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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Nope I'm the same think I've had 3 messages in a week. Suits me though

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Nope I'm the same think I've had 3 messages in a week. Suits me though "

Phew thought it was just me.... I don't want nonsense ones but the odd witty one doesn't go amiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m out of most ladies age range so when I go to message I can’t.....you’re very attractive OP so I’m sure it’s only temporary x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

I wondered a while back when females say they get 1000's of messages a day but the mass delete them when comes the time when the messages run out x

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Our messages have dried up now from the initial avalanche that newbies attract to the odd one or two now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty quiet here.

I have a couple a day ish.

Depends how active I am.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

I wondered a while back when females say they get 1000's of messages a day but the mass delete them when comes the time when the messages run out x"

I've never had mass messages and I don't bulk delete I host 2 events but still don't get many messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll message you some sweet honey

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

No messages = no worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now come on! Ladies aren't allowed to start grumbling about no messages on here too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

Prepare to be inundated with messages now... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "
even my one message beat you today. I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

If I may reply to this with an honest assessment,

I messaged you a while back joking that reading your profile and even though I liked it that it was like trying to get through war and peace. I said that I would love to help you with one of your fantasies (wouldn't really happen as you're too far away) "Woken up with a lick out" but your reply was very rude due to the fact I am not over 6 foot. Maybe when you do get messages a little more tolerance will see you receive more?"

You may want to delete this fella. Airing PM content is a no no

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

If I may reply to this with an honest assessment,

I messaged you a while back joking that reading your profile and even though I liked it that it was like trying to get through war and peace. I said that I would love to help you with one of your fantasies (wouldn't really happen as you're too far away) "Woken up with a lick out" but your reply was very rude due to the fact I am not over 6 foot. Maybe when you do get messages a little more tolerance will see you receive more?

You may want to delete this fella. Airing PM content is a no no"

Na I'm good but thanks

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I dont get as many as i once did but this suits me.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

If I may reply to this with an honest assessment,

I messaged you a while back joking that reading your profile and even though I liked it that it was like trying to get through war and peace. I said that I would love to help you with one of your fantasies (wouldn't really happen as you're too far away) "Woken up with a lick out" but your reply was very rude due to the fact I am not over 6 foot. Maybe when you do get messages a little more tolerance will see you receive more?

You may want to delete this fella. Airing PM content is a no no

Na I'm good but thanks"

If someone wants to report me and get me a ban for an honest reply that will speak volumes more about them than me.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times! "

I don't look at it like that. It means I have time to look for the people I want to meet and message them myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

I don't look at it like that. It means I have time to look for the people I want to meet and message them myself "

This is true, I do enjoy messaging off my own back but I did also enjoy the odd joke and witty statements I used to receive xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get lots. I try to reply even with a no but then they get inspired to persist.

Being a nice person I would prefer just a few who arent cutting and pasting to everyone.

Probably miss some great guys.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

My messages are just statements of late so nothing to reply to, what are you meant to say when it’s just ‘nice pics’

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Never have had hundreds even as a single female. Sure, a few more if I had uploaded a new pic but never lots. It used to make me wonder whats wrong with me, why did some ladys get 1000's and I only had a handfull? Then I would look at these lady's profiles and pics and verifications etc and think 'nah, im doing just fine thanks'.

I've never courted attention like that, I've always replied to every message, even the rude and ridiculous, in a polite and friendly fashion and feel as a result Ive had a far more enjoyable experience on here.

If lots of messages help them feel better about themselves who are we to question them?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"My messages are just statements of late so nothing to reply to, what are you meant to say when it’s just ‘nice pics’ "

Or "hey"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never have had hundreds even as a single female. Sure, a few more if I had uploaded a new pic but never lots. It used to make me wonder whats wrong with me, why did some ladys get 1000's and I only had a handfull? Then I would look at these lady's profiles and pics and verifications etc and think 'nah, im doing just fine thanks'.

I've never courted attention like that, I've always replied to every message, even the rude and ridiculous, in a polite and friendly fashion and feel as a result Ive had a far more enjoyable experience on here.

If lots of messages help them feel better about themselves who are we to question them?

"

I don’t need the attention - or 1000s of messages to make me feel better about myself, I like getting to know people which is why I message them myself as well

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times! "

I think fab is losing its pull.... or something along those lines .

Too many non swingers looking for a quick fumble and no one prepared to engage in conversation

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Never have had hundreds even as a single female. Sure, a few more if I had uploaded a new pic but never lots. It used to make me wonder whats wrong with me, why did some ladys get 1000's and I only had a handfull? Then I would look at these lady's profiles and pics and verifications etc and think 'nah, im doing just fine thanks'.

I've never courted attention like that, I've always replied to every message, even the rude and ridiculous, in a polite and friendly fashion and feel as a result Ive had a far more enjoyable experience on here.

If lots of messages help them feel better about themselves who are we to question them?

"

It's not that lots of messages make me feel better or worse it's just a bit perplexing at times when you read women say they are bulk deleting as they've thousands and it's a blank profile with little text so how are there thousands of messages?

