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By *ustJosh92 OP   Man
over a year ago

St Ives

To quote outcast , sex is always better when there's feeling involved...

Discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. Not necessarily romantic ones though.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I was just listening to that! Spooky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry yes.. feelings not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry yes.. feelings not so much "
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Agree totally, chemistry a must. Feelings less so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry yes.. feelings not so much "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what feelings you are referring to

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By *ustJosh92 OP   Man
over a year ago

St Ives


"Depends what feelings you are referring to "

I'll ask Andre 3000

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Chemistry and a connection is great. I won’t play with someone if there isn’t a connection.

Feelings are not always so great, and mostly end in tears. Usually mine. I think I invest in people a bit too much sometimes and am a bit too trusting, especially if it’s people I’ve been very open with. And then when it goes pear shaped it doesn’t feel so good and can be a bit of a confidence kicker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a degree yes. But it's hornier without feelings and just connection with Carnal desire

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Chemistry, desire, lust, passion ... yes. ‘The feels’ no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry, desire, lust, passion ... yes. ‘The feels’ no "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To a degree yes. But it's hornier without feelings and just connection with Carnal desire "

You put it better I did

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Chemistry, connection, trust ... depends if it’s a repeat. I’m not looking for a relationship but with a select few I see no harm in become friends too - after all it does get personal with repeats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feelings can be intoxicating. Just need to learnt to control them and keep in perspective.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood I'm in.

I've had mental sex, with men I barely know and no feelings involved all.

I've seen men for years or months and not kissed them. The sex was still great.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"To quote outcast , sex is always better when there's feeling involved...

Discuss "

Feelings aren't necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't beat a good feel!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Depends how you define 'feelings' - if you're talking the l-o-v-e word then nope, but if you're talking connection, chemistry and the kind of friendship where you genuinely care about someone and how they are etc, without wanting any kind of deep seated commitment to them, then absolutely yes.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Depends how you define 'feelings' - if you're talking the l-o-v-e word then nope, but if you're talking connection, chemistry and the kind of friendship where you genuinely care about someone and how they are etc, without wanting any kind of deep seated commitment to them, then absolutely yes."

Great way to define it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Depends how you define 'feelings' - if you're talking the l-o-v-e word then nope, but if you're talking connection, chemistry and the kind of friendship where you genuinely care about someone and how they are etc, without wanting any kind of deep seated commitment to them, then absolutely yes.

Great way to define it "

It's the only way I know how

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Feelings are human-made, so have them when you want

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"To quote outcast , sex is always better when there's feeling involved...

Discuss "

I agree. I consider myself primal:

"Primal play in the kink context as getting to a place where the masks civilization can fall away and to allow acting on urges and impulses more directly.

These can be raw, rough sexual feelings, but they could also be joy, silliness, deep feelings of love and intimacy, feelings of deep tenderness, even sadness and grief.

“Primal” doesn’t necessarily have to mean “rough” (though it often may); it’s more a matter of being raw and unfiltered, whatever the feelings present are."

So yes, for me the best sex is not only high on chemistry but intense in free flowing emotion too.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

Feelings! We'd be numb without them!!!

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Unless the feelings aren’t reciprocated then you just feel like crap. No feelings means no one gets hurt

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Depends how you define 'feelings' - if you're talking the l-o-v-e word then nope, but if you're talking connection, chemistry and the kind of friendship where you genuinely care about someone and how they are etc, without wanting any kind of deep seated commitment to them, then absolutely yes.

Great way to define it "

Indeed it is

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends I think. Beyond an understanding of each other and a mutual respect, feelings of a romantic nature aren't necessary for us and the way we like to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My therapist says I’m incapable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what part of the body you’re feeling.

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By *origodaveMan
over a year ago

Worcester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Not necessarily romantic ones though. "

This

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