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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because all the women on fab are bitches and we only exist to make men’s lives harder! Is that what you wanted to hear?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because all the women on fab are bitches and we only exist to make men’s lives harder! Is that what you wanted to hear?"

No comment !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because all the women on fab are bitches and we only exist to make men’s lives harder! Is that what you wanted to hear?

No comment !"

Good, now run along. Oh, and it was probably a man anyway.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Because all the women on fab are bitches and we only exist to make men’s lives harder! Is that what you wanted to hear?"

Boom lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because all the women on fab are bitches and we only exist to make men’s lives harder! Is that what you wanted to hear?"

It's better than nothing I guess haha

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?"

Probably a guy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hanah ball... Your being tough to day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because all the women on fab are bitches and we only exist to make men’s lives harder! Is that what you wanted to hear?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because all the women on fab are bitches and we only exist to make men’s lives harder! Is that what you wanted to hear?

No comment !

Good, now run along. Oh, and it was probably a man anyway."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s always this female / male power thing on here.... there’s plenty of men who do the same thing... will chat and talk the talk and then disappear.... unfortunately it’s how fab is!!!! There’s good and bad!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hanah ball... Your being tough to day "

I work nights and it’s past my bedtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s always this female / male power thing on here.... there’s plenty of men who do the same thing... will chat and talk the talk and then disappear.... unfortunately it’s how fab is!!!! There’s good and bad!!! "

Have you seen that clings, penetrates, dissolves meme? Sums it up perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anyone play games? Fragile ego maybe? Maybe they need to feel wanted? Either way just block every person that does it and brush it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allow me to take you to bed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s always this female / male power thing on here.... there’s plenty of men who do the same thing... will chat and talk the talk and then disappear.... unfortunately it’s how fab is!!!! There’s good and bad!!! "

Completely agreed with you

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Start messaging women then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start messaging women then."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s always this female / male power thing on here.... there’s plenty of men who do the same thing... will chat and talk the talk and then disappear.... unfortunately it’s how fab is!!!! There’s good and bad!!!

Have you seen that clings, penetrates, dissolves meme? Sums it up perfectly "

Haha yes it does!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?"

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Is it only women that so that ? No , men are equally as guilty

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

A few txt from someone doesn’t mean they’re obliged to carry on a conversation, maybe you said something they didn’t like or they lost interest, as rude as it is, we can cut a conversation short at a moments notice, sometimes I’ve had to do that with persistent guys who won’t take no for an answer, I’m not saying that’s what you’ve done OP but I’m saying there are reasons behind actions, they may of simply gotten cold feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it only women that so that ? No , men are equally as guilty "

Dam right!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do ! "

Well done this’s exactly what I wanted to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

Well done this’s exactly what I wanted to hear "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Start messaging women then. "

As opposed to girl's that should have said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

Well done this’s exactly what I wanted to hear "

I can see you all parading around like peacocks and doing chest jumps against each other....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

Well done this’s exactly what I wanted to hear

I can see you all parading around like peacocks and doing chest jumps against each other.... "

Looool that’s a strange thought , you can do that for me tho and do chest jumps against me if you want !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe "Ghosting" is rife from both sides.

If something "better" comes along I guess some people might just lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe "Ghosting" is rife from both sides.

If something "better" comes along I guess some people might just lose interest. "

Yes it is!!!! That’s one person... it’s not nice but it doesn’t mean we are all bloody like that!!!

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

Well done this’s exactly what I wanted to hear

I can see you all parading around like peacocks and doing chest jumps against each other.... "

A bit of tea came out of my nose when I read that. Bravo, Madam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?"

Believe a lot of the vitriol could have been avoided if you'd just inserted the word "some" before the word "girls" in your original post lol...

But everyone is allowed to change their minds surely? And women on average chop and change them far far more than men? Possibly because men are more stubborn buggers who like to see things through whatever the case ha! As to change is often wrongly perceived amongst men as a sign of weakness that the original plan they had was wrong in the first place? Most women on the other hand can often change their minds about something every hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe "Ghosting" is rife from both sides.

If something "better" comes along I guess some people might just lose interest.

Yes it is!!!! That’s one person... it’s not nice but it doesn’t mean we are all bloody like that!!! "

Please don't get me wrong. I don't for a second tar people with any brushes.