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

I don't look at it like that. It means I have time to look for the people I want to meet and message them myself "

I send first messages. Most of the time read then deleted. I'm not saying I should sit and be inundated. Just that the social side of fab is deteriorating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m out of most ladies age range so when I go to message I can’t.....you’re very attractive OP so I’m sure it’s only temporary x"
same here due to the fact only ones looking are not in there age range or they not into men plus only men looking at my profile mainly

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Never have had hundreds even as a single female. Sure, a few more if I had uploaded a new pic but never lots. It used to make me wonder whats wrong with me, why did some ladys get 1000's and I only had a handfull? Then I would look at these lady's profiles and pics and verifications etc and think 'nah, im doing just fine thanks'.

I've never courted attention like that, I've always replied to every message, even the rude and ridiculous, in a polite and friendly fashion and feel as a result Ive had a far more enjoyable experience on here.

If lots of messages help them feel better about themselves who are we to question them?

It's not that lots of messages make me feel better or worse it's just a bit perplexing at times when you read women say they are bulk deleting as they've thousands and it's a blank profile with little text so how are there thousands of messages?

"

Filters has a lot to do with it also area in which you live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed a sharp decline in number of incoming messages too... although admitedly my message filters are alot tighter than they were first time round. But it does means i can concentrate on chatting with those I really want to chat with x

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Never have had hundreds even as a single female. Sure, a few more if I had uploaded a new pic but never lots. It used to make me wonder whats wrong with me, why did some ladys get 1000's and I only had a handfull? Then I would look at these lady's profiles and pics and verifications etc and think 'nah, im doing just fine thanks'.

I've never courted attention like that, I've always replied to every message, even the rude and ridiculous, in a polite and friendly fashion and feel as a result Ive had a far more enjoyable experience on here.

If lots of messages help them feel better about themselves who are we to question them?

It's not that lots of messages make me feel better or worse it's just a bit perplexing at times when you read women say they are bulk deleting as they've thousands and it's a blank profile with little text so how are there thousands of messages?

Filters has a lot to do with it also area in which you live "

I believe it's the north east as I have no filters due to the fact I host events and I don't limit who can attend

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


" you read women say they are bulk deleting as they've thousands and it's a blank profile with little text so how are there thousands of messages?

"

Take all your message filters off, your inbox will soon fill up! - I was getting a fair few until i got a bit more selective with message filters

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Never have had hundreds even as a single female. Sure, a few more if I had uploaded a new pic but never lots. It used to make me wonder whats wrong with me, why did some ladys get 1000's and I only had a handfull? Then I would look at these lady's profiles and pics and verifications etc and think 'nah, im doing just fine thanks'.

I've never courted attention like that, I've always replied to every message, even the rude and ridiculous, in a polite and friendly fashion and feel as a result Ive had a far more enjoyable experience on here.

If lots of messages help them feel better about themselves who are we to question them?

It's not that lots of messages make me feel better or worse it's just a bit perplexing at times when you read women say they are bulk deleting as they've thousands and it's a blank profile with little text so how are there thousands of messages?

"

I feel exactly the same, but you would be surprised how many message us saying 'cracking pics( ) love your profile, lets meet'.... I dont think men pay any attention to profile content and only a little to the pics. They just go to the Who is Nearby list and message the ones online now.

Any hole's a goal and all that.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


" you read women say they are bulk deleting as they've thousands and it's a blank profile with little text so how are there thousands of messages?

Take all your message filters off, your inbox will soon fill up! - I was getting a fair few until i got a bit more selective with message filters"

I don't have any filters haha

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

I would pop one in your inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

Awww my heart goes out to you! Welcome to the world of the Fab single man!

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


" you read women say they are bulk deleting as they've thousands and it's a blank profile with little text so how are there thousands of messages?

Take all your message filters off, your inbox will soon fill up! - I was getting a fair few until i got a bit more selective with message filters

I don't have any filters haha "

Saw that, my post crossed with yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I open my filters I'm inundated.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Awww my heart goes out to you! Welcome to the world of the Fab single man! "

I feel sometimes I'd be a better man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Awww my heart goes out to you! Welcome to the world of the Fab single man!

I feel sometimes I'd be a better man "

Nope, you're just perfect as a lady

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association "

I don't think being a member of a motoring organisation goes against you..x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association

I don't think being a member of a motoring organisation goes against you..x"

I really need to be more precise with my words.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association "

Uhh the usual banter of "if you've met them I won't " nonsense

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association

Uhh the usual banter of "if you've met them I won't " nonsense "

Well that and the men on here who like to chat shit, say stuff about you to other 'ladies' in order to get their dicks wet.

Then the ladies talk and so on whilst the man is onto his next victim

Or so a friend told me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association "

Have a quick shower, I still would.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"[kfc wiped used by poster at 15/05/18 12:57:43]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a while men give up messaging as they get ignored imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association

I don't think being a member of a motoring organisation goes against you..x

I really need to be more precise with my words. "

No I'm just messing with you.. All the other men have just given up or realised they are in fact bi or gay and finding blokes is easier. I'm the only one left and I'm just too far away from everyone....

