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think kissing is like fucking... you can make love with your mouth... slow and sensual kissing... lips barely touching... soft bites and licks... losing yourself in someone else’s eyes... but kissing can also be so highly charged and erotic... hard ...deep... passionate... when you can hardly breathe and you totally lose control!!

God I love kissing!! It’s my top thing to do!! But sadly It doesn’t happen as much as I’d like! "

Absolutely this!

Love love love kissing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say more intimate, but a good kiss has the ability to take my breath away and feel like you just want to melt into them and jump on his cock

You poet!

Not just a pair of tits

Errmmm read it back what you wrote "

Git!!! Although actually that is pretty much accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say more intimate, but a good kiss has the ability to take my breath away and feel like you just want to melt into them and jump on his cock

You poet!

Not just a pair of tits

Errmmm read it back what you wrote

Git!!! Although actually that is pretty much accurate "

Haha sorry to make you feel like a tit

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

When we are playing at a club, if im honest I don't really get into too much kissing with new partners, I save that for Cheffy, so yes I guess it is more of an intimate thing for us.

Im not sure I want to be swapping spit with 'strangers'.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Up till.about 12.years.ago i wouldnt kiss a meet. I found it to intimate same.as.cuddling. i was a.cold.fish. now i really enjoy kissing.and.cuddling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is more intimate then sex and with swinging it can be a no for many people. I personally love kissing as always starts off the horny session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is just the most intimate delicious thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is kissing much more intimate than sex in your opinion?

No of course it isn’t .

When we were kids and played such games as spin the bottle , a kiss was always the dare , not a fuck !

Look at the amount of kissing that goes on in films and tv programmes compared to fucks . A kiss determines whether someone wants to partake in further fun .

Kissing is a form of foreplay , a precursor if you like and without kissing the sex is never going to be the same , but the actual kissing is never going to be as intimate as full sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing.....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think kissing is far more intimate than sex, you can fuck anyone if you wanted and never make eye contact once but kissing is reserved for those we really want to get close and personal with, after all you are face to face, breathing in each other’s breath, eyes locked on to eyes, lips millimetres away just waiting for contact, then you part your lips and submerge yourself in that act, it’s a glorious thing

P.s. if it wasn’t so intimate why won’t some people kiss on meets

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yes yes yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It's kinda sacred for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think kissing is like fucking... you can make love with your mouth... slow and sensual kissing... lips barely touching... soft bites and licks... losing yourself in someone else’s eyes... but kissing can also be so highly charged and erotic... hard ...deep... passionate... when you can hardly breathe and you totally lose control!!

God I love kissing!! It’s my top thing to do!! But sadly It doesn’t happen as much as I’d like!

Absolutely this!

Love love love kissing!"

Yes indeed!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i can't imagine kissing someone then i sure as hell can't be intimate in any other way with them.

Can tell and feel so much from a kiss about a person.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is kissing much more intimate than sex in your opinion?"
yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is in my view. When your lips first touch and you slide one hand around the back of her neck and the other around her bum and pull her close... it’s incredibly intimate and erotic

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yes it is in my view. When your lips first touch and you slide one hand around the back of her neck and the other around her bum and pull her close... it’s incredibly intimate and erotic "
especially when she had garlic curry two nights ago and didn’t bother brushing

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Yes it is in my view. When your lips first touch and you slide one hand around the back of her neck and the other around her bum and pull her close... it’s incredibly intimate and erotic especially when she had garlic curry two nights ago and didn’t bother brushing "

Mmmm tangy

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Yes it is in my view. When your lips first touch and you slide one hand around the back of her neck and the other around her bum and pull her close... it’s incredibly intimate and erotic especially when she had garlic curry two nights ago and didn’t bother brushing "

Nah, that's the wrong time to perform anilingus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it is in my view. When your lips first touch and you slide one hand around the back of her neck and the other around her bum and pull her close... it’s incredibly intimate and erotic especially when she had garlic curry two nights ago and didn’t bother brushing "

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

i think you can kiss without intimicy and you can have sex without intimicy. it always depends on the other person and the level of feelings (sexual or romantical) there are involved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it is in my view. When your lips first touch and you slide one hand around the back of her neck and the other around her bum and pull her close... it’s incredibly intimate and erotic especially when she had garlic curry two nights ago and didn’t bother brushing

Nah, that's the wrong time to perform anilingus "

Hahaha

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"i think you can kiss without intimicy and you can have sex without intimicy. it always depends on the other person and the level of feelings (sexual or romantical) there are involved."

Yes, I feel that too - it's all about the feel.

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