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By *otSoNewWalesCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

When you walk into a bar do you turn heads? Do you catch lots of people giving you admiring glances? Or are you somebody who just 'fits in' and who has to work on attracting people. Maybe you consider yourself a fuggly or a frump?

Be honest and rate yourself.

Oh, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are beautiful inside blah blah blah. That's not the question being asked. The question is simply 'are you a looker or not?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nothing special I would like to think I'm better then average with cheeky features

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd class myself as an average type guy, I'm in good shape not muscular. Have features some women love, blue eyes and a nice ass or so I've been told

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I don't think i am anything special at all....but when i go out, as in pubs/clubs, i always dress quite sexily...in my opinion anyways lol...and do turn the odd head or two....and yea, i like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think i am anything special at all....but when i go out, as in pubs/clubs, i always dress quite sexily...in my opinion anyways lol...and do turn the odd head or two....and yea, i like it. "

You would defiantly turn my head with them curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you walk into a bar do you turn heads? Do you catch lots of people giving you admiring glances? Or are you somebody who just 'fits in' and who has to work on attracting people. Maybe you consider yourself a fuggly or a frump?

Be honest and rate yourself.

Oh, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are beautiful inside blah blah blah. That's not the question being asked. The question is simply 'are you a looker or not?'"

I've been told that I am "devastatingly good looking" ... "with a nice bum"

But I don't believe it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I turned more heads when I turned 40 more than I ever did in my 20's

I actually put "I'm 40 but can still turn heads" on my pof profile hahaha x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'd not say I turn many heads but I get my share of head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I do. I don’t notice if I do. MrH does ALL the time. Especially young women when he’s working at Universities. Lucky devil

Drives his much younger colleague mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn heads, mainly because I'm quite tall, have mad hair and tattoos... Not because I'm attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nothing special in fact I'm a bit of a bore.

If I tell a joke, you've probably heard it before.

But I've got a talent a wonderful thing, everybody listens when I start to sing.

So I say.......

Actually I'm Joe average I try to make a joke or two to be noticed.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

For my age i scrub up well so this along with my confidence gives me the ability to turn heads although looks wise i would say im average.

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By *.PerseusMan
over a year ago

Rochdale

Not at all.

I'm not aware that I've ever turned a head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to work at it

Been to clubs and think others are shallow and looks are everything. Am i right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can turn a few stomachs x

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you’re a great couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not .. but pooch most certainly is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us. "

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I’m not ugly, just plain. Mousy brown hair and glasses. But with my boobs guys don’t tend to look at my face...

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"Sounds like you’re a great couple.

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112 verifications, not because we are hot, but because we turn heads in a positive way, whether social or sexy, everyone deserves to be given the choice to turn a head or two.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"I’m not ugly, just plain. Mousy brown hair and glasses. But with my boobs guys don’t tend to look at my face... "

We don’t look at tits or arses, we look and find the good in people, personalities and self are on there own a great head turners,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im average looking but as i am quite tall with purple hair i do turn heads.. but probably in a WTF kind of way

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police "

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't like to say... Ask all those people with a crick in their necks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I should probably do the false modesty thing but it's too early. Yes, I do. I think it's because my boobs and bum are massive and my waist is relatively small and I'm quite tall.

I also look good when I make a bit of an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it’s about how you carry yourself confidence, a lot of people don’t have it and it’s a shame

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

People notice and comment on my specs a lot, but that’s all.

I certainly don’t leave a trail of admirers in my wake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will leave it to your imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do turn heads more as in what is this that walked in more than a attractiveness thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are. "

I took the OP to be about being in the real world, not fabland...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be superman when I want to be and clarke kent on my down days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are.

I took the OP to be about being in the real world, not fabland...

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It’s a good question, for men fabland is harder but some people think it will be easier. It’s a challenge a good challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely do

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are.

I took the OP to be about being in the real world, not fabland...

