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"I can take some shit right but today people went in, but what can I do about it, fuck all cos you're all miles away. I said people who flash members of the public are usually not in incredible shape and have saggy bums and droopy boobs or wrinkly willys. Did I honestly deserve for comments directly about my physical appearance when I never singled anyone out, I had how all enhanced boobs look terrible, how I only had a boob job to make up for my lack of personality, how I should go back to my doctors to check the alignment of my nipples, how it's no wonder that I can't keep a man, how me mentioning I had metal plate in my jaw was somehow funny and to make a joke out of it, having comment after shitty from multiple people. Yeah yeah words on a screen is all it is but it felt like I was being bullied a bit. Fanny sand crew don't any of you ever speak to me again in a friendly capacity, don't converse with me, try and have a joke with me, nothing. This is crips and bloods shit, in fact I'm gonna start a crew so I know who I can converse with and go to for advise without being told that my fucking boobs are upside down or my personalities up the shop. My crew will be The moose knuckles and I'm gonna call upon people to pledge their allegiance, even if I just have a couple of members those members would be appreciated the fuck out of. I am not happy and maybe it is having back what I put out but I don't think I've ever singled people out with the same level of nastiness I received today. I may have and if I have I've tasted my own medicine and it ain't nice, in which case today was a useful lesson for me. " Take it easy, you'll never meet or know the overwhelmingly vast majority of people on here so what they think is fairly immaterial. I've seen posts of yours and they're generally fairly good humoured and I dropped in earlier on the thread you're referencing. I don't think your comments deserved any particular vitriol Have a glass of wine, put your feet up and remember that this place is not the be all and end all | |||
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"Why get so bothered about words on a screen on a forum on a flipping swingers site? " | |||
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"Why get so bothered about words on a screen on a forum on a flipping swingers site? " Because people typed those words. I do find it odd when people say things like, “It’s just a forum/twitter/whatever, it’s not real life.” It betrays the fact that they’re not thinking about the other participants as real people. | |||
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"crips and bloods shit whats that then?" Two biggest rival gangs in America | |||
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"crips and bloods shit whats that then?" Gangs. South Central LA, iirc. | |||
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"I can take some shit right but today people went in, but what can I do about it, fuck all cos you're all miles away. I said people who flash members of the public are usually not in incredible shape and have saggy bums and droopy boobs or wrinkly willys. Did I honestly deserve for comments directly about my physical appearance when I never singled anyone out, I had how all enhanced boobs look terrible, how I only had a boob job to make up for my lack of personality, how I should go back to my doctors to check the alignment of my nipples, how it's no wonder that I can't keep a man, how me mentioning I had metal plate in my jaw was somehow funny and to make a joke out of it, having comment after shitty from multiple people. Yeah yeah words on a screen is all it is but it felt like I was being bullied a bit. Fanny sand crew don't any of you ever speak to me again in a friendly capacity, don't converse with me, try and have a joke with me, nothing. This is crips and bloods shit, in fact I'm gonna start a crew so I know who I can converse with and go to for advise without being told that my fucking boobs are upside down or my personalities up the shop. My crew will be The moose knuckles and I'm gonna call upon people to pledge their allegiance, even if I just have a couple of members those members would be appreciated the fuck out of. I am not happy and maybe it is having back what I put out but I don't think I've ever singled people out with the same level of nastiness I received today. I may have and if I have I've tasted my own medicine and it ain't nice, in which case today was a useful lesson for me. " sorry to here you not happy well do not take it to heart just forget them and get on with life. here a big bear ((hug)) | |||
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"crips and bloods shit whats that then?" Sounds awful | |||
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"I can take some shit right but today people went in, but what can I do about it, fuck all cos you're all miles away. I said people who flash members of the public are usually not in incredible shape and have saggy bums and droopy boobs or wrinkly willys. Did I honestly deserve for comments directly about my physical appearance when I never singled anyone out, I had how all enhanced boobs look terrible, how I only had a boob job to make up for my lack of personality, how I should go back to my doctors to check the alignment of my nipples, how it's no wonder that I can't keep a man, how me mentioning I had metal plate in my jaw was somehow funny and to make a joke out of it, having comment after shitty from multiple people. Yeah yeah words on a screen is all it is but it felt like I was being bullied a bit. Fanny sand crew don't any of you ever speak to me again in a friendly capacity, don't converse with me, try and have a joke with me, nothing. This is crips and bloods shit, in fact I'm gonna start a crew so I know who I can converse with and go to for advise without being told that my fucking boobs are upside down or my personalities up the shop. My crew will be The moose knuckles and I'm gonna call upon people to pledge their allegiance, even if I just have a couple of members those members would be appreciated the fuck out of. I am not happy and maybe it is having back what I put out but I don't think I've ever singled people out with the same level of nastiness I received today. I may have and if I have I've tasted my own medicine and it ain't nice, in which case today was a useful lesson for me. " I'd like to join your Moose knuckles crew. There are plenty of people on the forum who don't like me anyway so zero fucks given here. Haters always gonna hate. | |||
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"Why get so bothered about words on a screen on a forum on a flipping swingers site? " Because it doesn't matter where the words were typed, be them on the money saving expert forum or mumsnet or said to me in the street (although they'd get an entirely different response can then) hurtful things were said, the no wonder you can't keep a man, that's just fucking nasty knowing that I've been open and honest about those kind of struggles, the saying things about wonky nipples, it's gonna give me a fucking complex like, they were personal comments not just words on a screen. | |||
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"Why get so bothered about words on a screen on a forum on a flipping swingers site? Because people typed those words. I do find it odd when people say things like, “It’s just a forum/twitter/whatever, it’s not real life.” It betrays the fact that they’re not thinking about the other participants as real people." I actually agree with you, but acknowledging that someone wouldn't (probably wouldn't) say certain things face to face in person could help the OP. | |||
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"crips and bloods shit whats that then? Two biggest rival gangs in America " Oh right ta. | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G" What did she say to who that was worse? | |||
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"crips and bloods shit whats that then?" Slightly less singy and more gunsy than the sharks and the jets! | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G" Where exactly? | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G What did she say to who that was worse?" She had a go at some poor bloke and pretty much called him a virgin among other things, for no reason at all. She had a right go at a lot of people. She even had a go at me because i said I wasn’t a fan of fake boobs and have never seen a pair that looked as good as real ones...... on a thread she made purposely to talk about how people don’t like fake boobs. She said I was attacking her for that. Because I don’t like fake boobs... she then went on at a load of other men and women. I dunno if the thread is still here or not, but it wasn’t pretty, and she brought it all on herself... So yeah... bullying is awful. Name calling is awful. But she’s actually worse for it than some people here may be thinking, ans she certainly isn’t innocent. But I’m sure she will have another version of events in a bit anyway. She did about five times in that other thread as it was going on. Lol. G | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G" What and where did I say things that were far worse? The thread is still there, people can read everything I said. | |||
