FabSwingers.com forum: Who's said no to a meet...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a few times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. If someone says something that puts me off we won't meet. Or if I have a social and they are not for me it will be no to a additional meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Phew... Was made to feel bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.... I would never feel under pressure to meet....go with your gut instincts!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would never say no to kinkybird1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, especially women/couples on here it's a pretty common thing, some people pretend to be nice at the start of a convo and usually reveal themselves after a few messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once already.

Not been here long but was definately the right thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes numerous times

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By *r n Mrs NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

eccles

Yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few times but it's mainly because we can't sort out times that suits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes I have.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Quite a few times as I've found the conversation wasn't leading anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup .... first visit was Terrible but I’m too to say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah sure

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I’ve initiated correspondence on many occasions even exchanged numbers ,,, but ,,, there has been times when real world takes preference . I think as you get older you become less tolerant to crap and more intuitive ... so yeh I’ve changed my mind on a number of occasions ... and I couldn’t care less as my ethos is you never miss what you’ve never had .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice so far. And gave up on another one as I was being led a merry dance

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple "

It happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, twice, same local couple. All started off great, but each time she was at work and would join later....just struck me as s Guy on his own pretending to be a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Four times to be precise, usually because we didn’t quite click after all.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Yes, I’m sure not as often as many women have to but hasn’t felt right from chatting or it’s clear we’re after different things etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequently, we always have a social meet anyway and have no problem declining politely after this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because we are male it doesn't mean we can't say no to someone

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar

"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple "

Yes a couple of times the last when the "Fake" lady kept asking Why ....I replied why don't you be a little dog and eat S**T

Funny how the profile disappeared really can't understand that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple

Yes a couple of times the last when the "Fake" lady kept asking Why ....I replied why don't you be a little dog and eat S**T

Funny how the profile disappeared really can't understand that

You could just have easily blocked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course, especially women/couples on here it's a pretty common thing, some people pretend to be nice at the start of a convo and usually reveal themselves after a few messages."

This.

We’re not desperate, so we will be as choosy as we like. As I would hope the other party would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple "

Everyone on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that is everyone on here lol especially the single women. But yeah I have who hasn’t basically.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We have several times.We've also been knocked back by couples and single guys.It would be unrealistic to expect that we will click with everyone.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes quite a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Computer says no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Computer says no "

Cough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said no to a dogging meet on Saturday.. I’m a good boy, I’m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep after a social. I think it was mutual though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...just because I like the look of someone doesn't mean I will like the whole package, which, even with nsa, I still need to like the person as a whole. So, whilst talking, they may well say or do something that makes me not fancy them enough to want to play with them any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Loads of times, both when I was a single and with TB. If vibe isn’t there, it’s not happening

SSS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice, know its hard for couples only looking for fems

( the illusive unicorn)

But we have to have a connection for it all to work...

If after chatting we don't feel there is a mutual connection, we'll say no thanks..

Only had one that really took it bad, someone we helped and thought we became friends with, when it came to talking of a meet, we weren't keen, and she went bunny boiler on us...

Lol bullet dodged we think

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Jim's mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few times

... and sometimes after a social. I know what i want and like so i have no problem im saying its going nowhere for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Computer says no

Cough!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. The two main reasons are 1) They're looking for long term and 2) they look nothing like their pics, using the from above trick or beatification filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes on several occasions, sometimes it can be the little things that make you decided not to meet. Something they said or even the way it was said can determine for me if I’ll meet

MrsK x

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple "

Nop never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. It's why I always do a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, when she messaged and said that she had a real hacking cough. Nice of her to warn me and all that, but just the thought of hacking put me off.

Most probably my loss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yeah I have on my single profile

Changed my mind or they put me off in some way.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet a lady gor coffee, there wasn't a spark, slow conversation, so I said no thanks politelty and left.

Unlike the meet where I ran back to my car and drove off like the devil wanted my arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, didn't feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few times. If it doesn't feel right don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unly due to unrealistic travel distances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple

Nop never.

Bless

I'm sure you'll get an offer soon _eeside. Surely someone from the forums is slowly but inexorably falling under your spell?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Yes ... pulled up on a car park .... and said sorry you are not for me ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jim's mum."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, my spidey senses where tingling and I thought I was a getting messages off a "fake/bloke" and when "she" wanted me to go round to hers without a social first, I refused.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Yep a fair few times

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yeah I have done a number of times, like to chat and get to know someone first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. If someone says something that puts me off we won't meet. Or if I have a social and they are not for me it will be no to a additional meet "

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never "

Fancy a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never

Fancy a meet? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never

Fancy a meet?

Yes "

Haha. I’m not sure who is more disappointed from me testing my theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never

Fancy a meet?

Yes

Haha. I’m not sure who is more disappointed from me testing my theory

Trust me I won't fake orgasm with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never

Fancy a meet?

Yes

Haha. I’m not sure who is more disappointed from me testing my theory

Trust me I won't fake orgasm with you "

I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never

Fancy a meet?

Yes

Haha. I’m not sure who is more disappointed from me testing my theory

Trust me I won't fake orgasm with you

I would.

Thanks it would boost my ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never

Fancy a meet?

Yes

Haha. I’m not sure who is more disappointed from me testing my theory

Trust me I won't fake orgasm with you

I would.

Thanks it would boost my ego "

Anytime, I’m just having trouble with the ‘trust me’ post above.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I’ve initiated correspondence on many occasions even exchanged numbers ,,, but ,,, there has been times when real world takes preference . I think as you get older you become less tolerant to crap and more intuitive ... so yeh I’ve changed my mind on a number of occasions ... and I couldn’t care less as my ethos is you never miss what you’ve never had . "

I’ll go with you on that one

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Yes quite a few times!

I’m looking for regular friends rather than just one-off’s these days as I want to establish some friendships so I can spend a lot less time on fab but still have mind blowing sex regularly!

Therefore if they’re only capable of ‘sext’ type talk with no normal conversation, or there isn’t any chemistry at the social, i’ll Halt it there to avoid wasting both our time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More times than not, for a variety of reasons. If its not fun, we don't partake and I'm a difficult bitch to amuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened a few times. Sometimes regretfully, others not so.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

We have. More times than yes too.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Yes a few times

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Yep. Not even sorry

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yep, the second I start to feel pressured

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"This is after chat and getting to know said person or couple "

I've said no more times than I've said yes.

I start chatting with people, and quickly realise after a few messages, there's nothing there, nothing catches my attention, no connection. Sadly, it's usually those that then get shitty when I explain I have no interest

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Had a social where he said "that makes me cross" so many times that when I left I challenged him to list 5 things that made him happy. He managed "glowworms" and "aliens" then took back aliens because he wasn't sure of their existence. Considering the pleasure I take in pleasure, I knew we weren't going to get on well in bed together

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