FabSwingers.com forum: Too many verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

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over a year ago

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the content of the said verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who they’ve met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me just proves there not a messer and they could just be very sociable people

All about the content of the verifications for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s a bareback van meet then it would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what the verifications say.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Not at all, we have quite a lot however we keep them private . Tend to think the summary shows we do meet and the pics on profile show what we’re into .

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting? "

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the content of the said verifications"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them."

I might be put off if someone only had social veris... it indicates that we do things completely differently so may not be compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends one of my friends on here has loads but that's because he attends lots of socials is chatty and has no issues approaching people so he gets verified a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. The content of them might though.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting? "

No,

But it's even more demoralising than normal when you can't get a meet and loads have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting? "

They could have been here for years

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them.

I might be put off if someone only had social veris... it indicates that we do things completely differently so may not be compatible. "

But without meeting up for a social to get to no eatch other a but how wood you no for shor ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them.

I might be put off if someone only had social veris... it indicates that we do things completely differently so may not be compatible.

But without meeting up for a social to get to no eatch other a but how wood you no for shor ?"

Oh I know for sure before agreeing to meet. I've not been wrong about anyone in 6 years so I'm confident in my ability to recognise who I'm going to be attracted to face to face. I put a hell of a lot of effort into making sure I'm right

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

No , but I imagine a minority of people would think your in a higher risk group from contracting sti's.esp those who insist on condoms from bjs

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No as many of those verifications could be from socials etc but normally don't bother reading them other than to check that the date of the last one and if it was a meet in person as there are lots of profiles on here with verifications from well over a year ago

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them.

I might be put off if someone only had social veris... it indicates that we do things completely differently so may not be compatible.

But without meeting up for a social to get to no eatch other a but how wood you no for shor ?

So wot if sumone had lots of social verys but it never turned in to a play meet cos of a lak of time or cos of condishouns or no wear to go to or wotever ?

Wether thay wanted to play or not wot if thay never got the opportunity to have Mor than just a social ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the way they're written and the type of people they've met more than the number.

To give you an example of a scenario that might be a surprise to some people, I personally have slept with WAY more people that I didn't meet on here...and I tend not to write reports on them!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them.

I might be put off if someone only had social veris... it indicates that we do things completely differently so may not be compatible.

But without meeting up for a social to get to no eatch other a but how wood you no for shor ?

So wot if sumone had lots of social verys but it never turned in to a play meet cos of a lak of time or cos of condishouns or no wear to go to or wotever ?

Wether thay wanted to play or not wot if thay never got the opportunity to have Mor than just a social ?

If they don’t have opportunity etc then they’re never going to meet anyway

I never did socials either unless I was unsure and I was always right to be unsure. I made one mistake meeting without a social and that’s because I didn’t follow my instinct. I had a social with Swing but that wasn’t with a view to ‘meeting’. It was because we had the opportunity to meet the person behind the posts and interaction we’d had. The rest is history as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them.

I might be put off if someone only had social veris... it indicates that we do things completely differently so may not be compatible.

But without meeting up for a social to get to no eatch other a but how wood you no for shor ?

So wot if sumone had lots of social verys but it never turned in to a play meet cos of a lak of time or cos of condishouns or no wear to go to or wotever ?

Wether thay wanted to play or not wot if thay never got the opportunity to have Mor than just a social ?

I was just answering your question of how social only veris can be offputting. I'm not saying I wouldn't meet someone that only had them.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them.

I might be put off if someone only had social veris... it indicates that we do things completely differently so may not be compatible.

But without meeting up for a social to get to no eatch other a but how wood you no for shor ?

So wot if sumone had lots of social verys but it never turned in to a play meet cos of a lak of time or cos of condishouns or no wear to go to or wotever ?

Wether thay wanted to play or not wot if thay never got the opportunity to have Mor than just a social ?

If they don’t have opportunity etc then they’re never going to meet anyway

So wot about the STP social then.

Wot if sumone had time to go to the social party but not enough time for anything else to happen cos of let's say train times and work ?

Thay still get verys cos thay went to meet people.

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By *bacusMan
over a year ago

Walton on Thames

I'm not here to judge anyone

If you like fucking then fuck as many people as you like ??

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them.

I might be put off if someone only had social veris... it indicates that we do things completely differently so may not be compatible.

But without meeting up for a social to get to no eatch other a but how wood you no for shor ?

So wot if sumone had lots of social verys but it never turned in to a play meet cos of a lak of time or cos of condishouns or no wear to go to or wotever ?

