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"I responded to someone that he wasnt for me but thanks for the message His reply? Jeez no need for the sarcasm! Cheeky fecker" Wozn't me | |||
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"Telling some one he was a cunt....the fecker agreed with me " Can't fault him ... At least he knew you were right | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages." Yeah me too! | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages." Same. I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages. Same. I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. " And some send vile and rude messages because they feel they're entitled to sex just for signing up to the site and can't deal with a simple rejection (whether that be a polite reply or no reply). | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages. Yeah me too! " Yes, you always let me down gently Thanks in advance X | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages. Same. I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. " You know that comment’s going to annoy people. I do think that by replying with a “No”, like some do, it maybe makes that rejection a bit more blunt. I could be wrong though. | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages. Yeah me too! Yes, you always let me down gently Thanks in advance X" Apologies, Fondest regards. | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages." Same here | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages. Same. I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. You know that comment’s going to annoy people. I do think that by replying with a “No”, like some do, it maybe makes that rejection a bit more blunt. I could be wrong though. " There's always examples of women being rude in their replies- they are the ones I'm referring to. A blunt "no" will likely get a rude reaction. I do also agree - as Gemini Man said - that some people will be vile and rude anyway. Men, women and couples. It's not just men that are rude. Women often gleefully post about how rude they are in replies but then whine when men are rude to them. | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages. Same. I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. You know that comment’s going to annoy people. I do think that by replying with a “No”, like some do, it maybe makes that rejection a bit more blunt. I could be wrong though. There's always examples of women being rude in their replies- they are the ones I'm referring to. A blunt "no" will likely get a rude reaction. I do also agree - as Gemini Man said - that some people will be vile and rude anyway. Men, women and couples. It's not just men that are rude. Women often gleefully post about how rude they are in replies but then whine when men are rude to them. " Oh, I agree with the “No” thing. Personally, I think it’s better not to reply at all if that’s all you’re going to say. | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages. Same. I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. " Some blokes are nasty regardless. Admittedly it's rare but I do get the occasional less than savoury reply usually, yeah well you're a fat cunt, you're ugly and fat or some other charming responses! I always reply with thank you for pointing out I'm fat ,I may never have noticed had you not done so, happy fabbing!! block. Cockwombles. | |||
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"I don’t get butthurt messages. I always get back polite “thank you for at least replying” messages. Same. I think some people invite rude nessages because they are rude and disrespectful. Some blokes are nasty regardless. Admittedly it's rare but I do get the occasional less than savoury reply usually, yeah well you're a fat cunt, you're ugly and fat or some other charming responses! I always reply with thank you for pointing out I'm fat ,I may never have noticed had you not done so, happy fabbing!! block. Cockwombles. " If you weren't rude to him, take it as a compliment. I see it as the worse the abuse the more they really wanted to fuck you. If he wasn't that bothered he wouldn't have said anything and just moved on. | |||
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"Wow, I didn't realise so many guys on fab cant handle rejection ?! Although I'm guessing it's a small percentage overall because of he amount of guys on here. If a woman or couple do take the trouble to reply with a thanks but no thanks I just send a "that's a huge shame, but thanks for taking the time to reply" type message. A lot of us men are good decent guys ladies so hopefully you won't give up on fab over a few idiots " my mrs seemed to get that “small percentage” all the time cause she’s always get abusive messages when she politely says no thanks. | |||
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"Wow, I didn't realise so many guys on fab cant handle rejection ?! Although I'm guessing it's a small percentage overall because of he amount of guys on here. If a woman or couple do take the trouble to reply with a thanks but no thanks I just send a "that's a huge shame, but thanks for taking the time to reply" type message. A lot of us men are good decent guys ladies so hopefully you won't give up on fab over a few idiots " Well I've been here for a good few years so a run of idiots isn't going to put me off | |||
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"Wow, I didn't realise so many guys on fab cant handle rejection ?! Although I'm guessing it's a small percentage overall because of he amount of guys on here. If a woman or couple do take the trouble to reply with a thanks but no thanks I just send a "that's a huge shame, but thanks for taking the time to reply" type message. A lot of us men are good decent guys ladies so hopefully you won't give up on fab over a few idiots my mrs seemed to get that “small percentage” all the time cause she’s always get abusive messages when she politely says no thanks." What exactly does she say? | |||
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"I've had a few people send me a second message,complaining about how rude I am for deleting their first message,unread. I usually read these messages out loud in a whiny,nasal voice which I imagine is quite accurate. I'm kind of glad that I deleted the original message,then and that I never got into anything with someone who would even think of doing that" That made me chuckle! I shall try it. | |||
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"I've heard it all. One minute i'm the most beautiful woman he's seen. I say 'No thank you' Next I'm told that 'hope you die a slow death in a fiat' I replied the F, in fiat needs to be capital, 'F' - Fiat. I thought after, why say a Fiat? What was the thought, did he own a Fiat! A Fiat what I wondered??? Not a Panda surely! A 500 Abarth at least! " That's rather specific Have the feeling they had been working on that reply for some time and were looking for the slightest opportunity to use it. Insulting but at least a little creative ha ha | |||