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There you go, a comment hiding behind texted words, fab land or the real world, escapism is the right of every man, woman and child, if honesty is punishment for commenting on here! Then so be it.

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Only due to hair colour and it's definitely WTF type staring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it this way, I don't have any problem getting attention. I don't think I'm anything special but I guess others like the look of me?

I'm quite confident, I make eye contact and I'm friendly so I think that helps.

Sometimes attract the wrong type of attention but I don't have a problem turning people down, in a nice way of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are.

I took the OP to be about being in the real world, not fabland...

There you go, a comment hiding behind texted words, fab land or the real world, escapism is the right of every man, woman and child, if honesty is punishment for commenting on here! Then so be it."

What on earth does that mean? Im not hiding behind anything.. i think youre a tad confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to have the world looking at me. But then again, I don't exactly blend in with my look.

When you are 6'4 in heels/boots, wearing pvc/leather/Latex and are a red haired cross dressing bitch walking into Morrisons for shopping. People tend to stare!

Mistress A_elia x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I'm around a 5. Not completely hideous but definitely not what is considered standard attractive.

But suits me fine, being only half minging has served me well so far

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are.

I took the OP to be about being in the real world, not fabland...

There you go, a comment hiding behind texted words, fab land or the real world, escapism is the right of every man, woman and child, if honesty is punishment for commenting on here! Then so be it.

What on earth does that mean? Im not hiding behind anything.. i think youre a tad confused"

Maybe, no offence intended. X

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are.

I took the OP to be about being in the real world, not fabland...

There you go, a comment hiding behind texted words, fab land or the real world, escapism is the right of every man, woman and child, if honesty is punishment for commenting on here! Then so be it.

What on earth does that mean? Im not hiding behind anything.. i think youre a tad confused"

Not the only one that's confused. I had a wtf moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are.

I took the OP to be about being in the real world, not fabland...

There you go, a comment hiding behind texted words, fab land or the real world, escapism is the right of every man, woman and child, if honesty is punishment for commenting on here! Then so be it.

What on earth does that mean? Im not hiding behind anything.. i think youre a tad confused

Maybe, no offence intended. X"

I know what you meant, no idea why people think it’s offensive. Highly strung people on here make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him - Yes always, they turn to look in the opposite direction

Her - She hates to admit it, but she gets so many looks, it is scary.

As someone above noted, far more looks, now she's in her 40s,than she ever got in her 20s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Him - Yes always, they turn to look in the opposite direction

Her - She hates to admit it, but she gets so many looks, it is scary.

As someone above noted, far more looks, now she's in her 40s,than she ever got in her 20s."

I'd bloody look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah mate, Tina Turner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Him - Yes always, they turn to look in the opposite direction

Her - She hates to admit it, but she gets so many looks, it is scary.

As someone above noted, far more looks, now she's in her 40s,than she ever got in her 20s."

It’s confidence, comfortable within your own skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not a head turner, my big boobs might get stared at but the rest of me isn’t attractive. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are.

I took the OP to be about being in the real world, not fabland...

There you go, a comment hiding behind texted words, fab land or the real world, escapism is the right of every man, woman and child, if honesty is punishment for commenting on here! Then so be it.

What on earth does that mean? Im not hiding behind anything.. i think youre a tad confused

Maybe, no offence intended. X

I know what you meant, no idea why people think it’s offensive. Highly strung people on here make me laugh "

Im not highly strung.. i genuinely had no idea what they meant...jeez you white knights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heads turn and then turn away when they realise I'm a middle aged chubby lady

I always "look like someone they know "

Yawn.

I'm mixed race with big hair - everyone who's mixed race looks like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At times I do. I've had men approach me while I was out shopping. I got a guy in the garage flustered the other day. But this is when I make a effort, I'm obviously a acquired taste with my size and shape.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We're both quite useless at spotting when we're getting attention/being looked at until the other one points it out.

