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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey I feel stupid myself for asking this but it seems that’s where my downfall seems to be so I’m curious, do people request to vid chat with the person there potentially meeting ? Whether It’s a girl guy transsexual couple or group ? Because not always but 9/10 times things go great right up until I request video before meeting not only for me to see there real, but clarify I am..... anyone else experience this or do people just meet off picture alone and believe it’s them... thanks in advance any help is gladly grearful

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hey I feel stupid myself for asking this but it seems that’s where my downfall seems to be so I’m curious, do people request to vid chat with the person there potentially meeting ? Whether It’s a girl guy transsexual couple or group ? Because not always but 9/10 times things go great right up until I request video before meeting not only for me to see there real, but clarify I am..... anyone else experience this or do people just meet off picture alone and believe it’s them... thanks in advance any help is gladly grearful"

Bit ott if you ask me and I think it would put a lot off meeting you.

If they haven't got any veris i would say it's fair to ask to talk to the female of the couple or maybe even get her to leave a voice message.

Not foolproof but at least you know it's not a bloke wanking in front of his laptop with crusty y fronts a cheese in his beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This would put me off meeting someone and I’m very real. I don’t like being asked to send a photo holding a spoon or anything like that either. Just take a leap of faith, meet in public.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Of someone asked me for a video before they agreed to meet me it would put me off. But if that's what you need to feel comfortable enough to meet it's fair enough. It's also fair enough that people will refuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont even chat on the phone beforehand usually so asking for a videocall would put me right off..

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Jesus no.

I usually swap numbers and meet in a pub or cafe.

If they ain't who they said they are, I won't recognise them and I'll go home.

Worked fine so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill verify by photo and phone call

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hey I feel stupid myself for asking this but it seems that’s where my downfall seems to be so I’m curious, do people request to vid chat with the person there potentially meeting ? Whether It’s a girl guy transsexual couple or group ? Because not always but 9/10 times things go great right up until I request video before meeting not only for me to see there real, but clarify I am..... anyone else experience this or do people just meet off picture alone and believe it’s them... thanks in advance any help is gladly grearful"

I'm not being rude but if you are getting several chats leading to meets without a profile photo etc and then they disappear when you ask to video chat it's quite possible it's a bloke winding you up.

Ignore the above if they have lots of good veris(not 3 people giving each other veris)

Or as the lady suggests meet in a safe busy public place rather than a house which might not be the persons you are chatting to

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By *ansfield Naughty CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Forest Town, Mansfield

People ask us to do them also, but it's a no go with us.. We used to but all people seem to want is to see you play on cam etc.. We prefer the real fun and do most of organising on WhatsApp, where we can just take a live pic to send.. It's hard work though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id never ask for vid chat bdfore hand if im looking to meet im not looking for video chats

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have never been asked for a video chat before a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would put me off if a guy requested a video chat purely because I'm not always ready for one. When I meet someone the first time I try to look my best and have some make up on and at least brushed my hair. Too many demands of photos holding things and doing this and that and I'd just say fuck it I can't be arsed now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt do video chat beforehand either.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'd dislike it immensely. I'm in the chat rooms on cam a lot so if someone really thinks I might not be real I can easily be found there. But one to one video chat makes me feel incredibly awkward.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t do video chat

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I don’t do video chat "

Video chat killed the radio star.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I would be put off someone if they asked me to video chat with them!

I just meet someone fairly locally for a social, then it's not a massive issue if they don't show up.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don’t do video chat

Video chat killed the radio star."

It’s video cat killed the budgerigar

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I would refuse. It’s really not my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t do video chat. It usually ends up in a Wankathon.

I don’t do phone chat either. The last man i chatted to on the phone started to sound funny and was a bit breathless, i asked him what he was doing and he said “nothing” then i could hear a faint fapping noise and he was getting quite hard to have a convo with. He was having a wank!!! That’s the last time i renew my car insurance over the phone!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I would refuse. It’s really not my thing. "

Do you send saucy photos instead?

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There


"I would be put off someone if they asked me to video chat with them!

I just meet someone fairly locally for a social, then it's not a massive issue if they don't show up."

this.

Just arrange to meet for a coffee somewhere mutually convenient. Anything more elaborate would just put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t meet very often, but we we do it will be face pics and brief Fab chat, then chat via WhatsApp followed by meeting in a pub. Might do a phone call. Certainly won’t do a video chat and never been asked for that. All the people we’ve met privately have been real and have turned up, and all have been well verified.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I'd do that but who knows because after much talk and planning was supposed to have a play meet this weekend but women just stopped messaging out of the blue.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This would put me off meeting someone and I’m very real. I don’t like being asked to send a photo holding a spoon or anything like that either. Just take a leap of faith, meet in public."
aww I’m not a weirdo nothing daft like that or even sexual, just a quick video chat saying basically hey I’m the person in the pics, obviously this clarifies I’m also real ??? Is this what I’m dping wrong then it seems it is with my feedback from people

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

I hate video chats too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt do it either! don't see any necessaity for it at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x"
thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've talked on the phone with people before hand.

Never asked for a video call though.

I just trust that people are who say they are.

You can't be sure of everything in life and sometimes you have to take that leap of faith.

If they don't turn you've lost nothing really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x"

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We are photo and meet verified,so if anyone asked for more then yes it would put us off

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don’t meet very often, but we we do it will be face pics and brief Fab chat, then chat via WhatsApp followed by meeting in a pub. Might do a phone call. Certainly won’t do a video chat and never been asked for that. All the people we’ve met privately have been real and have turned up, and all have been well verified.

Mrs"
thanks for response yeah I totally understand it was never to basically call people out as fake it was for more both parties safety, such as you have a social at mutual well used area where your safe, it’s basically so they also know I’m real as for anyone I message it’s not forced to be me in the photo’s I send, do you think I’d get more or just better response if I request maybe a social first ? I’d normally do a social but I mean skip asking for vid and just social and hope it’s actual them from the pics ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice?"
because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see your point OP, but you also need to realise that some won't like to chat on cam. It doesn't make them fake. Some may take offense to your request. Some won't want to jump through what they perceive as hoops, to secure a meet either, when there are other men, waiting, who won't have that expectation. If you feel that is how you want to follow forward though, that is completely your right. You conduct yourself the way you feel most comfortable .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same "

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and to answer your original question, before I wen off script, I have cammed with a couple of people, before meeting. Just to chat. Not because I thought they were fake, but because I just wanted to chat to them and enjoy seeing their face . I tineye pictures that look too good to be true and also look at verifications. If there are quite a few then I feel confident that they are genuine. I also do socials first

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I wouldn't ask for any "proof" as such but would understand if someone asked me for some for their own security- that said I tend to take my time chatting to people before meeting so by the time the suggestion of meeting crops up we're usually both fairly confident that the other is (a) real (b) genuine (c) likely to turn up and (d) not an axe murderer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is"

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is"
I get it’s not a dating site but regardless I don’t wanna turn up to find out it’s some guy, because then it’s just trouble for me when I have to kick fuck out of him, or I’d feel bad if it wasn’t the woman from the pics and I had to tell her to leave or basically fuck off, I get it’s just sex mate but I also understand there’s a lot of fake people on here also lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important "

If I ever got that far I would consider it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important "
thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ask for any "proof" as such but would understand if someone asked me for some for their own security- that said I tend to take my time chatting to people before meeting so by the time the suggestion of meeting crops up we're usually both fairly confident that the other is (a) real (b) genuine (c) likely to turn up and (d) not an axe murderer "
what if it’s all a b and c though mate lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??"

I'm nearly positive that's not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true "

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case "

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I wouldn't ask for any "proof" as such but would understand if someone asked me for some for their own security- that said I tend to take my time chatting to people before meeting so by the time the suggestion of meeting crops up we're usually both fairly confident that the other is (a) real (b) genuine (c) likely to turn up and (d) not an axe murderer what if it’s all a b and c though mate lmao "

If I wasn't satisified any of those were not present I wouldn't be meeting - same as I wouldn't if there was no connection or chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ask for any "proof" as such but would understand if someone asked me for some for their own security- that said I tend to take my time chatting to people before meeting so by the time the suggestion of meeting crops up we're usually both fairly confident that the other is (a) real (b) genuine (c) likely to turn up and (d) not an axe murderer what if it’s all a b and c though mate lmao

If I wasn't satisified any of those were not present I wouldn't be meeting - same as I wouldn't if there was no connection or chemistry. "

