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"Sounds dodgy. Maybe tie a wet one round your thigh and let it dry and see what happens. Keep a chainsaw handy to get it off just in case. " I was going to suggest a watermelon, but your way sounds much more daring | |||
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"Sounds dodgy. Maybe tie a wet one round your thigh and let it dry and see what happens. Keep a chainsaw handy to get it off just in case. " That's a good idea Minus the chain saw 
The old medical scissors will do nicely but actually would rather not cut my nice ropes
Idea bellow of water melon, could be fun filmed time lapse
..put on real tight.
Thanks for advice ladies x | |||
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"Sounds dodgy. Maybe tie a wet one round your thigh and let it dry and see what happens. Keep a chainsaw handy to get it off just in case. That's a good idea Minus the chain saw
The old medical scissors will do nicely but actually would rather not cut my nice ropes
Idea bellow of water melon, could be fun filmed time lapse
..put on real tight.
Thanks for advice ladies x" --I think this is a watermelon in bondage
I think the greater issue would be the time it would take for the rope to dry out. I'm no expert (you may have guessed) but leaving someone tied for a long time seems like it could be an issue. Hence my thigh idea so you could assess for yourself if it became uncomfortable before the ropes dried. | |||
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"Sounds dodgy. Maybe tie a wet one round your thigh and let it dry and see what happens. Keep a chainsaw handy to get it off just in case. That's a good idea Minus the chain saw
The old medical scissors will do nicely but actually would rather not cut my nice ropes
Idea bellow of water melon, could be fun filmed time lapse
..put on real tight.
Thanks for advice ladies x
--I think this is a watermelon in bondage
I think the greater issue would be the time it would take for the rope to dry out. I'm no expert (you may have guessed) but leaving someone tied for a long time seems like it could be an issue. Hence my thigh idea so you could assess for yourself if it became uncomfortable before the ropes dried. "See rope work requires a warm place anyway, as cant have someone getting cold, cam spoil the fun or guess make it mord exciting ha But yeah the rope would dry quickly..given heat from body and ambient heat in room..I would think evaporation will take place quite rapid, as will also be getting squeezed tight as persr moves, so will speed up. Gonna tie a 3mm hemp rope wet round a banana tonight see if got splattered banana in morning
Watermelon kink eh haha
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"I wouldn't consider it. You can't predict how tight the rope will get and the steadily increasing pressure it might put on a nerve is just not worth the risk in my opinion. Broken bones can heal, nerve damage sometimes doesn't." No all good with proper points of contact on body, aware of do and don't as far as placement dry goes. I just wondering as reason we have rope bondage in first place is because the same techniques have been passed through time, as methods of torture That said its not really like that now as knots not tied with that purpose | |||
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"I wouldn't consider it. You can't predict how tight the rope will get and the steadily increasing pressure it might put on a nerve is just not worth the risk in my opinion. Broken bones can heal, nerve damage sometimes doesn't. No all good with proper points of contact on body, aware of do and don't as far as placement dry goes. I just wondering as reason we have rope bondage in first place is because the same techniques have been passed through time, as methods of torture That said its not really like that now as knots not tied with that purpose" That's all good then. All you need now is the melon | |||
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"Sounds dodgy. Maybe tie a wet one round your thigh and let it dry and see what happens. Keep a chainsaw handy to get it off just in case. That's a good idea Minus the chain saw
The old medical scissors will do nicely but actually would rather not cut my nice ropes
Idea bellow of water melon, could be fun filmed time lapse
..put on real tight.
Thanks for advice ladies x
--I think this is a watermelon in bondage
I think the greater issue would be the time it would take for the rope to dry out. I'm no expert (you may have guessed) but leaving someone tied for a long time seems like it could be an issue. Hence my thigh idea so you could assess for yourself if it became uncomfortable before the ropes dried. "Just went for a lookski at your profile as ya do
Instantly thought...