He often tells me to slow down and appreciate the attention (see if any of them take my fancy and we can corrupt a vanilla) but I'm always on a mission to get from a to b, storming around he calls it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are.

I took the OP to be about being in the real world, not fabland...

There you go, a comment hiding behind texted words, fab land or the real world, escapism is the right of every man, woman and child, if honesty is punishment for commenting on here! Then so be it.

What on earth does that mean? Im not hiding behind anything.. i think youre a tad confused

Maybe, no offence intended. X

I know what you meant, no idea why people think it’s offensive. Highly strung people on here make me laugh

Im not highly strung.. i genuinely had no idea what they meant...jeez you white knights "

Lol it’s cool no offence meant x

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"When you walk into a bar do you turn heads? Do you catch lots of people giving you admiring glances? Or are you somebody who just 'fits in' and who has to work on attracting people. Maybe you consider yourself a fuggly or a frump?

Be honest and rate yourself.

Oh, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are beautiful inside blah blah blah. That's not the question being asked. The question is simply 'are you a looker or not?'"

Look up fugly in the dictionary and there's a link to my Fab profile and a health warning.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yawn.

I'm mixed race with big hair - everyone who's mixed race looks like me "

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By *olchesterGuy1984Man
over a year ago

Colchester

I wouldn't say that I turn heads, but in certain situations I do. For example, when out with certain (much older) friends I may get noticed - Probably wondering why I'm hanging about with 60/70 year olds.

I also tend to flirt a bit, so sometimes turn heads later in the night after flirting with some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely in the fugly camp here

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I used to during my forties and early fifties. Met some lovely women this way, one memorable time was when a barman handed me a card in a Paris bar written by a woman in the corner.

Happy days.

Seemed to all stop in my late fifties even though I think I’m still gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did when I was younger, these days guys can't seem to look past my boobs

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We both are - but it's because of the way we dress!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you walk into a bar do you turn heads? Do you catch lots of people giving you admiring glances? Or are you somebody who just 'fits in' and who has to work on attracting people. Maybe you consider yourself a fuggly or a frump?

Be honest and rate yourself.

Oh, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are beautiful inside blah blah blah. That's not the question being asked. The question is simply 'are you a looker or not?'"

Yes but In completely different ways. When Beautiful walks into a place she turns heads because she really is a sexy, stunning lady. As for me I always turn heads because I look like one mean bastard and people assume I'm a bouncer or wrestler! Then 9/10 times I am approached by the little d*unk guy looking for a fight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you walk into a bar do you turn heads? Do you catch lots of people giving you admiring glances? Or are you somebody who just 'fits in' and who has to work on attracting people. Maybe you consider yourself a fuggly or a frump?

Be honest and rate yourself.

Oh, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are beautiful inside blah blah blah. That's not the question being asked. The question is simply 'are you a looker or not?'"

I do get looks- but not sure why!

It might be rather than

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you walk into a bar do you turn heads? Do you catch lots of people giving you admiring glances? Or are you somebody who just 'fits in' and who has to work on attracting people. Maybe you consider yourself a fuggly or a frump?

Be honest and rate yourself.

Oh, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are beautiful inside blah blah blah. That's not the question being asked. The question is simply 'are you a looker or not?'

Yes but In completely different ways. When Beautiful walks into a place she turns heads because she really is a sexy, stunning lady. As for me I always turn heads because I look like one mean bastard and people assume I'm a bouncer or wrestler! Then 9/10 times I am approached by the little d*unk guy looking for a fight! "

Phil Mitchell

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Unfortunately not. But once I am talking to a person, the magic starts there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never notice it myself, too busy doing whatever it is I’m doing, but my ex used to tell me, apparently I get just as many looks from women

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I've got a face that stops buses apparently

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

When I walk into a bar I usually turn a few heads. I'm tall, fit and always dress well when going out. My accent normally scores me a few points on the interest scale and i'm an outgoing person by nature.