You can join me on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was asked I’d do it. I don’t have a problem with it, but I’m a bloke. That said I don’t meet so it’s a moot point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the person in my pictures and very real but no way would I do a video chat with a guy to say yes I'm real it's me in the pictures, I'd just feel like a dick head doing it so I wouldn't, doesn't make me fake. When we have a quick casual coffee social the person would instantly know I'm the person in the pictures and I would have shown face pics whilst chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality "

It was a light hearted comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment "

Apologies for my mini tangent then

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over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment

Apologies for my mini tangent then "

Apologise accepted i'll see you on pof lol

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over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment

Apologies for my mini tangent then

Apologise accepted i'll see you on pof lol"

Apology*

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over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment

Apologies for my mini tangent then

Apologise accepted i'll see you on pof lol

Apology* "

Been there, done that. Never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment

Apologies for my mini tangent then

Apologise accepted i'll see you on pof lol

Apology*

Been there, done that. Never again "

It's not bad. Been there a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment

Apologies for my mini tangent then

Apologise accepted i'll see you on pof lol

Apology*

Been there, done that. Never again

It's not bad. Been there a week "

Give it a few weeks, then come back and tell me it's not bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment

Apologies for my mini tangent then

Apologise accepted i'll see you on pof lol

Apology*

Been there, done that. Never again

It's not bad. Been there a week

Give it a few weeks, then come back and tell me it's not bad "

Same place, same time, in 2 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment

Apologies for my mini tangent then

Apologise accepted i'll see you on pof lol

Apology*

Been there, done that. Never again

It's not bad. Been there a week

Give it a few weeks, then come back and tell me it's not bad

Same place, same time, in 2 weeks "

It's a date (maybe I do belong on pof)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment

Apologies for my mini tangent then

Apologise accepted i'll see you on pof lol

Apology*

Been there, done that. Never again

It's not bad. Been there a week

Give it a few weeks, then come back and tell me it's not bad

Same place, same time, in 2 weeks

It's a date (maybe I do belong on pof) "

I got myself a date! And it wasn't via pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment

Apologies for my mini tangent then

Apologise accepted i'll see you on pof lol

Apology*

Been there, done that. Never again

It's not bad. Been there a week

Give it a few weeks, then come back and tell me it's not bad

Same place, same time, in 2 weeks

It's a date (maybe I do belong on pof)

I got myself a date! And it wasn't via pof "

He shoots, he scores

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face pic and a phone chat is fine with me x thanks everyone else seems it’s wrong, I wouldn’t even request a face pic, just even a two mins vid chat * hey I’m genuine it’s my from the images you saw * that type of vid chat..... it’s for there safety also that’s why I felt it wasn’t such a bad thing, I could send a pic of anyone, video clarifies I’m also real not just them.... I probably worded my question wrong that’s why people haven’t understood like you have, thanks x

why wouldn't a brief phone call suffice? because although I can tell if it’s a women or not on the phone, it’s actually really hard to tell if it’s actually the woman you want to meet the person from the pics, I meet people based on chemistry and personality, not just because she has a fanny lol that’s just my preference not everyone has the same

This ain't a dating site

We are all here for sex and if you get a chance take it! Meets are hard to come by as it is

I think it's good that OP has that mindset, in all honesty. I wouldn't meet someone who just saw me as a hole to poke. Some are looking for more than a one off with some randomer and for that, chemistry and personality is important thanks but it seems using the logic any hole is a goal works best for a lot of people on here ??

I'm nearly positive that's not true

Have way more luck on POF than here in that case

Are you serious or just joking? You genuinely believe that most women on here are hoping for a faf message, without someone even getting to know them a little? Just because someone wants chemistry and to know get to know someone a little, doesn't mean they are looking to date someone. I have to like someone I'm shagging, not just fancy them. I don't think I belong on pof, for having that mentality

It was a light hearted comment

Apologies for my mini tangent then

Apologise accepted i'll see you on pof lol

Apology*

Been there, done that. Never again

It's not bad. Been there a week

Give it a few weeks, then come back and tell me it's not bad

Same place, same time, in 2 weeks

It's a date (maybe I do belong on pof)

I got myself a date! And it wasn't via pof

He shoots, he scores "

Only if that was true lol

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over a year ago

I don't mind it. I have video chatted with a guy who was 10 years older and 5 stone heavier than his pics so it saved me wasting time with a meet as I just wasn't interested.

I have cammed with guys I have gone on to have great meet's with too. Just a quick hello does the trick and puts everyone's mind at ease.

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