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be sure to wear flowers in your fingers
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"I wouldn't consider it. You can't predict how tight the rope will get and the steadily increasing pressure it might put on a nerve is just not worth the risk in my opinion. Broken bones can heal, nerve damage sometimes doesn't. No all good with proper points of contact on body, aware of do and don't as far as placement dry goes. I just wondering as reason we have rope bondage in first place is because the same techniques have been passed through time, as methods of torture That said its not really like that now as knots not tied with that purpose That's all good then. All you need now is the melon "Failing an actual melon Plenty of melon heads on here | |||
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"You might not be wanting to cut for (let's face it noone does) but at least be willing to... I got nerve damage when I was first on the scene so I'm really particular now... As long as you are constantly checking extremities (colour of nailbed etc) and are tying someone who knows how to monitor their own safety (and feed that back to you) then you should be fine!" Nerve damage Sorry to hear that, but way beyond that level, been making knots and using ropes since childhood. Been a climber since 7 Knots are a skill for life | |||
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"Any natural rope users? Quite liking the natural restrictions a wet rope can bring. Have always used dry ropes, but mate suggested we try wet ropes..which obviously dry out..pulling tightness as over prolonged periods of being bound. However have a question for anyone that might know? Surely some of my hemp ropes, if went from wet to dry on tight..would it not be dangerous? Like could accidentally break bones or snap ribs? " Dangerous and more likely to cause nerve damage (or depending where you tied breathing restriction). I wouldn’t want to ruin my rope either, I’d only consider if it was on its last legs! If you want the feeling of restriction just add more rope! | |||
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"You might not be wanting to cut for (let's face it noone does) but at least be willing to... I got nerve damage when I was first on the scene so I'm really particular now... As long as you are constantly checking extremities (colour of nailbed etc) and are tying someone who knows how to monitor their own safety (and feed that back to you) then you should be fine! Nerve damage Sorry to hear that, but way beyond that level, been making knots and using ropes since childhood. Been a climber since 7 Knots are a skill for life "This was someone well known, experienced, gave demos etc... I was young and really inexperienced, I didn't speak up (because he was so experienced), he thought he was way beyond that level, which is why I'm super hot on making sure that submissives known how to keep their own selves safe, and how to speak up when they feel things aren't right | |||
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"You might not be wanting to cut for (let's face it noone does) but at least be willing to... I got nerve damage when I was first on the scene so I'm really particular now... As long as you are constantly checking extremities (colour of nailbed etc) and are tying someone who knows how to monitor their own safety (and feed that back to you) then you should be fine! Nerve damage Sorry to hear that, but way beyond that level, been making knots and using ropes since childhood. Been a climber since 7 Knots are a skill for life
This was someone well known, experienced, gave demos etc...
I was young and really inexperienced, I didn't speak up (because he was so experienced), he thought he was way beyond that level, which is why I'm super hot on making sure that submissives known how to keep their own selves safe, and how to speak up when they feel things aren't right "Nerve damage can happen with anyone, even the Japanese masters so no one is ‘way beyond that level’. Yes there’s things that riggers can do better but bottoms do need the confidence to speak up when something’s not right. Many try and brave it but it’s not the right thing, the rigger would rather take you out or bring you down than damage you. | |||
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"Any natural rope users? Quite liking the natural restrictions a wet rope can bring. Have always used dry ropes, but mate suggested we try wet ropes..which obviously dry out..pulling tightness as over prolonged periods of being bound. However have a question for anyone that might know? Surely some of my hemp ropes, if went from wet to dry on tight..would it not be dangerous? Like could accidentally break bones or snap ribs? Dangerous and more likely to cause nerve damage (or depending where you tied breathing restriction). I wouldn’t want to ruin my rope either, I’d only consider if it was on its last legs! If you want the feeling of restriction just add more rope! " Dangerous just what I like
Breath control eh oh that's whole different ball game
Turning out the gas
Black out as you cum..up there with epic feelings, but have only ever trusted two females in my life enough to make me go sleey time at point of blowing load.
Till you tried it dont knock it | |||
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" Dangerous just what I like
Breath control eh oh that's whole different ball game
Turning out the gas
Black out as you cum..up there with epic feelings, but have only ever trusted two females in my life enough to make me go sleey time at point of blowing load.
Till you tried it dont knock it "I’m not knocking breath play, I’m actually into edge play but there’s still ways to minimise unnecessary risk and wet rope isn’t one of them! | |||
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" Dangerous just what I like
Breath control eh oh that's whole different ball game
Turning out the gas
Black out as you cum..up there with epic feelings, but have only ever trusted two females in my life enough to make me go sleey time at point of blowing load.