I'm told i'm handsome but prefer to let others judge. I'd say i'm a 7.5 overall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm certainly not a head turner but I do catch men looking when I've put in an effort

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By *hyntravCouple
over a year ago

North Somerset

I never noticed it when I did, no self confidence at all. Now I've got bigger so I'm an aquired taste. Thankfully some people like that tho

Rhy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only in certain bars in Liverpool will other people’s heads turn when you enter (think american werewolf in london), and they’re the bars a never go in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm very much a wallflower. In the real world I tend to attract the mind of person who digs the whole cute and shy thing and that's not something that stands out right away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do, but we put that down to us both being confident in ourselves and possessing that naughty glint in our eyes more than anything...

But we're not in bad nick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you walk into a bar do you turn heads? Do you catch lots of people giving you admiring glances? Or are you somebody who just 'fits in' and who has to work on attracting people. Maybe you consider yourself a fuggly or a frump?

Be honest and rate yourself.

Oh, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are beautiful inside blah blah blah. That's not the question being asked. The question is simply 'are you a looker or not?'

Yes but In completely different ways. When Beautiful walks into a place she turns heads because she really is a sexy, stunning lady. As for me I always turn heads because I look like one mean bastard and people assume I'm a bouncer or wrestler! Then 9/10 times I am approached by the little d*unk guy looking for a fight!

Phil Mitchell "

I suppose, yea

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I turn stomachs

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

I've been known to turn a few stomachs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been known to turn a few stomachs "

Beat me to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without blowing own trumphet but yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not. I don't see myself as remotely attractive.

I'm short and fat and have very little confidence. I walk funny too due to a back injury.

If I did turn a head I'd think they were taking the piss.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

I’m a wood turner in real life.

All the ladies love a whitler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bar I used to go to had a small door that opened straight into the bar. Yes, men looked as we walked in, but I assume they looked every time the door opened.

On the bus people stare at my eyes, when it's sunny out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when i break wind.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

not a head turner. not bad looking but definitely not a stunner. but I appear fairly confident and can engage well with others so that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turn stomachs "

Now that is definitely untrue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bum gets a lot of attention in bars. Men have a grope while I'm waiting to get a drink in a crowded bar, and one man asked if he could be a bit rude; then told me I have a great bum.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've never noticed that I turn any heads - but if I go out it's because I'm seeing my friends and that tends to be my focus, hence my obliviousness as to whether or not other heads turn. I read something in that recent describe yourself as if a male writer were describing you thing along the lines of 'she was the kind of pretty you only saw when you got to know her' and I think that probably sums me up visually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when i drop my pants and everyone starts laughing

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol


"I've never noticed that I turn any heads - but if I go out it's because I'm seeing my friends and that tends to be my focus, hence my obliviousness as to whether or not other heads turn. I read something in that recent describe yourself as if a male writer were describing you thing along the lines of 'she was the kind of pretty you only saw when you got to know her' and I think that probably sums me up visually."

I think you’re pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only when i drop my pants and everyone starts laughing "

In Sainsbury's.

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just a ickle wall flower that sits in a corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I'm running out of a supermarket being chased by security guards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest opinion? I am virtually invisible but quite a few women of the same age seem to want to speak to me. They are probably feeling sorry for me.

My wife has been turning heads very sharply since I have known her (about 30 years).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think so... not unless its people looking and wondering "whats that idiot doing back here after what he did last time"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I get far more attention in real life than I do on here. I dress well, have ginger hair, big boobs and bum, a small waist and I'm confident and happy. I've found my style and know what makes me look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn heads where ever I go.. not because I'm fit. But I'm heavily tattooed, one on my face etc so people tend to give me their wtf face.

Eve.. Eve deffintly turns heads

She has a crazy beautiful smile and eyes that always sparkle.

Hence the tattooed husband to keep the creeps at bay haha.

