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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Yep happened a few times with a couple of mates. One I was fortunate to get back once she'd realised she'd changed.

Apparently I did the same with my last relationship thank god it ended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep happened a few times with a couple of mates. One I was fortunate to get back once she'd realised she'd changed.

Apparently I did the same with my last relationship thank god it ended "

How did you change?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my best pal of nearly 10 years. He patched me when I saw him with his new baby. Miss him terribly but from what I hear he's happy when I ever ask mutual friends about him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep happened a few times with a couple of mates. One I was fortunate to get back once she'd realised she'd changed.

Apparently I did the same with my last relationship thank god it ended

How did you change? "

Like the Hulk?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes my best pal of nearly 10 years. He patched me when I saw him with his new baby. Miss him terribly but from what I hear he's happy when I ever ask mutual friends about him x"

Do you feel bitter at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise? "

Yes but at the time we advised so now he's more aware not to let a ho... i mean girl friend get in the way of friends

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise? "

Think Bob Dylan summed that up perfectly with Positively 4th street

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise?

Yes but at the time we advised so now he's more aware not to let a ho... i mean girl friend get in the way of friends "

Haha quick recovery there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my best pal of nearly 10 years. He patched me when I saw him with his new baby. Miss him terribly but from what I hear he's happy when I ever ask mutual friends about him x

Do you feel bitter at all? "

I wouldn't say bitter is the right word. I just miss him and feel like I've missed out on lots of his life. I was the person he told stuff first too and the person who knew all the stuff about me. I just want to tell him congratulations on the baby and can't believe I'll never be at his wedding....things like that

I miss him telling me I'm an arsehole and to get a grip the most lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise?

Yes but at the time we advised so now he's more aware not to let a ho... i mean girl friend get in the way of friends

Haha quick recovery there "

Haha but seriously the first proper gf my friend had studied psychology and used it on him. If he was about to go anywhere with us and i mean anyway (even to the shop) she would either give him a quicky or a blow job. She had to watch him pee. She moved into his room from another city to commute just so she could watch him closely. When we played video games she was there even skyping. The ho.. i mean gf was nuts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise?

Yes but at the time we advised so now he's more aware not to let a ho... i mean girl friend get in the way of friends

Haha quick recovery there

Haha but seriously the first proper gf my friend had studied psychology and used it on him. If he was about to go anywhere with us and i mean anyway (even to the shop) she would either give him a quicky or a blow job. She had to watch him pee. She moved into his room from another city to commute just so she could watch him closely. When we played video games she was there even skyping. The ho.. i mean gf was nuts."

Does she work for Russian intelligence?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes my best pal of nearly 10 years. He patched me when I saw him with his new baby. Miss him terribly but from what I hear he's happy when I ever ask mutual friends about him x

Do you feel bitter at all?

I wouldn't say bitter is the right word. I just miss him and feel like I've missed out on lots of his life. I was the person he told stuff first too and the person who knew all the stuff about me. I just want to tell him congratulations on the baby and can't believe I'll never be at his wedding....things like that

I miss him telling me I'm an arsehole and to get a grip the most lol x"

Bloody hell, something just flew into my eye then when I was reading that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my best pal of nearly 10 years. He patched me when I saw him with his new baby. Miss him terribly but from what I hear he's happy when I ever ask mutual friends about him x

Do you feel bitter at all?

I wouldn't say bitter is the right word. I just miss him and feel like I've missed out on lots of his life. I was the person he told stuff first too and the person who knew all the stuff about me. I just want to tell him congratulations on the baby and can't believe I'll never be at his wedding....things like that

I miss him telling me I'm an arsehole and to get a grip the most lol x

Bloody hell, something just flew into my eye then when I was reading that "

Hate that. Something flew up my nose a few weeks go. Gave me the boak x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise?

Yes but at the time we advised so now he's more aware not to let a ho... i mean girl friend get in the way of friends

Haha quick recovery there

Haha but seriously the first proper gf my friend had studied psychology and used it on him. If he was about to go anywhere with us and i mean anyway (even to the shop) she would either give him a quicky or a blow job. She had to watch him pee. She moved into his room from another city to commute just so she could watch him closely. When we played video games she was there even skyping. The ho.. i mean gf was nuts."

I’ve never understood the fascination of watching a man pee but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to a friend of mine who was seeing a total c@€t. I won't go into how he was treating her, but whatever crap you're thinking, he was doing that and more.

She shut out anyone who told her what he was upto. The advice in such situations is to be supportive but don't give them an opportunity to think you are somehow against "them" rather than "him". Wait for her to realise.

After a few months I had let some things slip out. And told him straight what I'd do to him if stuff happened again. We didn't speak for years. She still doesn't speak too some guys who did similar, even though she's now single and much happier.

Would love to say it all worked out in the end, but she was miserable and isolated for best part of a decade. Big part of me wishes I'd said or dine something sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise?

