FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why would people ask about a meet, arrange to meet, then just decide to ignore you. Makes no sense and pisses me off.

I’d rather someone just let me know that they’ve changed their mind

No angry emoji sadly arghhhh

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Why would people ask about a meet, arrange to meet, then just decide to ignore you. Makes no sense and pisses me off.

I’d rather someone just let me know that they’ve changed their mind

No angry emoji sadly

arghhhh"

They got their kicks dreaming about it... for some its just a fantasy and thats where they want it to stay.

If they arranged a meet then failed to turn up report them and then just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened recently to me, happily messaging and arranged an hotel meet, still messaging then bang profile hidden and messages stopped. Felt more let down than anything else, even a "sod off realised you're hideous" would have felt better.

C'est la vie!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Why would people ask about a meet, arrange to meet, then just decide to ignore you. Makes no sense and pisses me off.

I’d rather someone just let me know that they’ve changed their mind

No angry emoji sadly arghhhh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened a few times especially when u have travelled 20 miles and then no reply and next day there give u the most random excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happened a few times especially when u have travelled 20 miles and then no reply and next day there give u the most random excuse "

I think that's why I'd mainly stick to my own city or at the very least Leeds. I don't drive, so I have to get the bus or train. Don't really fancy wasting time and money on someone if they're just gonna flake out on me.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Happened a few times especially when u have travelled 20 miles and then no reply and next day there give u the most random excuse "

Ah but some of the excuses are awesome! They are entertainment in themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love you lot lol

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Best of the Worst I ever had was turning up on doorstep of the Couple's home, after driving for an hour to them, only for them to greet me with... "We have changed our minds and have a safe trip home!"

Didn't even get an apology!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"I just love you lot lol"

Awww

Come feel the love

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By *amienLeeMan
over a year ago

Enfield

Time wasters on my pet hate and there's so many of them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing is, people are entitled to change their mind and that makes no difference off or on the site.. we're not entitled lol

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I had a hotel booked at their request, taken time off work (it was an afternoon meet) only to get a message that morning to say they’d changed their mind and was going to try it again with his wife.

Fortunately I ended up meeting a guy I’d met socially before and he was my knight that saved the damsel in distress. Almost a year later we’re still meeting up.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"I had a hotel booked at their request, taken time off work (it was an afternoon meet) only to get a message that morning to say they’d changed their mind and was going to try it again with his wife.

Fortunately I ended up meeting a guy I’d met socially before and he was my knight that saved the damsel in distress. Almost a year later we’re still meeting up.

See, I would never book hotels etc... we arrange to go to a club, let anyone thats keen to meet know when and where, then go and enjoy ourselves with or without them. Same applied when I was a single woman on here, only I would usually meet at a local Costa or Sainsburys cafe for a cuppa and chat first so they could decide if they thought I was worth them manning up and going to the club to meet for fun..... Damn I miss Kestrels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full of bullshitters and timewasters.. ...yeah coz we've got all night to sit and wait for you to arrive...jog on fuckwits!! Why do we attract the odd bods, so hard to find genuine couples who actually wanna play. Not looking for friends requests or such likes, but constructive criticism on our profile would be greatly appreciated if your happy to help. Our profile just isnt working for us and we cant put a finger on what it may be. Thanks so much

Bonnie

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Full of bullshitters and timewasters.. ...yeah coz we've got all night to sit and wait for you to arrive...jog on fuckwits!! Why do we attract the odd bods, so hard to find genuine couples who actually wanna play. Not looking for friends requests or such likes, but constructive criticism on our profile would be greatly appreciated if your happy to help. Our profile just isnt working for us and we cant put a finger on what it may be. Thanks so much

Bonnie "

More pics of him maybe?

More detail in your profile?

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