FabSwingers.com forum: a proper date

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd like a proper date...

One where I haven't seen their willy before meeting.

Think.ive got more chance winning the lottery....

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It’s standard practice now ostensibly, for a man to send a willy pic to an intended; Sort of like ‘Try before you buy’ so to speak

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By *lirtyfun!!Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

I recently tried to do the 'wait til the 3rd date' thing. We went on two nice, but not amazing dates and I managed to not let slip any mention of toys, threesomes etc. But I also spent a lot of time worrying about sex, why hadn't he tried it on, what if when it came to it the sex was rubbish or even what if he didn't believe in sex before marriage or something similar! Anyway, we had a third date planned and then I got ghosted, so I guess I'll never know. Maybe he thought I was too innocent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inbox full yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one of those last weekend, bloody hell he was boring. I left when he went to the toilet!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

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"I had one of those last weekend, bloody hell he was boring. I left when he went to the toilet!

You really did that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one of those last weekend, bloody hell he was boring. I left when he went to the toilet!

You really did that?"

Yes I did sadly, I did text him to say I’d left and then blocked his number.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'd like a proper date...

One where I haven't seen their willy before meeting.

Think.ive got more chance winning the lottery...."

I’ve been in some dating sites recently. No luck however. That’s before they know how good u look in a dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple of those recently. With a very lovely young lady. Shame I'm an emotional retard with commitment issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one of those last weekend, bloody hell he was boring. I left when he went to the toilet!

Harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a proper date...

One where I haven't seen their willy before meeting.

Think.ive got more chance winning the lottery....

I am like this at the moment. It's been 10 months since my last date (was with a fabber but after 2 3 dates there was no spark).

My last date date was 3 yrs ago with a guy from POF. That lasted 3 months til I ended it with him.

So hard to meet men these days. Dating apps everyone is looking for a you'll do til someone better comes along. And in my personal life most men are settled or sluts. No middle ground"

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I had one of those last weekend, bloody hell he was boring. I left when he went to the toilet!

Funny enough I did see a guy climbing out of a toilet window then legging it

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I would like to have a date with someone were sex is not all its about. Someone who has similiar interest and some get up and go attitude. These types of men are the ones I normally find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one of those last weekend, bloody hell he was boring. I left when he went to the toilet!

Funny enough I did see a guy climbing out of a toilet window then legging it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing is to date someone from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one of those last weekend, bloody hell he was boring. I left when he went to the toilet!

Funny enough I did see a guy climbing out of a toilet window then legging it

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

My second meet with someone was more of a date than a meet. We had nearly 24 hours together, and went out for dinner and had a great time. It was only the second time we’d met and was really pretty special.

Considering I mostly joined out of curiosity, I’d say I was very lucky indeed to cross paths with someone so great. The combination of the sex side of Fab, and really clicking with someone you meet turns out to be all kinds of amazing.

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

The last proper date I went on accused me of being too forward for trying to hold her hand, albeit after a lovely lunch....

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"It’s standard practice now ostensibly, for a man to send a willy pic to an intended; Sort of like ‘Try before you buy’ so to speak

I’ve not got a c... pic and never sent one in my life. Maybe that’s why I’ve never had a meet on Fab lol.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Date meets are exactly what I like. Far more to life than sex.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"It’s standard practice now ostensibly, for a man to send a willy pic to an intended; Sort of like ‘Try before you buy’ so to speak

I’ve not got a c... pic and never sent one in my life. Maybe that’s why I’ve never had a meet on Fab lol. "
Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love the same! In an ideal world eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s standard practice now ostensibly, for a man to send a willy pic to an intended; Sort of like ‘Try before you buy’ so to speak

I’ve not got a c... pic and never sent one in my life. Maybe that’s why I’ve never had a meet on Fab lol. "

I've got no cock pics on my profile.

The way to get people is to talk and interact and find some common ground d so that they feel I teratkng emough to meet you.

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"It’s standard practice now ostensibly, for a man to send a willy pic to an intended; Sort of like ‘Try before you buy’ so to speak

I’ve not got a c... pic and never sent one in my life. Maybe that’s why I’ve never had a meet on Fab lol. "

Nor do I. In fact, if I message someone, I usually start by saying hello, and joking that I figure saying hello is preferable to a cock pic.

One girl did once reply to say she’d have preferred one, but I always had the impression she would be in the minority?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I stay away in hotels every week and would love the odd social meet/night out but it's proving impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s standard practice now ostensibly, for a man to send a willy pic to an intended; Sort of like ‘Try before you buy’ so to speak

I’ve not got a c... pic and never sent one in my life. Maybe that’s why I’ve never had a meet on Fab lol.

