FabSwingers.com forum: Sub obedience

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So my sub has let me down today.

Come on boys and girls. How best to punish her, humiliate and degrade her so she knows better for the future?

I don’t allow her to be hurt, pain, the 3 P’s or anything like that. It just doesn’t float my boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a busy car park where people are walking around, let her do a reverse park which may have taken a bit longer than normal as this was the days before parking sensors then demand she gets out of the car whilst you get in the drivers seat and finish it off.

That, is fucking embarrassing, I remember my ex did it to me in a busy tesco at Xmas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go to a busy car park where people are walking around, let her do a reverse park which may have taken a bit longer than normal as this was the days before parking sensors then demand she gets out of the car whilst you get in the drivers seat and finish it off.

That, is fucking embarrassing, I remember my ex did it to me in a busy tesco at Xmas. "

lol

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Surely humiliation is subjective and you know what she finds humiliating as opposed to things that she actually enjoys?

Punishments for me were actually always punishments, restriction of behaviours, removal of privileges...

Anything else was 'fun' or a scene and so not a punishment.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

To me setting the scene is the anticipation, not the act.

But hey what do I know.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"To me setting the scene is the anticipation, not the act.

But hey what do I know."

Oh god yes. With the right person, the setting the scene, the mind games or the apprehension can be better then the scene itself.

But for me that's more fun then 'punishment' although I am not sure I'd ever be in a relationship where punishment is a thing again (just my personal oppion post messy Ds breakup and an abusive relationship)

I'd rather have a sadist beat me and humiliate me for fun

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

What one person would find humiliating may not work for another

Priviledges taken away bug me way more than a beating lol but hey... we're all different eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So my sub has let me down today.

Come on boys and girls. How best to punish her, humiliate and degrade her so she knows better for the future?

I don’t allow her to be hurt, pain, the 3 P’s or anything like that. It just doesn’t float my boat. "

If you partake in shibari.

Tie her up so she can't move, tie a wand to her thigh with the business end on her vagina. Turn it on and leave her there while you go watch a movie in a different room. Don't return to her til the credits roll

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over a year ago

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