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"I've agreed with some of your comments recently, you can be really thoughtful but then there's the moment. No one should feel like they're being bullied though, you know the best thing to do is report, block and move on. Read what Hine said, sensible advice. I don't want to be in your gang, sounds a bit scary and I'm a lover not a fighter " Oh my god, you are as wise as you are beautiful | |||
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"crips and bloods shit whats that then? Slightly less singy and more gunsy than the sharks and the jets! " With ya | |||
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"Ya’ll being played here." I’m capable of making my own mind up, thanks. | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G Where exactly? " The thread is called “What's worse, turned down for physical attributes or personality?” and is currently on page 2. It’s a hell of a ride. I actually feel a bit bad for her, because she’s got a great figure and has no self esteem at all. G | |||
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"Wow. I've probably missed a lot of this today thankfully apart from a pop you had at Seeside on one thread to which I responded. But this sounds so angry. And is probably going to generate more comment and argument that can't make you or others feel good. Stop please take a breath remember every one has the right to their opinions and SHOUTY threads never change anything. I wish you peace but you need to find it yourself. How is up to you. Every word you use that hurts another or that they use that hurts you just escalates any bad feeling there may be and it's too easy to just dig in and fight back... Sometimes it's easier to just walk away feel the peace and let words that may hurt but don't really matter simply fade into the ether. I hope you find your peace. " Well written | |||
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"I've agreed with some of your comments recently, you can be really thoughtful but then there's the moment. No one should feel like they're being bullied though, you know the best thing to do is report, block and move on. Read what Hine said, sensible advice. I don't want to be in your gang, sounds a bit scary and I'm a lover not a fighter Oh my god, you are as wise as you are beautiful " Oh stop it, you are making me | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G Where exactly? The thread is called “What's worse, turned down for physical attributes or personality?” and is currently on page 2. It’s a hell of a ride. I actually feel a bit bad for her, because she’s got a great figure and has no self esteem at all. G" My self esteem was just fine thanks. Comments like yours and the guy who said about the nipples don't help but yeah I still think I look good so self esteem is still intact. The poor bloke who I called a virgin is known by everyone on here and happily refers to himself as a virgin almost every time he comments so it wasn't a dig it was a fact, a fact that he would happily confirm himself. Still don't see how I said anything as bad as what was said to me personally. I have noticed it's been cleaned up a bit but none of my comments have been removed and I'm still here posting so if I had said anything nasty to anyone I would currently be serving a time out. | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G Where exactly? The thread is called “What's worse, turned down for physical attributes or personality?” and is currently on page 2. It’s a hell of a ride. I actually feel a bit bad for her, because she’s got a great figure and has no self esteem at all. G" And you can shove your pity up your arse. Don't need you feeling sorry for me when you were one of the contributors. | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G What did she say to who that was worse? She had a go at some poor bloke and pretty much called him a virgin among other things, for no reason at all. She had a right go at a lot of people. She even had a go at me because i said I wasn’t a fan of fake boobs and have never seen a pair that looked as good as real ones...... on a thread she made purposely to talk about how people don’t like fake boobs. She said I was attacking her for that. Because I don’t like fake boobs... she then went on at a load of other men and women. I dunno if the thread is still here or not, but it wasn’t pretty, and she brought it all on herself... So yeah... bullying is awful. Name calling is awful. But she’s actually worse for it than some people here may be thinking, ans she certainly isn’t innocent. But I’m sure she will have another version of events in a bit anyway. She did about five times in that other thread as it was going on. Lol. G" You certainly did in a indirect way insult her! Don't act innocent. What you said and insinuated towards her was nasty and uncalled for. Coming here and acting like mr innocent butter wouldn't melt! Unbelievable. What she said about the guy being a virgin is exactly what he calls himself on every other thread he made or comments on. Everything else all OP did was stick up for herself. Maybe in a equally rude or blunt way but defending herself is all she did. Wow I'm sick of some people's behaviour on this site! Truly stunned. | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G Where exactly? The thread is called “What's worse, turned down for physical attributes or personality?” and is currently on page 2. It’s a hell of a ride. I actually feel a bit bad for her, because she’s got a great figure and has no self esteem at all. G My self esteem was just fine thanks. Comments like yours and the guy who said about the nipples don't help but yeah I still think I look good so self esteem is still intact. The poor bloke who I called a virgin is known by everyone on here and happily refers to himself as a virgin almost every time he comments so it wasn't a dig it was a fact, a fact that he would happily confirm himself. Still don't see how I said anything as bad as what was said to me personally. I have noticed it's been cleaned up a bit but none of my comments have been removed and I'm still here posting so if I had said anything nasty to anyone I would currently be serving a time out. " But you've mentioned yourself about your nipples before now. | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G Where exactly? The thread is called “What's worse, turned down for physical attributes or personality?” and is currently on page 2. It’s a hell of a ride. I actually feel a bit bad for her, because she’s got a great figure and has no self esteem at all. G My self esteem was just fine thanks. Comments like yours and the guy who said about the nipples don't help but yeah I still think I look good so self esteem is still intact. The poor bloke who I called a virgin is known by everyone on here and happily refers to himself as a virgin almost every time he comments so it wasn't a dig it was a fact, a fact that he would happily confirm himself. Still don't see how I said anything as bad as what was said to me personally. I have noticed it's been cleaned up a bit but none of my comments have been removed and I'm still here posting so if I had said anything nasty to anyone I would currently be serving a time out. But you've mentioned yourself about your nipples before now." Where did I mention my nipples in that thread? So if I've ever made reference to my nipples that means it's ok for some guy to say that I should go back to my doctor to sort my nipple alignment out? Ok then. | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G Where exactly? The thread is called “What's worse, turned down for physical attributes or personality?” and is currently on page 2. It’s a hell of a ride. I actually feel a bit bad for her, because she’s got a great figure and has no self esteem at all. G My self esteem was just fine thanks. Comments like yours and the guy who said about the nipples don't help but yeah I still think I look good so self esteem is still intact. The poor bloke who I called a virgin is known by everyone on here and happily refers to himself as a virgin almost every time he comments so it wasn't a dig it was a fact, a fact that he would happily confirm himself. Still don't see how I said anything as bad as what was said to me personally. I have noticed it's been cleaned up a bit but none of my comments have been removed and I'm still here posting so if I had said anything nasty to anyone I would currently be serving a time out. But you've mentioned yourself about your nipples before now. Where did I mention my nipples in that thread? So if I've ever made reference to my nipples that means it's ok for some guy to say that I should go back to my doctor to sort my nipple alignment out? Ok then. " They didn’t say that thread. But regardless THAT was an insult aimed at you, and not by me I may add. What I said was not an insult, it was an opinion, no matter how much you may believe it was. You’re free to do with your body as much as you want. Likewise, we are free to find sexually attractive what we want. There’s no harm in that. It doesn’t make you ugly, wrong, or stupid, or any better/worse than anybody else. That’s just life, everybody is different. G | |||