I've got no cock pics on my profile.

The way to get people is to talk and interact and find some common ground d so that they feel I teratkng emough to meet you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s standard practice now ostensibly, for a man to send a willy pic to an intended; Sort of like ‘Try before you buy’ so to speak

I’ve not got a c... pic and never sent one in my life. Maybe that’s why I’ve never had a meet on Fab lol.

I've got no cock pics on my profile.

The way to get people is to talk and interact and find some common ground d so that they feel I teratkng emough to meet you.

Just seen my spelling!!

That was meant to say find common ground so that they feel you're interesting enough to meet you.

Smart phones my arse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple of really lovely dates with a guy from here recently, much better than any from dating sites. I think meeting here allows a certain level of openness and honesty from the start, which appeals to me.

Good luck OP, I hope you have some wonderful dates x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a couple of really lovely dates with a guy from here recently, much better than any from dating sites. I think meeting here allows a certain level of openness and honesty from the start, which appeals to me.

Good luck OP, I hope you have some wonderful dates x"

Welcome back x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I would like to have a date with someone were sex is not all its about. Someone who has similiar interest and some get up and go attitude. These types of men are the ones I normally find attractive.

I would like a date with a woman that thinks I'm not after sex

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

"I would like to have a date with someone were sex is not all its about. Someone who has similiar interest and some get up and go attitude. These types of men are the ones I normally find attractive.

I'm trying to find someone like you! Pity you're at the opposite end of the country!

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

I had one three weeks ago from here. We got on like a house on fire, he was single and I met him again, all very good. Then he disappeared for two weeks, met him again and he’s disappeared for another week to date. His off/off GF was apparantly a bit on/off and now I’m kinda guessing, that his GF is a bit ON and he didn’t have the balls to say, weirdo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a lady from here that I pop round for coffee with, and just hang out with. We go to the pub and when she was wasn't well I just grabbed a pizza and went round to keep her company for the evening.

Treating people like People goes a long way.

She's one of my favourite humans on the planet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s standard practice now ostensibly, for a man to send a willy pic to an intended; Sort of like ‘Try before you buy’ so to speak

I’ve not got a c... pic and never sent one in my life. Maybe that’s why I’ve never had a meet on Fab lol.

I've got no cock pics on my profile.

The way to get people is to talk and interact and find some common ground d so that they feel I teratkng emough to meet you.

Just seen my spelling!!

That was meant to say find common ground so that they feel you're interesting enough to meet you.

Smart phones my arse...

I knew what you were saying plus you are usually on point with your spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP, I hope you have some wonderful dates x

Welcome back x"

Thank you beautiful x

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

"I've met a lady from here that I pop round for coffee with, and just hang out with. We go to the pub and when she was wasn't well I just grabbed a pizza and went round to keep her company for the evening.

Treating people like People goes a long way.

She's one of my favourite humans on the planet. "

This had kinda renewed my faith in this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stay away in hotels every week and would love the odd social meet/night out but it's proving impossible."

Speed dating

Is loads on for dif age groups

Went one Exeter. Cost £20 though, only get four mins per woman, its not great but twice walked away having already exchanged numbers with few females, yet purpose of the setup, is the ones you like, the company sends you their details ha

Place was rammed full.

The company must be making a killing on folk wanting companionship..however two women I met in Exeter, only went thd speed dating for sex..go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treating people like People goes a long way.

She's one of my favourite humans on the planet.

This had kinda renewed my faith in this place

There is someone for everyone.

They may not always tick all your preconceived "Boxes" but when you get a connection, it's a beautiful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than happy to date a woman off here. To wine and dine her and talk about philosophy and maybe even end the first date with only an inviting kiss. But she'd need to make it clear she wanted a vanilla date as, by default, I assume women go on Fab socials looking for a night of fun and flirting and, as such, tend to take the lead more into naughty waters than I would on a conventional date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on a couple of dates off Fab.

I’m not ready for relationship but I don’t just want to meet someone for sex.

I find going for a drink/meal/night out really enhances the experience and makes the sex better as you’ve developed a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The FWB and I do go on days away, weekends away. Over the years we've found that we have much more in common than sex. A great time had by both, then back to 'real time' till the next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on a couple of dates off Fab.

I’m not ready for relationship but I don’t just want to meet someone for sex.

I find going for a drink/meal/night out really enhances the experience and makes the sex better as you’ve developed a connection. "

Couldn’t agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love the chase, the flirting, when shes playing hard to get one minute and flirty the next. And then bingo you kiss and touch. Thats the feeling in your stomach, butterflies, so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treating people like People goes a long way.

