FabSwingers.com forum: Is being on here unbeknown to your partner acceptable?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Getting a fair few messages from people who have partners but are looking to meet alone, we have always said no but should we maybe consider it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you only do things that others find acceptable, or do you live by your own rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can decide that. Everyone has their own moral compass, some take it on a case by case basis, some refuse completely, some only meet married people.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No of course it's not acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you need others to make your decisions for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My logic is, if you feel the need to hide something from your partner, then you probably shouldn't be doing it

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By *rBakersMan
over a year ago

dublin/kildare/wicklow

No, not acceptable in my book

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't need anyone's advise on doing anything but we are trying to solicit opinion before making a judgement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have always said no, but the people have verifications so others obviously think it's acceptable

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I used to not meet attached guys but now I have a lot of fun with those I do meet. I’m not here to judge others.

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By *arley SugarWoman
over a year ago

Local

"Don't need anyone's advise on doing anything but we are trying to solicit opinion before making a judgement. "

Doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks or says.

You’re the ones who have to live with whatever decision you make.

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By *rsRogersTelfordWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Oh god no, in no way is it acceptable to us. The number of messages we get like this is rising all the time.

If you want to cheat, then cheat with some fluzie in a bar. Don’t bring me into it, ugh...

Some people don’t see how bad it really is! We have had a couple of messages where people are separated. That’s ok, you won’t be getting back together and your body is your own. But if you’re with somebody... you’re with somebody. Either involve them in it, or leave them. C x

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

"Getting a fair few messages from people who have partners but are looking to meet alone, we have always said no but should we maybe consider it? "

If you find you have a good connection with someone, a mutual attraction and respect, then it’s just a question of weighing up your moral compass, I suppose.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

I would say that you are lucky that they are being open about it to allow you to make an informed decision rather than lying about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would say that you are lucky that they are being open about it to allow you to make an informed decision rather than lying about it.

Always welcome honesty, then we can make our mind up with the full story.

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Definitely not acceptable.

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