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"You obviously. Always need too see a face before meeting" Exactly! | |||
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"Only someone intending to cause a problem for someone is a threat, surely. If someone even thinks about ‘outing’ someone, they need to get a big, ‘keep your ’fin nose out of people’s business’ poke to the eye. " Yes! This! | |||
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"Exhibit A- Me. I’ve been on here ten years. Feel I’m pretty active on the scene. Aside from my parents, kids and boss absolutely everyone in my life knows I’m on here, my face pics are there for all to see, Exhibit B- the cryptic ‘real lifers’. Usually an old school friend or a parent from the school gates or something. No pics, been on here a fortnight. Sending messages like ‘bet you’d love to know who I am. I’m not telling you as you might tell someone.’ Tbth. No. That annoys me. Been here years. Seen more cock than hot dinners, know all the etiquette and rules, why I’d be interested in blabbing about someone meeting a single fem in the back of his Ford Fiesta is totally beyond me. I’m assuming the problem for most here is my face pics and my lack of anonymity. The question is, Who would you rather ‘out yourself’? to. Him Or me? This should be interesting...." You every time.. you know the rules and are clearly comfortable in your own skin. Why would you even want to put me any further? An open book. Plus you are hot as fuck! | |||
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"I don't show my face initially as I hope my amazing sense of humour and my intellect may win them over before I have to show a face pic. I really don't care who knows I'm on here though, I kinda work along the lines of it's the most fun I've had in years and everyone else is really missing out. " Love that outlook xx | |||
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"I'll bet it's simple jealousy. Probably someone who wishes their partner and friends would be accepting of the lifestyle, but probably a married guy on here in secret and needing to make himself feel powerful by holding it over you. " Exactly this. I'd out to you OP | |||
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"When we first started out on here around 9 months ago we were very nervous to be found out in case we were outed as we live in a rather large area where everyone knows each other . We panicked after being contacted by someone we recognised who are close to us and made excuses to cut contact . Since then we have told the couple who we are as we rather be friends than bump into each other at a club that we both go to lol . If it wasn't for us having children we wouldn't be bothered about people knowing and be more open but I always remember a girl at school being bullied so badly for her parents being swingers and that's my only fear that our children might suffer for us doing this . Not everybody on here are as discreet as others sadly .xx Mrs xx " That’s my worry, not truly worried how I would deal with things, but those impacted around me. And i think those things need to be taken into account. Kids are viscous. | |||
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"When we first started out on here around 9 months ago we were very nervous to be found out in case we were outed as we live in a rather large area where everyone knows each other . We panicked after being contacted by someone we recognised who are close to us and made excuses to cut contact . Since then we have told the couple who we are as we rather be friends than bump into each other at a club that we both go to lol . If it wasn't for us having children we wouldn't be bothered about people knowing and be more open but I always remember a girl at school being bullied so badly for her parents being swingers and that's my only fear that our children might suffer for us doing this . Not everybody on here are as discreet as others sadly .xx Mrs xx " Your exactly right about the non-discretion and that’s the sad thing about it. I suppose I have taken the opposite approach and thought ‘if you already own something they can’t call you for it’. That’s horrible about the bullied kid though, no wonder it plays on your mind. My mates parents used to own a swingers club when we were high school age and we were allowed in the bar area one night when it was shut!! Think maybe that’s why I see it as more ‘acceptable’ than many xx | |||
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"On my first profile, I messaged a woman who was verified with face pictures. We started talking and soon swapped numbers, she used my number to find my Facebook profile and started threatening to tell my ex and parents I was on here. I called her bluff and nothing happened. But it was a lesson learnt in privacy and I've been sceptical ever since" That was my go-to trick when I had Facebook. All them twats on tinder with a mrs! Tell ya. It’s unreal | |||
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"On my first profile, I messaged a woman who was verified with face pictures. We started talking and soon swapped numbers, she used my number to find my Facebook profile and started threatening to tell my ex and parents I was on here. I called her bluff and nothing happened. But it was a lesson learnt in privacy and I've been sceptical ever since That was my go-to trick when I had Facebook. All them twats on tinder with a mrs! Tell ya. It’s unreal " I didn't have a misses. But she was going to tell the mother of my kids and my parents anyway. Different scenario to if I was cheating | |||
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