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The one that got away..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I recently got back in touch with an old flame from 20 years ago as we lost touch when she returned to Australia. She still lives there and both of us have moved on with our lives obviously and there’s probably little chance of us meeting again.

However should I tell her that I consider her to be “ the one that got away” ...is it better she knows or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've both moved on what's the point?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Yeah, there doesn’t seem any point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I dunno but I still think about her loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point going over 'what if' and missed opportunities..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you hoping the outcome might be?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

So, you haven’t moved on. You need to deal with that.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Is this a fishing thread ?

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Yeah I dunno but I still think about her loads "

Or is it just forbidden fruit ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Genuine thread however you guys probably right I should leave well alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd be flattered if someone thought that of me. However, I'm not sure what you hope to achieve from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you think it would freak it out or not. Only you would know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got told this on a school reunion. We were 12 when we went out lol

I thought it was sweet that someone thought of me that way. No harm in telling her as long as it's done light heartedly x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’d hope that it would be taken in the right way, more of recognition of how dear I hold her in my memory

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

If you ate both single theres no harm in it. If however one or both of you are in a relationship keep it to yourself.... no good can come of telling her.

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

Yep, tell her. What happens after that is within her control.

I shared my feelings with someone when logic said I should do otherwise. We never regretted a moment. I know I would have always regretted not saying anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d hope that it would be taken in the right way, more of recognition of how dear I hold her in my memory "

I would honestly make me smile. Just don't say it out of the blue. Make it flow in the conversation x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that’s a good plan x

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’d hope that it would be taken in the right way, more of recognition of how dear I hold her in my memory "

Personally I don't see any problem with that, it could be quite flattering from her perspective, assuming there is no ulterior motive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes there’s no other motive, she lives in Tasmania lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yes there’s no other motive, she lives in Tasmania lol "
she’s sounds like a right real devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if she’s single. If she’s not she may feel a bit awkward about it all and you lose a friend.

Weigh up the pros and cons.

Bit i think you should move on personally. The past is the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be well flattered if someone from a former life told me that

Mrs

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar


"I recently got back in touch with an old flame from 20 years ago as we lost touch when she returned to Australia. She still lives there and both of us have moved on with our lives obviously and there’s probably little chance of us meeting again.

However should I tell her that I consider her to be “ the one that got away” ...is it better she knows or not?"

Don't you dare....raking it all up might be ok for you...but what about her

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I see someone who falls into that category for me on occasions, I fondly imagine she feels the same & that is enough for me. I could be wrong, but I like the mystery.

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