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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If attraction is based on the outside, does it matter whats on the inside like how one acts, dresses or behaves ?

i know people talk about chemistry and attraction for me to meet someone it has to be all the above!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"If attraction is based on the outside, does it matter whats on the inside like how one acts, dresses or behaves ?

i know people talk about chemistry and attraction for me to meet someone it has to be all the above!"
Im a shallow fucker so those things dont come into it when its a meet situation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absoulutely.....to have a certain class about you is vitally important..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me for a one to one I have to find them sexy.. Not so bothered about the inside.. as dont meet them for long enough for it to matter (rarely do repeat meets)

For more intimate things.. they have to have something.. I cant tell you what it is.. but some have it..and some dont.

cali x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so when you meet someone if they arent to your liking

would u still play femme?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"absoulutely.....to have a certain class about you is vitally important.."

posh bint x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me for a one to one I have to find them sexy.. Not so bothered about the inside.. as dont meet them for long enough for it to matter (rarely do repeat meets)

For more intimate things.. they have to have something.. I cant tell you what it is.. but some have it..and some dont.

yes you are spot on there..

cali x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"absoulutely.....to have a certain class about you is vitally important..

posh bint x"

lol cant help my upbringing...but wouldent change it....dirty girl..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it is important for whats on the inside. Everybody is an individual and a human being. If your with someone or just meeting for the first time it great to get know the real them. you cannot judge a book .....

Unless you just like looking at the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree, has to be an attraction for me to be interested but then i like to chat/exchange messages for awhile to see what i think of them... just yesterday i accepted a new friend via the forums and blocked same day... yes was attracted but by the end of the day thought he was a nob based on his forum posts.....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"so when you meet someone if they arent to your liking

would u still play femme?"
If they look good to me yes...i dont want to know where they get their clothes from, how they treat their mum etc.....if they look aesthetically pleasing to me in a NSA sex way...that goes for both men and women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can understand that....it does happen,sometimes can tell more about a person in the forum as if you pm then..

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"can understand that....it does happen,sometimes can tell more about a person in the forum as if you pm then.."
i agree partly...but lots arent as they are in "real life"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for most onhere it`ll be mostly about physical attraction and as long as ur not as dull as a plank or a total weirdo, whats inside prolly wont have much influence

taking the scene out of the equation is a different story tho. personality counts for a lot then. its the difference between bagging em and just shagging em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can understand that....it does happen,sometimes can tell more about a person in the forum as if you pm then..i agree partly...but lots arent as they are in "real life""

i know that...but you do get a good idea on here sometimes as to how they really are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand what your saying.. yes if your meeting for NSA and not planning to meet again then that's true.

Plus some people like to take the opportunity to be something that they're not, just for the role and fantasy element. It all depends really..

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"can understand that....it does happen,sometimes can tell more about a person in the forum as if you pm then..i agree partly...but lots arent as they are in "real life"

i know that...but you do get a good idea on here sometimes as to how they really are...."
thats why i said i partly agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you are in a 1on1, physical attraction is a must

i have played in group scenario's where all hands have been on deck and in them cases, i've had sexual contact with people who i wouldn't look twice at if they were wanting a 1on1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree, has to be an attraction for me to be interested but then i like to chat/exchange messages for awhile to see what i think of them... just yesterday i accepted a new friend via the forums and blocked same day... yes was attracted but by the end of the day thought he was a nob based on his forum posts....."

Eeek. Id better stop posting in the forums!

*Runs and Hides*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you are in a 1on1, physical attraction is a must

i have played in group scenario's where all hands have been on deck and in them cases, i've had sexual contact with people who i wouldn't look twice at if they were wanting a 1on1 "

always a one on one me....and yes there has to be an attraction...else it just wont happen..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

clothes i mean clean and laundered not messy and looking shabby x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"clothes i mean clean and laundered not messy and looking shabby x"
how would you know if it was in a club like chams?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"clothes i mean clean and laundered not messy and looking shabby x"

I find it hard to iron my towel

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Of course I care if they act like an outright twat from the off... but do I care if they are kind to animals, make pies for their granny, run a local kids football team to keep the chavs off the street.... not in the fucking slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If attraction is based on the outside, does it matter whats on the inside like how one acts, dresses or behaves ?

i know people talk about chemistry and attraction for me to meet someone it has to be all the above!"

Agree, never make a rush decision, a guy or gal may be not that attractive but within ten to 15 mins my opinion can be changed when I get to know who they really are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to both fancy someone and like them

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I have to both fancy someone and like them "

Or their representative.

I can’t remember which comedian it was who said “you never meet the real person on a first date, you only meet their representative”

Getting to know people online and you can switch the word ‘representative’ with ‘persona’

Let’s face it… as long as someone doesn’t put their foot in it and say something totally twatish, most people want to be convinced the person is nice… if they like the look of them.

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