FabSwingers.com forum: family life vs sex life

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, just thought id see what other fabsters do to keep their sex lives going! At the mo my partner works early long hours, i work evenings and we have the constant presence of our last teen at home.We are really struggling to find enough time/privacy to shag each other (swinging doesnt even come into it at the mo!) Last week my OH had to skive off work early just so we could snatch a couple of hours together, and bribed our teen to go out at the weekend. The bills need paying but i HATE it when work stops play! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try an affair in the workplace

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

During the season my husband works away from home at least five days a week, sometimes more towards the end of the season, or if they have a Monday night gig as well.

So yes, it's a massive strain on our personal life together.

But I have my 'little distractions' to keep me smiling....

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By *hagginhaggisCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

We know how you feel, hubby works long hrs and shifts

i work mon-fri and teach at night. We have 4 children 7-16 and we have many a times locked ourselves in the ensuite to grab a quickie lol

Can't really offer any advice, except take flexi time or holidays together. Arrange one evening a week for your time and tell the teenager that you need grown up time Im sure he/she would clock on to what your meaning.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Hi all, just thought id see what other fabsters do to keep their sex lives going! At the mo my partner works early long hours, i work evenings and we have the constant presence of our last teen at home.We are really struggling to find enough time/privacy to shag each other (swinging doesnt even come into it at the mo!) Last week my OH had to skive off work early just so we could snatch a couple of hours together, and bribed our teen to go out at the weekend. The bills need paying but i HATE it when work stops play! x"

Know how you feel. text him to get him to the bedroom for lunch last week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are finding this and that's the reason why we don't really meet couples via Fab, as it seems to take a lot more organisation and preparation than meeting a single guy or just deciding on the off chance to go to a club.

Over the last couple of months things have changed workwise and we are not able to play. Hopefully that will change over the next few months. At the last social one of my friends stepped in as chaperone and he was lovely, so that's what I need really, a lovely knight in shining armour who will look after a poor maiden when she wishes to attend some dens of iniquity such as swinging clubs

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Know how u mean me an gf same been together 7 yrs an last year we hardly play an when do its kinky an fun

So much so she's joined fab for fem fun to help

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I empathize with you, when i was with my last boyfriend my son was at home and typical bloody teenager always nosing around.

What we did do was retreat to my room some afternoons and told him not to disturb us as we where having a siesta

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