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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a caring fabber ?

Or are you just here to find what you want ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a point I’m here for my own desires, however I have a caring nature and it’s in my nature to be that way with people, even if it is just for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am, it’s a big part of my nature. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came here to make some friends. Friendship is a 2 way thing so I care about what they get from me too.

I never came here with any wants or expectations so it's never been about meeting any fantasies or anything for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came here to make some friends. Friendship is a 2 way thing so I care about what they get from me too.

I never came here with any wants or expectations so it's never been about meeting any fantasies or anything for me.

"

I’m more about friendship also with no expectations.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I'm more caring. Like making friends and whatever happens happens. Don't see a point in being pushy towards anyone

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

To an extent but I know that I simply don't have the resources to care on more than a superficial level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have friends on here that date back years, I consider myself very fortunate and genuinely care for them. To people I have no interest in meeting- not as much, but I don't consider myself callous either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to make friends here and even in sexual experiences I want those women to have some emotional attachment. I don’t want to have sex with a woman who is basically a sex toy for me. I want to be with someone I have an attachment to, even if it is just for some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to think I'm a caring person I get told I am a lot and I always try and help if I can xx

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I’m a very caring person and that’s not something you can just switch off. I haven’t set my sights on anything or anyone on here, I just rub along in my own way but I enjoy chatting and I do show a genuine interest and real concern for those I have become closer with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To a point I’m here for my own desires, however I have a caring nature and it’s in my nature to be that way with people, even if it is just for sex. "

Hello lady

We’re on almost exactly the same page.

Unfortunately, we’ve found it difficult to find people of the same thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I’m not here for anything other than a bit of a laugh on the forum, to take the piss out of myself, post the odd pic of myself and when I feel I can, be helpful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I am, it’s a big part of my nature. X "

Yes

You are and it comes across in both your forum posts and in person which we find very lovely x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I came here to make some friends. Friendship is a 2 way thing so I care about what they get from me too.

I never came here with any wants or expectations so it's never been about meeting any fantasies or anything for me.

"

I get ya, and I think to a degree we’re in the same mindset.

Although we are essentially seeking a female to share some sex times with it’s been more about making new friends that we can be ourselves with, without fear of sexual judgment.

Men, women, couples, tv’s, whoever as long as we connect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a caring fabber ?

Or are you just here to find what you want ?

"

I care about others to a certain extent..

As for getting what I want I'll have to let You know about that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I came here to make some friends. Friendship is a 2 way thing so I care about what they get from me too.

I never came here with any wants or expectations so it's never been about meeting any fantasies or anything for me.

I’m more about friendship also with no expectations. "

And these are the best friendships, when people just want to be with similar minded people.

Occasionally, very special relationships develop out of friendships that have no motives.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm more caring. Like making friends and whatever happens happens. Don't see a point in being pushy towards anyone "

A non-pushy caring friend for whatever.

Sounds perfect to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too caring maybe if it’s possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To an extent but I know that I simply don't have the resources to care on more than a superficial level."

Yes, I totally understand.

We’ve been guilty of trying to be there for people that realistically we have no chance of physically helping, other than kind words and a little kick up the bum on occasion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have friends on here that date back years, I consider myself very fortunate and genuinely care for them. To people I have no interest in meeting- not as much, but I don't consider myself callous either."

You’ve been a very lucky fabber.

It’s only sensible that you can’t care for everyone and this is something we’re beginning to realise.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

What's a caring faber?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"What's a caring faber?"

fabber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caring...I think that's probably for others to decide rather than for me to self promote.

I came here originally with no fixed ideas in my mind of what I expected or was seeking beyond fun chat and connections with others, and may be to meet others who decide I'm worth their time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I care. I'm also here to find what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a caring faber?"

Someone who doesn't delete messages unread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to make friends here and even in sexual experiences I want those women to have some emotional attachment. I don’t want to have sex with a woman who is basically a sex toy for me. I want to be with someone I have an attachment to, even if it is just for some fun."

That emotional attachment on some level is essential for us too.

You sound like a very nice gentleman and we hope a lovely lady with a similar mindset reads this post and gets in touch with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id like to think I'm a caring person I get told I am a lot and I always try and help if I can xx"

You must be then ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submissive big old fat teddy bear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m a very caring person and that’s not something you can just switch off. I haven’t set my sights on anything or anyone on here, I just rub along in my own way but I enjoy chatting and I do show a genuine interest and real concern for those I have become closer with."

Yes, it’s incredibly hard to just switch it off.

We do often question whether we’re cut out for the kind of casual sexual relationship that fab essentially appears to be about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. I’m not here for anything other than a bit of a laugh on the forum, to take the piss out of myself, post the odd pic of myself and when I feel I can, be helpful."

Very commendable motives in our opinion.

We have observed your helpfulness on various occasions

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"What's a caring faber?

Someone who doesn't delete messages unread."

