FabSwingers.com forum: Instead of post your hotlist...would you share your friends list?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Loads of posts about how open swinging should be, ‘I fancy you’ or ‘of course your on my hotlist, and so is Dave/Gina etc’.

But Verifications have the option to be hidden for discretion or privacy.

But, you also have the option to share your friends list, so it begs a question with me, i know there can be jealousy with who some is having sex with, but can you be concerned who’s friends with who? Can a friendship make you jealous?

Would you share or display your friends list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our ‘friends’ is public. Never felt the need to hide it, as it’s far less meaningful than our verification list.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our friends list is public, it has a mix of people on. Some we’ve met, some we want to meet and then some I enjoy having conversations with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is hidden just like most of my veris. I prefer to keep my private life that.

I don't do Facebook for the same reason, I don't need the world to see a list of names. I know who my friends are and that's what matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

The less folk know the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mines visible

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We don't show who is on our friends list purely because I think it makes the profile look messy. Not because we want to hide it. People only get on our friends list if we have met and want to meet again in which case verifications have been left which we do show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sorry Mr. I've got some crackers on there that I'm keeping to myself Muhahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you aren’t on it OP then it isn’t worth the Internet it is written on

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

And how dus 1 see a nothers friend list ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our friends list don't mean shit, we've people on there we've spoke to, people we haven't spoke to, people we've met, people we haven't met, not a soul we've fucked. So looking at it wouldn't benefit anyone.

Noone would get any clearer idea of what were looking for. Its an eclectic mix of people that get to see some slightly more intimate pictures of us thats all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And how dus 1 see a nothers friend list ?

They have a option to make it visible or hidden....I've chosen hidden as it has caused complications in the past when it was visible.its all down to choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is so teeny tiny, you wouldn't even notice it.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I have very few on my friends list, I use the hotlist for that instead. I did have it visible until someone thought it was acceptable to question who was on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't share mine. I don't want people getting jealous when they find out who my friend are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do keep mine hidden, saves any unwanted questioning about who I'm friends with

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I don't share mine. I don't want people getting jealous when they find out who my friend are

True story, ridiculous right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't know you could hide it or see others friends

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"We didn't know you could hide it or see others friends

Neither did I until the Spanish Inquisition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is the key

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Discretion is the key

I think you mean patience

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I don’t share mine.. after the last jealous peacock experience I prefer the list to be private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my hot friends just UNLOSED

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"One of my hot friends just UNLOSED

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends list is a mix of people ive met and people i want to meet..

Having said that there are only 6 ppl on it atm...and all are staying private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,we don't share our friends list,it's no one's business who we have met through the site but our own.

And as for people that judge others through whom they are friends with,well they are not people we would wish to be associated with.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"No,we don't share our friends list,it's no one's business who we have met through the site but our own.

And as for people that judge others through whom they are friends with,well they are not people we would wish to be associated with."

I can see it....shush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No,we don't share our friends list,it's no one's business who we have met through the site but our own.

And as for people that judge others through whom they are friends with,well they are not people we would wish to be associated with.

I can see it....shush

Haha,made me check lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines easy.

I don’t have anyone on mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines easy.

I don’t have anyone on mine.

. "

Awww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines easy.

I don’t have anyone on mine.

Awww"

The only invites I get are from photo less unverified profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines easy.

I don’t have anyone on mine.

Awww

The only invites I get are from photo less unverified profiles

They're bold as brass the anonymous ones

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Can you only see a friend list on the desktop version of the site? I ask because nowhere can I see a friends list and I'm on mobile. My friend list is set to public and can't even see it on my own profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you only see a friend list on the desktop version of the site? I ask because nowhere can I see a friends list and I'm on mobile. My friend list is set to public and can't even see it on my own profile!"

I can see no friends lists either and I'm mobile

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

You can’t see your own friends list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see no friends lists either and I'm mobile"

I think it only works on the desktop site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is so teeny tiny, you wouldn't even notice it. "

I’ve said that once or twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, mainly yo protect their privacy.

You can Helen a surprising amount of information from veris and friends lists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm mostly just on the mobile site so can't see friends lists anyway. I don't display mine because I think they'd be embarrassed to be on my list if it was public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines hidden, I prefer to keep it that way, I keep my friends list to people I've met or are intending to meet. I think there are only 2 exceptions on my list

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

There's only two on mine anyway, one I fuck and the other I keep trying to get rid of but she won't take the hint

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"There's only two on mine anyway, one I fuck and the other I keep trying to get rid of but she won't take the hint

I see your friends list

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"No,we don't share our friends list,it's no one's business who we have met through the site but our own.

And as for people that judge others through whom they are friends with,well they are not people we would wish to be associated with.

I can see it....shush

Haha,made me check lol"

I still see your friends list, do you mean verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No,we don't share our friends list,it's no one's business who we have met through the site but our own.

And as for people that judge others through whom they are friends with,well they are not people we would wish to be associated with.

I can see it....shush

Haha,made me check lol

I still see your friends list, do you mean verifications?

There's must be a problem,that's twice I have had to turn it off.

Have reported it to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a little confused about this, can people be allowed to see you friends list as some posters seem to be saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No mine isn't public nor are my veris or my veri summary...and won't be anytime soon either.

Hasn't stopped me getting some amazing meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide my friends in a cellar....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I'm a little confused about this, can people be allowed to see you friends list as some posters seem to be saying?

Only on the desktop site, not the mobile one. I think it's set as public by default and you have to opt to hide it if you want to in your privacy settings.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"No,we don't share our friends list,it's no one's business who we have met through the site but our own.

And as for people that judge others through whom they are friends with,well they are not people we would wish to be associated with.

I can see it....shush

Haha,made me check lol

I still see your friends list, do you mean verifications?

There's must be a problem,that's twice I have had to turn it off.

Have reported it to admin."

Gone!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I'm a little confused about this, can people be allowed to see you friends list as some posters seem to be saying?

Not if you hide them..no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my friends in a cellar...."

Get yourself a dungeon mate

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I hide my friends in a cellar....

Get yourself a dungeon mate

Oi...don't encourage him...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no idea you could see people's friends lists, to be honest I don't really care, I couldn't be bothered to look either, is it really any of my business?

Peach x

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"And how dus 1 see a nothers friend list ?

They have a option to make it visible or hidden....I've chosen hidden as it has caused complications in the past when it was visible.its all down to choices

I've seen lods of profiles.

Never have i seen a friends list opshoun

Wear do you find it ?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"And how dus 1 see a nothers friend list ?

They have a option to make it visible or hidden....I've chosen hidden as it has caused complications in the past when it was visible.its all down to choices

I've seen lods of profiles.

Never have i seen a friends list opshoun

Wear do you find it ?"

Same here _eeside... maybe its on the nonmobile computer screen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And how dus 1 see a nothers friend list ?

They have a option to make it visible or hidden....I've chosen hidden as it has caused complications in the past when it was visible.its all down to choices

I've seen lods of profiles.

Never have i seen a friends list opshoun

Wear do you find it ?

Same here _eeside... maybe its on the nonmobile computer screen?"

Yes you can only see them on profiles when using the desktop site.

Some people have them hidden though.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

What's the point is anyone that interested in friend's list on anothers profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the point in making my friends list public. There's hardly anyone on it anyway.

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