FabSwingers.com forum: Guys, stop messaging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

Make me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree with this, read a couples profile and message them politely

most people we have met have been people who have approached us with decent conversation, clear pictures and have had a good introduction, the lads who message saying 'I'll fuck her' or 'want some ' or 'want me come now' just get nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. We generally do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so sure... If showing genuine appreciation of pics... What's the issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont send many to start unless forum based

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll stop messaging when you stop posting threads.

All the best X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

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your 100% right we should but most of us men are very pushy it the quiet ones who do not send lose out of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I messaged a page 1 regular 5 months ago, Ive been waiting with baited breathe. Guess she hadn’t seen the message yet, fingers crossed any minute now she’ll reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I messaged a page 1 regular 5 months ago, Ive been waiting with baited breathe. Guess she hadn’t seen the message yet, fingers crossed any minute now she’ll reply. "

Saving the best till last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I messaged a page 1 regular 5 months ago, Ive been waiting with baited breathe. Guess she hadn’t seen the message yet, fingers crossed any minute now she’ll reply.

Saving the best till last

That’s what I keep telling myself

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"I’ll stop messaging when you stop posting threads.

All the best X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much chance of anyone finding the man cave

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Last message I sent was 17 hours ago so I’m doing well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

You calling a strike my friend?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

They do indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

I did suggest this in the fab survey but it didn't go down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

Isnt this just you jumping on the bandwagon again..

You need an original idea..

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

To be fair, we've yet to progress any contact from somebody who's messaged us. All of our activity has been with men the women has found during her browsing (or online shopping as she calls it).

She knows what she likes and we've yet to receive a message from anyone who's tickled her fancy.

So your suggestion works for us if no one else.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies "
i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

They would if you had to use money for it but since it's free you can use all you want

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end"

People might be here for “the same thing” but they don’t want to do that thing with everyone that messages, people really need to understand this

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

You calling a strike my friend?"

I think we should have a month where single men simply dont message anyone.

Kinda like dry january and movember haha

1 month where the "power" (i seen a few threads saying women have all the power on here) is stripped away from the ladies haha

Wont ever happen though...think less than 5% of the site is forum users plus lot of guys just to desperate to get laid.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies

"i would agree but the downside is a lot of people do take it to heart and person when taking the time to write and not getting a respond in return which is disheartening and unfair in the end were all here for the same things in the end"

FAQs state it's not obligatory to reply and some who do get a reply will take it as an invitation to carrying on trying to have a conversation despite being told no thanks. And no we are not all here for the same things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

You calling a strike my friend?"

This Saturday I winked a couple and they winked back so I thought this is good! I sent a message and nothing, literally nothing just silence and wind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

You calling a strike my friend?

I think we should have a month where single men simply dont message anyone.

Kinda like dry january and movember haha

1 month where the "power" (i seen a few threads saying women have all the power on here) is stripped away from the ladies haha

Wont ever happen though...think less than 5% of the site is forum users plus lot of guys just to desperate to get laid.

Its still the women choosing who and when they want to message for sex then?. Not much change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They already seem to have adopted this policy with me

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

I don't unless I get a wink or that viewed my profile or have commented in a forum

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By *wingingman30Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Don't do that much messaging on fab. Mostly contacts fro m&g, club nights etc. Buuuttt definitely send the odd message lol

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

You calling a strike my friend?

This Saturday I winked a couple and they winked back so I thought this is good! I sent a message and nothing, literally nothing just silence and wind

It happens to everyone one at some point, don't get discouraged just move on

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"This Saturday I winked a couple and they winked back so I thought this is good! I sent a message and nothing, literally nothing just silence and wind

Speaks volumes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

You calling a strike my friend?

This Saturday I winked a couple and they winked back so I thought this is good! I sent a message and nothing, literally nothing just silence and wind

It happens to everyone one at some point, don't get discouraged just move on "

Embrace the tumbles!

i do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, that was supposed to say tumble s!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the hell? Can i not say ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol i can't!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This Saturday I winked a couple and they winked back so I thought this is good! I sent a message and nothing, literally nothing just silence and wind

Speaks volumes."

Kiss my hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

Wrong wrong wrong!

If couples females whoever don’t want men contacting them they can block them or use their filters

If they haven’t set filters blocking them then they (shock..... horror......) probably are open to males contacting them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol i can't!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

Hoo ses i do send messages ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis? "

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Anybody would think messaging women was the best way to getting a meet with one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis?

Or it’s code which is 420

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis?

Or it’s code which is 420

My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis?

Or it’s code which is 420

My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me

Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis?

Or it’s code which is 420

My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me

Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?"

No idea now!

i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis?

Or it’s code which is 420

My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me

Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?

No idea now!

i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles!

And not sharing with me? Your best mate on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis?

Or it’s code which is 420

My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me

Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?

No idea now!

i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles!

And not sharing with me? Your best mate on fab

I can't stretch that far! Meet me halfway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis?

