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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Virtue? Is it?

I’ve recently been told I’m not very patient!!

Do you mind waiting for something if you know it’s going to be amazing??

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

How do you know it's going to be amazing if it hasn't happened yet ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I’m a ‘strike while the Orión is hot’ / life is too short type of guy.

I can be patient, but why? Why wait if you don’t have to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Virtue? Is it?

I’ve recently been told I’m not very patient!!

Do you mind waiting for something if you know it’s going to be amazing?? "

I dont mind waiting at all as long as its not a que that would drive me up the wall

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you know it's going to be amazing if it hasn't happened yet ??"

Ah well... you might have experienced it before!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I waited about half an hour more than normal for my train yesterday.

To be honest, I didn’t find the resulting experience of sitting on board (eventually) to be in any way elevated as a result. It was still very much shit in fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Virtue? Is it?

I’ve recently been told I’m not very patient!!

Do you mind waiting for something if you know it’s going to be amazing?? "

Yes I bought a ps4 the year it came out in october. Didn't open it until december (christmas gift to myself and no i dont bloody wrap it) now only use it for netflix and watching filthy people on channel 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Virtue? Is it?

I’ve recently been told I’m not very patient!!

Do you mind waiting for something if you know it’s going to be amazing??

Yes I bought a ps4 the year it came out in october. Didn't open it until december (christmas gift to myself and no i dont bloody wrap it) now only use it for netflix and watching filthy people on channel 5."

Anal fisting

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"How do you know it's going to be amazing if it hasn't happened yet ??

Ah well... you might have experienced it before! "
If it involves you I'll take the risk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. I’m a ‘strike while the Orión is hot’ / life is too short type of guy.

I can be patient, but why? Why wait if you don’t have to? "

Yes that’s like me... enjoy things as much as possible!! But it isn’t always possible arghhh haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I waited about half an hour more than normal for my train yesterday.

To be honest, I didn’t find the resulting experience of sitting on board (eventually) to be in any way elevated as a result. It was still very much shit in fact "

Hahaha in that case the patience had no better outcome then!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

The purpose for patient is the anticipation of a reward, what if there is no reward at the end?

patient needs goal(s)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The purpose for patient is the anticipation of a reward, what if there is no reward at the end?

patient needs goal(s)"

Well in my case there is a reward so to speak... so therefore worth it!! Just drives me nuts!!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends how long the wait is and what the event is. If it's a concert it's ok, other stuff I can be excited about then if the wait is more than a few days I can become interested in something else and then I can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how long the wait is and what the event is. If it's a concert it's ok, other stuff I can be excited about then if the wait is more than a few days I can become interested in something else and then I can't be arsed."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for.... "

So was that a yes or no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told that I have the patience of a saint. Well, that's when it comes to work and raising children.

I have zero patience when it comes to getting something I want though.. much to Adams dismay.

Eve. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for....

So was that a yes or no "

Yes of course...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for.... "

That’s as clear as mud!!!!

In my humble opinion yes trying new things can lead to better but at the same time do you risk losing what you could have had?? I’ve mostly found if you have experienced something really good... then why waste that!!!?

I totally agree with the anctipation... build up.. tension all leads to more excitement.... but I also believe if you want something and it’s really good then go for it.... you need to grab it and enjoy while you can!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for....

That’s as clear as mud!!!!

In my humble opinion yes trying new things can lead to better but at the same time do you risk losing what you could have had?? I’ve mostly found if you have experienced something really good... then why waste that!!!?

I totally agree with the anctipation... build up.. tension all leads to more excitement.... but I also believe if you want something and it’s really good then go for it.... you need to grab it and enjoy while you can!!!!

"

Wonder if life is ever that simple....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its begining to dwindle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for....

That’s as clear as mud!!!!

In my humble opinion yes trying new things can lead to better but at the same time do you risk losing what you could have had?? I’ve mostly found if you have experienced something really good... then why waste that!!!?