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"But you've mentioned yourself about your nipples before now." I talk about my speech impediment, my weight, my red face... I still would like anyone else to take a pop at me about any of them, though. | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G Where exactly? The thread is called “What's worse, turned down for physical attributes or personality?” and is currently on page 2. It’s a hell of a ride. I actually feel a bit bad for her, because she’s got a great figure and has no self esteem at all. G My self esteem was just fine thanks. Comments like yours and the guy who said about the nipples don't help but yeah I still think I look good so self esteem is still intact. The poor bloke who I called a virgin is known by everyone on here and happily refers to himself as a virgin almost every time he comments so it wasn't a dig it was a fact, a fact that he would happily confirm himself. Still don't see how I said anything as bad as what was said to me personally. I have noticed it's been cleaned up a bit but none of my comments have been removed and I'm still here posting so if I had said anything nasty to anyone I would currently be serving a time out. But you've mentioned yourself about your nipples before now. Where did I mention my nipples in that thread? So if I've ever made reference to my nipples that means it's ok for some guy to say that I should go back to my doctor to sort my nipple alignment out? Ok then. " Never said that did I. | |||
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"You pretty much started having a go at people, in yet another thread doing the same thing again, and it wasn’t the only thread. Anybody that thinks me saying what I said in that thread, which was essentially “I’ve never seen any fake boobs I’ve liked” and thinking that’s a personal attack, is pretty much reaching. I don’t like fake boobs, never have. To then be told I’m wrong, even more so because fake boobs aren’t even fake... And yes. It’s funny how she hasn’t had a time out... funny that... But whatever. Feel free to all believe and think what you need. I wish I could say the evidence is there but sadly it’s not. G" "I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them but they don't look as good as natural boobs. Yes that's your opinion but if you can't see how that is insulting to someone that has enhanced boobs then it's pointless continuing get this discussion. The only comments that have been removed are ones said to me, I am no stranger to timeouts I've had my fair share and had I said anything nasty or personally attacked anyone I can assure you that I wouldn't be posting now. The virgin thing is still there, none of my comments have been removed, if your comment is deleted then a timeout would go with it. | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G Where exactly? The thread is called “What's worse, turned down for physical attributes or personality?” and is currently on page 2. It’s a hell of a ride. I actually feel a bit bad for her, because she’s got a great figure and has no self esteem at all. G My self esteem was just fine thanks. Comments like yours and the guy who said about the nipples don't help but yeah I still think I look good so self esteem is still intact. The poor bloke who I called a virgin is known by everyone on here and happily refers to himself as a virgin almost every time he comments so it wasn't a dig it was a fact, a fact that he would happily confirm himself. Still don't see how I said anything as bad as what was said to me personally. I have noticed it's been cleaned up a bit but none of my comments have been removed and I'm still here posting so if I had said anything nasty to anyone I would currently be serving a time out. But you've mentioned yourself about your nipples before now. Where did I mention my nipples in that thread? So if I've ever made reference to my nipples that means it's ok for some guy to say that I should go back to my doctor to sort my nipple alignment out? Ok then. Never said that did I." No but you said but you've mentioned yourself about your nipples before now, so what does that mean then, you said it so explain what you meant by that cos I've taken that as you saying well you've said about nipples before so therefore it's fair game for other people to rip the piss. I'm on the defensive today cos I'm getting it from all angles so don't be cryptic. Say what you mean. | |||
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"It clearly wasn’t directed at you to say your tits look bad. Good god. But don’t forget you started a thread asking why somebody didn’t want to know you because of fake tits. I really, really think you need thicker skin. This isn’t the first meltdown you’ve had today alone. Just let it go. And I never said my posts were deleted. But I’ve seen others that have been. G" Just go away. | |||
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"It clearly wasn’t directed at you to say your tits look bad." And yet several of us read it that way. Primarily because you made a comment about ALL boob jobs. That can’t not include the OP. | |||
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"You're stunning! The trolls are just angry as they could never have a woman like you, they just take some sick pleasure in being noticed by a hot girl even if it is in a negative way!" Appreciate it but even comments like this is going to invite people to say more shit about me. | |||
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"You all do know that everything she has just said, she not only brought on herself, but that she said things far worse to other people? Ya’ll being played here. G Where exactly? The thread is called “What's worse, turned down for physical attributes or personality?” and is currently on page 2. It’s a hell of a ride. I actually feel a bit bad for her, because she’s got a great figure and has no self esteem at all. G My self esteem was just fine thanks. Comments like yours and the guy who said about the nipples don't help but yeah I still think I look good so self esteem is still intact. The poor bloke who I called a virgin is known by everyone on here and happily refers to himself as a virgin almost every time he comments so it wasn't a dig it was a fact, a fact that he would happily confirm himself. Still don't see how I said anything as bad as what was said to me personally. I have noticed it's been cleaned up a bit but none of my comments have been removed and I'm still here posting so if I had said anything nasty to anyone I would currently be serving a time out. But you've mentioned yourself about your nipples before now. Where did I mention my nipples in that thread? So if I've ever made reference to my nipples that means it's ok for some guy to say that I should go back to my doctor to sort my nipple alignment out? Ok then. Never said that did I. No but you said but you've mentioned yourself about your nipples before now, so what does that mean then, you said it so explain what you meant by that cos I've taken that as you saying well you've said about nipples before so therefore it's fair game for other people to rip the piss. I'm on the defensive today cos I'm getting it from all angles so don't be cryptic. Say what you mean. " There was no actual great meaning behind my comment to be perfectly honest with you. Read what you will into why I said it,it was one of my throw away comments that belong in the bin which has agrivated you,if I had stopped and thought how it would cause upset I would have not said the comment. | |||