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I don't get that many unless I add new pics and then I see an influx for a few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

Exactly the same!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done boys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a steady stream oh wait i thought this was the pissing thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men have finally joined forces and gone on strike

Now no one will be having sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association

Uhh the usual banter of "if you've met them I won't " nonsense

Well that and the men on here who like to chat shit, say stuff about you to other 'ladies' in order to get their dicks wet.

Then the ladies talk and so on whilst the man is onto his next victim

Or so a friend told me. "

I'd never get a meet from the forum because so many people could say stuff about me to put the guy off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The men have finally joined forces and gone on strike

Now no one will be having sex

"

Its not an enforsed strike trust me

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"The men have finally joined forces and gone on strike

Now no one will be having sex

"

Thank God for rabbits

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

I think fab is losing its pull.... or something along those lines .

Too many non swingers looking for a quick fumble and no one prepared to engage in conversation "
I woke up this morning .had 37 messages waiting .mind saying that 35 were pure tripe .the numpties were out in force

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The men have finally joined forces and gone on strike

Now no one will be having sex

Its not an enforsed strike trust me "

Some of you slip through the fence do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The men have finally joined forces and gone on strike

Now no one will be having sex

Thank God for rabbits "

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

I think fab is losing its pull.... or something along those lines .

Too many non swingers looking for a quick fumble and no one prepared to engage in conversation I woke up this morning .had 37 messages waiting .mind saying that 35 were pure tripe .the numpties were out in force "

We’re not numpties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. If a load a pic i get lots of new messages.

If i don’t then i get a handful, usually from the same few folk. I certainly don’t get hundreds or thousands like some ladies.

I like to keep on top of my messages so quite relieved about that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The men have finally joined forces and gone on strike

Now no one will be having sex

Thank God for rabbits

"

No more rabbits. I eat the pie

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Same OP! I ad 5 when I logged on just now. For me though I think everyone near me has messaged me and I've scared the rest away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message the ladies on here and if I get one reply out of 20 messages I am doing very well.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Get 5-10 messages a day with our filters on.

Normally about 2 indicate that they have read our profile and out of that I am lucky if 3-4 a week will have written more than one line of text.

Don't rely on fab for text conversations leading to meetings or it would drive you mad.

Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humble yourselves Ladies and reply to messages otherwise life wil do it for you.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message the ladies on here and if I get one reply out of 20 messages I am doing very well. "

I can confirm that and that's why I am not sure about this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message the ladies on here and if I get one reply out of 20 messages I am doing very well.

I can confirm that and that's why I am not sure about this thread "

You have a better chance of waking up with a million in your bank account than getting a convention going

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By *appyhumper123Man
over a year ago

hull

I don't message anyone anymore as I don't get any replys, just here for the forums now no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message the ladies on here and if I get one reply out of 20 messages I am doing very well.

I can confirm that and that's why I am not sure about this thread

You have a better chance of waking up with a million in your bank account than getting a convention going "

Ahhhhhhh this thread is not for us mate we don't count here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message the ladies on here and if I get one reply out of 20 messages I am doing very well.

I can confirm that and that's why I am not sure about this thread

You have a better chance of waking up with a million in your bank account than getting a convention going

Ahhhhhhh this thread is not for us mate we don't count here "

definitely think your correct on that

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association

Uhh the usual banter of "if you've met them I won't " nonsense

Well that and the men on here who like to chat shit, say stuff about you to other 'ladies' in order to get their dicks wet.

Then the ladies talk and so on whilst the man is onto his next victim

Or so a friend told me.

I'd never get a meet from the forum because so many people could say stuff about me to put the guy off! "

It's probably not a bad move avoiding the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message the ladies on here and if I get one reply out of 20 messages I am doing very well.

I can confirm that and that's why I am not sure about this thread

You have a better chance of waking up with a million in your bank account than getting a convention going

Cleaver at calculating percentages

Ahhhhhhh this thread is not for us mate we don't count here

definitely think your correct on that "

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By *n it 86Man
over a year ago

stevenage


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

Your beautiful and your profile great x have you tryed messaging anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

5 hours later how's your mailbox?

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Your beautiful and your profile great x have you tryed messaging anyone ?"

I send plenty messages

Usually read and deleted without reply which is fine as I'm not for everyone. I don't mind not being someone's type. I used to chat to lots of ppl who weren't my type and became good friends with them and never a sexual happening occured. Which again is fine .... just now if you're not into dial a hump it's tumble haha

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

5 hours later how's your mailbox? "

My box.... there are 6 messages. 2 in relation to the social event and 2 who I am in conversation with . 2 lovely man just messaged to say nice profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Your beautiful and your profile great x have you tryed messaging anyone ?

