FabSwingers.com forum: Losing faith in this site!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For some reason I can't get a single reply from people I message. I'm polite, respectful, and how their day is, possibly compliment a picture of theirs and also send a face pic. Yet I never ever get a response (apart from one couple who was lovely). Is it my age? Is it my looks? I don't even get a reply to say sorry not my type. I keep trying but I don't know why I bother sometimes...

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

22 is a tad young for a lot of Fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try changing your username..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age will put a lot of people off I'm afraid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a bit of a profile blurb update after being on here for 5 months may be in order?

And do bear in mind that there are fellas that have been on longer than you and would be envious of your two veris.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Try changing your username..

To Alan Carr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe a bit of a profile blurb update after being on here for 5 months may be in order?

And do bear in mind that there are fellas that have been on longer than you and would be envious of your two veris."

What he said...... update your profile blurb. And two verifications in five months is pretty good going for a guy. Not sure what all the fuss is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it the site's fault? Plenty of guys do ok here. Maybe you should consider why it's working for them and not you?

If you're not enjoying it why stay? Moaning about it won't change anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try changing your username..

To Alan Carr

Ffs no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Appreciate the advice thank you all, i've adjusted my profile a little if there's any more room for improvement please let me know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it the site's fault? Plenty of guys do ok here. Maybe you should consider why it's working for them and not you?

If you're not enjoying it why stay? Moaning about it won't change anything"

I was looking for advice, forgive me if I didn't word my post properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it the site's fault? Plenty of guys do ok here. Maybe you should consider why it's working for them and not you?

If you're not enjoying it why stay? Moaning about it won't change anything"

Easy there. He's just asking for advice on how to make his profile better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it the site's fault? Plenty of guys do ok here. Maybe you should consider why it's working for them and not you?

If you're not enjoying it why stay? Moaning about it won't change anything"

Ooo cuts him to the bone rubi on a rampage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I.av lost faith on this site long time ago.no ladies want fun .What a bumer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your name to Dick Rodwell Op, then sit back and watch the offers flood in.

You’re very welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location and age for me as I’m getting on a bit now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This site is perfect for me because majority of the ladies/couples on here are the age I like! Not immature and know exactly what they want!! (which isn't me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site is perfect for me because majority of the ladies/couples on here are the age I like! Not immature and know exactly what they want!! (which isn't me haha

You changed your name to Dick Rodwell yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Change your name to Dick Rodwell Op, then sit back and watch the offers flood in.

You’re very welcome

I don't get the joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it the site's fault? Plenty of guys do ok here. Maybe you should consider why it's working for them and not you?

If you're not enjoying it why stay? Moaning about it won't change anything"
well the think is do things the right way and be decent about things and think about what’s appropriate and you should do fine if people like you they will meet you but never get down about it,not everyone is everyone’s tastes and all different people are looking for something different and it’s a case of take your time and enjoy

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Your profile is crap

Don't be so bloody awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re age certainly wouldn’t be a issue with us as a couple.but there are so many single guys on here you just need to keep trying good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is crap

Don't be so bloody awful

Thats it spidey youv defended him hes your responsability now

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Your profile is crap

I bet he's lovely as a person though

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Try changing your username..

No one likes tax dodgers.

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar

"For some reason I can't get a single reply from people I message. I'm polite, respectful, and how their day is, possibly compliment a picture of theirs and also send a face pic. Yet I never ever get a response (apart from one couple who was lovely). Is it my age? Is it my looks? I don't even get a reply to say sorry not my type. I keep trying but I don't know why I bother sometimes...

Because it's like a sweet shop you can look but not touch perhaps your choosing the wrong eye candy...choose your sweeties wisely.....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Don't ignore peoples age preferences! I've had messages from 21 and 22 year olds this week chancing their arm.

It's not funny to be honest as I am old enough to be their mothers.

I am looking for my own pleasure not to be on someone else's bucket list it is all about respect for me

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Your profile is crap

Don't be so bloody awful

Thats it spidey youv defended him hes your responsability now

Hes had two meets more than most of us hah

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You are pretty young.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Why is it the site's fault? Plenty of guys do ok here. Maybe you should consider why it's working for them and not you?

If you're not enjoying it why stay? Moaning about it won't change anything"

Give the guy a break jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your name to Dick Rodwell Op, then sit back and watch the offers flood in.

You’re very welcome

I don't get the joke

Dick Rodwell would get the joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in a site called fab....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it the site's fault? Plenty of guys do ok here. Maybe you should consider why it's working for them and not you?

If you're not enjoying it why stay? Moaning about it won't change anything"

Wow, you sound lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it the site's fault? Plenty of guys do ok here. Maybe you should consider why it's working for them and not you?

If you're not enjoying it why stay? Moaning about it won't change anything

Wow, you sound lovely."

His title thread is against the site and at the time his status was whiney. The OP knew where I was coming from and knows I wasn't intending to be rude. I'm glad he's taken on board the advice given and I hope things improve for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll meet you behind Asda if you want ?

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar

"Appreciate the advice thank you all, i've adjusted my profile a little if there's any more room for improvement please let me know

You need to part with your fiver.....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'll meet you behind Asda if you want ? "

You talking to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is crap

Break it to him gently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll meet you behind Asda if you want ?

You talking to me?

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well you are more than welcome and please bring some hats we will need them

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar

"Your profile is crap

Break it to him gently

Yeah come on don't beat about the bush..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'll meet you behind Asda if you want ?

You talking to me?

well you are more than welcome and please bring some hats we will need them "

Whoopee I've pulled, game on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll meet you behind Asda if you want ?

You talking to me?

well you are more than welcome and please bring some hats we will need them

Whoopee I've pulled, game on

Bring your french letters... I need to improve my french

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