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"You're stunning! The trolls are just angry as they could never have a woman like you, they just take some sick pleasure in being noticed by a hot girl even if it is in a negative way! Appreciate it but even comments like this is going to invite people to say more shit about me. " Well aren't you negative! Just rise above it! | |||
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"I was told" There is literally no end to the things you’ve been told. Who is it? The Oracle from The Matrix? | |||
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"It clearly wasn’t directed at you to say your tits look bad. Good god. But don’t forget you started a thread asking why somebody didn’t want to know you because of fake tits. I really, really think you need thicker skin. This isn’t the first meltdown you’ve had today alone. Just let it go. And I never said my posts were deleted. But I’ve seen others that have been. G" Yes that thread was started on the back of a thread where she said why are flashers always fat and ugly? If you can't take it, then don't give it, and OP you have on that thread and previous ones been horribly rude and cruel to people and now because someone said your fake boobs were squint you are playing the poor victim, your comments to see side were particularly offensive to a lot of people, but your white knights are behind you once more so carry on with your tangent | |||
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"I generally don't understand why they outright attack you. I'll be in your group as I get so much hate too. I was told thay the forums were like this and I chose to turn a blind eye. But you can only look the other way for so long. I have found that alot of jealousy snottyness, and just people being arseholes are on here. Not saying all, but alot. I was told that the swingers community was a friendly welcoming place. Just seems like a school ground to me. The less good looking people jealous of looks and make the pretty ones feel ashamed of how they stand out. Everytime someone gets snotty or is an arse with me I'm reporting them. You should do that too " What,you started the other thread to cause more trouble. | |||
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"It clearly wasn’t directed at you to say your tits look bad. Good god. But don’t forget you started a thread asking why somebody didn’t want to know you because of fake tits. I really, really think you need thicker skin. This isn’t the first meltdown you’ve had today alone. Just let it go. And I never said my posts were deleted. But I’ve seen others that have been. G Yes that thread was started on the back of a thread where she said why are flashers always fat and ugly? If you can't take it, then don't give it, and OP you have on that thread and previous ones been horribly rude and cruel to people and now because someone said your fake boobs were squint you are playing the poor victim, your comments to see side were particularly offensive to a lot of people, but your white knights are behind you once more so carry on with your tangent" Did I say fat and ugly or did I say usually not in incredible shape? Never used the word ugly and how can calling seeside a virgin be offensive when he is a virgin and actively calls himself a virgin at least 10 times a day and you've added your own derogatory comments towards me, thanks. | |||
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"It clearly wasn’t directed at you to say your tits look bad. Good god. But don’t forget you started a thread asking why somebody didn’t want to know you because of fake tits. I really, really think you need thicker skin. This isn’t the first meltdown you’ve had today alone. Just let it go. And I never said my posts were deleted. But I’ve seen others that have been. G Yes that thread was started on the back of a thread where she said why are flashers always fat and ugly? If you can't take it, then don't give it, and OP you have on that thread and previous ones been horribly rude and cruel to people and now because someone said your fake boobs were squint you are playing the poor victim, your comments to see side were particularly offensive to a lot of people, but your white knights are behind you once more so carry on with your tangent" Get your Mr Sheen out and polish my chainmail, there's a good sport. | |||
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"I generally don't understand why they outright attack you. I'll be in your group as I get so much hate too. I was told thay the forums were like this and I chose to turn a blind eye. But you can only look the other way for so long. I have found that alot of jealousy snottyness, and just people being arseholes are on here. Not saying all, but alot. I was told that the swingers community was a friendly welcoming place. Just seems like a school ground to me. The less good looking people jealous of looks and make the pretty ones feel ashamed of how they stand out. Everytime someone gets snotty or is an arse with me I'm reporting them. You should do that too What,you started the other thread to cause more trouble." No I didn't I started it to carry on the thread. I get alot of shit too for no reason and if people said stuff like that to my face they'd get a good kicking. Some people on here just strive to cause hurt and shame to people. Some of the comments on my threads are just really childish. You're all middle aged. Why not just act like it. You all go on about how my generation are clueless, have no respect and are superficial. What do you call all of this? | |||
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"It clearly wasn’t directed at you to say your tits look bad. Good god. But don’t forget you started a thread asking why somebody didn’t want to know you because of fake tits. I really, really think you need thicker skin. This isn’t the first meltdown you’ve had today alone. Just let it go. And I never said my posts were deleted. But I’ve seen others that have been. G Yes that thread was started on the back of a thread where she said why are flashers always fat and ugly? If you can't take it, then don't give it, and OP you have on that thread and previous ones been horribly rude and cruel to people and now because someone said your fake boobs were squint you are playing the poor victim, your comments to see side were particularly offensive to a lot of people, but your white knights are behind you once more so carry on with your tangent Did I say fat and ugly or did I say usually not in incredible shape? Never used the word ugly and how can calling seeside a virgin be offensive when he is a virgin and actively calls himself a virgin at least 10 times a day and you've added your own derogatory comments towards me, thanks. " You did not refer to him as a virgin you said no wonder you're a virgin, huge difference, Try all you like to butter it up, you are horribly rude and cruel to people frequently on here, nite nite all, sweet dreams xxx | |||
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"It clearly wasn’t directed at you to say your tits look bad. Good god. But don’t forget you started a thread asking why somebody didn’t want to know you because of fake tits. I really, really think you need thicker skin. This isn’t the first meltdown you’ve had today alone. Just let it go. And I never said my posts were deleted. But I’ve seen others that have been. G Yes that thread was started on the back of a thread where she said why are flashers always fat and ugly? If you can't take it, then don't give it, and OP you have on that thread and previous ones been horribly rude and cruel to people and now because someone said your fake boobs were squint you are playing the poor victim, your comments to see side were particularly offensive to a lot of people, but your white knights are behind you once more so carry on with your tangent Did I say fat and ugly or did I say usually not in incredible shape? Never used the word ugly and how can calling seeside a virgin be offensive when he is a virgin and actively calls himself a virgin at least 10 times a day and you've added your own derogatory comments towards me, thanks. You did not refer to him as a virgin you said no wonder you're a virgin, huge difference, Try all you like to butter it up, you are horribly rude and cruel to people frequently on here, nite nite all, sweet dreams xxx " In all honesty the only reason I lost my virginity was due to me not broadcasting it everywhere. I don't know his motives for being proud to be a virgin at that afe on a swingers site if all places, but op has a point. | |||