Oh I'm not a caring fabber then,I do get moments of being irritated when someone hasn't read my profile so I just delete it. You don't exactly need to open a fancy a shag message do you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say we are both very caring and thoughtful people, both In our vanilla and Fab lives.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I came here to make some friends. Friendship is a 2 way thing so I care about what they get from me too.

I never came here with any wants or expectations so it's never been about meeting any fantasies or anything for me.

"

Much the same, just to chat have a laugh and meet some interesting people and hopefully cut out the drama and stress of meeting people but if nothing happens well

Let it be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a caring fabber ?

Or are you just here to find what you want ?

I care about others to a certain extent..

As for getting what I want I'll have to let You know about that"

As long as you do it in a caring and considerate kinda way we’re all for getting what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here to make people smile

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I can be. I'm not sure I am overall - I'm a bit of a dick towards some people. Yeah, if I like someone to a certain extent I care about them even more so after we've met (apart from the odd occasion). Some of my closest friends are on here and they mean the world.

What an absolute disastrously structured stream of consciousness. Good luck with that OP!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I like to think I care but people do make it hard sometimes

As for describing myself loveable and crazy as fuck with a very uncensored mouth which I will apologize for ...or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's a caring faber?

fabber"

We’re not sure to be honest, that’s why we ask if you’d describe yourself as one, to get others definitions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no as what i want is to pleasure others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too caring maybe if it’s possible "

It is possible

But we don’t consider that a bad thing.

Whether our kind have a place on fab is questionable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very caring my job is testament to that. I love seeing people progressing and happy.

I also happen to love hot, animalistic sex - maybe its my ying and yang.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Caring...I think that's probably for others to decide rather than for me to self promote.

I came here originally with no fixed ideas in my mind of what I expected or was seeking beyond fun chat and connections with others, and may be to meet others who decide I'm worth their time....

"

We did ask if you’d describe yourself as caring ?

For the record, having observed your posts we’d consider you to have a rather caring nature.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"To an extent but I know that I simply don't have the resources to care on more than a superficial level.

Yes, I totally understand.

We’ve been guilty of trying to be there for people that realistically we have no chance of physically helping, other than kind words and a little kick up the bum on occasion."

I'm a fan of tough love. Sympathy is great but in some cases won't achieve.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I think I'm a caring fabber in that I don't like hurting people's feelings and I am caring in nature to both people I meet and the friends I've made on here. I too, need a connection to play hence why I ending up becoming exclusive without any aim to do so when I first joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I’m caring... I wouldn’t just turn it off on here because it can be NSA.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I care. I'm also here to find what I want. "

But after you’ve experienced what you want is it your intention to continue caring or is the I care bit only applicable until you’ve got what you want?

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm here for my needs, would love to meet a guy on my wave length but if not I will carry on alone x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm probably too caring for my own good.

I'll stick up for strangers when I feel their being wronged even if I know nothing about that person. I have strong feelings for many subjects and avoid certain threads to not get overly involved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Submissive big old fat teddy bear "

Keep away from our pic-a-nic basket you !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's a caring faber?

Someone who doesn't delete messages unread.

Oh I'm not a caring fabber then,I do get moments of being irritated when someone hasn't read my profile so I just delete it. You don't exactly need to open a fancy a shag message do you."

But... do ya ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too caring in the "real world" , and in the fab world I care too. I think you're a cold person if you have no caring in you...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a caring faber?

Someone who doesn't delete messages unread."

That's me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"What's a caring faber?

Someone who doesn't delete messages unread.

Oh I'm not a caring fabber then,I do get moments of being irritated when someone hasn't read my profile so I just delete it. You don't exactly need to open a fancy a shag message do you.

But... do ya ? "

I do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say we are both very caring and thoughtful people, both In our vanilla and Fab lives. "

That’s becoming very apparent to us through your posts.

We’d wager you guys would be wonderful friends to have

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

I'm here to make friends and enjoy myself like everyone else.

I'm considerate not sure if that makes me caring but I have no ill feelings towards anyone. Life is too short

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I came here to make some friends. Friendship is a 2 way thing so I care about what they get from me too.

I never came here with any wants or expectations so it's never been about meeting any fantasies or anything for me.

Much the same, just to chat have a laugh and meet some interesting people and hopefully cut out the drama and stress of meeting people but if nothing happens well

Let it be "

A good attitude in our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously here for my desires but I wouldn't put them above a partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m here to make people smile "

But do you care whether they smile or not ?

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

I believe in treating people as i would like to be treated so id say im a caring fabber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I am, it’s a big part of my nature. X

Yes

You are and it comes across in both your forum posts and in person which we find very lovely x"

Thank you, and you’re both lovely in person as well x

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We are very kind people. We care very much for our friends as well as others in general and if somebody needed something we could help with we would be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s upset you both? Do you want me to throat punch them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a caring fabber ?

Or are you just here to find what you want ?

"

To people I reject I'm an arsehole apparently but in reality I'm caring, anyone that has met me Will tell you that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can be. I'm not sure I am overall - I'm a bit of a dick towards some people. Yeah, if I like someone to a certain extent I care about them even more so after we've met (apart from the odd occasion). Some of my closest friends are on here and they mean the world.

