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 I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
"We agree. They'll always be that initial surge, but filters and not putting up lots of pictures definitely make it manageable. | |||
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
We agree. They'll always be that initial surge, but filters and not putting up lots of pictures definitely make it manageable. "Ive been here since about 2007 and I can honestly say Ive never ignored a message, they all get a reply.I think im a bit OCD about it now  | |||
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters. "It's nothing to do with looks, it's sheer numbers and difference in attitude between men and women. Me and my GF came on here at the same time with blank profiles....no pics, no info, only difference was one said female, one said male. in the first week, she had over 1000 messages, I didn't even have 1 look! HAHA...even now a month later, she still gets over 100 messages a day and I've had 1 meet which was don't through her account! HAHA | |||
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
We agree. They'll always be that initial surge, but filters and not putting up lots of pictures definitely make it manageable.
Ive been here since about 2007 and I can honestly say Ive never ignored a message, they all get a reply.I think im a bit OCD about it now "Now you had admitted that expect your messages to increase lol. | |||
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
We agree. They'll always be that initial surge, but filters and not putting up lots of pictures definitely make it manageable.
Ive been here since about 2007 and I can honestly say Ive never ignored a message, they all get a reply.I think im a bit OCD about it now
Now you had admitted that expect your messages to increase lol. "They won't.  | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero "Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever? The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages. Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages. I reckon it could work. | |||
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
Yes , pretty much
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
Yes , pretty much
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"I have strict filters put in place. It really does help with the message amount. I still get a lot, within my specified age range, but it is far more manageable than when my filters were not in place "When you say "strict", I imagine you as a Latex Dominatrix  | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work."Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it | |||
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
"Am I the only person who doesn’t agree with this? Having lots of pictures or putting up statuses isn’t licence for guys to message. And as others have said, blank female profiles get tons regardless. I’ve had friends who’ve joined and ended up bombarded before they’ve even put a picture up. | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work.
Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it"Maybe it needs putting to the vote? | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work.
Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it
Maybe it needs putting to the vote?"Gets my vote and a puzzle | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work.
Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it
Maybe it needs putting to the vote?"Already exists. It’s called bumble. | |||
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"I have strict filters put in place. It really does help with the message amount. I still get a lot, within my specified age range, but it is far more manageable than when my filters were not in place
When you say "strict", I imagine you as a Latex Dominatrix "You are closer than you think | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work.
Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it
Maybe it needs putting to the vote?
Already exists. It’s called bumble. "And does it work there? New thread 'A Mans Inbox' | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work.
Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it
Maybe it needs putting to the vote?"The problem with this, is the amount of men on this site. I once had my age filters 99-99, as I wanted to do my own searching, without men being able to message. The amount of profiles just within 15 miles was shocking. I just stopped searching and spoke to only my friends for 3 months haha. It would more likely put some women off from joining, than working in the male's favour. | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work.
Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it
Maybe it needs putting to the vote?
The problem with this, is the amount of men on this site. I once had my age filters 99-99, as I wanted to do my own searching, without men being able to message. The amount of profiles just within 15 miles was shocking. I just stopped searching and spoke to only my friends for 3 months haha. It would more likely put some women off from joining, than working in the male's favour."Was that because the site was showing you all of Wales though as you dont have a real location... it would default to within 15 moles of Wales surely? | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work.
Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it
Maybe it needs putting to the vote?
The problem with this, is the amount of men on this site. I once had my age filters 99-99, as I wanted to do my own searching, without men being able to message. The amount of profiles just within 15 miles was shocking. I just stopped searching and spoke to only my friends for 3 months haha. It would more likely put some women off from joining, than working in the male's favour.
Was that because the site was showing you all of Wales though as you dont have a real location... it would default to within 15 moles of Wales surely?"My real location is still registered. It was showing within 15 miles of my location | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work.
Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it
Maybe it needs putting to the vote?
The problem with this, is the amount of men on this site. I once had my age filters 99-99, as I wanted to do my own searching, without men being able to message. The amount of profiles just within 15 miles was shocking. I just stopped searching and spoke to only my friends for 3 months haha. It would more likely put some women off from joining, than working in the male's favour.