Yes but at the time we advised so now he's more aware not to let a ho... i mean girl friend get in the way of friends

Haha quick recovery there

Haha but seriously the first proper gf my friend had studied psychology and used it on him. If he was about to go anywhere with us and i mean anyway (even to the shop) she would either give him a quicky or a blow job. She had to watch him pee. She moved into his room from another city to commute just so she could watch him closely. When we played video games she was there even skyping. The ho.. i mean gf was nuts.

Does she work for Russian intelligence? "

All i know is that my friends eyes were glazed with blinders on. Dude lost his vocab and thats when we knew if a girl says she studies pyschology. Back the f*** up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happened to a friend of mine who was seeing a total c@€t. I won't go into how he was treating her, but whatever crap you're thinking, he was doing that and more.

She shut out anyone who told her what he was upto. The advice in such situations is to be supportive but don't give them an opportunity to think you are somehow against "them" rather than "him". Wait for her to realise.

After a few months I had let some things slip out. And told him straight what I'd do to him if stuff happened again. We didn't speak for years. She still doesn't speak too some guys who did similar, even though she's now single and much happier.

Would love to say it all worked out in the end, but she was miserable and isolated for best part of a decade. Big part of me wishes I'd said or dine something sooner."

The chances are it wouldn’t have made a difference if you had said something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise? "

Yeh, best mate who's always slated us all when we were in relationships and now he's in one has become the biggest pussy whipped quim of all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chances are it wouldn’t have made a difference if you had said something "

That's the advice. Women in that situation can only help themselves. You are only going to bring you're own emotion and she'll feel judged.

You are right. I still can't help but think though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise?

Yes but at the time we advised so now he's more aware not to let a ho... i mean girl friend get in the way of friends

Haha quick recovery there

Haha but seriously the first proper gf my friend had studied psychology and used it on him. If he was about to go anywhere with us and i mean anyway (even to the shop) she would either give him a quicky or a blow job. She had to watch him pee. She moved into his room from another city to commute just so she could watch him closely. When we played video games she was there even skyping. The ho.. i mean gf was nuts.

Does she work for Russian intelligence?

All i know is that my friends eyes were glazed with blinders on. Dude lost his vocab and thats when we knew if a girl says she studies pyschology. Back the f*** up "

I feel you, my ex studied psychology

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

If you're attracted to someone and start a relationship, why the hell would you want to change them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise?

Yes but at the time we advised so now he's more aware not to let a ho... i mean girl friend get in the way of friends

Haha quick recovery there

Haha but seriously the first proper gf my friend had studied psychology and used it on him. If he was about to go anywhere with us and i mean anyway (even to the shop) she would either give him a quicky or a blow job. She had to watch him pee. She moved into his room from another city to commute just so she could watch him closely. When we played video games she was there even skyping. The ho.. i mean gf was nuts.

Does she work for Russian intelligence?

All i know is that my friends eyes were glazed with blinders on. Dude lost his vocab and thats when we knew if a girl says she studies pyschology. Back the f*** up

I feel you, my ex studied psychology "

Ohh shit, dont look back at memories its a trap filled with manipulation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're attracted to someone and start a relationship, why the hell would you want to change them?"

Unless that is how they portrayed themselves originally? And now it’s got a bit more serious they have to follow the act through?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise?

Yes but at the time we advised so now he's more aware not to let a ho... i mean girl friend get in the way of friends

Haha quick recovery there

Haha but seriously the first proper gf my friend had studied psychology and used it on him. If he was about to go anywhere with us and i mean anyway (even to the shop) she would either give him a quicky or a blow job. She had to watch him pee. She moved into his room from another city to commute just so she could watch him closely. When we played video games she was there even skyping. The ho.. i mean gf was nuts.

Does she work for Russian intelligence?

All i know is that my friends eyes were glazed with blinders on. Dude lost his vocab and thats when we knew if a girl says she studies pyschology. Back the f*** up

I feel you, my ex studied psychology

Ohh shit, dont look back at memories its a trap filled with manipulation"

You telling me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all FAB related but does anyone have experience with the age old problem of their best friend getting a new partner and then turning into somebody you don’t recognise?

Yes but at the time we advised so now he's more aware not to let a ho... i mean girl friend get in the way of friends

Haha quick recovery there

Haha but seriously the first proper gf my friend had studied psychology and used it on him. If he was about to go anywhere with us and i mean anyway (even to the shop) she would either give him a quicky or a blow job. She had to watch him pee. She moved into his room from another city to commute just so she could watch him closely. When we played video games she was there even skyping. The ho.. i mean gf was nuts.

Does she work for Russian intelligence?

All i know is that my friends eyes were glazed with blinders on. Dude lost his vocab and thats when we knew if a girl says she studies pyschology. Back the f*** up

I feel you, my ex studied psychology

Ohh shit, dont look back at memories its a trap filled with manipulation

You telling me "

Nope each their each to their own

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