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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What new rules should be implemented on fab or on swinging as a whole?

Obviously nothing derogatory or excluding.

I think you should be limited to 10 public pics. Then we will all try to show our best shots if we're looking to attract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rules are made for breaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could fuck you in the avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any woman I send a FAF message to should be legaly obliged to respond in a positive fashion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rules are made for breaking "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rules are made for breaking

Agreed "

Your age range is 35-55

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rules are made for breaking

Agreed

Your age range is 35-55 "

Nothing is set in stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop fabbing pics and start fabbing profiles as a whole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An age bracket filter when searching 'meets and events' section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X"

A lot of womens profiles consist of 1 line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X

A lot of womens profiles consist of 1 line"

Easy enough to know the answer then!

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X

A lot of womens profiles consist of 1 line"

You need to check a few single men's too then for comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ban the 'poster above' threads.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ban the 'poster above' threads.

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And similar nonsensical threads. Or just give them their own forum

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull


"Stop fabbing pics and start fabbing profiles as a whole

"

Oooh, I like that; although it limits further my search. That said, had a good giggle over someone's profile a minute ago- bonus points for cringe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea by the poster above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are in a thread that says "the person above" or similar and you skip over to comment on someone else... automatic 48hour ban from forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you take the forums at all seriously, you should be tarred, feathered and beheaded out of shame.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

All threads with drama, outrage and lpp should automatically jump to the top of the forum list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X"

Such a good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All threads with drama, outrage and lpp should automatically jump to the top of the forum list. "

So we can all see them before they are removed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X"

Like a secret word to enter in the message subject title

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"All threads with drama, outrage and lpp should automatically jump to the top of the forum list.

So we can all see them before they are removed? "

Exactly. Hate it when people reference a car crash thread that I missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X"

FAF?

Did I get it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All threads with drama, outrage and lpp should automatically jump to the top of the forum list. "

love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you take the forums at all seriously, you should be tarred, feathered and beheaded out of shame. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X

Such a good idea "

Thank you gorgeous.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X

Like a secret word to enter in the message subject title "

Ah yes but that allows the person messaging to still message without having read the profile. Either because they skip to the end for that or because they don't read it and send a message anyway.

This way, They would have to read it.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X

FAF?

Did I get it right "

Always.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X

FAF?

Did I get it right

Always.

Eve. X"

Get your strap on ready!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X

FAF?

Did I get it right

Always.

Eve. X

Get your strap on ready!"

All strapped up for you! I have pillow for you to bite down on too, im not exactly gentle.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X

FAF?

Did I get it right

Always.

Eve. X

Get your strap on ready!

All strapped up for you! I have pillow for you to bite down on too, im not exactly gentle.

Eve. X"

And here I thought we'll be spit roasting Adam...use a lot of lube

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire


"Stop fabbing pics and start fabbing profiles as a whole

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Spot on dude

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Should be like tinder were you can only message each other if you both flicked right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should be like tinder were you can only message each other if you both flicked off "

FTFY

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Get rid of the Sent Mail box.

Only allow a Friends Request to be sent after 3 messages have been sent by each party.

Get rid of winks.

Delete the pictures of anyone begging for Fabsadonly allow them to add one picture a day for a month.

Return to not allowing 'others' in pics.

Up the minimum age for membership to 21.

Set a limit to the number of threads that can be created per day by same person.

Bring back the "thanks but no thanks" button for those who can't be arsed to r.... to be sent when deleting an un answered message, even when bulk deleting.

If somebody deletes unanswered messages from the same person more than 3 times block the sender automatically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabsters have to answer a question before they can message a profile. The answer of which can be found in said persons profile.

Would be much easier if people would read a profile before messaging.

Eve. X"

That's a good idea

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If you leave the site and go UNLOS you can't rejoin for 3 months.

Might help sift all the Friday night to Sunday members and some of the hissy fit drama llamas.

"I'm leaving! Goodbye cruel world!" "Oh Hi, I'm back again!"

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Every message with "hi how are you" only will result with 30 day ban!

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Every message with "hi how are you" only will result with 30 day ban!"

Or an electric shock to the sender....just a little one for the first offence....say 500 volts.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Every message with "hi how are you" only will result with 30 day ban!

Or an electric shock to the sender....just a little one for the first offence....say 500 volts. "

Yes this!!!!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"What new rules should be implemented on fab or on swinging as a whole?

Obviously nothing derogatory or excluding.

I think you should be limited to 10 public pics. Then we will all try to show our best shots if we're looking to attract. "

I think rule 1 should be that you put your arse back as your avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A feature that selects 5 profiles a day ( so people wouldn’t feel overloaded with hundreds of profiles in one day )fitting the type of profiles you want to meet and you give them a thumbs up or down , if two profiles happen to thumbs up eachother they both receive a notification , allows people to meet new people easier and also would help less confident people on the website , I know it’s a bit similar to tinder but reducing it to 5 profiles a day rather than unlimited helps differ it from tinder

Also stricter sign up arrangements that will help deter fake profiles , perhaps instead of sending a pic with a profile name on a piece of paper it should be a 10 second long video instead

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

But seriously....

There should be a sticky thread on each of the forums.

This should include the Fab rules.

New users to the forums should not be able to post until they've read the rules. Could be an "I have read the rules" tick box at the end.

This might stop the I can't find the rules, what are the rules whinges.

People will still scroll to the end tick the box, but they can't deny they didn't see them or know where they were.

Also, the rules should be reviewed.

Are they current with how the site and forums in particular are used? Have they been reviewed since the site started?

Things evolve, rules should reflect evolution.

#that's not a dig at Fab or the rules by the way.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Message senders/receivers are viewed, to check for masturbation, for a minimum of 30 minutes.

Messages are read real-time, by Artificial Intelligence, based upon the recipient's stated preferences, with feedback given to the author on the likely potential for the message to be suitable. If the author cannot achieve a high enough suitability score for AI to be happy, they are unable to send the message.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A minimum of 90% of the flesh shown in pics must be of the profile owner. Where the user is with someone else, they would need to highlight which skin is their own, to allow for an immediate calculation, in advance of moderators checks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more Kiss/Shag/avoid threads or any similar ones.

Every now and again is good fun but there are just so many!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No rules, I want to see chaos

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Nice to see my rule number 1 has been adopted.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"Every message with "hi how are you" only will result with 30 day ban!"

Come on, be fair to some people. It might have taken someone 4 days to think that message up. LoL

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Every message with "hi how are you" only will result with 30 day ban!

Come on, be fair to some people. It might have taken someone 4 days to think that message up. LoL"

It often shows lol!

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