FabSwingers.com forum: Help needed.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Genuine feedback required. Been a while since I’ve had any invites or attention off this site. I’ve changed my profile to show that I’m not interested in TV/TS AND CD. Not interested in men but curious. Been open and honest and my profile is a reflection of me. Thinking of closing fab but this is my last ditch attempt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuine feedback required. Been a while since I’ve had any invites or attention off this site. I’ve changed my profile to show that I’m not interested in TV/TS AND CD. Not interested in men but curious. Been open and honest and my profile is a reflection of me. Thinking of closing fab but this is my last ditch attempt.

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Your not alone mate, I added myself to the meet today section this morning, and yet again got no interest. I don't think this site is all it's made out to be. If your gay, you may get attention, or if your a single lady/couple of imagine you will, however a single guy it's pointless being on here

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

The put this slogan in the title of your message to show you have read the profile is very off putting as is the stupid legal notice, that just makes you look very naive and I'm not quite understanding your bi-curious but not interested in men?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

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What were your expectations when you joined this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decent pics, but profile text is way too long a bit too chaotic. How about you talk about yourself first, what you can offer, before mentioning your 'mate'?

Lose the privacy warning, it only takes space on the server and is not legally bounding, apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics!

Although personally your status would put me off a little.

Keep trying...i"m sure you'll find some fun soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Really?

It works well for me. Put a meet yesterday and within five minutes I had two women sucking on my cock.

You must do something wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Again changed status and sexuality back to what it should be. Will try meets and see how it goes. Not doing the dick pic thing unless I’m friends with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its the age bracket to.

You're 37 yet dont want women over 40? A lot of older women like younger men!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

OK profile but to many samey face pix. I'd cut them down a bit and maybe try one with a smile?

Good luck

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Honest feedback. You look miserable in your pictures.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

So you're not bi curious anymore?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Honest feedback. You look miserable in your pictures."

Heaven's yes I agree.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

4 veris in 6 months is pretty good going.

My honest advice, harsh as it's going to sound....less face pics and redo the ones you've got looking a little less miserable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your frustration is shared by lots of men on here OP - but has someone who has used this site with my first wife, then long term fem partner in crime lol, best advice I could offer, is just get involved in forums and be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 veris in 6 months is pretty good going.

My honest advice, harsh as it's going to sound....less face pics and redo the ones you've got looking a little less miserable!

Good point , I missed that - like someone said above - it all depends on your expectations

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Pretty sure you've asked for profile advice more than once in the past OP maybe take some of the advice given then - or failing that check out some of the other profile advice threads and take on board what's said in them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Changed age range and can’t help my pics as that’s just my face. I look stupid if I smile. Have got dick pics on friends only but not keen on making these public

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pictures cut down.

Think I’ve changed enough

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Changed age range and can’t help my pics as that’s just my face. I look stupid if I smile. Have got dick pics on friends only but not keen on making these public "

So now you're making excuses.

Unless you actually really can't smile due to having had a stroke or bells palsy etc.

They don't just have to be face or cock pics as you're well aware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Changed age range and can’t help my pics as that’s just my face. I look stupid if I smile. Have got dick pics on friends only but not keen on making these public "

Age range is better

lol

No dick pics is good in my opinion. Just show them to those who ask.

Face pics....could get rid of a few. Just keep the sexy ones!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have left a few good ones so hope and keep fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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That's rubbish, all my meets are single men and I've had a few...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right uploading some more smiley pics

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex

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So are you deleting lots of messages that don't have let's have fun in the title?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Slight improvement on pics. I just read your profile, I think it reads quite well. Perhaps put the bit about your mate at the end.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haven’t had any messages. Wish I was lucky enough to have to delete loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Really?

It works well for me. Put a meet yesterday and within five minutes I had two women sucking on my cock.

You must do something wrong."

Thats becos u r both fabulous and bearded

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I find it hard to believe, given that you’ve felt the need to post this thread, that you need to have a key word in the subject line to act as a filter.