My opinion was just that it's possible from both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean they have a bit of a chat, to see if you get on. Realise you probably dont, so dont take it any further.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I don't do this

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do ! "

And the men are so up front, truthful, respectful and genuine and never pretend to be what they're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean they have a bit of a chat, to see if you get on. Realise you probably dont, so dont take it any further. "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

Well done this’s exactly what I wanted to hear "

Aww bless you made a special friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

And the men are so up front, truthful, respectful and genuine and never pretend to be what they're not "

Na it’s ok not to be interested in someone once chatting , but the way some people act on here is insane ! I’m not going to get into detail with it because eveyone seems to take offence on these forums , but I no 100% that on here some people have power trips and would not dare speak like they do in person or in a real life situation !

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

Well done this’s exactly what I wanted to hear "

"Most" suggests you think the majority of ladies of Fab behave the way the OP described which is completely unfair not to mention wide of the mark.

In two years on the site and through talking to numerous people I've yet to feel I've been "led on" and "had my interest thrown back in my face"!!!

Yes I've had conversations that have fizzled out, or where one or other of us have realised that any initial interest has not been built on and when that has happened I just accept it and move on, rather than feeling my ego has been battered and looking to blame it on the person having "led me on".

Simple fact is by the sheer nature of the site and the way it works is you're not going to be right for everyone so it's best just to accept that and not take it as a personal affront just because someone is not interested in you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe "Ghosting" is rife from both sides.

If something "better" comes along I guess some people might just lose interest.

Yes it is!!!! That’s one person... it’s not nice but it doesn’t mean we are all bloody like that!!!

Please don't get me wrong. I don't for a second tar people with any brushes.

My opinion was just that it's possible from both sides. "

I agree with you it is both sides... but some people do tar people.... and that’s what’s irritating haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

And the men are so up front, truthful, respectful and genuine and never pretend to be what they're not "

I can make that claim.

I'm no different in here than i would be in real life and those who know me can testify to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it only women that so that ? No , men are equally as guilty "

Men always innocents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

And the men are so up front, truthful, respectful and genuine and never pretend to be what they're not

I can make that claim.

I'm no different in here than i would be in real life and those who know me can testify to that. "

That’s good mate because your being yourself and real , not eveyone is like that unfortunately

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Is it only women that so that ? No , men are equally as guilty

Men always innocents "

And I believe in fairies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fickle world of fab. It’s there prerogative buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it only women that so that ? No , men are equally as guilty

Men always innocents

And I believe in fairies "

Oh and the tooth fairy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe "Ghosting" is rife from both sides.

If something "better" comes along I guess some people might just lose interest.

Yes it is!!!! That’s one person... it’s not nice but it doesn’t mean we are all bloody like that!!!

Please don't get me wrong. I don't for a second tar people with any brushes.

My opinion was just that it's possible from both sides.

I agree with you it is both sides... but some people do tar people.... and that’s what’s irritating haha "

I completely agree. It's a case of once (or several times) bitten, twice shy.

I've had lovely ladies talk and chat and no more. I'm quite happy with that.

I've had women delete messages without reading. No problems.

I've met some lovely people that I consider genuine friends.

Personally, I've found that as long as you don't take this place too seriously, don't allow the way other people behave to cause you to question yourself, you'll do just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's usually something the guy would say that might suddenly turn me off.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Is it only women that so that ? No , men are equally as guilty

Men always innocents

And I believe in fairies

Oh and the tooth fairy!!! "

And Santa too although he didn't empty his sacks for me this Christmas

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Sometimes I read a fun or interesting message and start a conversation. Maybe midway through the chat , i have a proper look at the person's profile and the text, photographs or verifications and they might make me change my mind.

Possibly this was the case or something in the conversation means I don't feel attracted to the person. As ladies get lots of messages, there isn't really much point continuing to chat to someone when you know it isn't going anywhere.

Don't get wound up. Just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's usually something the guy would say that might suddenly turn me off."

But is that early on or a after a week or so of messaging?

If you find you've clicked and conversed for an extended period of time and a guy may say one thing you don't like would that be it. End of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's usually something the guy would say that might suddenly turn me off.