What an absolute disastrously structured stream of consciousness. Good luck with that OP!"

We see you as being the right amount of caring.

You can be harsh when it’s warranted but if someone managed to penetrate the prickly exterior we think you’d be a wonderful friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Caring...I think that's probably for others to decide rather than for me to self promote.

I came here originally with no fixed ideas in my mind of what I expected or was seeking beyond fun chat and connections with others, and may be to meet others who decide I'm worth their time....

We did ask if you’d describe yourself as caring ?

For the record, having observed your posts we’d consider you to have a rather caring nature."

Flattered, thank you. Surprised any one ever reads my random musings...

I do care for others, doesn't everyone in some way, but how others see us is never quite how we see ourselves...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to think I care but people do make it hard sometimes

As for describing myself loveable and crazy as fuck with a very uncensored mouth which I will apologize for ...or not "

Accepted... or not !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I don’t know why I’m here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes and no as what i want is to pleasure others"

You’re not quite sure are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im very caring my job is testament to that. I love seeing people progressing and happy.

I also happen to love hot, animalistic sex - maybe its my ying and yang. "

Sounds very fulfilling

Hot animalistic sex doesn’t mean not caring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no as what i want is to pleasure others

You’re not quite sure are you?

"

What i mean is i do seem to genuinlly care about a few iv spoken with but were all here for our own pleasures pretty much and i find no greater pleasure than making people feel good

Also iv never interacted with people on the net never done social media of any kind and i find this adictive and a refreshing change of pace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy go lucky with a sensitive side and a very naughty streak

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I'm a caring fabber in that I don't like hurting people's feelings and I am caring in nature to both people I meet and the friends I've made on here. I too, need a connection to play hence why I ending up becoming exclusive without any aim to do so when I first joined"

Proof that caring can work out !

As a couple now though, do you think that you’ll still need that connection to play with potential playmates ?

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 31/05/18 21:35:18 because she’s speechless]"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Who’s upset you both? Do you want me to throat punch them?"

No violence in here please young lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, I’m caring... I wouldn’t just turn it off on here because it can be NSA. "

We unequivocally believe you.

But people do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm here for my needs, would love to meet a guy on my wave length but if not I will carry on alone x"

That’s your prerogative and good luck with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I care about not getting caught being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I am. If ive made friends with you, I will care a lot, even if its only from the other end of a screen. Ive no real idea what I want from here so its never been all about me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm probably too caring for my own good.

I'll stick up for strangers when I feel their being wronged even if I know nothing about that person. I have strong feelings for many subjects and avoid certain threads to not get overly involved.

"

Wonderful lady !

It’s hard not to get drawn in sometimes, we do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No replies? I'll have to work on my smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No replies? I'll have to work on my smile"

See a dentist and a carpenter immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No replies? I'll have to work on my smile

See a dentist and a carpenter immediately "

That bad yeah?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm too caring in the "real world" , and in the fab world I care too. I think you're a cold person if you have no caring in you...x"

Trouble is, caring is obvious.

The cold people can be hard to spot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's a caring faber?

Someone who doesn't delete messages unread.

That's me. "

Put a sock in it you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who’s upset you both? Do you want me to throat punch them?

No violence in here please young lady."

But it’s just so hard not to...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Who’s upset you both? Do you want me to throat punch them?

No violence in here please young lady.

But it’s just so hard not to..."

Ok go for it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's up with my teeth then guys?

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I think I'm a caring fabber in that I don't like hurting people's feelings and I am caring in nature to both people I meet and the friends I've made on here. I too, need a connection to play hence why I ending up becoming exclusive without any aim to do so when I first joined

Proof that caring can work out !

As a couple now though, do you think that you’ll still need that connection to play with potential playmates ?

"

Yes I think we do, maybe not to the same extent but still need to feel that connection and it's probably something we've struggled to find

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Yes and it fucked me over.

I am much more cautious now.

Hey OP, I miss you

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

A caring fabber, I try to respond to all messages and thank people when they fab our pics. I have never chatted about anyone else, we are not here for tittle tattle about others. We are just here for fun with a capital F. Xxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies to anybody we haven’t managed to reply too, thanks for all your posts. Xx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I'm probably too caring for my own good.

I'll stick up for strangers when I feel their being wronged even if I know nothing about that person. I have strong feelings for many subjects and avoid certain threads to not get overly involved.

Thanks x but the! ?

Wonderful lady !

It’s hard not to get drawn in sometimes, we do the same."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here to find a left handed lady who know how to wank while talking about politic !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm too caring in the "real world" , and in the fab world I care too. I think you're a cold person if you have no caring in you...x

Trouble is, caring is obvious.

The cold people can be hard to spot"

Yes that is extremely true, and worse are those who pretend to be caring and actually really are not but are very good at convincing people they are ...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I care.

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