I send plenty messages

Usually read and deleted without reply which is fine as I'm not for everyone. I don't mind not being someone's type. I used to chat to lots of ppl who weren't my type and became good friends with them and never a sexual happening occured. Which again is fine .... just now if you're not into dial a hump it's tumble haha "

The whole site is very quiet!! Not just you lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Try longer sentences yours was too short

5 hours later how's your mailbox?

My box.... there are 6 messages. 2 in relation to the social event and 2 who I am in conversation with . 2 lovely man just messaged to say nice profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

5 hours later how's your mailbox?

My box.... there are 6 messages. 2 in relation to the social event and 2 who I am in conversation with . 2 lovely man just messaged to say nice profile "

Try longer sentences with the last 2

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By *il.redCouple
over a year ago

ashford

Ahaa i feel the same, my friends get loads of messages and i get a few here and there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you tend not to reply then it shouldn’t be a surprise but otherwise maybe try and update your profile might help.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

I was messaging you just 4 days ago so I've done my fair share

I'm sure your inbox is overflowing now anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently being on the forums puts men off. Especially if you come across quite confident and/or popular. They think the ladies will be inundated so they don't bother trying. Or so I've been told

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Apparently being on the forums puts men off. Especially if you come across quite confident and/or popular. They think the ladies will be inundated so they don't bother trying. Or so I've been told "

Yeah it works the same way for guys, I'm so confident and popular that's why I'm not getting any messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently being on the forums puts men off. Especially if you come across quite confident and/or popular. They think the ladies will be inundated so they don't bother trying. Or so I've been told "

Tis tru im not here to bug people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the whole place just really quiet though. Even the forum seems slow. The weather maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the whole place just really quiet though. Even the forum seems slow. The weather maybe "

Yeah possably the heat

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

I was messaging you just 4 days ago so I've done my fair share

I'm sure your inbox is overflowing now anyway."

I like you messaging . .... esp when I'm trying to meet you and your gorgeous OH

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown

Judging by the profiles of those of you saying you're not getting many messages I'd have so say the servers are buggered.

At least I know why I'm not getting any and I doubt it's computer problems.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Same for us ,but we block single men and don't fit the mould of what most couples seem to want ie bi fem couple.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too far away from everyone sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders in Reads thread...

Checks inbox...

Bats are still sleeping quietly in the corner...

Creeps away so I don't wake them

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Try being a single guy on here. Lucky if you get a message once a week.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

You are so lucky ! Today I got dick pictures and hey !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single guy on here. Lucky if you get a message once a week. "

Speak for yourself

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Try being a single guy on here. Lucky if you get a message once a week.

Speak for yourself "
Happy days then for you

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve only sent 3 messages in 4 months.

I used to play the numbers game and message loads. Engagement rate or interaction I’d say around 15% ish.

Messaging people has definitely lost its appeal these days. Seems like too much effort for minimal reward.

Might wait another month before I message anybody again. Reckon I should only message one person a month as a plan.

Over the course of a year I might even get a conversation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single guy on here. Lucky if you get a message once a week.

Speak for yourself "

Yeah. It's once a month for some of us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a while men give up messaging as they get ignored imo"

Probably this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep a couple a month I get.

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By *yroneBMan
over a year ago

Bromley

Same, any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

Yeah, right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be blokes are intimidated by your profile.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association

Uhh the usual banter of "if you've met them I won't " nonsense

Well that and the men on here who like to chat shit, say stuff about you to other 'ladies' in order to get their dicks wet.

Then the ladies talk and so on whilst the man is onto his next victim

Or so a friend told me. "

Its a shame we dont talk to each other more. The sweet talking charmer fucker

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Could be blokes are intimidated by your profile."

Ha..... if they met me they wouldn't be! As my veris say I'm very easy to get on with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m out of of most ladies age range , which is fair enough but I’m not ready to tackle a crusty , I’d rather leave ! Hahahah

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association

Uhh the usual banter of "if you've met them I won't " nonsense

Well that and the men on here who like to chat shit, say stuff about you to other 'ladies' in order to get their dicks wet.

Then the ladies talk and so on whilst the man is onto his next victim

Or so a friend told me.

Its a shame we dont talk to each other more. The sweet talking charmer fucker "

Wait...you have a friend too? Was it a Thursday night special?

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton

I'm the same nobody messages me lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a message today that was about event that's coming up other than that nothing for a week or two lol

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association

Uhh the usual banter of "if you've met them I won't " nonsense

Well that and the men on here who like to chat shit, say stuff about you to other 'ladies' in order to get their dicks wet.

Then the ladies talk and so on whilst the man is onto his next victim

Or so a friend told me.

Its a shame we dont talk to each other more. The sweet talking charmer fucker

Wait...you have a friend too? Was it a Thursday night special? "

No but its not over until the fat lady sings...theres a great song called "Oh Claire"

you should have a listen

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Ladies, out of interest what's your view to message ratio ?