I totally agree with the anctipation... build up.. tension all leads to more excitement.... but I also believe if you want something and it’s really good then go for it.... you need to grab it and enjoy while you can!!!!

Wonder if life is ever that simple...."

I don’t see why not... I think things can be over complicated sometimes... yes life’s messy and a pain but everyone has things going on..and it’s easy to talk yourself out of anything at times.... but sometimes I think why can’t it be that simple??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its begining to dwindle"

What is? Your patience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its begining to dwindle

What is? Your patience? "

Yep the wick is burning away may have to buy a new candle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can wait for a man if I know, or think, he's worth waiting for.

I'm impatient where doing crafts and such are concerned. I like to get things finished.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for....

So was that a yes or no

Yes of course..."

Yes better to go off in case it’s better??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for.... "

This

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I lack patience.

I don't like waiting for anything.

Im not very virtuous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can wait for a man if I know, or think, he's worth waiting for.

I'm impatient where doing crafts and such are concerned. I like to get things finished. "

Agree totally to both points!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for....

This "

I totally agree. Couldn't of put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standing behind the kindly old gent at the supper market till. awaiting his self packing and then his coin counting.

Being kind and understanding goes well with being patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for....

This

I totally agree. Couldn't of put it better myself "

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Standing behind the kindly old gent at the supper market till. awaiting his self packing and then his coin counting.

Being kind and understanding goes well with being patient"

I can do that, in fact Id help with his packing.

Faced with a gaggle of yummy mummys gossiping in the loo roll aisle and blocking the way I am not very patient.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I can take absolute ages to decide on whether to do something or not, but once I decide, oh god I'm horribly impatient lol.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Somethings I can be very patient for. I waited over 3 years for a weekend with a guy off here and never thought it would happen but it did. Yes it was worth the wait and then some.

Other things I'm not very patient with. Like waiting in queues or For food

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Somethings I can be very patient for. I waited over 3 years for a weekend with a guy off here and never thought it would happen but it did. Yes it was worth the wait and then some.

Other things I'm not very patient with. Like waiting in queues or For food"

You waited for 3 years??? Wow that is patience!!! Glad you thought it was worth the wait!! I would find that hard!

** to whom it may concern I’m not waiting that bloody long!!!!!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Somethings I can be very patient for. I waited over 3 years for a weekend with a guy off here and never thought it would happen but it did. Yes it was worth the wait and then some.

Other things I'm not very patient with. Like waiting in queues or For food

You waited for 3 years??? Wow that is patience!!! Glad you thought it was worth the wait!! I would find that hard!

** to whom it may concern I’m not waiting that bloody long!!!!! "

He got in a relationship with someone on here so I just sat back and waited lol.

They do say good things come to those that wait. It did that weekend lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Somethings I can be very patient for. I waited over 3 years for a weekend with a guy off here and never thought it would happen but it did. Yes it was worth the wait and then some.

Other things I'm not very patient with. Like waiting in queues or For food

You waited for 3 years??? Wow that is patience!!! Glad you thought it was worth the wait!! I would find that hard!

** to whom it may concern I’m not waiting that bloody long!!!!!

He got in a relationship with someone on here so I just sat back and waited lol.

They do say good things come to those that wait. It did that weekend lol "

Really!!!! Wasn’t you upset or pissed off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Somethings I can be very patient for. I waited over 3 years for a weekend with a guy off here and never thought it would happen but it did. Yes it was worth the wait and then some.

Other things I'm not very patient with. Like waiting in queues or For food

You waited for 3 years??? Wow that is patience!!! Glad you thought it was worth the wait!! I would find that hard!

** to whom it may concern I’m not waiting that bloody long!!!!!

He got in a relationship with someone on here so I just sat back and waited lol.

