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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do something else rather than chase meets on Fab.

I rarely get weekends free, so when I do, I'd rather be out cycling early Sunday than frolicking into the wee hours of Saturday!

(Not 100% true)

What would tempt you away from fab activities?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Almost everything. This is my ‘also watching a film’ activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chase meets? Not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pot noodle and a wank.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Pot noodle and a wank."

What ‘sauce’ will you dollop in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mainly sit on fab while I’m at work, it’s funny when customers catch a glance at my phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally only look when I’m sipping my morning tea in bed or walking the dog....or like now when I’m in the bath .....I do take rather long baths though

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

That's most of the time for us which is is why we only get three or four meets a year.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Chase meets? Not me

It might be different for women but men have to work to get noticed here. I don’t have lots of free time, I look at fab when I’m chilling out. I took a few months off fab so I haven’t had a meet in about a year. I doubt I’ll get offers out of the blue either.

Fab now fits around my life and if I get a meet then great, if not I’m still enjoying life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost everything. This is my ‘also watching a film’ activity. "

Yep this for me... although it's currently my 'I'm cooking dinner' activity

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"Almost everything. This is my ‘also watching a film’ activity. "

Me too. Although at the minute it is my 'work is really boring today' activity. However, I go home in 30 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Chase a meet !! No chance . My philosophy is you never miss what you’ve not had .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chase meets? Not me

Fab now fits around my life and if I get a meet then great, if not I’m still enjoying life

Which is as it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use Fab as a distraction. So just whilst watching telly or in bed unable to sleep etc. I don’t actively pursue meets at the moment so basically just waste time on the Forums.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Gardening

Or crafting

Or drink tea and eat cake

Or write

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chase a meet !! No chance . My philosophy is you never miss what you’ve not had . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pot noodle and a wank.

What ‘sauce’ will you dollop in? "

Homemade

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Pot noodle and a wank.

What ‘sauce’ will you dollop in?

Homemade "

Bleuurgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on here when I'm bored. Usually at work. They can see if I'm on fb but not here. Well possibly not here

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

How about if you could have both together a cycling meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about if you could have both together a cycling meet

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if it's not on Strava it won't count

ok long as I can draft you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come on here a few times a day but not for long. There is plenty of other stuff I do, like my studies, running, sports, and even when I'm not doing those its nice sometimes to just relax and watch a film or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chase a meet !! No chance . My philosophy is you never miss what you’ve not had . "

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"How about if you could have both together a cycling meet

if it's not on Strava it won't count

ok long as I can draft you!"

It never happened if its not on Strava...are you ready for the challenge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont chase i lie in wait like a trapdoor spider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t put much effort into chasing women on Fab.

I’ll send the odd message, but if they like me, they’ll message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopped chasing when reality kicked in..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We very rarely meet and often disappear for several months at a time so pretty much everything.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about if you could have both together a cycling meet

if it's not on Strava it won't count

ok long as I can draft you!

It never happened if its not on Strava...are you ready for the challenge!"

Clips in

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"How about if you could have both together a cycling meet

if it's not on Strava it won't count

ok long as I can draft you!

It never happened if its not on Strava...are you ready for the challenge!

Clips in "
glasses on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't chase meets now, I have too many other things going on in my life. I tend to dip in and out of the Forums, usually when I'm watching TV or in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chase meets? Not me

Fab now fits around my life and if I get a meet then great, if not I’m still enjoying life

Which is as it should be

Agreed. Same here. I'm really enjoying all the lovely meets I'm getting on the dating apps. Happy to let this sit and tick over until someone shows an interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use Fab as a distraction. So just whilst watching telly or in bed unable to sleep etc. I don’t actively pursue meets at the moment so basically just waste time on the Forums."

This for me, too!

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Most things really. I've pretty much stopped all 1 to 1 meets as its pointless even with ppl I've met previously as most men just want the thrill of the chase and aren't interested in repeat sex unless it suits them.

It's very much changed and not for the better . There was a time when it was about the repeat sex and friendship. Shit years ago when I had a scare it was my "fab friends" that were there and that was minus sex.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I had tonight free, so I could have chased a meet. However, this afternoon I played my first game of Rugby League in a long time and my legs don't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had tonight free, so I could have chased a meet. However, this afternoon I played my first game of Rugby League in a long time and my legs don't work.

League, oh dear ?!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I had tonight free, so I could have chased a meet. However, this afternoon I played my first game of Rugby League in a long time and my legs don't work.

League, oh dear ?!"

It's happening down south too now....

Rugby Union season finishes and League starts.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Most things really. I've pretty much stopped all 1 to 1 meets as its pointless even with ppl I've met previously as most men just want the thrill of the chase and aren't interested in repeat sex unless it suits them.

Yes I agree with you from my little experience with meets youre just left with a feeling of emptiness or why did I bother at all. To many dishonest people with no true intent or integrity just lies one after the other..bull-shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is just a major head mash. You are both utterly gorgeous! What kind of lunacy would keep a guy from wanting to revisit either of you two (or both oi oi

) over and over and over and over again?!

Some guys are weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t agree more, most men on here say they want a regular thing but they like the ego boost of a good woman, then when she wants a repeat performance suddenly they’re busy or messes in the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? I'd love a regular thing, I can't imagine why any bloke wouldn't. It seems self-defeating really. If I got lucky enough to meet someone who wanted it to be a regular thing, I'd jump at the chance.

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