Wether thay wanted to play or not wot if thay never got the opportunity to have Mor than just a social ?

I was just answering your question of how social only veris can be offputting. I'm not saying I wouldn't meet someone that only had them. "

R ok

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston

A meet from here asked us not to vari him as he was told he had to many but was his list of verifications that led to the meet as showed us he was a great guy so a lot isn't to much

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting? "

Purely the amount - no, we don't judge people for meeting other people on a swinging site.

Not that it matters if they've played with all of their veri's but veri's can be from social meets at clubs and events. Veri's also get built up over many years.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting? "

Depends.........

If that person is going to be at the same group social as me, no, it wouldn't put me off meeting them, thats the idea, yes?

However, i've often seen a profile that appeals to me, looked at their veris, seen who theyve met and thought "i'm not in their league" and not bothered to even get in touch.....

If someone with loads of veri's reached out to me I'd be happy to meet them.

I'd also be buying a fucking lottery ticket that week...

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them.

I might be put off if someone only had social veris... it indicates that we do things completely differently so may not be compatible.

But without meeting up for a social to get to no eatch other a but how wood you no for shor ?

So wot if sumone had lots of social verys but it never turned in to a play meet cos of a lak of time or cos of condishouns or no wear to go to or wotever ?

Wether thay wanted to play or not wot if thay never got the opportunity to have Mor than just a social ?

If they don’t have opportunity etc then they’re never going to meet anyway

So wot about the STP social then.

Wot if sumone had time to go to the social party but not enough time for anything else to happen cos of let's say train times and work ?

Thay still get verys cos thay went to meet people.

Veris from big socials are a good thing in my opinion, you can get the view of several folk and see consistency. I never had veri issues when considering meeting unless it was clear we were looking for different things

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By *nsure2018Couple
over a year ago

BASINGSTOKE

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting? "

Yes it can but it depends on the context of the verification....

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

No, some people have hundreds of verifications, sometimes they are party or social organizers . It doesn't matter to me.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

YES definitely a big turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No , but I imagine a minority of people would think your in a higher risk group from contracting sti's.esp those who insist on condoms from bjs"

The more people we meet the more risk we are exposed to. You won't know exactly how many people anyone has met though, so, do your own risk assessment.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I love reading the verifications of people I'm chatting with. It can sometimes put me off but that's usually more about content than number.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"If you see someone with a lot of verification’s does that put you off meeting?

I got 23 verys.

All of them are social meet verys

How is that off putting ?

And for me no it woodount put me off meeting them.

I might be put off if someone only had social veris... it indicates that we do things completely differently so may not be compatible.

But without meeting up for a social to get to no eatch other a but how wood you no for shor ?

So wot if sumone had lots of social verys but it never turned in to a play meet cos of a lak of time or cos of condishouns or no wear to go to or wotever ?

Wether thay wanted to play or not wot if thay never got the opportunity to have Mor than just a social ?

If they don’t have opportunity etc then they’re never going to meet anyway

So wot about the STP social then.

Wot if sumone had time to go to the social party but not enough time for anything else to happen cos of let's say train times and work ?

Thay still get verys cos thay went to meet people.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet people with more than 4 sex verifications showing on their profile.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the period of time they have been accumulated over. Someone could have only 8, but accrued over 2 weeks, whereas another may have 40, but accrued over a decade.

We also assess veries and who they have been with.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

No, don't care how many they have met or what they did. It's none of my business and won't change how I would proceed with a meet.

I had over 300 on my single female profile... if that puts anyone off they are not the kind of people I want to meet anyway. No loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on the content of the veris to be honest, now I’ve got loads of veris due to organising the Manchester lounge social so I choose not to display my summary however I do display recent meet veris.

And I like to read other people’s verifications!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, unless it's because of social networking or something along those lines like someone pointed out here.

I've seen profiles with them in the hundreds and makes me suspect they might have some STD. Besides those very ones seem to be easy with bareback. Both things combined means 'stay away' for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, unless it's because of social networking or something along those lines like someone pointed out here.

I've seen profiles with them in the hundreds and makes me suspect they might have some STD. Besides those very ones seem to be easy with bareback. Both things combined means 'stay away' for me.

I can't believe anyone has fucked hundreds of people.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Depends what they are really.

The number doesn't put me off tho

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

It rarely puts me off because tbh if you are active in clubs and when going out and have been here a while the nunber can go up to silly figures!

I do look at the content more just to get a bit of an idea of them when they meet someone !

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

If it was a LONG list yes it would put me off - it may be only NSA but I’m not queuing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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