Adam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

It’s probably the smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the real world on a night out i doubt it.. the boobs get attention but i usually have them on display so fairplay! .. on here i get a lot of messages but that means bugger all.. all us ladies do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my moments every now and then.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

If I'm putting the bins out anyone seeing, and I'd agree, I look a hot mess. However, outside my house boundaries people do look at me, usually women...who start with "may I ask what perfume are you wearing/where did you get that top" as I dress well and more importantly, I dress to my age/size.

Naomi Campbell has nothing on me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For my age i scrub up well so this along with my confidence gives me the ability to turn heads although looks wise i would say im average."

This

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By *wenyMan
over a year ago

rufford

I turn heads cause they wonder how come someone that ugly is let out on its own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I still do, especially if I'm in something short as I have very long legs. I always try to dress well and make the most of myself. I definitely saw a guy following my boobs the other day in Waitrose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the real world on a night out i doubt it.. the boobs get attention but i usually have them on display so fairplay! .. on here i get a lot of messages but that means bugger all.. all us ladies do. "

I like you're body type... you would turn my head xxx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not at all - I pretty much go about my every day life unnoticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm aware that I can do mainly down to my unashamedly open, talk and flirt with everyone personality but from what Fuzz and others tell me there's an energy surrounding me that draws people in....I call it madness

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all - I pretty much go about my every day life unnoticed"

Who said that ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I turn stomachs

Now that is definitely untrue "

Why thank yiu

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Apparently I turn heads when I walk in the room, I don't notice it or care to be honest... I know one of my men adores me being noticed (which is how I know about it, he mentions it) but I don't dress or act a certain way in an effort to garner such reactions, I'm all about personality and connection over looks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I turned more heads when I turned 40 more than I ever did in my 20's

I actually put "I'm 40 but can still turn heads" on my pof profile hahaha x"

Yes!! Can totally relate to this comment, feeling sexier than ever in my forties and comfortable in my body whilst being able to enjoy myself.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

When I was with my ex, she used to tell me all the time when guys were checking me out. Whether that was more her own little homoerotic fantasy projecting outwards, or perhaps she just neglected to tell me if girls were checking me out, or if I just have a certain look that is particular appealing to the chaps, I dunno...

What I do know is I am utterly utterly oblivious to people paying any kind of attention to me. I was once at a free party in a warehouse that we'd broken into to put it on, and a girl I was chatting to drops "So...do you come here often?" on me.

It was about 10 minutes later, having gone our separate ways that my brain finally decided to kick in..."Do I come here often? This is a bloody abandoned warehouse that we've broken into, you dick!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you get past the bullshit of the piccy hunters, I turn heads because I respect all, I hold a decent conversation, I like to think I’m quick witted and can be quite funny at times, I look at people, I don’t see a great ladies figure or a cock with a dick attached to it, I see real people.

My beautiful partner turns heads, when dressed up to kill, she’ll never look down on anyone, she’s very chatty, she’s sensual and sexy with very large dose of naughty and can have the devil in her. As a couple, we turn heads, we give and would like respect, sometimes it’s very lacking on here, but mainly we turn heads because we are us.

Well said , attractive couple with a personality & approachable, absolutely no need to look down on anyone everyone has attributes to life . Also we think of the karma police

Thank you. We have a lot of time and patience and we’ve learned a lot from being people watchers, here in the forums, there’s a lot of pain underneath the surface of many, hiding behind the printed word, most to afraid to be who they truly are. "

Yes we absolutely agree

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I wouldn't say I'm a head turner... But I definitely cause a few to tilt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not that I've noticed. I get the occasional smile from a female but that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I can quite happily be going about my day when its disturbed by someone whistling, calling out some inane comment, stopping dead in their tracks to do a double take, I've had a guy try and invite himself to go for a walk with me, another pull up behind me at my kids school to say he likes my style, another fall off a bike gawping at me, guys driving past repeatedly, asking me to wander back where I came from so he can see my bum again, even had a real life stalker from here who had seen me around town.