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"It clearly wasn’t directed at you to say your tits look bad. Good god. But don’t forget you started a thread asking why somebody didn’t want to know you because of fake tits. I really, really think you need thicker skin. This isn’t the first meltdown you’ve had today alone. Just let it go. And I never said my posts were deleted. But I’ve seen others that have been. G Yes that thread was started on the back of a thread where she said why are flashers always fat and ugly? If you can't take it, then don't give it, and OP you have on that thread and previous ones been horribly rude and cruel to people and now because someone said your fake boobs were squint you are playing the poor victim, your comments to see side were particularly offensive to a lot of people, but your white knights are behind you once more so carry on with your tangent Did I say fat and ugly or did I say usually not in incredible shape? Never used the word ugly and how can calling seeside a virgin be offensive when he is a virgin and actively calls himself a virgin at least 10 times a day and you've added your own derogatory comments towards me, thanks. You did not refer to him as a virgin you said no wonder you're a virgin, huge difference, Try all you like to butter it up, you are horribly rude and cruel to people frequently on here, nite nite all, sweet dreams xxx In all honesty the only reason I lost my virginity was due to me not broadcasting it everywhere. I don't know his motives for being proud to be a virgin at that afe on a swingers site if all places, but op has a point. " What point? | |||
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"But you've mentioned yourself about your nipples before now. I talk about my speech impediment, my weight, my red face... I still would like anyone else to take a pop at me about any of them, though." I’d love to , but will resist the invitation | |||
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"It clearly wasn’t directed at you to say your tits look bad. Good god. But don’t forget you started a thread asking why somebody didn’t want to know you because of fake tits. I really, really think you need thicker skin. This isn’t the first meltdown you’ve had today alone. Just let it go. And I never said my posts were deleted. But I’ve seen others that have been. G Yes that thread was started on the back of a thread where she said why are flashers always fat and ugly? If you can't take it, then don't give it, and OP you have on that thread and previous ones been horribly rude and cruel to people and now because someone said your fake boobs were squint you are playing the poor victim, your comments to see side were particularly offensive to a lot of people, but your white knights are behind you once more so carry on with your tangent Did I say fat and ugly or did I say usually not in incredible shape? Never used the word ugly and how can calling seeside a virgin be offensive when he is a virgin and actively calls himself a virgin at least 10 times a day and you've added your own derogatory comments towards me, thanks. You did not refer to him as a virgin you said no wonder you're a virgin, huge difference, Try all you like to butter it up, you are horribly rude and cruel to people frequently on here, nite nite all, sweet dreams xxx " Did I say that or did I say "stick your thumb up all you like mate, you'll still be a virgin" That was in response to him indirectly saying I have a crap stuck up personality and him agreeing by way of the to other people's comments that were saying nasty things to me. Was the 7th time he had done it when I said that comment and bare in mind some comments people have said have been removed and I was getting continuous personal insults with him sticking his thumb up to each one. | |||
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"...but your white knights are behind you once more" It demonstrates an incredible lack of faith in your own argument if you find it necessary to attempt to undermine the motives of anyone who disagrees with you. We see these ‘white knight’ comments a lot these days, when people back somebody up, as though the only acceptable action is to harangue someone. Anyone whose feeling support the target can just be quiet. Is it because it’s more fun if everyone is having a pop? Either way, it’s a lazy, cowardly tack. "I get alot of shit too for no reason and if people said stuff like that to my face they'd get a good kicking." I’d argue that you get a lot of shit for good reason. Out of interest, though, once you have administered one of these ‘good kickings’, would that make you right? | |||
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"Both myself and __telford (my husband) are teachers and earn more than enough for a “boob job” if it came up. We are popular, have a lot of friends on here and in the swinging world, have plenty of meets on here and outside of here, have our pics in the top spot of hot pics regularly, have hundreds of messages each day, yet we are jealous of... Erm... I agree. This thread serves no point. But even I have seen a few of these melt down posts today. Just close the thread, lose the attitude, take the good points with the bad, and believe in yourself. This is silly. C xxx" Did I say people were fuckjng jealous of me, no I didn't so don't direct the shit at me. Can I stop people saying they think people are jealous, no I can't. So don't say personal comments back to me. I didn't fucking say people were jealous, I didn't say it. | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. " It’s your truth not THE truth. You generalise a lot. Your comments at times are offensive - not just blunt. | |||
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"Both myself and __telford (my husband) are teachers and earn more than enough for a “boob job” if it came up. We are popular, have a lot of friends on here and in the swinging world, have plenty of meets on here and outside of here, have our pics in the top spot of hot pics regularly, have hundreds of messages each day, yet we are jealous of... Erm... I agree. This thread serves no point. But even I have seen a few of these melt down posts today. Just close the thread, lose the attitude, take the good points with the bad, and believe in yourself. This is silly. C xxx" Shes just saying that you all shouldn't be so hateful about her. Is that too much to ask? I'm just reporting people from now on. | |||
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"Both myself and __telford (my husband) are teachers and earn more than enough for a “boob job” if it came up. We are popular, have a lot of friends on here and in the swinging world, have plenty of meets on here and outside of here, have our pics in the top spot of hot pics regularly, have hundreds of messages each day, yet we are jealous of... Erm... I agree. This thread serves no point. But even I have seen a few of these melt down posts today. Just close the thread, lose the attitude, take the good points with the bad, and believe in yourself. This is silly. C xxx Did I say people were fuckjng jealous of me, no I didn't so don't direct the shit at me. Can I stop people saying they think people are jealous, no I can't. So don't say personal comments back to me. I didn't fucking say people were jealous, I didn't say it. " I didn’t say you were jealous. He did. The first half wasn’t even aimed at you. But this reply right here is how you handled yourself in the other few threads, and is the reason this keeps happening. Just chill. C xxx | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. It’s your truth not THE truth. You generalise a lot. Your comments at times are offensive - not just blunt. " It is the truth. To lose fat do exercise, its not rocket science. The truth is hurtful most of the time as it puts their imperfections into light. | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. It’s your truth not THE truth. You generalise a lot. Your comments at times are offensive - not just blunt. It is the truth. To lose fat do exercise, its not rocket science. The truth is hurtful most of the time as it puts their imperfections into light. " You commented that people are jealous then said it’s the truth. I’m pointing out to you that it is your truth not THE truth. Just because you say it, it doesn’t make it fact. | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. It’s your truth not THE truth. You generalise a lot. Your comments at times are offensive - not just blunt. It is the truth. To lose fat do exercise, its not rocket science. The truth is hurtful most of the time as it puts their imperfections into light. You commented that people are jealous then said it’s the truth. I’m pointing out to you that it is your truth not THE truth. Just because you say it, it doesn’t make it fact. " What other reasons are there to put people down like they do on here? | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. It’s your truth not THE truth. You generalise a lot. Your comments at times are offensive - not just blunt. It is the truth. To lose fat do exercise, its not rocket science. The truth is hurtful most of the time as it puts their imperfections into light. You commented that people are jealous then said it’s the truth. I’m pointing out to you that it is your truth not THE truth. Just because you say it, it doesn’t make it fact. What other reasons are there to put people down like they do on here? " I have no interest in that. I’m simply saying just because you think something that doesn’t make it fact. | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. It’s your truth not THE truth. You generalise a lot. Your comments at times are offensive - not just blunt. It is the truth. To lose fat do exercise, its not rocket science. The truth is hurtful most of the time as it puts their imperfections into light. " It appears that you choose to argue against alleged body shaming if it involves a women you fancy but will engage in it if she or they don't take your fancy. The 'white knight' label is not a nice one but this is one of the reasons people choose to use it. | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. It’s your truth not THE truth. You generalise a lot. Your comments at times are offensive - not just blunt. It is the truth. To lose fat do exercise, its not rocket science. The truth is hurtful most of the time as it puts their imperfections into light. You commented that people are jealous then said it’s the truth. I’m pointing out to you that it is your truth not THE truth. Just because you say it, it doesn’t make it fact. What other reasons are there to put people down like they do on here? I have no interest in that. I’m simply saying just because you think something that doesn’t make it fact. " Most hate comes from jealousy. Thats just how it is. Say I have a nice car and they want it but can't afford one. They just make me feeo bad for having it. | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. It’s your truth not THE truth. You generalise a lot. Your comments at times are offensive - not just blunt. It is the truth. To lose fat do exercise, its not rocket science. The truth is hurtful most of the time as it puts their imperfections into light. It appears that you choose to argue against alleged body shaming if it involves a women you fancy but will engage in it if she or they don't take your fancy. The 'white knight' label is not a nice one but this is one of the reasons people choose to use it." 1, I'm the same with even the hottest of lasses. You don't know how I talk to them off of here. And 2, I'm brown so that doesn't apply to me. | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. It’s your truth not THE truth. You generalise a lot. Your comments at times are offensive - not just blunt. It is the truth. To lose fat do exercise, its not rocket science. The truth is hurtful most of the time as it puts their imperfections into light. You commented that people are jealous then said it’s the truth. I’m pointing out to you that it is your truth not THE truth. Just because you say it, it doesn’t make it fact. What other reasons are there to put people down like they do on here? I have no interest in that. I’m simply saying just because you think something that doesn’t make it fact. Most hate comes from jealousy. Thats just how it is. Say I have a nice car and they want it but can't afford one. They just make me feeo bad for having it. " In your opinion. It’s not fact. I would call that envy not jealousy. And I don’t think people don’t ‘make’ you feel anything. You can only feel it if you allow it in my opinion. So differing opinions and I’ll leave it there. | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. It’s your truth not THE truth. You generalise a lot. Your comments at times are offensive - not just blunt. It is the truth. To lose fat do exercise, its not rocket science. The truth is hurtful most of the time as it puts their imperfections into light. It appears that you choose to argue against alleged body shaming if it involves a women you fancy but will engage in it if she or they don't take your fancy. The 'white knight' label is not a nice one but this is one of the reasons people choose to use it. 1, I'm the same with even the hottest of lasses. You don't know how I talk to them off of here. And 2, I'm brown so that doesn't apply to me. Have you actually read and tried to understand what I said? Your reply seems to be to something completely different. Yes. You said that I only choose to be blunt with the lasses I don't find attractive. Where that is completely false. I just have less to say about lasses I find attractive. Its not hate its just giving them a reason why I don't like them. Why do you feel the need to misquote? I did not say blunt, I said body shaming. You're trying to defend the Op from what you see as attempted body shaming based on jealousy whilst making body shaming statements such as 'If you're fat get to the gym'. I suggest your not making that statement because you're jealous of fat people, so why the attack?" That was in conjunction with people wanting tummy tucks and fat removal procedures that I have seen mentioned on here. | |||
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"...but your white knights are behind you once more It demonstrates an incredible lack of faith in your own argument if you find it necessary to attempt to undermine the motives of anyone who disagrees with you. We see these ‘white knight’ comments a lot these days, when people back somebody up, as though the only acceptable action is to harangue someone. Anyone whose feeling support the target can just be quiet. Is it because it’s more fun if everyone is having a pop? Either way, it’s a lazy, cowardly tack. I get alot of shit too for no reason and if people said stuff like that to my face they'd get a good kicking. I’d argue that you get a lot of shit for good reason. Out of interest, though, once you have administered one of these ‘good kickings’, would that make you right? No but they wouldn't say it to my face again because they'd be eating through a straw for the next 6 months. Weren't you closing your account 12 hours ago? Dear me this thread is utterly tragic. Seriously you lot, have a look at yourselves in the mirror and ask what the fuck you're doing with your lives. Some of the responses are utterly embarrassing and what deter a lot of half decent people from posting on this forum. " This is the tame one too | |||
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"White and tanned is nothing more than a colour. It has nothing to do with race or ethnicity. Thats where English and British come in. I know what I'm talking about and you clearly don't. " Clearly. You’d better get on to the Home Office about the list of self-defined ethnicities, and IC codes, then. They don’t know what they’re talking about either, by the sound of things. | |||
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"...but your white knights are behind you once more It demonstrates an incredible lack of faith in your own argument if you find it necessary to attempt to undermine the motives of anyone who disagrees with you. We see these ‘white knight’ comments a lot these days, when people back somebody up, as though the only acceptable action is to harangue someone. Anyone whose feeling support the target can just be quiet. Is it because it’s more fun if everyone is having a pop? Either way, it’s a lazy, cowardly tack. I get alot of shit too for no reason and if people said stuff like that to my face they'd get a good kicking. I’d argue that you get a lot of shit for good reason. Out of interest, though, once you have administered one of these ‘good kickings’, would that make you right? No but they wouldn't say it to my face again because they'd be eating through a straw for the next 6 months. Weren't you closing your account 12 hours ago? Dear me this thread is utterly tragic. Seriously you lot, have a look at yourselves in the mirror and ask what the fuck you're doing with your lives. Some of the responses are utterly embarrassing and what deter a lot of half decent people from posting on this forum. This is the tame one too " Which is the good one? I'll squeeze in 10 minutes of chuckling away to myself before my bedtime wank. | |||