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

I've stopped messaging women n couples now as I got virtually non off any requirements so no point wasting my time lol.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Ladies, out of interest what's your view to message ratio ? "

800-1000 views a day on average

Maybe 20 messages of which approx 60% are social enquiries regarding being added to list or confirming their spot.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Ladies, out of interest what's your view to message ratio ? "

About 10% then 9% cant manage more than 6 words.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Ladies, out of interest what's your view to message ratio ?

800-1000 views a day on average

Maybe 20 messages of which approx 60% are social enquiries regarding being added to list or confirming their spot. "

My message conversion rate is 0.5%

603 views - 3 messages

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By *hostwolfMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Jesus if you’re struggling I’m screwed

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Ladies, out of interest what's your view to message ratio ?

About 10% then 9% cant manage more than 6 words. "

Which are ....

Are you free now to fuck ?

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have to agree

What happened to women being in demand plus the fact that alot of us single ladies are bi too

I think it's just a lie that some females say about 100s of messages if I am honest

And agree think the decline of FAB is upon us too

There is a small minority of us that actually enjoy the lifestyle, making friends etc on the scene

It's not about a quick fuck

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Noticed this in past couple of weeks and actually grateful for it. Less Fabmin and doing my own hunting. Plus I've blocked most of the numpties in my area

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Ladies, out of interest what's your view to message ratio ? "

Just worked it out for todays views to messages and its 18%. Not sure if thats usual or not!

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Like most men who are in my situation I very rarely meet someone's criteria and get to message , out of those I might get 1 thanks not for me message,most are either not read or deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve noticed this in the past few weeks too, my messages mainly come from those I usually chat to, I don’t think there’s many guys that are local to me that aren’t blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like most men who are in my situation I very rarely meet someone's criteria and get to message , out of those I might get 1 thanks not for me message,most are either not read or deleted."

Exactly, I never get a message. Forums are the best part of this place lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am defiantly struggling. Think I need an upgrade lol

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

I never get anywhere near the hundreds some people say they do

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't get any. It's because my vagina isn't fresh anymore

Also because I'm tarnished by association

Uhh the usual banter of "if you've met them I won't " nonsense

Well that and the men on here who like to chat shit, say stuff about you to other 'ladies' in order to get their dicks wet.

Then the ladies talk and so on whilst the man is onto his next victim

Or so a friend told me.

Its a shame we dont talk to each other more. The sweet talking charmer fucker

Wait...you have a friend too? Was it a Thursday night special?

No but its not over until the fat lady sings...theres a great song called "Oh Claire"

you should have a listen "

I like Mandy

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

Here's an interesting thought. Maybe women should message those they are interested in and that fit your criteria. Bet your would get a response n not deleted unread.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Here's an interesting thought. Maybe women should message those they are interested in and that fit your criteria. Bet your would get a response n not deleted unread."

I do and yes I often get a no thanks / delete too

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby


"Here's an interesting thought. Maybe women should message those they are interested in and that fit your criteria. Bet your would get a response n not deleted unread.

I do and yes I often get a no thanks / delete too "

Wow that's shocked me in all honesty especially seeing your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

Hmmmm I think a lot of girls/ladies completely ignore a lot of perfectly reasonable messages from reasonable guys because there are SOOOOO many guys and messages so thats understandable. But without the manners of a simple "thanks but no thanks" there seems little encouragement. I may not be the king but Im a decent looking guy, I make an effort with messages and hardly get a reply. Not even a "no thanks".... I do get it as I have spoken to girls and generally you can actually watch their message count going up. But saturation point gets reached and you lot have ignored every bloke in here, decent or not. That or already fucked them.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Hmmmm I think a lot of girls/ladies completely ignore a lot of perfectly reasonable messages from reasonable guys because there are SOOOOO many guys and messages so thats understandable. But without the manners of a simple "thanks but no thanks" there seems little encouragement. I may not be the king but Im a decent looking guy, I make an effort with messages and hardly get a reply. Not even a "no thanks".... I do get it as I have spoken to girls and generally you can actually watch their message count going up. But saturation point gets reached and you lot have ignored every bloke in here, decent or not. That or already fucked them."

Someone didn’t read the site FAQ’s...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought single ladies got loads of messages .... as a couple we get a few per day must be more men into cuckolding nowadays or just think they will get a better chance of nsa fun from a couple than a single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Hmmmm I think a lot of girls/ladies completely ignore a lot of perfectly reasonable messages from reasonable guys because there are SOOOOO many guys and messages so thats understandable. But without the manners of a simple "thanks but no thanks" there seems little encouragement. I may not be the king but Im a decent looking guy, I make an effort with messages and hardly get a reply. Not even a "no thanks".... I do get it as I have spoken to girls and generally you can actually watch their message count going up. But saturation point gets reached and you lot have ignored every bloke in here, decent or not. That or already fucked them.

Someone didn’t read the site FAQ’s...! "

Sorry, what did I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

Deleted unread

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Hmmmm I think a lot of girls/ladies completely ignore a lot of perfectly reasonable messages from reasonable guys because there are SOOOOO many guys and messages so thats understandable. But without the manners of a simple "thanks but no thanks" there seems little encouragement. I may not be the king but Im a decent looking guy, I make an effort with messages and hardly get a reply. Not even a "no thanks".... I do get it as I have spoken to girls and generally you can actually watch their message count going up. But saturation point gets reached and you lot have ignored every bloke in here, decent or not. That or already fucked them.

