FabSwingers.com forum: Giving or receiving?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So a survey suggested that if you were to spend £20 on someone else to cheat them up, you would feel far happier than if you were to spend it on yourself. (I think the amount of money is irrelevant, it’s the act that’s in question)

Do you think the same can be said about sexual acts? Doing something for someone can make you feel more fulfilled?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. If i don’t cum i’m left deeply unfulfilled and the whole world will know about it because i’ll be in a grump.

I’m selfish like that!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to please others sexually but if I don't get brought to orgasm too, it would make me grumpy!

So, in a relationship, I can temporarily give without receiving, because I know eventually it will be reciprocal. On a meet- make me cum loads and I will be putty!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to sex I'm more of a giver, I feel disappointed if the woman hasn't cum.

When it comes to money though I'd much prefer to spend it on myself

By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"So a survey suggested that if you were to spend £20 on someone else to cheat them up, you would feel far happier than if you were to spend it on yourself. (I think the amount of money is irrelevant, it’s the act that’s in question)

Do you think the same can be said about sexual acts? Doing something for someone can make you feel more fulfilled? "

I get pleasure from knowing they’re getting off so yes I’m very much in the giving category, but will never turn down someone taking car of me