They do say good things come to those that wait. It did that weekend lol

Really!!!! Wasn’t you upset or pissed off? "

Hats off to you... for waiting I personally wouldn’t be able to do that... if someone didn’t want me I would just move on and think I deserve better! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is the key lol"

You think patience is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somethings I can be very patient for. I waited over 3 years for a weekend with a guy off here and never thought it would happen but it did. Yes it was worth the wait and then some.

Other things I'm not very patient with. Like waiting in queues or For food

You waited for 3 years??? Wow that is patience!!! Glad you thought it was worth the wait!! I would find that hard!

** to whom it may concern I’m not waiting that bloody long!!!!!

He got in a relationship with someone on here so I just sat back and waited lol.

They do say good things come to those that wait. It did that weekend lol

Really!!!! Wasn’t you upset or pissed off?

Hats off to you... for waiting I personally wouldn’t be able to do that... if someone didn’t want me I would just move on and think I deserve better! X"

Never is a long time to wait....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the key lol

You think patience is? "
Yes I do, u?

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

If you want to go fast learn to go slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the key lol

You think patience is? Yes I do, u?"

What he said ^.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got no patience what so ever. Has to be now. Hubby is very patient. He can work away on something for hours. Me 5 mins and it would be binned

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Somethings I can be very patient for. I waited over 3 years for a weekend with a guy off here and never thought it would happen but it did. Yes it was worth the wait and then some.

Other things I'm not very patient with. Like waiting in queues or For food

You waited for 3 years??? Wow that is patience!!! Glad you thought it was worth the wait!! I would find that hard!

** to whom it may concern I’m not waiting that bloody long!!!!!

He got in a relationship with someone on here so I just sat back and waited lol.

They do say good things come to those that wait. It did that weekend lol

Really!!!! Wasn’t you upset or pissed off?

Hats off to you... for waiting I personally wouldn’t be able to do that... if someone didn’t want me I would just move on and think I deserve better! X"

We both met him at the same time they ended up in a relationship. How could I get pissed off with that. He didn't realise I liked him. I wasn't after a relationship with him just fun.

I wasn't sat the corner for 3 year moping id missed my chance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for....

So was that a yes or no

Yes of course...

Yes better to go off in case it’s better?? "

Well, if you did go off and the experience was better then it’s a win/win situation. If it wasn’t then you’ve still got the good thing to come and you can then confirm it was worth waiting for...

Unless you are a virgin and you are waiting for the right man....in which case, I would wait but you’d probably not be on this site either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any patients, not since I was struck off.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Been waiting nearly 5 weeks for something and now I'm only 3 sleeps away I'm getting impatient.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Been waiting nearly 5 weeks for something and now I'm only 3 sleeps away I'm getting impatient."

Things dont always go to plan when planned

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I believe if somethings worth having its worth waiting for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very impatient sadly - it does me no favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of the time constraints of my job, I have to be patient

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for.... "

Im still waiting for that tree house you promised to build for me in my garden .

You told me just to say when!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I believe if somethings worth having its worth waiting for "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind waiting as long I know I've got to wait and for how long.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Been waiting nearly 5 weeks for something and now I'm only 3 sleeps away I'm getting impatient.

Things dont always go to plan when planned"

Hope for the best but plan for the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for....

Im still waiting for that tree house you promised to build for me in my garden .

You told me just to say when! "

I’ve been to the forest and collected all the wood....just completed the thatched roof and now just sorting out all the furnishings...won’t be long

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Some things are worth waiting for...some people are worth waiting for.

Sometimes the anticipation makes for it to be more exciting too.

And like you say if you enjoyed it before, then you already know what lies ahead.

But at the same time, sometimes going off and doing something else first may make you realise that it would have been better to wait...but then again, it could be better than what you were waiting for....

Im still waiting for that tree house you promised to build for me in my garden .

You told me just to say when!

I’ve been to the forest and collected all the wood....just completed the thatched roof and now just sorting out all the furnishings...won’t be long "

You shouldn’t give promises to anyone if you don’t really mean it .

I take a promise very serious and not as a joke

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