But is that early on or a after a week or so of messaging?

If you find you've clicked and conversed for an extended period of time and a guy may say one thing you don't like would that be it. End of? "

It can be within 2 or 3 messages and sometimes maybe after a week or 2 of messages and having clicked with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it only women that so that ? No , men are equally as guilty

Men always innocents

And I believe in fairies "

and Wish you were North East

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes I read a fun or interesting message and start a conversation. Maybe midway through the chat , i have a proper look at the person's profile and the text, photographs or verifications and they might make me change my mind.

Possibly this was the case or something in the conversation means I don't feel attracted to the person. As ladies get lots of messages, there isn't really much point continuing to chat to someone when you know it isn't going anywhere.

Don't get wound up. Just move on. "

To be honest I respect this

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I know I sometimes reply to someone to see if they are fun but find there is no spark - maybe your girl got bored and drifted off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe "Ghosting" is rife from both sides.

If something "better" comes along I guess some people might just lose interest.

Yes it is!!!! That’s one person... it’s not nice but it doesn’t mean we are all bloody like that!!!

Please don't get me wrong. I don't for a second tar people with any brushes.

My opinion was just that it's possible from both sides.

I agree with you it is both sides... but some people do tar people.... and that’s what’s irritating haha

I completely agree. It's a case of once (or several times) bitten, twice shy.

I've had lovely ladies talk and chat and no more. I'm quite happy with that.

I've had women delete messages without reading. No problems.

I've met some lovely people that I consider genuine friends.

Personally, I've found that as long as you don't take this place too seriously, don't allow the way other people behave to cause you to question yourself, you'll do just fine. "

If people take fab seriously they are on a serious slippery side to going loopy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sometimes questioned whether this is the place for me. I'd like to think I'm a pleasant bloke but I'm probably too idealistic.

If someone didn't want to talk to me after a while, I'd rather they simply be honest and tell me, rather than just blank me.

I understand it's far from a perfect world and the nature of Fab can be quite cold and harsh, but it would be a lot nicer.

I can dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sometimes questioned whether this is the place for me. I'd like to think I'm a pleasant bloke but I'm probably too idealistic.

If someone didn't want to talk to me after a while, I'd rather they simply be honest and tell me, rather than just blank me.

I understand it's far from a perfect world and the nature of Fab can be quite cold and harsh, but it would be a lot nicer.

I can dream. "

Ye I agree mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sometimes questioned whether this is the place for me. I'd like to think I'm a pleasant bloke but I'm probably too idealistic.

If someone didn't want to talk to me after a while, I'd rather they simply be honest and tell me, rather than just blank me.

I understand it's far from a perfect world and the nature of Fab can be quite cold and harsh, but it would be a lot nicer.

I can dream. "

You see id happily tell the guy in question. Problem is it's usually followed by abuse or a 100 messages asking for another chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sometimes questioned whether this is the place for me. I'd like to think I'm a pleasant bloke but I'm probably too idealistic.

If someone didn't want to talk to me after a while, I'd rather they simply be honest and tell me, rather than just blank me.

I understand it's far from a perfect world and the nature of Fab can be quite cold and harsh, but it would be a lot nicer.

I can dream.

You see id happily tell the guy in question. Problem is it's usually followed by abuse or a 100 messages asking for another chance "

This is why I don’t send a ‘polite no thanks’, I’ve been caught out by that trap one too many times by people who claim to be able to take no for an answer, but the reality is quite different

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"I've sometimes questioned whether this is the place for me. I'd like to think I'm a pleasant bloke but I'm probably too idealistic.

If someone didn't want to talk to me after a while, I'd rather they simply be honest and tell me, rather than just blank me.

I understand it's far from a perfect world and the nature of Fab can be quite cold and harsh, but it would be a lot nicer.

I can dream. "

It's down to poor communication. A huge majority of people haven't the bottle to end a conversation so they just stop replying altogether. I have countless unfinished conversations and unfortunately you just get used to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sometimes questioned whether this is the place for me. I'd like to think I'm a pleasant bloke but I'm probably too idealistic.

If someone didn't want to talk to me after a while, I'd rather they simply be honest and tell me, rather than just blank me.

