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"If you want to mess up with your head and your feelings... Keep fucking her." That's it I feel she is fucking with my head and I should just put a stop to it and I know this my self think I just wanted a great fuck for old times sake now sh wants more n more, im just gonna tell her we can't do it anymore. | |||
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"Feel like she wants you back? You shouldn’t assume. Ask her. Then get the answer your looking for from your own intuition. " I 99% certain she wants me back but I don't and if this continues she's gonna think deep down I want it to, I'll put a stop to it thanks  | |||
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"You'll be doing her a greater kindness by not sleeping with her again. I've been there in the past on the receiving end, hoping that one more fuck will get them to want me properly oh and go on just another one and you're bound to start falling in love. It doesn't happen and you're just left with love bites all over your tits and neck as you try and jet wash their spunk out of your cunt with the shower head. Don't go there unless your intentions are to get back with her. It's cruel and unnecessary. " I know your right it did feel kind of weird and im sure I heard her say she loves me still iv gotta put an end to it  | |||
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"If you want to mess up with your head and your feelings... Keep fucking her. That's it I feel she is fucking with my head and I should just put a stop to it and I know this my self think I just wanted a great fuck for old times sake now sh wants more n more, im just gonna tell her we can't do it anymore." It sounds like you’re the one doing the head fucking. If you think she wants you back then give the girl some closure and let her move on. The more times you have see with her the more she’ll think you’ll get back together. | |||
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"You'll be doing her a greater kindness by not sleeping with her again. I've been there in the past on the receiving end, hoping that one more fuck will get them to want me properly oh and go on just another one and you're bound to start falling in love. It doesn't happen and you're just left with love bites all over your tits and neck as you try and jet wash their spunk out of your cunt with the shower head. Don't go there unless your intentions are to get back with her. It's cruel and unnecessary. I know your right it did feel kind of weird and im sure I heard her say she loves me still iv gotta put an end to it "Out of interest why is she ok to fuck but not have a relationship with? | |||
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"You'll be doing her a greater kindness by not sleeping with her again. I've been there in the past on the receiving end, hoping that one more fuck will get them to want me properly oh and go on just another one and you're bound to start falling in love. It doesn't happen and you're just left with love bites all over your tits and neck as you try and jet wash their spunk out of your cunt with the shower head. Don't go there unless your intentions are to get back with her. It's cruel and unnecessary. I know your right it did feel kind of weird and im sure I heard her say she loves me still iv gotta put an end to it
Out of interest why is she ok to fuck but not have a relationship with?"Long story short I found msg's on her phone from other lads while I was at work that she was responding to I'll leave the rest to your imagination, she lied about it all and I kept finding them for a bit couldn't trust her anymore and left | |||
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"Is this a good idea or not we always had great sex and ill be honest a have slept with her since we split once or twice but feel like she wants me back wen I made it clear it was just fun! and we were over do I keep doing it for the sex or stop all together because we are done "Probably stop otherwise you’re a bit of a selfish tool, leading her on when you know/suspect she wants more. Even if you tell her how it is, your actions arent agreeing with that in her head. Seems to be a lot of disrespectful of others threads lately? One guy wants to wank in public, one wants to text other people’s wives suspiciously and now someone wants to lead a girl up the garden path? I thought this was all about being open, liberated, open etc not being a selfish pervert? | |||
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"You'll be doing her a greater kindness by not sleeping with her again. I've been there in the past on the receiving end, hoping that one more fuck will get them to want me properly oh and go on just another one and you're bound to start falling in love. It doesn't happen and you're just left with love bites all over your tits and neck as you try and jet wash their spunk out of your cunt with the shower head. Don't go there unless your intentions are to get back with her. It's cruel and unnecessary. I know your right it did feel kind of weird and im sure I heard her say she loves me still iv gotta put an end to it
Out of interest why is she ok to fuck but not have a relationship with?
Long story short I found msg's on her phone from other lads while I was at work that she was responding to I'll leave the rest to your imagination, she lied about it all and I kept finding them for a bit couldn't trust her anymore and left"Do you still Iove her, do you think this break and thought of losing you is enough to make her see that it's you she wants as she clearly does, is there a chance of reconciliation on the basis that she knows one more strike and that's it for you? | |||
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"If you want to mess up with your head and your feelings... Keep fucking her. That's it I feel she is fucking with my head and I should just put a stop to it and I know this my self think I just wanted a great fuck for old times sake now sh wants more n more, im just gonna tell her we can't do it anymore. It sounds like you’re the one doing the head fucking. If you think she wants you back then give the girl some closure and let her move on. The more times you have see with her the more she’ll think you’ll get back together. " | |||
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"Is this a good idea or not we always had great sex and ill be honest a have slept with her since we split once or twice but feel like she wants me back wen I made it clear it was just fun! and we were over do I keep doing it for the sex or stop all together because we are done
Probably stop otherwise you’re a bit of a selfish tool, leading her on when you know/suspect she wants more. Even if you tell her how it is, your actions arent agreeing with that in her head.
Seems to be a lot of disrespectful of others threads lately? One guy wants to wank in public, one wants to text other people’s wives suspiciously and now someone wants to lead a girl up the garden path? I thought this was all about being open, liberated, open etc not being a selfish pervert?"hang on pal im leading know one up the garden path or Beeing a selfish pervert she wanted the sex like I did all im saying is should I put an and to it because I know it's not good for the both of us in the end and I don't want her to think im still interested like she is, she's playing games not me | |||
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"Yes. What you’re doing is a bit of a twats trick. Like a carrot to a donkey. Tell her you both need to move on and stop giving her false hope " I don't feel like I'm giving her false hope but I can see where your coming from I make it very clear to her we are done and it's just sex and tells me she's knows that | |||
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"Is this a good idea or not we always had great sex and ill be honest a have slept with her since we split once or twice but feel like she wants me back wen I made it clear it was just fun! and we were over do I keep doing it for the sex or stop all together because we are done
Probably stop otherwise you’re a bit of a selfish tool, leading her on when you know/suspect she wants more. Even if you tell her how it is, your actions arent agreeing with that in her head.
