FabSwingers.com forum: Are you successful??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you believe you're successful? How do you judge your own success and the success of others??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy with working for myself,not bothered by others achievements at all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Do you believe you're successful? How do you judge your own success and the success of others??"

I'm still alive after some of the crazy things I've done, I'm healthy, foolish, good job and happy, so that counts as success in my eyes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I have everything I need and everything I want at this point in my life. I have a job I love, wonderful people around me and few concerns in life. It feels like a success to me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work for myself in a job I love, I can pretty much decide my working hours so i get plenty of family time in. I am married to an amazing man and we have two beautiful Kids. Life is good.

I'm happy so I consider that a success.

Other people's lives don't concern me and it's not my place to judge their level of success.

Eve. x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Im happy. No complaints. Thats successful enough for me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yep I am, we both are. Not in material or financial terms but I'd say our quality of life is pretty good and that's how we measure success for us.

I tend to measure other people's success in a similar way i.e. if they want a great career and achieve it I think they're successful

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most other people would describe me as successful. But I'm still working on getting to a place where I agree

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get paid for doing work I love. I have a wonderful family and friends. I am happy, content and learn something new regularly. That’s success to me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't measure my life by my successes. Successful usually means you have gotten a good job, nice house and car and plenty of money.

By those standards I'm a failure.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't compare myself to others, but I know I've still got room to progress at work but I'm happy to take my time and not rush ahead.

Others seem to think we're either loaded or the poor relations, where as I consider us to be comfortable. One area I do consider us to be successful is the fact that our only debt is out mortgage, even my bank manager thought I was lying about that.

Ginger

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit like my school report.

Could have done better

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

This quote is what I try to live my life by:

- ‘Success is the progressive realisation of a worthy ideal’

So, if each day you are making progress towards something you desire... then you are a successful person...

If you aren’t, then you are yet to realise what your goal or goals are... or you haven’t yet started to realise them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

If my fab results are anything to go by I'm a huge failure

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm successful because I have achieved at what I set out to do.

I'm happy with what I have done and in life, so I would class that as successful.

Everyone has different goals though, s it's down to the individual.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work wise getting there.

Bringing up 2 little girls that are clever and polite and keep surprising me at how quickly they pick things up, so on thay front very succesful. That is the main thing I'll gauge my success on. What others do it irrelevant to me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge myself

I don't benchmark myself against anyone

I have a job that I love

I have a family that I love

I have friends that I love

I've had some great meets thru here

So yeah, I'd say I'm quite successful

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m happy with where I am in life and what I’ve achieved

Success always has room for improvement or aspiration ....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am. Today I managed to have a shit without getting poseidon kisses.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you believe you're successful? How do you judge your own success and the success of others??"

I judge my successes day at a time your only as good as your last day

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Do you believe you're successful? How do you judge your own success and the success of others??"

Got a roof on the table and bread above my head.. that's successful enough for me..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have running water , heat in the winter, air conditioning in the summer, and all the food I can eat....

If you have traveled the world that is better off than 90% of the planet...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love and am loved. So yes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants

Work - yes

Life - no

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread