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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When a woman says "this man is the making of me"

What would that actually be?

Career

Married

Housewife lifestyle

What

As a bloke am interested in female opinions..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a woman says "this man is the making of me"

What would that actually be?

Career

Married

Housewife lifestyle

What

As a bloke am interested in female opinions.."

You misheard. It's the king of may. Hence two bank holidays. True fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any or all of those OP. Perhaps she would mean he makes her feel loved and wanted. Appreciated and cared for.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Any or all of those OP. Perhaps she would mean he makes her feel loved and wanted. Appreciated and cared for.

And able to be her true self, gives her encouragement to be the best her she can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helped her out of somewhere she didnt want to be and showed her another way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe he brainwashed her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helped her reach her true potential in whatever way she wants.

Or-is a total dickhead who made her find the strength to tell him where to go and be determined not to let herself be treated that way again?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Helped her reach her true potential in whatever way she wants.

Or-is a total dickhead who made her find the strength to tell him where to go and be determined not to let herself be treated that way again?"

I was the latter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you ladies for your input

Gives a better idea of the choice of words.

As a man never had a woman say that

I thought things like that got said back in days of women not having independence etc.

Seemed old school thinking or I wrong that way.

Do women say things like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a woman says "this man is the making of me"

What would that actually be?

Career

Married

Housewife lifestyle

What

As a bloke am interested in female opinions.."

I dont believe it

Only person who can be the making of you, is you.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Fitter,

Happier,

More productive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you ladies for your input

Gives a better idea of the choice of words.

As a man never had a woman say that

I thought things like that got said back in days of women not having independence etc.

Seemed old school thinking or I wrong that way.

Do women say things like that?"

Ive not really heard any women say it to be honest,the other way round maybe from a man. But agree with change has to come mostly from yourself.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think when people get into a relationship with someone who complements them they're the making of each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smiled when I saw this post, when I met Ads I was in a real low point of my life, I didn’t like myself very much, my life was heading down a very dangerous and lonely path and he came along and changed my life completely, he was and still is the making of me, without him I wouldn’t have a job that I adore, I wouldn’t know how to love myself as a person or even look at myself and think ‘yeah she’s doing ok’, without him I would still be little miss negative, when I was married before I had no inclination to look after my ex husband but I do with ads, he taught me how to love someone. I can’t say for certain if he hadnt of come along that I wouldn’t have got out the mess I was in but I know it would have taken me a very long time.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man broke me and I think I came back mentally stronger.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"When a woman says "this man is the making of me"

What would that actually be?

Career

Married

Housewife lifestyle

What

As a bloke am interested in female opinions..

I dont believe it

Only person who can be the making of you, is you.

Hmmm... interesting theory.

I was single and swinging along happily for 13 years before I met Cheffy. I can honestly say I was a strong, independant, single mother. I didn't need a man to be the making of me (I had lots of friends with benefits and lots more straightforward fuck buddies) I was busy enjoying my life.

But when I met Cheffy something clicked for me. Suddenly I was truly complete. I had found a man who loves me and I love him. We encourage each other to reach our full potentials. We comfort and support each other. We share the same dreams. So yes, he has made me.

A bit mushy and lovey dovey maybe, but its the truth.

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