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"...but your white knights are behind you once more It demonstrates an incredible lack of faith in your own argument if you find it necessary to attempt to undermine the motives of anyone who disagrees with you. We see these ‘white knight’ comments a lot these days, when people back somebody up, as though the only acceptable action is to harangue someone. Anyone whose feeling support the target can just be quiet. Is it because it’s more fun if everyone is having a pop? Either way, it’s a lazy, cowardly tack. I get alot of shit too for no reason and if people said stuff like that to my face they'd get a good kicking. I’d argue that you get a lot of shit for good reason. Out of interest, though, once you have administered one of these ‘good kickings’, would that make you right? No but they wouldn't say it to my face again because they'd be eating through a straw for the next 6 months. Weren't you closing your account 12 hours ago? Dear me this thread is utterly tragic. Seriously you lot, have a look at yourselves in the mirror and ask what the fuck you're doing with your lives. Some of the responses are utterly embarrassing and what deter a lot of half decent people from posting on this forum. This is the tame one too Which is the good one? I'll squeeze in 10 minutes of chuckling away to myself before my bedtime wank. " Ooops too late | |||
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"Having read the posts (I know sad....but I can't sleep) really wasn't all that bad OP. " I was thinking the same having read all thats been left but I gues the OP could have had more in private mails? OP...Just try and rise above it sweet, nobody should have to tolerate personal insults but they are out there. Report and block, and then move on. I highly doubt you would ever come into contact with any of them, they just don't matter. | |||
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"Eh. If you have the balls to state a strong opinion (whether rightly or wrongly) it means you need the balls to deal with what comes back to you (rightly or wrongly). Do no harm, take no shit. " | |||
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"I hope most of you realise that you've just spent the first night of your bank holiday weekend, arguing with strangers over the internet. What a waste if time" Not really I'd been out in town all night so thought id come here seeing as im awake anyway | |||
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"I hope most of you realise that you've just spent the first night of your bank holiday weekend, arguing with strangers over the internet. What a waste if time Not really I'd been out in town all night so thought id come here seeing as im awake anyway" I did say most, not all | |||
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"It says more about them than it says about you tbh. Sending you virtual hugs xoxoqxoxo (the q means that I have include my penis in the virtual hug) " Hahahahaha I like it!!! | |||
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"Take their trolling power away..instantly block them with no reply ..it drives them mad " That doesnt stop them posting on the forums thou ! | |||
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"Take their trolling power away..instantly block them with no reply ..it drives them mad That doesnt stop them posting on the forums thou !" But you can choose to skip there comment | |||
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"Take their trolling power away..instantly block them with no reply ..it drives them mad That doesnt stop them posting on the forums thou ! But you can choose to skip there comment" Yes but they are still being a troll and it would probably be hard to avoid reading the comment. | |||
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"Deep down it comes down to jealousy that ap has the money to better her body and her life. Nobody will admit it but that's the truth. You all go on about tucka here and tucks there. Thats just as bad. If you're fat get to the gym instead of moaning about how you have loose fat. " Don’t you flippin’ start... | |||
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"I’m off down the shops, anyone want anything ? " Something for a hangover, i cant deal with hangovers anymore, my plan is to stay awake till sober, that way i escape waking up with one | |||
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"It says more about them than it says about you tbh. Sending you virtual hugs xoxoqxoxo (the q means that I have include my penis in the virtual hug) " Thank you, I'm feeling them, oh, just felt the penis | |||
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"Op. You can’t say much that won’t get someone who reacts badly, so I wouldn’t read much into it. In life people will not ‘get you’ and they won’t relate to you, and sometimes you can come head to head. Mostly they will ignore you. On here there’s an opportunity for them to hide behind their phone/computer screen and shout at you, they also have an opportunity to ignore but they assholes rarely do. Carry on posting within the rules of the site. You don't have to be an arsehole (or jealous) to dislike the op, or disagree with her on her threads. But it does seem that it helps to be supportive of the op if you fancy her... Did you think I was supporting her? Or even fancying her? I can’t see her face " you're extrapolating. I didn't say you did " But I do read what she writes, and form my opinions, just like when I read yours. " and that's snide. Back at ya | |||
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"Take their trolling power away..instantly block them with no reply ..it drives them mad That still doesnt stop them from trolling in the forums" I think it was mentioned above that we sadly still have to read the venomous text on posts, it’s horrible to read. People just go out of there way to be nasty. | |||
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"Just reading through I think there’s a lot of jealousy directed at the OP cause she’s mighty fine and she’s got sass. People don’t like that. Kind regards " Sincerest apologies. | |||
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"Just reading through I think there’s a lot of jealousy directed at the OP cause she’s mighty fine and she’s got sass. People don’t like that. Kind regards Sincerest apologies." Thanks in advance | |||
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" Try all you like to butter it up, you are horribly rude and cruel to people frequently on here, nite nite all, sweet dreams xxx " I have to agree with this. I've been on the site 2 years and have seen the OP on several profiles, always with the same attitude towards others. Anyone that isn't conventionally attractive comes in for some real vitriol from her and the amount of body shaming she dishes out is incredible. Rather than getting involved in the same arguments over and over again I now tend to avoid the OP's threads and to not interact with her. There is an old saying that springs to mind - you reap what you sow! Perhaps this is a lesson to everyone who uses the forums and we should all be mindful of who we interact with and what we say because one day it may come back to bite us on the arse. | |||
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"Also it's not just the direct personal comments it's the sly little barbed comments and when they're all done tailed together it feels like an attack. Then there's the thumbs, oh the fucking thumbs it's like yeah someone's said something shit to you and I don't have the balls to say it so I'm gonna give it to you again by way of my thumb. But what can you do when you can't physically grip someone and say what the fuck did you just say to me, nothing I can't do nothing about it so I'm just gonna moan about it and carry this grudge towards all the people that were unpleasant to me. But also reflect cos somewhere down the line I must have been personal to people with my past comments to warrant this level of abuse back. I don't think it's purely because I think highly of myself. " Apart from all this stuff...WHERE'S THE FUCKING PARTY | |||
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"Just reading through I think there’s a lot of jealousy directed at the OP cause she’s mighty fine and she’s got sass. People don’t like that. Kind regards " I don’t think so. There are a lot of incredibly gorgeous ladies on here. Some like drama and some don’t. Disagreeing with someone does not make anyone jealous Sadly some people like attention, be that good or bad. If you’re going to create posts - controversial posts worse OP you need to put your big girl pants on, when other people disagree with you. You give as good as you take. | |||