Till you tried it dont knock it
I’m not knocking breath play, I’m actually into edge play but there’s still ways to minimise unnecessary risk and wet rope isn’t one of them! "But surely edge play can be achieved by self. Like unless the guy likes the woman controlling him completely, its pointless in truth because all men are capable of a dry cum, capable of holding back. Controlling ones self. It takes training, but is very possible. I guess to most blokes it might seem strange, but I look at my cum, as quite a special thing..I don't just share with anyone..its not how role. Happy to fuck and not cum, most women seem to like that, however it appears as though more often of late women seem to think they haven't satisfied me, yet they so wrong. Its something I very much enjoy not allowing myself to release..even the aches you get in ball sack haha | |||
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"Any natural rope users? Quite liking the natural restrictions a wet rope can bring. Have always used dry ropes, but mate suggested we try wet ropes..which obviously dry out..pulling tightness as over prolonged periods of being bound. However have a question for anyone that might know? Surely some of my hemp ropes, if went from wet to dry on tight..would it not be dangerous? Like could accidentally break bones or snap ribs? Dangerous and more likely to cause nerve damage (or depending where you tied breathing restriction). I wouldn’t want to ruin my rope either, I’d only consider if it was on its last legs! If you want the feeling of restriction just add more rope! Dangerous just what I like
Breath control eh oh that's whole different ball game
Turning out the gas
Black out as you cum..up there with epic feelings, but have only ever trusted two females in my life enough to make me go sleey time at point of blowing load.
Till you tried it dont knock it "True words enough- the trust respect and skill needs to be second to none.... I trust “ him with my life” but that comes with how we have evolved over the years.... real fuckery is magical and on a different edge of the planet!! | |||
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" real fuckery is magical and on a different edge of the planet!!" Hey really like way you put that 
It is magical I agree with the right trust there | |||
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"But surely edge play can be achieved by self. Like unless the guy likes the woman controlling him completely, its pointless in truth because all men are capable of a dry cum, capable of holding back. Controlling ones self. It takes training, but is very possible. I guess to most blokes it might seem strange, but I look at my cum, as quite a special thing..I don't just share with anyone..its not how role. Happy to fuck and not cum, most women seem to like that, however it appears as though more often of late women seem to think they haven't satisfied me, yet they so wrong. Its something I very much enjoy not allowing myself to release..even the aches you get in ball sack haha " I think you may be confusing edgeplay with edging... Edgeplay is the darker riskier side of BDSM... | |||
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"But surely edge play can be achieved by self. Like unless the guy likes the woman controlling him completely, its pointless in truth because all men are capable of a dry cum, capable of holding back. Controlling ones self. It takes training, but is very possible. I guess to most blokes it might seem strange, but I look at my cum, as quite a special thing..I don't just share with anyone..its not how role. Happy to fuck and not cum, most women seem to like that, however it appears as though more often of late women seem to think they haven't satisfied me, yet they so wrong. Its something I very much enjoy not allowing myself to release..even the aches you get in ball sack haha I think you may be confusing edgeplay with edging... Edgeplay is the darker riskier side of BDSM... " Haha yeah misread guess But then thats just surely a new name for what was old school anyway. Like knives, axes,sheild maidens haha or imitation fire arms play, these just normal things in the dynamics of a couple with imagination. Sticking a toy gun up a womans ass or fucking her with a imitation gun. So they got a name for this now ha learn something new every day | |||
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"But surely edge play can be achieved by self. Like unless the guy likes the woman controlling him completely, its pointless in truth because all men are capable of a dry cum, capable of holding back. Controlling ones self. It takes training, but is very possible. I guess to most blokes it might seem strange, but I look at my cum, as quite a special thing..I don't just share with anyone..its not how role. Happy to fuck and not cum, most women seem to like that, however it appears as though more often of late women seem to think they haven't satisfied me, yet they so wrong. Its something I very much enjoy not allowing myself to release..even the aches you get in ball sack haha I think you may be confusing edgeplay with edging... Edgeplay is the darker riskier side of BDSM... Reading this thread so far... I think this guy has got it worked out and is well practiced in both?? Grateful for highlighting the difference: for lesser mortals that haven’t had the pleasure. A true handful like “ourselves” do not require the definition prompt.... " | |||
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"Sounds dodgy. Maybe tie a wet one round your thigh and let it dry and see what happens. Keep a chainsaw handy to get it off just in case. That's a good idea Minus the chain saw
The old medical scissors will do nicely but actually would rather not cut my nice ropes
Idea bellow of water melon, could be fun filmed time lapse
..put on real tight.
Thanks for advice ladies x
--I think this is a watermelon in bondage
I think the greater issue would be the time it would take for the rope to dry out. I'm no expert (you may have guessed) but leaving someone tied for a long time seems like it could be an issue. Hence my thigh idea so you could assess for yourself if it became uncomfortable before the ropes dried.
See rope work requires a warm place anyway, as cant have someone getting cold, cam spoil the fun or guess make it mord exciting ha
But yeah the rope would dry quickly..given heat from body and ambient heat in room..I would think evaporation will take place quite rapid, as will also be getting squeezed tight as persr moves, so will speed up.
