FabSwingers.com forum: verifications

By *ennis4fun OP Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Are they really worth going by?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. For me I generally tend to look at them like they prove someone is real, especially women and couples.

I don't tend to judge people by them though, the connection and experience they have with people they have met won't necessarily be the same as the one I'd encounter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read both sides of the story

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over a year ago

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not really. Sometimes it's fun reading between the lines though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk can be a bit judgy about them. Best to make your own mind up I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are they really worth going by?"

In what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some folk can be a bit judgy about them. Best to make your own mind up I reckon."

Judgy?

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Yes from us, we read both sides, gives us an idea of what the other party are generally looking for in a meet and if we fit the criteria before we message

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Love reading them (nosey bitch) but tend not to judge based on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some folk can be a bit judgy about them. Best to make your own mind up I reckon.

Judgy?"

Yes. Judgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It reminds us all to "Treat her with respect.."

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We use them as a guide, we view their profiles and those who have verified them.

If there's an "Eek" within them its usually a no thank you from us.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I think they are good to get an idea but tbh whats right for someone might not be right fo the other!

Its not factual reviews like if we're buying an oven lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. It reminds us all to "Treat her with respect.."

I'm still trying to learn the "sucks like a Dyson" technique, once I've cracked that I shall be demanding verifications galore!!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I do read them but I will make up my own mind about people.

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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago

Headington, Oxford

It is helpful to see that someone has had at least a couple of meetings on their profile, it suggests they are less likely to be a complete time waster. But they are little use to assess what a person is like as even rubbish meetings get a polite verification message.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Never judge somebody based on their verifications but do look at recent posts as they give an indication of if the person is genuine and if they are currently active anybody with a latest verification over 12 months old we are unlikely to meet.

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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago

Headington, Oxford

"Never judge somebody based on their verifications but do look at recent posts as they give an indication of if the person is genuine and if they are currently active anybody with a latest verification over 12 months old we are unlikely to meet. "

Thats a shame, not that we would be looking to meet you being too far, but we have had numerous meetings since the last verification on our profile but just haven't bothered with feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What i dont like is when some bloke sends me a first message and he says 'read my verifications as they will give you some idea of the kind of guy i am'

Thats well cringy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live a little, judge people on how they come across via their messages and the conversation you have with them goes, some folks only meet via a social first, we don't, we dont have the time for socials, so we judge on how they come across..we are quite happy to meet people without verifications..We can not remember the last time we had a bad meet by judging people on how they come across by messages only .. they could have hundreds of verifications,but might not come across as suitable for us in the way they come across via messages,and that works the other way too via a social meet first,They could be fantastic via messages and have great verifications, but be a bit of a tool once you meet them, so that's a wasted few hours in a social meet..It's just about gut feeling mostly and how it works for you..but you have to take a chance on somebody at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People only tend to say nice things.

And let's be fair if they didn't, you wouldn't display them.

I often find that some guys see it as a way to really big themselves up.

"I had her gushing like a burst water pipe!" Was one i saw.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"What i dont like is when some bloke sends me a first message and he says 'read my verifications as they will give you some idea of the kind of guy i am'

Thats well cringy "

Had this a lot lately too, with you 100% on its cringyness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness I go by everything.

If the pics are nice, the write up stimulating and the verifications back them up it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i dont like is when some bloke sends me a first message and he says 'read my verifications as they will give you some idea of the kind of guy i am'

Thats well cringy "

It is

Its code for " I'm a right stud, love"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all seriousness I go by everything.

If the pics are nice, the write up stimulating and the verifications back them up it's all good. "

But it could be all lies

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I read them; as others have said, you can usually gauge if people are genuine but I do read both sides.

It does leave me wondering why some of my meets rave over some of their meets and mine tend to be less so. Wondering if it’s something I don’t have that others do

or something I don’t give that others do.

With the best will in the world I’m not the youngest, tallest or skinniest but I don’t think I give any less than another female during playtime - differently perhaps... hey ho ...

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes I read them,to get an idea of the type of person they are and meet.

They are not the be all and end all though, I take other things into account too.

They are just a guide.

Miss

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Just a simple guideline that they are who they profess to be.

Tend to avoid ones with obsessive stalker type verifications. Can't be doing with the potential drama

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I have left verifications. But some times don't eve get one back. Then i think, heck i must be been rubbish. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love reading them when I am on the loo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have verifications but I choose not to show them, nor do I show the summary.

I want potential meets to "judge" me on the interaction between me and him ... And they've all worked out well for me so far

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

As a means to prove that the person is "real", I guess they serve a purpose.

Beyond that? No, I don't pay any attention to them really. Do people leave bad verifications? And if they did, would someone display them...?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

If we have a choice of agreeing to a meet with a well verified member , or a non verified ( or showing none ) member , we would choose the well verified every time , assuming they were similar looking etc.....

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I love reading them when I am on the loo "

So which hand do you use to wipe your bum?

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By *urlesque!Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Verifications definitely help me identify if I want to meet a person; for one they tell me who that person gets on with, what they have in common with other etc.

I tend to read between the lines in verifications, eg are the verified people sociable or gang bang or club fans etc.

Veris are part and parcel of an image, as is a well written profile.

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