Was that because the site was showing you all of Wales though as you dont have a real location... it would default to within 15 moles of Wales surely?
My real location is still registered. It was showing within 15 miles of my location " Seems Wales is full of horny chaps in that case! Lucky you x | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work.
Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it
Maybe it needs putting to the vote?
The problem with this, is the amount of men on this site. I once had my age filters 99-99, as I wanted to do my own searching, without men being able to message. The amount of profiles just within 15 miles was shocking. I just stopped searching and spoke to only my friends for 3 months haha. It would more likely put some women off from joining, than working in the male's favour.
Was that because the site was showing you all of Wales though as you dont have a real location... it would default to within 15 moles of Wales surely?
My real location is still registered. It was showing within 15 miles of my location
Seems Wales is full of horny chaps in that case! Lucky you x"Haha very true lovely x | |||
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"I have strict filters put in place. It really does help with the message amount. I still get a lot, within my specified age range, but it is far more manageable than when my filters were not in place
When you say "strict", I imagine you as a Latex Dominatrix
You are closer than you think "Crikey, are you the elusive woman that lives next door? | |||
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
Yes , pretty much
Is that yes pretty much to me being a munter or reaping what you sow? "As in reap what you sow , agree with you on that comment | |||
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"I have strict filters put in place. It really does help with the message amount. I still get a lot, within my specified age range, but it is far more manageable than when my filters were not in place
When you say "strict", I imagine you as a Latex Dominatrix
You are closer than you think
Crikey, are you the elusive woman that lives next door? " | |||
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
Yes , pretty much
Is that yes pretty much to me being a munter or reaping what you sow?
As in reap what you sow , agree with you on that comment "Haha phew! | |||
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" I must be a munter.... Ive never had loads of messages when I was single. I think logging in to about 20 was my record and Ive never used filters.
If they are getting too many tell them to set their filters and tone dolwn the picture uploads and teasing status updates.
You reap what you sow on here
Yes , pretty much
Is that yes pretty much to me being a munter or reaping what you sow?
As in reap what you sow , agree with you on that comment
Haha phew! "Aaaaand relax x | |||
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"I have strict filters put in place. It really does help with the message amount. I still get a lot, within my specified age range, but it is far more manageable than when my filters were not in place
When you say "strict", I imagine you as a Latex Dominatrix
You are closer than you think
Crikey, are you the elusive woman that lives next door?
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"I have strict filters put in place. It really does help with the message amount. I still get a lot, within my specified age range, but it is far more manageable than when my filters were not in place
When you say "strict", I imagine you as a Latex Dominatrix
You are closer than you think
Crikey, are you the elusive woman that lives next door?
Don't tell me it's spanky bum time again "Are you wearing your blindfold? | |||
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"I have strict filters put in place. It really does help with the message amount. I still get a lot, within my specified age range, but it is far more manageable than when my filters were not in place
When you say "strict", I imagine you as a Latex Dominatrix
You are closer than you think
Crikey, are you the elusive woman that lives next door?
Don't tell me it's spanky bum time again
Are you wearing your blindfold? "Just let me out of these handcuffs, and I might be able to find it.... | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work."I think this would be a great idea. | |||
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"If we started a 'Mens Inbox' post it would be....zero, zero, oooo 1...zero
Do you reckon the site might work better if men couldnt send the first message, ever?
The ladys and couples would then HAVE to do the searching and send the initial messages.
Also the single men would be forced to put some effort into their profiles and pictures to attract messages.
I reckon it could work.
Marvellous idea! They should at least trial it
Maybe it needs putting to the vote?
The problem with this, is the amount of men on this site. I once had my age filters 99-99, as I wanted to do my own searching, without men being able to message. The amount of profiles just within 15 miles was shocking. I just stopped searching and spoke to only my friends for 3 months haha. It would more likely put some women off from joining, than working in the male's favour.
Was that because the site was showing you all of Wales though as you dont have a real location... it would default to within 15 moles of Wales surely?
My real location is still registered. It was showing within 15 miles of my location
Seems Wales is full of horny chaps in that case! Lucky you x"Poor Sheep | |||
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