Gonna tie a 3mm hemp rope wet round a banana tonight see if got splattered banana in morning
Watermelon kink eh haha
Actually speaking of water melons, you get square ones in Japan "Fruit cruelty.....poor banana!  | |||
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"Sounds dodgy. Maybe tie a wet one round your thigh and let it dry and see what happens. Keep a chainsaw handy to get it off just in case. That's a good idea Minus the chain saw
The old medical scissors will do nicely but actually would rather not cut my nice ropes
Idea bellow of water melon, could be fun filmed time lapse
..put on real tight.
Thanks for advice ladies x
--I think this is a watermelon in bondage
I think the greater issue would be the time it would take for the rope to dry out. I'm no expert (you may have guessed) but leaving someone tied for a long time seems like it could be an issue. Hence my thigh idea so you could assess for yourself if it became uncomfortable before the ropes dried.
See rope worrk requires a warm place anyway, as cant have someone getting cold, cam spoil the fun or guess make it mord exciting ha
But yeah the rope would dry quickly..given heat from body and ambient heat in room..I would think evaporation will take place quite rapid, as will also be getting squeezed tight as persr moves, so will speed up.
Gonna tie a 3mm hemp rope wet round a banana tonight see if got splattered banana in morning
Watermelon kink eh haha
Actually speaking of water melons, you get square ones in Japan
Fruit cruelty.....poor banana! "Yeah maybe should have picked something with a nervous system..Like the potato
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But should live through the night | |||
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"Banana already looking restricted
But should live through the night "Poor nana. | |||
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"Banana already looking restricted
But should live through the night
Poor nana. "Its alive...nana still going, not been cut in half
However she bruised up quite bad
When I undressed her
Got right under her skin
She got a ring of brown
Guess it does pull tight when dries out
Experiment next with thigh..but still like try a watermelon..go real tight | |||
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Which rope feels better in your hands, on your body.
Natural ropes..like hemp etc or
Synthetic ropes
Obviously understanding that if one got technical about it...in part the weave of rope plays a part and the thickness (mm), as you all know, the thicker ropes, especially in natural ropes,have raised ridges, peaks and fibres.
Im told my synthetic ropes feel softer, nicer on skin, however to me, is nothing nicer than feeling natural fibres in your hand..the old sailors rope. | |||
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"So you ropers, riggers and bottoms
Which rope feels better in your hands, on your body.
Natural ropes..like hemp etc or
Synthetic ropes
Obviously understanding that if one got technical about it...in part the weave of rope plays a part and the thickness (mm), as you all know, the thicker ropes, especially in natural ropes,have raised ridges, peaks and fibres.
Im told my synthetic ropes feel softer, nicer on skin, however to me, is nothing nicer than feeling natural fibres in your hand..the old sailors rope."I have lots of different rope for different things. From natural 6mm jute for technical tying and suspension (which leaves nice marks) to coloured soft cotton or synthetic UV rope for decorative club wear to coconut rope for the masochists amongst my perverted friends. I also keep my old tossa but rarely use it, that I’d definitely use for a wet scene as I’d happily bin it afterwards. Hmmm might have to plan that... | |||
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"So you ropers, riggers and bottoms
Which rope feels better in your hands, on your body.
Natural ropes..like hemp etc or
Synthetic ropes
Obviously understanding that if one got technical about it...in part the weave of rope plays a part and the thickness (mm), as you all know, the thicker ropes, especially in natural ropes,have raised ridges, peaks and fibres.
Im told my synthetic ropes feel softer, nicer on skin, however to me, is nothing nicer than feeling natural fibres in your hand..the old sailors rope.
I have lots of different rope for different things. From natural 6mm jute for technical tying and suspension (which leaves nice marks) to coloured soft cotton or synthetic UV rope for decorative club wear to coconut rope for the masochists amongst my perverted friends. I also keep my old tossa but rarely use it, that I’d definitely use for a wet scene as I’d happily bin it afterwards. Hmmm might have to plan that..."synthetic UV rope for decorative club wear. Liking sound of this. Reminds me of ariel acts at big vanilla house clubs in 90s and burlesque events have attended. Cant remember name, was some woman seen, was swinging about naked, held by silk..wrapped around her...then put on most amazing show of naked flesh and flowing silk..hardly bondage..but great eye candy | |||
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in a bag..very uniform pressure...needs work.
..Experiment a little more.
Understand this though, isnt for messing about with, without thinking it through logically and making a plan.
It begs questions the pain a maiden, must have been in when bound too a sea post, as an offering for the gods of the sea..or was that mermen as the wet binds drawn tight as the hot day sun beat down.
Ah but wait a "fab" knight approach from the east.
To rescue thy maiden...but not before taking advantage of the post situation
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