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By *entlemenpip OP   Man
over a year ago

not far

So more and more i feel like im an anomaly on this site as a single guy i dont

Send unsolicited pictures of my gentiels

Send friend requests with out speaking to people first

And i dont send messages the read "hi want a fuck"

I also read a profile in full before messaging

And yet i get nowhere. Should i not be polite and honest. And be a jack ass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be something entirely different to what you assume is putting people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to write something almost sincere, until I read your status

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"It could be something entirely different to what you assume is putting people off. "

I agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must

Not

Comment

On

Profile

Unasked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a jackass won't get you any further. I can't give you profile advice as you haven't asked for it but there are a few things on there that would go against you.

Have a look at some of the more successful guys on the site. They tend to be the more sociable ones who are able to show personality rather than a one off generic message. The forums and chatrooms help build connections as do socials and clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a status like that, I'm sure the ladies will be flocking in no time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably because you don't have an avatar

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

No profile picture doesn't help either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So more and more i feel like im an anomaly on this site as a single guy i dont

Send unsolicited pictures of my gentiels

Send friend requests with out speaking to people first

And i dont send messages the read "hi want a fuck"

I also read a profile in full before messaging

And yet i get nowhere. Should i not be polite and honest. And be a jack ass?"

Most women will go straight to your profile before they respond to messages...

Maybe your profile has something on it thats putting them off

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Better that than a recidivist, I'd imagine.

Learn by doing and experimentation - as well as potentially from others. Compare yourself to other people who are similar, who you consider may be doing better. What are they doing differently?

I would excuse a FAF message from the right person, in appropriate circumstances.

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