Your profile text is a bit disjointed. The reference to your mate should be at the end, although it being there at all is questionable. The stuff at the end about privacy and Sydney University is pointless, ineffective, and makes you look like a dolt. There ARE women who will write you off because of that. There are none who won’t meet you just because it’s missing.

Are you incapable of taking a photo where you aren’t studying your phone the same way my granny does when she’s trying to reply to a text message?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

By the by, what’s the difference between FFM and MFF?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Grumpy looking pics... try some brighter and coloured ones with you smiling

I wouldn't bother with the "put letshavefun in the title... its not as though you will ever be that inundated with messages

Definitely get rid of the legal shite. It makes you look very naive to have fallen like a lemming for a hoax.

Get somebody to proof read your profile for you... a few errors in spelling/words used

Always always always have a positive status update, keep it light or funny... "loving the sun but want somebody to rub in the factor 30" or something.

You have had meets so I really don't see your problem...

Get yourself along to a local social meet or try a club.... youwill meet lots more people that way.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Still concerned about Sydney University then ? I look forward to you suing their ass

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

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Tricky one, I'm not your target audience. .....

Good looking fella, good physique, good ink.

Photos not bad, I've seen worse. (Mine) try to inject a bit of humour in the photos, challenging but try to make them less "posed".

Your profile reads like you're trying to be all things to all women.

It looks a bit disjointed. No one cares about your chap, if the ladies are interested they'll ask.

The text looks like your changing it every time someone offers some advice, consequently it doesn't flow.

Hope that helps.

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By *itania70Woman
over a year ago

Denton

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Been here 6 months and had 3 veris so you do get some attention. Doesn’t sound like much but you gotta keep in mind there’s about 10-15 guys per one woman so a lot of competition to get the ladies attention. Most women get between 200 and 600 messages a day depending on their hotness so have to trawl through all those messages. So try making your profile stand out and and your messages pop to grab their attention. Tough I know but every guy is in the same boat. Some here for over a year and not one meet. Others have loads cos it’s how they come across. Try the clubs too. I noticed a few kick start their veris from clubs and once you get a few under your belt it really does make a difference as your profile is your ad xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the honest feedback. Amendments made and let’s keep my fingers crossed for some good times

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Still got that ‘legal’ nonsense at the end though. It’s like you can’t help yourself.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Still got that ‘legal’ nonsense at the end though. It’s like you can’t help yourself."

I think even the site FAQs say it's pointless......

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

You don’t really need site rules to tell you that, surely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dubiousoakcake. Your opinions are valid and appreciate your view but I’m happy with my profile and have had some decent comments. Will choose to ignore irrelevant and pointless comments in this chat.

Thanks everyone for your kind views and changes made and see how I go

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Fair enough. I’m not sure what’s irrelevant and pointless about highlighting something that is guaranteed to make some women click on by, but it’s fine. You do what works for you.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Dubiousoakcake. Your opinions are valid and appreciate your view but I’m happy with my profile and have had some decent comments. Will choose to ignore irrelevant and pointless comments in this chat.

Thanks everyone for your kind views and changes made and see how I go "

I will PM you

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"You don’t really need site rules to tell you that, surely."

Do you have to make your every post about how clever you are?

Some people don't know there are rules or where to find them.

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By *rspecs95Man
over a year ago

hayes

If anyone would be willing to help me out by doing the same as you are for OP I would really appreciate it

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"If anyone would be willing to help me out by doing the same as you are for OP I would really appreciate it

Just.

Read.

This.

Thread.

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

... what makes women happy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re pretty well verified.

You could perhaps try to crack a smile.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"If anyone would be willing to help me out by doing the same as you are for OP I would really appreciate it

Your first paragraph mostly just repeats information available elsewhere.

In your second paragraph you’ve used ‘discrete’ where you mean ‘discreet’.

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By *rspecs95Man
over a year ago

hayes

"If anyone would be willing to help me out by doing the same as you are for OP I would really appreciate it

Your first paragraph mostly just repeats information available elsewhere.

In your second paragraph you’ve used ‘discrete’ where you mean ‘discreet’."

Oops, looks like I need to sit down and re-think my description, any pointers on what people like to find out when they first check someone out ?

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