Doesn't seem to deter them if I'm alone, with hubby, with my kids, if I'm at the school, the supermarket, town, night out, whatever.

It appears I appeal to all age ranges from the kids friends calling me a milf to the quite honestly elderly.

Why? Fuck knows I consider myself distinctly average. Can only think its because I'm so tiny as thats the only factor that hasn't changed over the years, the hair colour/age/tattoos etc all have.

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Think I am who I am don't get to much attention but also don't go without I like it that way xx it's when people meet me I make the impression. I'm easy to talk to. Fun and confident in who I am. Recepctful to everyone on meet the way it should be xx

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

On a scale of 1-10 I’d say I’m about a 4-5 not sure I’ve ever turned a head but I’m happy as I am

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton


"On a scale of 1-10 I’d say I’m about a 4-5 not sure I’ve ever turned a head but I’m happy as I am"

Defiantly a 8-10 xx

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Maybe I have something about me. I think its that Im happy in my own skin "I am what I am" so make the most of it.

Im 50 quite fit do get a few looks so I think Im doing ok, so I would say Im a 7.5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation and what I'm wearing, on a night out and walking round a night club or in a bar I'll get looks off guys and will be approached. Or yesterday when I left my car in the garage whilst they put tyres on and did the tracking I walked through the industrial estate to a cafe and back and I got a few toots and whoops from passing vans and I was only wearing leggings trainers and a hoody.

But normal day to day when I've not even got make up on or stuck a brush through my hair, yes I am that lazy, I just cut about my business and don't cause any notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of a stomach turner than a head turner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes I stop traffic Loli pop man

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton


"Maybe I have something about me. I think its that Im happy in my own skin "I am what I am" so make the most of it.

Im 50 quite fit do get a few looks so I think Im doing ok, so I would say Im a 7.5.

"

Very fit there is no quite about it

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Not really but it depends on who is in the bar and what I am wearing.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Yes....but for all the wrong reasons x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I slip into invisibility effortlessly nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yes I stop traffic Loli pop man "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


" I slip into invisibility effortlessly nowadays "

There's a chink in that cloak of invisibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends where I go. Outside of London I get looks (probably as I’m fresh meat) but in London I guess I’m run of the mill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks ago when I had tonsillitis I went into Asda at only 7:45pm so relatively early but had pyjama bottoms on and slippers and had a few sort yourself out love kind of looks! I just wanted some icecream like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I slip into invisibility effortlessly nowadays

There's a chink in that cloak of invisibility"

Those damn moths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation and what I'm wearing, on a night out and walking round a night club or in a bar I'll get looks off guys and will be approached. Or yesterday when I left my car in the garage whilst they put tyres on and did the tracking I walked through the industrial estate to a cafe and back and I got a few toots and whoops from passing vans and I was only wearing leggings trainers and a hoody.

But normal day to day when I've not even got make up on or stuck a brush through my hair, yes I am that lazy, I just cut about my business and don't cause any notice. "

I reckon you don’t notice you being noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a scale of 1-10 I’d say I’m about a 4-5 not sure I’ve ever turned a head but I’m happy as I am"

Easy 7-8

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

I’m the invisible one when I go out with friends.

I’m 10 yrs older than my friends group and at least 3times wider. Plus I’m no good at makeup really so I tend to look a bit plain.

But being invisible just means you can get away with more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m the invisible one when I go out with friends.

I’m 10 yrs older than my friends group and at least 3times wider. Plus I’m no good at makeup really so I tend to look a bit plain.

But being invisible just means you can get away with more "

Loking at your photos. You're definately going to get attention.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Maybe I have something about me. I think its that Im happy in my own skin "I am what I am" so make the most of it.

Im 50 quite fit do get a few looks so I think Im doing ok, so I would say Im a 7.5.