Seems to be a lot of disrespectful of others threads lately? One guy wants to wank in public, one wants to text other people’s wives suspiciously and now someone wants to lead a girl up the garden path? I thought this was all about being open, liberated, open etc not being a selfish pervert?
hang on pal im leading know one up the garden path or Beeing a selfish pervert she wanted the sex like I did all im saying is should I put an and to it because I know it's not good for the both of us in the end and I don't want her to think im still interested like she is, she's playing games not me"I didn’t say you were a pervert, I was talking about the guy wanking in bushes or texting people’s wives. Pretty much every reply is “stop fucking her” because the morale compass of the majority sees it’s a bad and sorry but yes, slightly selfish thing to do given the context you put it in? Surely your own morals or values come above what a bunch of strangers think? | |||
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"Yes. What you’re doing is a bit of a twats trick. Like a carrot to a donkey. Tell her you both need to move on and stop giving her false hope I don't feel like I'm giving her false hope but I can see where your coming from I make it very clear to her we are done and it's just sex and tells me she's knows that " Thing is. You hold the cards. You dumped her. You’re the one that can take her back... she’s probably hoping spending time together will re-ignite a flame. You’ve told her no, but she’s probably hoping you’re just seeing how it goes. It’s kinder just to cut ties | |||
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"You'll be doing her a greater kindness by not sleeping with her again. I've been there in the past on the receiving end, hoping that one more fuck will get them to want me properly oh and go on just another one and you're bound to start falling in love. It doesn't happen and you're just left with love bites all over your tits and neck as you try and jet wash their spunk out of your cunt with the shower head. Don't go there unless your intentions are to get back with her. It's cruel and unnecessary. I know your right it did feel kind of weird and im sure I heard her say she loves me still iv gotta put an end to it
Out of interest why is she ok to fuck but not have a relationship with?
Long story short I found msg's on her phone from other lads while I was at work that she was responding to I'll leave the rest to your imagination, she lied about it all and I kept finding them for a bit couldn't trust her anymore and left
Do you still Iove her, do you think this break and thought of losing you is enough to make her see that it's you she wants as she clearly does, is there a chance of reconciliation on the basis that she knows one more strike and that's it for you?"no I don't love her anymore I am gonna put an end to it because I have moved on and she needs to and if this is making her feel that way that's not what I wanted from this, I care about her enough to not want her feelings messed with so I'll talk to her and end it | |||
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"Yes. What you’re doing is a bit of a twats trick. Like a carrot to a donkey. Tell her you both need to move on and stop giving her false hope I don't feel like I'm giving her false hope but I can see where your coming from I make it very clear to her we are done and it's just sex and tells me she's knows that Thing is. You hold the cards. You dumped her. You’re the one that can take her back... she’s probably hoping spending time together will re-ignite a flame. You’ve told her no, but she’s probably hoping you’re just seeing how it goes. It’s kinder just to cut ties" | |||
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"Oh for gods sake, so the guy had sex with an ex, making it clear it was nothing more. Kill him. Kill him dead. " With fire! He asked, he’s getting opinions. Why ask then cry when you get a few disproving comments? And I think most agreed it was the context of carrying on doing it, knowing she felt and wanted more? This is where “liberated attitudes” cross the line or get a bit messy. Respect for feelings is important. Being open doesn’t just mean fucking your way round as much as you can regardless? | |||
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"Yes. What you’re doing is a bit of a twats trick. Like a carrot to a donkey. Tell her you both need to move on and stop giving her false hope I don't feel like I'm giving her false hope but I can see where your coming from I make it very clear to her we are done and it's just sex and tells me she's knows that " I know you don't feel like you're giving her false hope but by seeing her for sex it still is. I've been there, even with the guy telling me it was just casual I still thought that if he kept sleeping with me he's bound to change his mind. She'll pretend she's cool with it but she's just taking the crumbs you're throwing. | |||
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"Oh for gods sake, so the guy had sex with an ex, making it clear it was nothing more. Kill him. Kill him dead. " I know this kind of thing must happen a lot and iv not intended to lead her on in anyway shape or form i made very clear to her what we were doing if she feels otherwise surely she should be honest with me about how she feels | |||
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"Yes. What you’re doing is a bit of a twats trick. Like a carrot to a donkey. Tell her you both need to move on and stop giving her false hope I don't feel like I'm giving her false hope but I can see where your coming from I make it very clear to her we are done and it's just sex and tells me she's knows that I know you don't feel like you're giving her false hope but by seeing her for sex it still is. I've been there, even with the guy telling me it was just casual I still thought that if he kept sleeping with me he's bound to change his mind. She'll pretend she's cool with it but she's just taking the crumbs you're throwing. " Of course it’s givung her false hope? You’d have to be a total knuckle dragger not to realise that? Regardless of what you tell her? | |||
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"Yes. What you’re doing is a bit of a twats trick. Like a carrot to a donkey. Tell her you both need to move on and stop giving her false hope I don't feel like I'm giving her false hope but I can see where your coming from I make it very clear to her we are done and it's just sex and tells me she's knows that I know you don't feel like you're giving her false hope but by seeing her for sex it still is. I've been there, even with the guy telling me it was just casual I still thought that if he kept sleeping with me he's bound to change his mind. She'll pretend she's cool with it but she's just taking the crumbs you're throwing. " yeah I understand that and I will end it cheers | |||
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