Someone didn’t read the site FAQ’s...!

Sorry, what did I do?

"

Site FAQ’s explain what a deleted message/no response means

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD


"Like most men who are in my situation I very rarely meet someone's criteria and get to message , out of those I might get 1 thanks not for me message,most are either not read or deleted.

Exactly, I never get a message. Forums are the best part of this place lol"

Maybe the tide is turning and we might stand a chance at an actual meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get messages "

Is that cos only people who are 99 can message you?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I never get messages "

Another fibber

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Here's an interesting thought. Maybe women should message those they are interested in and that fit your criteria. Bet your would get a response n not deleted unread."

I do and very often it's just deleted. Not even read..... I mean who would have thought a guy does that?

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD


"I never get messages "
And then you only want to chat to fab friends ( till u get your mojo back ) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get messages

Another fibber "

Hey, I replied!

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

It is definitely quieter.

38 views today, 4 messages (3 people).

I have a feeling that I've scared everyone off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought single ladies got loads of messages .... as a couple we get a few per day must be more men into cuckolding nowadays or just think they will get a better chance of nsa fun from a couple than a single "

I do, and I very rarely get abuse after saying no thank you.

There's something fishy going on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single guy on here. Lucky if you get a message once a week.

Speak for yourself "

He was....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's an interesting thought. Maybe women should message those they are interested in and that fit your criteria. Bet your would get a response n not deleted unread.

I do and very often it's just deleted. Not even read..... I mean who would have thought a guy does that? "

I had a guy do that to me the other day

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By *traightguy101Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate "

I'd love a coffee with you always after meeting interesting people, but I feel anything more than that

I wouldn't be in your interest range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

I think fab is losing its pull.... or something along those lines .

Too many non swingers looking for a quick fumble and no one prepared to engage in conversation "

The site is a waste of time and it's nice to see women struggling too as for a single guy it's waste of time

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I thought single ladies got loads of messages .... as a couple we get a few per day must be more men into cuckolding nowadays or just think they will get a better chance of nsa fun from a couple than a single

I do, and I very rarely get abuse after saying no thank you.

There's something fishy going on here "

I've had 50 odd messages today, replied to about half so far, and no abuse yet.

When I don't want messages or I need time to catch up on replies, I apply my filters or hide.

The amount of serious abuse I've had in 3 years or so probably doesn't hit double figures.

I wonder why some people get loads of abuse and others don't. Be interested to see some stats on it related to age, single or couple, no of messages replied to, deleted/ignored etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Hmmmm I think a lot of girls/ladies completely ignore a lot of perfectly reasonable messages from reasonable guys because there are SOOOOO many guys and messages so thats understandable. But without the manners of a simple "thanks but no thanks" there seems little encouragement. I may not be the king but Im a decent looking guy, I make an effort with messages and hardly get a reply. Not even a "no thanks".... I do get it as I have spoken to girls and generally you can actually watch their message count going up. But saturation point gets reached and you lot have ignored every bloke in here, decent or not. That or already fucked them.

Someone didn’t read the site FAQ’s...!

Sorry, what did I do?

Site FAQ’s explain what a deleted message/no response means"

One would assume not interested? Which I get... Im just suggesting with then sheer volume of messages maybe there isn't enough time to read them all soothes go unread regardless of content or sender? Again, Im not saying Im Superman but (risking a backlash here) some girls who wouldn't get a second glance in most bars seem able to clean up here?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

I don't look at it like that. It means I have time to look for the people I want to meet and message them myself

I send first messages. Most of the time read then deleted. I'm not saying I should sit and be inundated. Just that the social side of fab is deteriorating "

It’s not just the social side of fab that’s deteriorating.

We’ve been on here with this account for just over eighteen months , and our last time before this one was about two years ago . We would be inundated with mail then , we never are now and haven’t been since rejoining . Everyone we meet says the same , couples , single women , and guys .

The membership of the site hasn’t gone down , there are perhaps mor snow than there were then , so it’s odd .

And to show it’s not just the social side , we don’t do socials and never have .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

I don't look at it like that. It means I have time to look for the people I want to meet and message them myself

I send first messages. Most of the time read then deleted. I'm not saying I should sit and be inundated. Just that the social side of fab is deteriorating

It’s not just the social side of fab that’s deteriorating.

We’ve been on here with this account for just over eighteen months , and our last time before this one was about two years ago . We would be inundated with mail then , we never are now and haven’t been since rejoining . Everyone we meet says the same , couples , single women , and guys .

The membership of the site hasn’t gone down , there are perhaps mor snow than there were then , so it’s odd .

And to show it’s not just the social side , we don’t do socials and never have . "

Wonder if its just pictures people are here to look at then. Plenty of all sorts to look at and perv over without the efort of leaving the sofa

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

I'd message most of you women n couples here but eithrr filters on so I can't.