Very fit there is no quite about it "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did in my youth. I was approached by girls in clubs more often than me making the first move. I was once picked to be a 'Martini Person', for those with long memories.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I have something about me. I think its that Im happy in my own skin "I am what I am" so make the most of it.

Im 50 quite fit do get a few looks so I think Im doing ok, so I would say Im a 7.5.

"

A solid 9, I'd say......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For my age i scrub up well so this along with my confidence gives me the ability to turn heads although looks wise i would say im average."

Wow! You certainly do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a blend into the background kinda girl. Quite happy with that. Means I can go unnoticed...I make a great spy

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I don't think I scrub up too badly but even if I was turning heads I'd rarely see it because a) I'm so bloody short sighted and b) I usually avoid eye contact with strangers anyway

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By *r. Pepper...Man
over a year ago

liverpool

If I'm dressed well I seem to attract the older woman. Scouse girls my own age don't seem interested that much, but Polish girls do. I must look eastern European

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

If I do then I’m oblivious to it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I do get plenty of looks, but I think it's more "what the fuck is she wearing?" rather than "whit-woo"

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton


"I do get plenty of looks, but I think it's more "what the fuck is she wearing?" rather than "whit-woo""

Don't belive that for a minute "whit-woo" xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only because they take another look because they’ve caught me flashing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m the invisible one when I go out with friends.

I’m 10 yrs older than my friends group and at least 3times wider. Plus I’m no good at makeup really so I tend to look a bit plain.

But being invisible just means you can get away with more "

Had a look at your pics and you don’t need makeup. You have natural beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turn heads where ever I go.. not because I'm fit. But I'm heavily tattooed, one on my face etc so people tend to give me their wtf face.

Eve.. Eve deffintly turns heads

She has a crazy beautiful smile and eyes that always sparkle.

Hence the tattooed husband to keep the creeps at bay haha.

Adam "

Awww, he's too cute!

Firstly, Adam attracts more looks than he realises. I am forever catching women checking him out, even when he is with me. Working out at the gym with him is a pain in my arse.

As for me, I never notice if people are looking at me so I have no idea. I'm quite a self conscious person in the real world.

I work in a gym so I do get some attention in there but that means absolutely nothing ha ha. All that testosterone flying around, those guys would jump on anything with a pulse.

I am incredibly naive though when it comes to flirting and such I have no idea. I wish I knew when women were interested though ha ha ha that could be fun.

Eve. X

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I can be in the right circumstances... but mostly I'm happy to stay in the background. If I turn too many heads I start to wonder if I've forgotten to zip up..

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


" I slip into invisibility effortlessly nowadays

There's a chink in that cloak of invisibility

Those damn moths "

I told them to make bigger holes next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am absolutely invisible. Never chatted up or even acknowledged. I'm the fat friend no fella wants lumbered with in a group situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We turn heads because we can have a party for 2, we seem to be friendly chatty and people approach us and we love fun people like attract some like and we easy on the eye too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyes are my best feature, along with my long eyelashes...but it’s only in the last few years I’ve realised how different they are. I used to look away as soon as someone stared, now I keep eye contact.

So I don’t think I turn heads but I get a lot of eye contact now.

I wish I had this confidence when I was in my twenties...

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I turn heads where ever I go.. not because I'm fit. But I'm heavily tattooed, one on my face etc so people tend to give me their wtf face.

Eve.. Eve deffintly turns heads

She has a crazy beautiful smile and eyes that always sparkle.

Hence the tattooed husband to keep the creeps at bay haha.

Adam

Awww, he's too cute!

Firstly, Adam attracts more looks than he realises. I am forever catching women checking him out, even when he is with me. Working out at the gym with him is a pain in my arse.

As for me, I never notice if people are looking at me so I have no idea. I'm quite a self conscious person in the real world.

I work in a gym so I do get some attention in there but that means absolutely nothing ha ha. All that testosterone flying around, those guys would jump on anything with a pulse.

