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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you wind down and de-stress when life is being a damn pain in the arse?

I find wine and chocolate helps but sooooo unhealthy, sex also helps, a lot, but it's not always available when I need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grand Theft Auto

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Guided meditation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dogs the beach sound of the surf clear sparkling night skies and the crunch of sand underfoot.

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By *auce potsCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

My favourite tunes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crash helmet on, throw legs over bike, ride hard and fast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

nature.

or dancing.

or cross stiching to clear my head

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By *tillwaterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"How do you wind down and de-stress when life is being a damn pain in the arse?

I find wine and chocolate helps but sooooo unhealthy, sex also helps, a lot, but it's not always available when I need it."

I listen to this:

https://youtu.be/sTJ7AzBIJoI

I hope it helps

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By *hyguyready4funMan
over a year ago

milton keynes


"My favourite tunes "

That’s what I do too. At the moment it’s ed sheeran that’s at the top of my playlist

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

I go to the gym and take pleasure in the fact that I last longer on the treadmill than the average 70yr old in there.... Failing that, an episode of the original top gear cheers me up

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I go out and shout at pigeons

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Come on here and think there's a chance I may find someone , but then blanked , deleted , blocked ohhhh more stress

No really just have a laugh at or with myself and if that fails car drive music up and scream at the top of my voice .

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By *reckledbumWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

Earphones in music on and off for a long walk, always works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a beast of a shift at work then gym,steam room hot radox bath and Netflix and chill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sudoku clears my brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

playing my guitar and trying too sing destresses me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best de stressor is the 2p machine's down Burnham and knitting soft toys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best de stressor is the 2p machine's down Burnham and knitting soft toys x"

Curious what are the 2p machines?

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By *atasha98Woman
over a year ago

bath


"Grand Theft Auto"

I do that too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Killswitch engage, slipknot and a bit of Metallica ,with a cold beer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Grand Theft Auto

I do that too!"

What even is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk with pooch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grand Theft Auto

I do that too!"

Driving around Los Santos at stupid speeds and escaping the police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* long shower or bath

* Music (as loud as possible without offending anyone on the street)

* Lose myself in a book or film

* Wine

* Sex (although like the OP, not always available when needed)

Having suffered from stress for many years, I've gotten used to managing it

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By *atasha98Woman
over a year ago

bath


"Grand Theft Auto

I do that too!

Driving around Los Santos at stupid speeds and escaping the police "

Yes love it! Causing lots of destruction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good music and dancing

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Bed waiting

Feet up, popcorn, white wine, a DVD.

the only thing missing is a cuddle partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drive/fwb... Whether it's a roadtrip, or driving late at night with my fwb, chatting shit about everything and nothing.

That's my headspace, lost in the road or lost in my boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chill pill and sleep. I sometimes need a couple of sleep days to fully recover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mega weepy movie or reading in the bath

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

The only thing that words for me is a few hrs cardio blasting on my bike as sex is not an option often with the invisable man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A massive cry. Listen to music or walk for miles. Preferably all at once x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing that words for me is a few hrs cardio blasting on my bike as sex is not an option often with the invisable man "

I want to be the person who gives this answer instead!!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"The only thing that words for me is a few hrs cardio blasting on my bike as sex is not an option often with the invisable man

I want to be the person who gives this answer instead!!"

I have suffered depression/anxiety for years on and off in the past and the only thing that words is to push my body to exhaustion to relax now. Then I wonder why I dont have a boyfriend. Omg you have to laugh dont you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing that words for me is a few hrs cardio blasting on my bike as sex is not an option often with the invisable man

I want to be the person who gives this answer instead!!

I have suffered depression/anxiety for years on and off in the past and the only thing that words is to push my body to exhaustion to relax now. Then I wonder why I dont have a boyfriend. Omg you have to laugh dont you "

Well when you do he’s gonna reap the benefits of far healthier solutions than I’ve come up with! You’re a catch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A massive cry. Listen to music or walk for miles. Preferably all at once x "

Walking in a beach under the stars to the music of the waves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i’m unbearably stressed then i have to have a good cry. I usually feel calmer after that and it helps me sleep, and then the next morning things look more in perspective.

If i’m just in a fucked off mood or a little bit down, then a walk helps.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I go to the gym, sweat & swear alot, push myself til I drop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice bath. Clean jammies and a good book x

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By *heislanderMan
over a year ago

cheshunt

I pet my dog, always makes me feel better. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music, cooking or comedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for a bloody long run!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can also heartily recommend the concept of the Solo Sitting Room Disco for a good de-stress. Close the curtains, put on your best boogie tunes and damn well dance the night away. Most liberating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O.o and the gym

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Those spider looking head massage things ... A m a z i n g

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