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"Being a single bloke I don't get messages, but having seen the rakes of them my female friends get I'm not only unsurprised they can't get back to everyone, but embarrassed and horrified at the nastiness from some guys when the girls do take the trouble to send a polite "no thanks" type reply. To be fair a no reply is better than the one i received the other week after sending what I thought was a carefully constructed message (with face photos), only to get "Are you having a laugh? You're not even in my league!" as a response. A no reply - while frustrating on a regular basis - isn't personal or offensive fellas. The single e women really are bombarded day in and day out. " Why would anyone be so needlessly rude! And aside from that she has no idea what she’s missed out on !! Xx | |||
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"Being a single bloke I don't get messages, but having seen the rakes of them my female friends get I'm not only unsurprised they can't get back to everyone, but embarrassed and horrified at the nastiness from some guys when the girls do take the trouble to send a polite "no thanks" type reply. To be fair a no reply is better than the one i received the other week after sending what I thought was a carefully constructed message (with face photos), only to get "Are you having a laugh? You're not even in my league!" as a response. A no reply - while frustrating on a regular basis - isn't personal or offensive fellas. The single e women really are bombarded day in and day out. Why would anyone be so needlessly rude! And aside from that she has no idea what she’s missed out on !! Xx" Awwwwwwww - thank you gorgeous! xxx | |||
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"I pissed someone off by just deleting their messages because I wasn't interested. I'm a "childish bitch" apparently! And here was me thinking I had a choice about I replied to. " did you not see the small print when you created your fab account its there in black and white single females will reply to all messages and meet any dingle male that requests it | |||
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"I pissed someone off by just deleting their messages because I wasn't interested. I'm a "childish bitch" apparently! And here was me thinking I had a choice about I replied to. did you not see the small print when you created your fab account its there in black and white single females will reply to all messages and meet any dingle male that requests it" Any Dingle male? Hope it’s Cain and not Marlon or Sam | |||
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"Someone took screenshots of my messages where I seemed interested and took it as some kind of contract. Put circles around parts too for emphasis. Can't bloody get rid of her now." Oh sweet jesus | |||
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"Someone took screenshots of my messages where I seemed interested and took it as some kind of contract. Put circles around parts too for emphasis. Can't bloody get rid of her now." Run run now, head for the hills my friend | |||
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"Someone took screenshots of my messages where I seemed interested and took it as some kind of contract. Put circles around parts too for emphasis. Can't bloody get rid of her now." Soz | |||
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"As a single male .. it is frustrating not to get the "dear john" message but I do understand that you can't reply to a very message. If someone takes the time to say no thanks, I always reply with "Thank you for replying, good luck x" There are a lot of oxygen thiefs out there ... just use it as a fuckwit filter " Right on the money! | |||
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"I was once called an ugly bitch. It was the first message too. I'd never seen the guy before in my life." Your photos are really classy and memorable - his loss! Just saying! | |||
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" An hour later got a message saying she'd fuck me for £80, I should tske it as it is the best offer I will get I asked if she would send me the £80 then I'd call round She told me to "fuck off cunt" She's probably right though" I have pulled this one when I have been approached on nights out by working girls.. the look of confusion as you tell them that your rates are higher so you will split the difference and they will only owe you £40. I have had one memorable shitty message on here, a lady said hi and sent pictures of her vajayjay straight after a cream pie. I was very polite in my refusal to meet at which point she sent me a message saying how dare I refuse her, she could have 10 guys up there any day of the week. Funnily enough that only solidified my position further.. | |||
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" An hour later got a message saying she'd fuck me for £80, I should tske it as it is the best offer I will get I asked if she would send me the £80 then I'd call round She told me to "fuck off cunt" She's probably right though I have pulled this one when I have been approached on nights out by working girls.. the look of confusion as you tell them that your rates are higher so you will split the difference and they will only owe you £40. I have had one memorable shitty message on here, a lady said hi and sent pictures of her vajayjay straight after a cream pie. I was very polite in my refusal to meet at which point she sent me a message saying how dare I refuse her, she could have 10 guys up there any day of the week. Funnily enough that only solidified my position further.." I would of replied it looks like you've already had them lol | |||
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"I pissed someone off by just deleting their messages because I wasn't interested. I'm a "childish bitch" apparently! And here was me thinking I had a choice about I replied to. did you not see the small print when you created your fab account its there in black and white single females will reply to all messages and meet any dingle male that requests it Any Dingle male? Hope it’s Cain and not Marlon or Sam " I really need to start proof reading before i hit send Damn my fat finger syndrome its crap for typing on a small keyboard but good for certain other things | |||
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"I got called a timewaster and knobhead because I wouldn't drive for about 6 hours to meet a couple for a 30 minute social. If the social went ok we may meet up at a future date. " Sounds like a job interview, what crap. | |||
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"I had someone who messaged me and then within a minute sent me abuse because I hadn’t replied - I hadn’t even opened it! " Oh I've had that, i read a message but I was at work so didn't have time to reply. I got several more messages asking why I hadn't replied, was I not interested etc etc. Was very very of putting. | |||
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