Or I don't match ya what you want. I'd even message just to chat shit n not expect anything from it. In fact there is a few of you on this thread I have messaged and you have not bothered reading and just deleted it so from that I don't bother messaging again as I know ya not interested.

But I'm sure for you women it's only a lull in the battle for ya and will pick up again when it's not sunny any more lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

I don't look at it like that. It means I have time to look for the people I want to meet and message them myself

I send first messages. Most of the time read then deleted. I'm not saying I should sit and be inundated. Just that the social side of fab is deteriorating

It’s not just the social side of fab that’s deteriorating.

We’ve been on here with this account for just over eighteen months , and our last time before this one was about two years ago . We would be inundated with mail then , we never are now and haven’t been since rejoining . Everyone we meet says the same , couples , single women , and guys .

The membership of the site hasn’t gone down , there are perhaps mor snow than there were then , so it’s odd .

And to show it’s not just the social side , we don’t do socials and never have .

Wonder if its just pictures people are here to look at then. Plenty of all sorts to look at and perv over without the efort of leaving the sofa"

Good call

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

I think fab is losing its pull.... or something along those lines .

Too many non swingers looking for a quick fumble and no one prepared to engage in conversation

The site is a waste of time and it's nice to see women struggling too as for a single guy it's waste of time "

I'm perfectly happy only getting a couple of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your profile is not very enticing to the casual messager,yes you have nice photos

but you come across as too much like hard work in your blurb,your profile is too long most guys read the first couple of lines at most so maybe trim it a bit and you might get a few more replies.

I wasn't asking for a profile critique and if someone can't take the effort to at least skim read what sort of effort would they make in the bedroom? "

Bloody Hell! Completely agreed! Wont spend 2 minutes reading, you're hardly going to go down on her for an hour? more like pop your load the moment you're inside her or see a bare tit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine have dried up too OP sad times!

I think fab is losing its pull.... or something along those lines .

Too many non swingers looking for a quick fumble and no one prepared to engage in conversation

The site is a waste of time and it's nice to see women struggling too as for a single guy it's waste of time "
I somewhat agree with this.. As I said earlier, and running the risk of being labelled all sorts here but the girls (bang average ones) seem to rule to such a degree, you'd think they were models.

I may have vented here but I am polite, articulate, not a horror show to look at yet UNREAD... and agin, I have spoken to girls to know they get SOOOO many - and some statuses confirm, it's just mass delete or dont read.... But this also shoots them in the foot....

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Hmmmm I think a lot of girls/ladies completely ignore a lot of perfectly reasonable messages from reasonable guys because there are SOOOOO many guys and messages so thats understandable. But without the manners of a simple "thanks but no thanks" there seems little encouragement. I may not be the king but Im a decent looking guy, I make an effort with messages and hardly get a reply. Not even a "no thanks".... I do get it as I have spoken to girls and generally you can actually watch their message count going up. But saturation point gets reached and you lot have ignored every bloke in here, decent or not. That or already fucked them.

Someone didn’t read the site FAQ’s...!

Sorry, what did I do?

Site FAQ’s explain what a deleted message/no response means

One would assume not interested? Which I get... Im just suggesting with then sheer volume of messages maybe there isn't enough time to read them all soothes go unread regardless of content or sender? Again, Im not saying Im Superman but (risking a backlash here) some girls who wouldn't get a second glance in most bars seem able to clean up here?

"

Asha’s already been said repeatedly, many women aren’t getting hundreds of messages and don’t therefore bulk delete. What you may not appreciate is that women read profiles (in stealth mode so you don’t know they’ve looked) and delete messages from profiles that don’t entice. You may be Superman but if your profile and pics don’t show that then your message gets deleted.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"your profile is not very enticing to the casual messager,yes you have nice photos

but you come across as too much like hard work in your blurb,your profile is too long most guys read the first couple of lines at most so maybe trim it a bit and you might get a few more replies.

I wasn't asking for a profile critique and if someone can't take the effort to at least skim read what sort of effort would they make in the bedroom?

Bloody Hell! Completely agreed! Wont spend 2 minutes reading, you're hardly going to go down on her for an hour? more like pop your load the moment you're inside her or see a bare tit.

"

I read the entire profile I sent a jokey message relating to one aspect of the OP's fantasies section and got a stinging rebuke as a reply due to the fact that I don't meet the criteria in the height requirements,if you're going to have such a long winded profile then you must expect a lot of people will not read it's entirety and a lot will be put off messaging the author.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

In short you're complaining about the lack of messages yet when a message is sent your reply was anything but polite maybe this is a cause of the lack of messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Hmmmm I think a lot of girls/ladies completely ignore a lot of perfectly reasonable messages from reasonable guys because there are SOOOOO many guys and messages so thats understandable. But without the manners of a simple "thanks but no thanks" there seems little encouragement. I may not be the king but Im a decent looking guy, I make an effort with messages and hardly get a reply. Not even a "no thanks".... I do get it as I have spoken to girls and generally you can actually watch their message count going up. But saturation point gets reached and you lot have ignored every bloke in here, decent or not. That or already fucked them.