I am incredibly naive though when it comes to flirting and such I have no idea. I wish I knew when women were interested though ha ha ha that could be fun.

Eve. X"

You two are both absolutely gorgeous!

Mainly because you come across as simply beautiful people and lovely couple. X

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I’m the invisible one when I go out with friends.

I’m 10 yrs older than my friends group and at least 3times wider. Plus I’m no good at makeup really so I tend to look a bit plain.

But being invisible just means you can get away with more

Had a look at your pics and you don’t need makeup. You have natural beauty "

Aww that is very kind of you, thank you x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I wish.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"When you walk into a bar do you turn heads? Do you catch lots of people giving you admiring glances? Or are you somebody who just 'fits in' and who has to work on attracting people. Maybe you consider yourself a fuggly or a frump?

Yeah i do turn heads when out & about! Im also a sweetheart with a wee heart of gold! " ive been told"lol being beautiful & sexy is fabulous no point in kidding but u have to be a decent caring and good person to have the whole package!

Be honest and rate yourself.

Oh, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are beautiful inside blah blah blah. That's not the question being asked. The question is simply 'are you a looker or not?'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn heads because I’m tall, that’s the only reason.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

You mean this isn't real life?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"You mean this isn't real life? "

Burst my bubble also

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

I used to when I was younger... not sure if I do now , either because I don’t take any notice or I’m just not as attractive now

Miss

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"You mean this isn't real life? "

I've never got that saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been catcalled by a group of women in croatia once

And by passing lady drivers when going to the gym

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think so, not now. I did when I was younger but that's more likely because my dress sense was not the 'norm' back then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only when i drop my pants and everyone starts laughing

In Sainsbury's. "

Asda

Or local corner shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope definitely not a head turner never have been,very plain looking & mumsy

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I don't think so, not now. I did when I was younger but that's more likely because my dress sense was not the 'norm' back then!"

Far far too modest. You've turned my head on many an occasion, and then I re-read your profile and clock the guys over 5'10" bit.

If only I had 3 more inches; story of my life, eh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am. Feels strange admitting it as I'm quite modest in real life. I also get embarrassed when people give me the eye.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

No. I’m very ordinary looking, I got the brains, Frank the looks

B x

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'd say I scrub up quite well, but I'm middle of the road. People normally turn their heads to watch my dad dancing moves

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"When you walk into a bar do you turn heads? Do you catch lots of people giving you admiring glances? Or are you somebody who just 'fits in' and who has to work on attracting people. Maybe you consider yourself a fuggly or a frump?

Be honest and rate yourself.

Oh, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are beautiful inside blah blah blah. That's not the question being asked. The question is simply 'are you a looker or not?'"

If I do my hair and makeup and dress nicely then yes - I get my fair share of positive attention both in the real world and on fab! On dating sites (when I used to bother with them) I had absolutely no problem attracting good looking chaps who were looking for either sex or a committed relationship!

If my hair’s up and I’m not wearing makeup, though, (Mum mode!) I blend into the background - which suits me just perfectly! I’ve no wish to get loads of attention 24/7 - to me that’s what fab is for! I like the two separate personas! I gauge my attractiveness by the attention/glances I get in the real world though - it would be very unhealthy to gauge it on how well I do on what, for many singles at least, is a casual sex site (as well as a swinging site!) xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"When you walk into a bar do you turn heads? Do you catch lots of people giving you admiring glances? Or are you somebody who just 'fits in' and who has to work on attracting people. Maybe you consider yourself a fuggly or a frump?

Be honest and rate yourself.

Oh, and yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are beautiful inside blah blah blah. That's not the question being asked. The question is simply 'are you a looker or not?'"

I can make hotties Turn there heads

Away

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Reminds me of the time a local well known loves herself woman in our local thought everyone was admiring her bit she had got some toilet paper hanging out the back of her skirt

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