I understand it's far from a perfect world and the nature of Fab can be quite cold and harsh, but it would be a lot nicer.

I can dream.

You see id happily tell the guy in question. Problem is it's usually followed by abuse or a 100 messages asking for another chance "

I’ve been told that a few times from your girls , does that really happen ? You say your not interested and then they abuse ? I don’t get that loool , good enough to message in first place tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sometimes questioned whether this is the place for me. I'd like to think I'm a pleasant bloke but I'm probably too idealistic.

If someone didn't want to talk to me after a while, I'd rather they simply be honest and tell me, rather than just blank me.

I understand it's far from a perfect world and the nature of Fab can be quite cold and harsh, but it would be a lot nicer.

I can dream.

You see id happily tell the guy in question. Problem is it's usually followed by abuse or a 100 messages asking for another chance

I’ve been told that a few times from your girls , does that really happen ? You say your not interested and then they abuse ? I don’t get that loool , good enough to message in first place tho "

I've heard this too. The abuse at being rejected. This goes back to my earlier comment about not taking things too seriously.

It's a great big world and there's someone who suits everyone.

Manners cost nothing and if a lady is respectful enough to say, "Thanks but no thanks.." be an adult and reply fair enough, take care.

It's so simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One other thing is, READ PEOPLES PROFILES!!

Get a feel of what that person wants and requires.

For example, I'm a smoker and I don't bother messaging people who say they won't meet smokers. Yeah it's a damn shame, but I'm just not for them.

Cut down the chances of rejection by choosing someone who's actually looking for someone like you.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"One other thing is, READ PEOPLES PROFILES!!

Get a feel of what that person wants and requires.

For example, I'm a smoker and I don't bother messaging people who say they won't meet smokers. Yeah it's a damn shame, but I'm just not for them.

Cut down the chances of rejection by choosing someone who's actually looking for someone like you. "

Wow. This is a very sensible response . Cheers xx

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

And the men are so up front, truthful, respectful and genuine and never pretend to be what they're not

I can make that claim.

I'm no different in here than i would be in real life and those who know me can testify to that. "

So you expect everyone to believe you’re who you are in “real life” (what’s this the fourth dimension? )

While saying “most” women don’t act the way the would in real life? ok then.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I can’t claim to have knowingly done that but I have to say...

Initially this is a cyber world with no personal connection - sometimes I message guys or they message me to a level I’m comfortable with then all of a sudden... a different guy appears to the one I thought I was comfortable with! The Mr. Nice guy becomes a lewd gutter mouth who thinks because we have exchanged a few messages he has the right to be accepted on my friend list and bedroom antics will automatically follow...

Some times you have to earn that respect guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Don’t worry pal , it’s just a power trip ! On here men I like flies to shit ! I’ve realised most ladies in real life and in person wouldn’t act like that but on here they do !

And the men are so up front, truthful, respectful and genuine and never pretend to be what they're not

I can make that claim.

I'm no different in here than i would be in real life and those who know me can testify to that.

So you expect everyone to believe you’re who you are in “real life” (what’s this the fourth dimension? )

While saying “most” women don’t act the way the would in real life? ok then. "

Always one who feels the need to twist people's words.

Why?

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By *annysupMan
over a year ago

Yarmouth

Fab is a hard place to find good friends who just want a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is beyond just chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?"

cos the said woman is a bloke pretending lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"One other thing is, READ PEOPLES PROFILES!!

Get a feel of what that person wants and requires.

For example, I'm a smoker and I don't bother messaging people who say they won't meet smokers. Yeah it's a damn shame, but I'm just not for them.

Cut down the chances of rejection by choosing someone who's actually looking for someone like you. "

I don't reply to those who "won't meet smokers". Sometimes, When my patience is tested I respond and ask them why they're wasting their time and mine by messaging me when their profile clearly states they won't meet smokers. Would you believe 99% checked that box by accident and half of those admit to being smokers themselves

But yeah. Superb response Gent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One other thing is, READ PEOPLES PROFILES!!

Get a feel of what that person wants and requires.

For example, I'm a smoker and I don't bother messaging people who say they won't meet smokers. Yeah it's a damn shame, but I'm just not for them.

