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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, as a single guy i always see couples and ladies saying guys are pic collectors or no shows. If i have ever agreed a meet, i turn up, 100%.

Tonight, someone who i met before for a Gloryhole invited me round at 11.30pm. I said, too late as work tomorrow. This person was then a little arsey and went quiet. Couple mesaages later, i caved in. They are based 40mins drive so it is a commitment.

I turn up at 1.15am, press intercom and they say, come back in 15mins. I then start get nessages on Fab from this meet, another 5mins etc. At 2.15am, they tell me to buzz and come through.

Now when i said I would go, i said I didnt want the gloryhole as before but to see this person and play properly. Gloryhole was up and the person, behind.

By this point, i had kind of had enough, was over 3 hr round trip when i have work at 6am.

When i left they send ne a message with 5 laughing emojis, as if to take the piss.

What are peoples thoughts on this? Im juat trying to be a genuine guy, turn up and play respecfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest, never travel further than you are comfortable with on a first meet. That way, if they do end up wasting your time, it's not too much of an inconvenience for you. If someone got arsey with me, because I wouldn't do an impromptu meet, I personally would have fucked them off and not conceded and met with them. Someone who has no respect for your time, is not worth a second of it. I hope the next meet you have is a genuine one OP..... And local to you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they sound like selfish piss takers. Next time stick to your guns, if you're working next day, you don't want late meets and people must respect that. Learn from your experience. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never let the little head overrule the big head.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

You must have been mad or desperate to dance to his tune! But hopefully you have learned from it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally think you’re nuts to have gone all that way at that hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they sound like selfish piss takers. Next time stick to your guns, if you're working next day, you don't want late meets and people must respect that. Learn from your experience. XXX"

Stick to your guns or take guns.... create a blaze of glory hole!!

(Obvs don’t do that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. You should have stayed st home and had a wank

Why would you travel all at way for a glory hike when it was something you didn’t want.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Don't be so desperate for a meet that you will get conned again.

Sadly the site has loads of nasty people who get off on this sort of thing,have a phone chat or a social meet 1st and go from there next time

Also report this profile to administer

Miss

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"Ruby wild I tried to message you but I'm not your age range ??"

Someone’s going on the naughty step!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please explain something to me please.....

Was it a man or woman behind this gloryhole?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No wonder men get called desperate on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were arsey before you left...you caved in.

Sounds like you need to listen to your gut instinct rather than your cock next time!

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

Oh no, no, no...I feel like the Churchill dog!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do I feel like you’d still do this again tonight OP ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be careful. You’re driving to a house of a complete stranger in the early hours of the morning, and I’m guessing no one else knew you were going? Just be a little more sensible and learn from your gut instinct, which I’m guessing you went against.

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London


"Just be careful. You’re driving to a house of a complete stranger in the early hours of the morning, and I’m guessing no one else knew you were going? Just be a little more sensible and learn from your gut instinct, which I’m guessing you went against.

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Didn’t he say he’d visited the GH there before?

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"So, as a single guy i always see couples and ladies saying guys are pic collectors or no shows. If i have ever agreed a meet, i turn up, 100%.

Tonight, someone who i met before for a Gloryhole invited me round at 11.30pm. I said, too late as work tomorrow. This person was then a little arsey and went quiet. Couple mesaages later, i caved in. They are based 40mins drive so it is a commitment.

I turn up at 1.15am, press intercom and they say, come back in 15mins. I then start get nessages on Fab from this meet, another 5mins etc. At 2.15am, they tell me to buzz and come through.

Now when i said I would go, i said I didnt want the gloryhole as before but to see this person and play properly. Gloryhole was up and the person, behind.

By this point, i had kind of had enough, was over 3 hr round trip when i have work at 6am.

When i left they send ne a message with 5 laughing emojis, as if to take the piss.

What are peoples thoughts on this? Im juat trying to be a genuine guy, turn up and play respecfully."

Dont let anybody make a fool out of you..you should have stayed in your bed and got some sleep never mind a glory hole 40 mins away seriously if someone suggested this to me on a work night id laugh at them no way would i be moving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re you expecting to meet a man or a woman, if the latter then it was probably a hairy arsed man on the other side of the hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, desperation and the horn is not a great combination. Yes they were dicks but I really can't see why you'd agree to a last minute meet that clearly wasn't convenient to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be careful. You’re driving to a house of a complete stranger in the early hours of the morning, and I’m guessing no one else knew you were going? Just be a little more sensible and learn from your gut instinct, which I’m guessing you went against.

Didn’t he say he’d visited the GH there before?"

Indeed he did. I missed that part!

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