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"Also it's not just the direct personal comments it's the sly little barbed comments and when they're all done tailed together it feels like an attack. Then there's the thumbs, oh the fucking thumbs it's like yeah someone's said something shit to you and I don't have the balls to say it so I'm gonna give it to you again by way of my thumb. But what can you do when you can't physically grip someone and say what the fuck did you just say to me, nothing I can't do nothing about it so I'm just gonna moan about it and carry this grudge towards all the people that were unpleasant to me. But also reflect cos somewhere down the line I must have been personal to people with my past comments to warrant this level of abuse back. I don't think it's purely because I think highly of myself. Apart from all this stuff...WHERE'S THE FUCKING PARTY " In my pants ....bring ya bucket and spade | |||
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" Try all you like to butter it up, you are horribly rude and cruel to people frequently on here, nite nite all, sweet dreams xxx I have to agree with this. I've been on the site 2 years and have seen the OP on several profiles, always with the same attitude towards others. Anyone that isn't conventionally attractive comes in for some real vitriol from her and the amount of body shaming she dishes out is incredible. Rather than getting involved in the same arguments over and over again I now tend to avoid the OP's threads and to not interact with her. There is an old saying that springs to mind - you reap what you sow! Perhaps this is a lesson to everyone who uses the forums and we should all be mindful of who we interact with and what we say because one day it may come back to bite us on the arse." See, I don’t see it like that. I’m fat, and I get quite offended by a lot of the posts people make on obesity, but I’ve never once been offended by Atropos. I’ve been here just over 2 years. I think the issue is the bluntness. I can think of a lot of people on here who are really aggressive and pedantic to people on here almost daily and they never get the level of negativity that some get. | |||
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" Try all you like to butter it up, you are horribly rude and cruel to people frequently on here, nite nite all, sweet dreams xxx I have to agree with this. I've been on the site 2 years and have seen the OP on several profiles, always with the same attitude towards others. Anyone that isn't conventionally attractive comes in for some real vitriol from her and the amount of body shaming she dishes out is incredible. Rather than getting involved in the same arguments over and over again I now tend to avoid the OP's threads and to not interact with her. There is an old saying that springs to mind - you reap what you sow! Perhaps this is a lesson to everyone who uses the forums and we should all be mindful of who we interact with and what we say because one day it may come back to bite us on the arse." See this is what I need to know, give examples of when I've personally singled an individual out and attacked them. | |||
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"The trouble is there are a lot of forum users who make diggy comments under a thin veil of innocence that they’re being cunty. They know full well they are being cunty, they just don’t want to say what they’re really thinking because they don’t want a ban. So instead they bait, and keep on baiting. All the while their veil keeps slipping and everyone can see their cuntiness. The OP can give as good as she gets, but there were some pretty shitty digs made at her yesterday. That’s my 10p worth." Yep! I agree with this. | |||
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" Try all you like to butter it up, you are horribly rude and cruel to people frequently on here, nite nite all, sweet dreams xxx I have to agree with this. I've been on the site 2 years and have seen the OP on several profiles, always with the same attitude towards others. Anyone that isn't conventionally attractive comes in for some real vitriol from her and the amount of body shaming she dishes out is incredible. Rather than getting involved in the same arguments over and over again I now tend to avoid the OP's threads and to not interact with her. There is an old saying that springs to mind - you reap what you sow! Perhaps this is a lesson to everyone who uses the forums and we should all be mindful of who we interact with and what we say because one day it may come back to bite us on the arse." Well said | |||
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"Dam, I thought this thread was about the seven dwarfs when I read "I am not happy" " Made me sing 'hi hoe hi hoe it's off to work I go' Only I'm not yayyyyyyyyyy. | |||
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" Try all you like to butter it up, you are horribly rude and cruel to people frequently on here, nite nite all, sweet dreams xxx I have to agree with this. I've been on the site 2 years and have seen the OP on several profiles, always with the same attitude towards others. Anyone that isn't conventionally attractive comes in for some real vitriol from her and the amount of body shaming she dishes out is incredible. Rather than getting involved in the same arguments over and over again I now tend to avoid the OP's threads and to not interact with her. There is an old saying that springs to mind - you reap what you sow! Perhaps this is a lesson to everyone who uses the forums and we should all be mindful of who we interact with and what we say because one day it may come back to bite us on the arse. See this is what I need to know, give examples of when I've personally singled an individual out and attacked them. " My take on it is as follows. If someone walks into a pub and is talking loudly to a friend and says they don't like saggy tits, big arses, small cocks etc. That is going to upset anyone in the pub who hears it despite it not being a singled out personal attack. | |||
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"Dam, I thought this thread was about the seven dwarfs when I read "I am not happy" Made me sing 'hi hoe hi hoe it's off to work I go' Only I'm not yayyyyyyyyyy." I'm off to start a seven dwarf thread | |||
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"Why get so bothered about words on a screen on a forum on a flipping swingers site? Because people typed those words. I do find it odd when people say things like, “It’s just a forum/twitter/whatever, it’s not real life.” It betrays the fact that they’re not thinking about the other participants as real people." This. ^ | |||
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"Just reading through I think there’s a lot of jealousy directed at the OP cause she’s mighty fine and she’s got sass. People don’t like that. Kind regards This ! Totally this !!" Yes we get you are a fan of the OP. You posted all of the above, reposting your own comments twice again. | |||
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" Try all you like to butter it up, you are horribly rude and cruel to people frequently on here, nite nite all, sweet dreams xxx I have to agree with this. I've been on the site 2 years and have seen the OP on several profiles, always with the same attitude towards others. Anyone that isn't conventionally attractive comes in for some real vitriol from her and the amount of body shaming she dishes out is incredible. Rather than getting involved in the same arguments over and over again I now tend to avoid the OP's threads and to not interact with her. There is an old saying that springs to mind - you reap what you sow! Perhaps this is a lesson to everyone who uses the forums and we should all be mindful of who we interact with and what we say because one day it may come back to bite us on the arse. Well said " I dont use the general forums all that much, usually down in the politics forums, but the last couple weeks or so when ive come and read stuff in the general section there has been a fair few threads with a lot of drama and name calling and just all round negative stuff going on and ive noticed a trend with all these threads, it always has the same person at the center front of them. Maybe this person starts all the drama off or the drama just follows the person around, i dunno. | |||
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"Take their trolling power away..instantly block them with no reply ..it drives them mad That doesnt stop them posting on the forums thou ! But you can choose to skip there comment Yes but they are still being a troll and it would probably be hard to avoid reading the comment." There is a report option on every comment left ..if it's bad tolling I would hit it ..the only thing with forum posts is, that they are open to interpretation by each individual, and what might offend others, might not make the next person even raise an eyebrow | |||
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