FabSwingers.com forum: Thoughts on no verifications?

By *lbethere OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Just a thought but I get a few couples, females messaging or liking pics/winks etc on here, some have been on for ‘over a year’ yet have no veris. Yet I personally know two females and two couples on here, the females get bombarded by messages the second they come online. So how, if a female is looking to meet dont they have any veris in a whole year? Are these men in disguise getting a weird thrill? What’s it all about? Anyway just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask them to speak on the phone....

That usually makes them run away

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By *lbethere OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Guess it’s been done to death then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess it’s been done to death then?"

It has been done to death along with a majority of topics on the forum!

It could just be that they are not on here looking to meet? Some just like to look or like the idea of this.

If it bothers you just ignore them. You can stop unverified people from messaging you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get a verification, you have to meet someone who is verified. You not think these people maybe are just having fun with other new members for a while?

There are some fakes, but also some good reasons to why some are not verified.

Do your research, and if it feels wrong, trust your own gut feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think if a member has been on here a year or more with no verification, that they are not serious about meeting so I don't communicate with them. I would (and have) meet newbies with no verification though xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can of beans, that’s a new one!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Some are maybe just here for cams and forums, maybe chat. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some are maybe just here for cams and forums, maybe chat. X"

Some may not want a verification? Leaves a whole mystery of their persona intact?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Some are maybe just here for cams and forums, maybe chat. X

Some may not want a verification? Leaves a whole mystery of their persona intact?

Absolutely, but then they can also hide them.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Easy answer.

Go to a club.

No veri's needed in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on here for several years with no veris but i was meeting still. I used another swinging site to arrange my meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me over a year to be verified. I don't meet many men in a year, as I don't do lots of casual meets.

My first 2 meets in the first year, were unverified, so I was unverified.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

"It took me over a year to be verified. I don't meet many men in a year, as I don't do lots of casual meets.

My first 2 meets in the first year, were unverified, so I was unverified."

I usually assume this to be the case, unless the profile gives cause for concern. And don’t forget OP; long standing verified ushers can also turn out to be time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It took me over a year to be verified. I don't meet many men in a year, as I don't do lots of casual meets.

My first 2 meets in the first year, were unverified, so I was unverified.

I usually assume this to be the case, unless the profile gives cause for concern. And don’t forget OP; long standing verified ushers can also turn out to be time wasters."

If the profile appeals, and the messages flow. I will always meet socially whether they are verified or not.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Just ask them to speak on the phone....

That usually makes them run away "

Sorts the men from the er, women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet earlier in the year with a women with no verifications and been a member for a year, must admit, right up until she strutted into view I thought there was a good chance I was being catfished she was that good looking! But nope, just as she looked in her pictures.

Not all unverified profiles are fakes. But some most defintely are!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Easy answer.

Go to a club.

No veri's needed in there.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There is of course the possibility they could be fake OP and you can only judge that one on an individual basis but by taking time you can usually tell the fakes from the genuine.

However there are any number of reasons someone might not be verified too - some people don't like them so don't give or receive or display them - some people join then don't use the site for a period of time then come back to it.

Some people don't display their veris or the summary so it might not appear they are verified but if they have a green tick then they have been.

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