Or it’s code which is 420

My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me

Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?

No idea now!

i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles!

And not sharing with me? Your best mate on fab

I can't stretch that far! Meet me halfway

Okay, reasonable friend from fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis?

Or it’s code which is 420

My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me

Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?

No idea now!

i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles!

And not sharing with me? Your best mate on fab

I can't stretch that far! Meet me halfway

Okay, reasonable friend from fab

Oi!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't write t u m b l e w e e d, as it has 'w e e d' in it! This is ridiculous

Have you tried cannabis?

Or it’s code which is 420

My inbox is only displaying tumble420's. Yup, that works for me

Now tell everyone why are you trying to write tumble420?

No idea now!

i'm too high puffing on rolled up tumbles!

And not sharing with me? Your best mate on fab

I can't stretch that far! Meet me halfway

Okay, reasonable friend from fab

Oi!

Haha

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Unfair?

Do you think this place is a charity

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unfair?

Do you think this place is a charity

Haha.. are you upto date with your donations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t the whole point of this site to message people you fancy meeting? I mean, how are they gonna know you want to meet them if you don’t tell them?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

You calling a strike my friend?"

Do you get to stand around a burning bin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

You calling a strike my friend?

Do you get to stand around a burning bin?"

Not really the weather to be stood around burning bins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfair?

Do you think this place is a charity

No I was only agreeing with the women who posted the comment that all it seem I the bad guy now just telling like it is for most of us on here. Even my real uk swinging couple friends who I meet 23 years ago in south Africa would agree everything has changed over the years sadly they pass away in a car crash before I could meet again them as they were ones who told me about uk swingers when I came back to the UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

You calling a strike my friend?

Do you get to stand around a burning bin?"

Yes, with placards saying, "no more messages" and "just say no!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfair?

Do you think this place is a charity

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no i do not but if they did give to charity it would only be to hot sexy looking guys on here

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Unfair?

Do you think this place is a charity

no i do not but if they did give to charity it would only be to hot sexy looking guys on here

But then it wouldn't be charity

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Unfair?

Do you think this place is a charity

no i do not but if they did give to charity it would only be to hot sexy looking guys on here

On so many occasions you do come across as bitter and self entitled, you do realise that don't you?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Lol they just need to read profiles, would save a lot of wasted messages and some wouldn't feel disheartened at not getting any replies "

Exactly this! Read the profile; do I tick all their boxes, do they tick all mine, no? Block. Next profile........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried it. Doesn't work

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet! "

I think this would be really interesting. I'd love to see how it affected the threads posted in the forums as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet!

I think this would be really interesting. I'd love to see how it affected the threads posted in the forums as well. "

Ohhhh fuck yeah! A women only day in the forum.

Carnage by brunch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you know anyway, you narna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet! "

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By *istechCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Think they need a basic IQ test.

We get so many straight guys that are miles away when the profile says local and bi.

It's gets so tiresome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet! "

See.. she gets it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think they need a basic IQ test.

We get so many straight guys that are miles away when the profile says local and bi.

It's gets so tiresome"

Would be easier if you find your self lol

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Worst idea ever! I’m rubbish at doing first messages other than FPF, so I’d never have any meets if guys didn’t message first!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet!

I think this would be really interesting. I'd love to see how it affected the threads posted in the forums as well.

Ohhhh fuck yeah! A women only day in the forum.

Carnage by brunch.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"I’ll stop messaging when you stop posting threads.

All the best X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh by the way for those who aren't aware, there is a dating app called bumble that if you match only the woman can message first.

Yeah turns out men and women aren't that different at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

So can we take from this that you never message anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send messages if someone catches my eye!!

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

"I’ll stop messaging when you stop posting threads.

All the best X"

Congratulations on having the best response to a thread ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men need to stop messaging woman and couples, if they want you, they will find you

I think a ban on men being able to mail first would be a great idea. See how the women and couples melt down when their inboxes go quiet! "

Wouldnt work for the women who message first though.. there are some that do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can try...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send messages if someone catches my eye!!

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T=ya mr prefect with a six pack and more i would say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guys, can you handle fancy a fuck message from horny single girls and couples

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Guys, can you handle fancy a fuck message from horny single girls and couples

Crikey! As concepts go mate, this one is way out there!

But, ok then, I'm up for the challenge, I'll take one for the team..........

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By *hostwolfMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll stop messaging when you stop posting threads.

All the best X"

You post threads too. Anyone can. That's the whole point of the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll stop messaging when you stop posting threads.

All the best X

You post threads too. Anyone can. That's the whole point of the forum. "

Way to go lady it was a joke, me and the Op have light hearted digs at each other.

All the best to you and yours X

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Guys, can you handle fancy a fuck message from horny single girls and couples

Crikey! As concepts go mate, this one is way out there!

But, ok then, I'm up for the challenge, I'll take one for the team..........

Bump

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