Cut down the chances of rejection by choosing someone who's actually looking for someone like you.

I don't reply to those who "won't meet smokers". Sometimes, When my patience is tested I respond and ask them why they're wasting their time and mine by messaging me when their profile clearly states they won't meet smokers. Would you believe 99% checked that box by accident and half of those admit to being smokers themselves

But yeah. Superb response Gent."

Yes, I'd totally believe it. I've met a lady who claimed not to smoke but when I asked her if it was a problem admitted to being a smoker too. She had thought it would cut her chances of meeting some guys. I must admit that even as a smoker I only ever smoke outside and sometimes find the smell of other smokers quite overpowering so it's something I do try to combat with gum and hand washing.

And thank you for your kind comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuck that it's law of the jungle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?"

Yes.

I have the power!

Erm...

I mean.. no, I am discerning and if after a few messages, I decide I have no interest in meeting you, I won't continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?

Yes.

I have the power!

Erm...

I mean.. no, I am discerning and if after a few messages, I decide I have no interest in meeting you, I won't continue."

Consider yourself well and truly told!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"why do girls show interest, lead a guy on... and then suddenly turn the tables, run what seems to be a power play like this, and throw the guy's interest back in his face?

Is it to feel juiced up and powerful?"

Some boys/men aren't great at communicating, and this becomes evident after a bit of chat. What seemed to be the same wavelength turns out to be completely different fucking planets. And sometimes, just sometimes, rather than end up in an endless cycle of trying to explain why you aren't actually compatible it's easier to face palm and ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One other thing is, READ PEOPLES PROFILES!!

Get a feel of what that person wants and requires.

For example, I'm a smoker and I don't bother messaging people who say they won't meet smokers. Yeah it's a damn shame, but I'm just not for them.

Cut down the chances of rejection by choosing someone who's actually looking for someone like you.

I don't reply to those who "won't meet smokers". Sometimes, When my patience is tested I respond and ask them why they're wasting their time and mine by messaging me when their profile clearly states they won't meet smokers. Would you believe 99% checked that box by accident and half of those admit to being smokers themselves

But yeah. Superb response Gent.

Yes, I'd totally believe it. I've met a lady who claimed not to smoke but when I asked her if it was a problem admitted to being a smoker too. She had thought it would cut her chances of meeting some guys. I must admit that even as a smoker I only ever smoke outside and sometimes find the smell of other smokers quite overpowering so it's something I do try to combat with gum and hand washing.

And thank you for your kind comment. "

Suppose it would cut her options of guys she could meet by around 1% to be fair...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Most people on fab are like they have just walked into a sweet shop...pick and mix!

Most of us are only of interest for a short period of time until the next message pops up or something else triggers there interest...dashing from one place to another (can I catch this fish or this fish or this one) male and female.

From my little experience on here guys (not all) say they are looking for the same as per my profile but its all about the chase then its next next next tick tick tick. I just cant be bothered to invest so much time over time in this.

As far as my profile description, its a guide you have to start somewhere but theres abit of flexibility in that depending on the other person...do you want the same things, have you found a connection which overwise works. Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people on fab are like they have just walked into a sweet shop...pick and mix!

Most of us are only of interest for a short period of time until the next message pops up or something else triggers there interest...dashing from one place to another (can I catch this fish or this fish or this one) male and female.

From my little experience on here guys (not all) say they are looking for the same as per my profile but its all about the chase then its next next next tick tick tick. I just cant be bothered to invest so much time over time in this.

As far as my profile description, its a guide you have to start somewhere but theres abit of flexibility in that depending on the other person...do you want the same things, have you found a connection which overwise works. Amen "

Literally took the words out of my mouth !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people on fab are like they have just walked into a sweet shop...pick and mix!

Most of us are only of interest for a short period of time until the next message pops up or something else triggers there interest...dashing from one place to another (can I catch this fish or this fish or this one) male and female.

From my little experience on here guys (not all) say they are looking for the same as per my profile but its all about the chase then its next next next tick tick tick. I just cant be bothered to invest so much time over time in this.

As far as my profile description, its a guide you have to start somewhere but theres abit of flexibility in that depending on the other person...do you want the same things, have you found a connection which overwise works. Amen "

Love it. x

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