She's one of my favourite humans on the planet. "

I would love to have a man like u in my life

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By *wesomepearWoman
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

"I absolutely love the chase, the flirting, when shes playing hard to get one minute and flirty the next. And then bingo you kiss and touch. Thats the feeling in your stomach, butterflies, so good

I want this !!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I had one of those last weekend, bloody hell he was boring. I left when he went to the toilet!

I've had dates who were boring. It never crossed my mind to slip out and leave them!

The men on here will be too scared to rock the boat, but I'll call a spade a spade: that was a shitty thing to do!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I would just love a decent message that could lead somewhere, seems like I am looking for far to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love the chase, the flirting, when shes playing hard to get one minute and flirty the next. And then bingo you kiss and touch. Thats the feeling in your stomach, butterflies, so good

I want this !!

The thing is everything is done online these days and for me it kind of spoils the fun. Its just not the same as it used to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what a "proper date" is and wonder about the implicit expectations of that description.

So spending time with someone I care for laughing talking walking on beaches through fields playing with dogs sharing thoughts dreams secrets even just sitting quietly somewhere in perfect peace and watching the world go by. Knowing that you can both talk about anything and neither will break the others trust that your secrets are safe with another that no matter if it's raining or the sun is shining all the silliness of the world doesn't matter at least for the time you spend together they are the place you want to be and to return to time after time.

Not a meet probably not even a date just a connection that makes two people's worlds a happier place.

Some may say I'm a dreamer...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Inbox full yet?

Nothing.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Best thing is to date someone from here.

Unicorns are easier to find

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I absolutely love the chase, the flirting, when shes playing hard to get one minute and flirty the next. And then bingo you kiss and touch. Thats the feeling in your stomach, butterflies, so good

I want this !!

The thing is everything is done online these days and for me it kind of spoils the fun. Its just not the same as it used to be "

I'm glad there are some decent guys who thinks similar thoughts on this thread. And as ever, far far away from me in Newcastle.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I would like to have a date with someone were sex is not all its about. Someone who has similiar interest and some get up and go attitude. These types of men are the ones I normally find attractive.

I'm trying to find someone like you! Pity you're at the opposite end of the country!

Its the fabulous curse and you're into cycling..I could cry at this point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been on a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a proper date...

One where I haven't seen their willy before meeting.

Think.ive got more chance winning the lottery...."

I definitely miss getting dressed up and being taken out for the evening

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

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"I would like to have a date with someone were sex is not all its about. Someone who has similiar interest and some get up and go attitude. These types of men are the ones I normally find attractive.

I'm trying to find someone like you! Pity you're at the opposite end of the country!

Its the fabulous curse and you're into cycling..I could cry at this point

Only one thing harder to find than a unicorn on here... a unicorn in lycra!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best thing is to date someone from here.

Unicorns are easier to find

I should change my name to Unicorn Charmer then!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I would like to have a date with someone were sex is not all its about. Someone who has similiar interest and some get up and go attitude. These types of men are the ones I normally find attractive.

I'm trying to find someone like you! Pity you're at the opposite end of the country!

Its the fabulous curse and you're into cycling..I could cry at this point

Only one thing harder to find than a unicorn on here... a unicorn in lycra!

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Cry me a river

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to be wooed in a old fashioned romantic sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to have a date with someone were sex is not all its about. Someone who has similiar interest and some get up and go attitude. These types of men are the ones I normally find attractive.

I'm trying to find someone like you! Pity you're at the opposite end of the country!

Its the fabulous curse and you're into cycling..I could cry at this point

Only one thing harder to find than a unicorn on here... a unicorn in lycra!

Cry me a river

You both have wheels, get peddling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love a proper date, all my "meet requests" have been for socials, alas no responses.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Not sure what a "proper date" is and wonder about the implicit expectations of that description.

Not a meet probably not even a date just a connection that makes two people's worlds a happier place.

Some may say I'm a dreamer..."

I couldn't have said it better myself

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I would like to have a date with someone were sex is not all its about. Someone who has similiar interest and some get up and go attitude. These types of men are the ones I normally find attractive.

I'm trying to find someone like you! Pity you're at the opposite end of the country!

Its the fabulous curse and you're into cycling..I could cry at this point

Only one thing harder to find than a unicorn on here... a unicorn in lycra!

Cry me a river

You both have wheels, get peddling

Oh look Cilla has arrived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a proper date...

One where I haven't seen their willy before meeting.

Think.ive got more chance winning the lottery...."

Anything come of this..

Like you not get a date out of the post

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"I'd like a proper date...

One where I haven't seen their willy before meeting.

Think.ive got more chance winning the lottery...."

Well, he's seen your goods, what's the problem?

Not shaming post, just....I take it you're not looking for that here.

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