Someone didn’t read the site FAQ’s...!

Sorry, what did I do?

Site FAQ’s explain what a deleted message/no response means

One would assume not interested? Which I get... Im just suggesting with then sheer volume of messages maybe there isn't enough time to read them all soothes go unread regardless of content or sender? Again, Im not saying Im Superman but (risking a backlash here) some girls who wouldn't get a second glance in most bars seem able to clean up here?

Asha’s already been said repeatedly, many women aren’t getting hundreds of messages and don’t therefore bulk delete. What you may not appreciate is that women read profiles (in stealth mode so you don’t know they’ve looked) and delete messages from profiles that don’t entice. You may be Superman but if your profile and pics don’t show that then your message gets deleted. "

Fair play flower.... Then they shouldn't complain about lack of messages if they cant read between the lines. Not everyone has a profile writing knack, doesn't mean they arent dynamite in the sack!

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By *norkelingforclamsMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"In short you're complaining about the lack of messages yet when a message is sent your reply was anything but polite maybe this is a cause of the lack of messages?"

I sent a message, received a rather nice response. Maybe try harder next time...

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"your profile is not very enticing to the casual messager,yes you have nice photos

but you come across as too much like hard work in your blurb,your profile is too long most guys read the first couple of lines at most so maybe trim it a bit and you might get a few more replies.

I wasn't asking for a profile critique and if someone can't take the effort to at least skim read what sort of effort would they make in the bedroom?

Bloody Hell! Completely agreed! Wont spend 2 minutes reading, you're hardly going to go down on her for an hour? more like pop your load the moment you're inside her or see a bare tit.

I read the entire profile I sent a jokey message relating to one aspect of the OP's fantasies section and got a stinging rebuke as a reply due to the fact that I don't meet the criteria in the height requirements,if you're going to have such a long winded profile then you must expect a lot of people will not read it's entirety and a lot will be put off messaging the author."

You're still moaning because I said not my type as under 6ft....... wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women should receive messages, it would certainly take some of the big ego's off, who treat this site like a marketplace of single guys that they can choose and pick to put in their cart like product.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only female on here that doesn't get messages anymore?

Busy morning at work thought I'd log on in the hope something fun has popped up in my box but alas nada, zilch, nil.

The struggle is real..... I might have to go back to "real life" and try dating at this rate

Hmmmm I think a lot of girls/ladies completely ignore a lot of perfectly reasonable messages from reasonable guys because there are SOOOOO many guys and messages so thats understandable. But without the manners of a simple "thanks but no thanks" there seems little encouragement. I may not be the king but Im a decent looking guy, I make an effort with messages and hardly get a reply. Not even a "no thanks".... I do get it as I have spoken to girls and generally you can actually watch their message count going up. But saturation point gets reached and you lot have ignored every bloke in here, decent or not. That or already fucked them.

Someone didn’t read the site FAQ’s...!

Sorry, what did I do?

Site FAQ’s explain what a deleted message/no response means

One would assume not interested? Which I get... Im just suggesting with then sheer volume of messages maybe there isn't enough time to read them all soothes go unread regardless of content or sender? Again, Im not saying Im Superman but (risking a backlash here) some girls who wouldn't get a second glance in most bars seem able to clean up here?

Asha’s already been said repeatedly, many women aren’t getting hundreds of messages and don’t therefore bulk delete. What you may not appreciate is that women read profiles (in stealth mode so you don’t know they’ve looked) and delete messages from profiles that don’t entice. You may be Superman but if your profile and pics don’t show that then your message gets deleted. "

Awww and I just put my superman costume in the back of the bloody cupboard.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I think women should receive messages, it would certainly take some of the big ego's off, who treat this site like a marketplace of single guys that they can choose and pick to put in their cart like product."

Yes some have massive egos Mr maple syrup man

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"your profile is not very enticing to the casual messager,yes you have nice photos

but you come across as too much like hard work in your blurb,your profile is too long most guys read the first couple of lines at most so maybe trim it a bit and you might get a few more replies.

I wasn't asking for a profile critique and if someone can't take the effort to at least skim read what sort of effort would they make in the bedroom?

Bloody Hell! Completely agreed! Wont spend 2 minutes reading, you're hardly going to go down on her for an hour? more like pop your load the moment you're inside her or see a bare tit.

I read the entire profile I sent a jokey message relating to one aspect of the OP's fantasies section and got a stinging rebuke as a reply due to the fact that I don't meet the criteria in the height requirements,if you're going to have such a long winded profile then you must expect a lot of people will not read it's entirety and a lot will be put off messaging the author."

But if you don't meet her height requirements, why did you message in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I use her profile to fall asleep.

Thank you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Something has clearly changed on the site since this thread went up....

All of a sudden the banks have broken. Or the Zombie Wanking Squad have been having a nap and resurfaced together

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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