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Instead of what makes you block....what makes you want to look

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We have loads of what puts us off threads.

What is it that makes you have a nosey and then decide whether to message or not?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I often look. I rarely message. Usually a comment in the forum or a really good photo

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By *hostwolfMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

A nice bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobs

Or a desire to put their penis up a bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bum boobs and face for me I will have a look read the profile and if it say what they are looking for and I not the type then I move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice pic and usually something they've said on here.

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"A nice pic and usually something they've said on here. "

Tends to be the same for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they said something cuntish in the forum, I want to see who it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never blocked anyone. Maybe I'm doing this wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile picture.. comments on the forum etc.. then I will read the profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good profile picture.. comments on the forum etc.. then I will read the profile!!! "

Yes - same here.... goes to check profile...

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Face profile pic that is of a guy that fits my desires .

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I tended to go for the profile pic and how good it look or hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice face pic or at least one early in messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most messages I send are to forumites. Usually as a result of something quirky or amusing they've posted. Met some really awesome people as a result

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Well written profile text and pics of both people for us , (not close up of bits).

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comments both good and bad on the forum.

Updates.

Advertising for meets.

A captivating unusual profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny comments on the forum usually make me look. Quirky profiles and decent pictures keep me keen.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Im dead nosey... I look at everyone that posts, read their profile, view their pics, read their verifications, look at the people who left the verification, read their profile, view their pics, read their verifications.... I could go on all night

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

They’re female!

Oh and I’ve warmed to their profile because it’s witty and obviously I like the look of them, especially in their filthy black stockings and killer heels and. Sorry getting carried away.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If someone agrees with or interacts with my posts I look.

If someone is particularly witty or argumentative I look.

Or if they have an interesting profile picture I'll look.

Nosey fucker basically.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"If someone agrees with or interacts with my posts I look.

If someone is particularly witty or argumentative I look.

Or if they have an interesting profile picture I'll look.

Nosey fucker basically."

So, have you had a look?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely message anyone first but on the rare occasions that I do it's usually how someone's personality shines through the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often look. I rarely message. Usually a comment in the forum or a really good photo "

Same as this im a nosey cunt too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Witty chat and a well turned ankle. Bit of a niche thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics and how they come across in The Forum.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

The one thing I’ve learned about fab over the seven years we’ve been on here , is that the forums are the last place we would look for people to meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have loads of what puts us off threads.

What is it that makes you have a nosey and then decide whether to message or not?"

Their profile being different and honest.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"Im dead nosey... I look at everyone that posts, read their profile, view their pics, read their verifications, look at the people who left the verification, read their profile, view their pics, read their verifications.... I could go on all night "

This is so me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I alwys look when we get a private message and also when browsing the forums i like to look to see whos posting not that ya can really tell from 10 cocks pics or torso pics

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Witty chat and a well turned ankle. Bit of a niche thing!"

Sounds like a line from a Jane Austin era

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"The one thing I’ve learned about fab over the seven years we’ve been on here , is that the forums are the last place we would look for people to meet ."

We would say the exact opposite.

It's at least a little insight into what type of personality or lack of they have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bum pic as avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who have the number 23353 on their profiles.

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"People who have the number 23353 on their profiles. "

Everyone now goes to look at their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curiousity makes me look who the person is.

I rarely open a profile and look deeper than who’s talking on the forum. Everyone’s profile is a CV, and I’m yet to find one fall in my desk that stands out enough to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Witty chat and a well turned ankle. Bit of a niche thing!

Sounds like a line from a Jane Austin era "

Ooh Sir, she had a well turned ankle Sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people with a sense of humour and a dollop of sarcasm so the forums are the perfect place to find that out about people...obviously if like the OP they have a great body and taste in lingerie then that’s fantastic too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny comments in forum, then pics that catch my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm easy really, a sexy avatar, a name that makes me laugh, a witty comment on a thread, if you make me laugh I might even hotlist

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I like people with a sense of humour and a dollop of sarcasm so the forums are the perfect place to find that out about people...obviously if like the OP they have a great body and taste in lingerie then that’s fantastic too x"

You sir shall go to the top of the class

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I often look. I rarely message. Usually a comment in the forum or a really good photo "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic, not a cock one, funny heading. Witty status x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an open mind and honest profile as for blocking if some makes fun of someone they get block in all honest they only look and block people here it seem lol

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

I rarely post in the forums and don’t look for meets from them but I do read and sometimes interact with regulars via PM. Searching for myself has proved the best way for me to find the hidden gems: great photos, well written text with personality shining through makes me send a message

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I rarely post in the forums and don’t look for meets from them but I do read and sometimes interact with regulars via PM. Searching for myself has proved the best way for me to find the hidden gems: great photos, well written text with personality shining through makes me send a message "

Searching for yourself? Jeez...check out the narcissist over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely post in the forums and don’t look for meets from them but I do read and sometimes interact with regulars via PM. Searching for myself has proved the best way for me to find the hidden gems: great photos, well written text with personality shining through makes me send a message

Searching for yourself? Jeez...check out the narcissist over here

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"The one thing I’ve learned about fab over the seven years we’ve been on here , is that the forums are the last place we would look for people to meet .

We would say the exact opposite.

It's at least a little insight into what type of personality or lack of they have. "

And that’s the beauty of this swinging malarkey . We all look for something different , and we are opposites in this sense . We don’t talk to potential meets at all before meeting , other than where we will be and at what time . We just have a quick look at their pics , a brief read of their profile and veris , and that’s it . Less is more for us .

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By * and M looking OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"The one thing I’ve learned about fab over the seven years we’ve been on here , is that the forums are the last place we would look for people to meet .

We would say the exact opposite.

It's at least a little insight into what type of personality or lack of they have.

And that’s the beauty of this swinging malarkey . We all look for something different , and we are opposites in this sense . We don’t talk to potential meets at all before meeting , other than where we will be and at what time . We just have a quick look at their pics , a brief read of their profile and veris , and that’s it . Less is more for us ."

Agreed

We all sway our own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indie nerdy guys with tats. Or if not that actually showing me some genuine interest in my personality and not just my ass x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Witty, unusual messages get my attention and then it goes from there. Or not, as is often the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the person/s in question has sent a decent message.. 9 times out of 10 I'll have a look at the profile.

Can't stand "hi guys" messages.

Adam.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Nice profile pic

Good sense of humour

Good taste

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