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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we were having a chat and some of the girls declared "I'm a cunt" in respect to the whole fab thing.

It just got me thinking where that attitude comes from? Is it a conscious decision to be that way?

Are some people driven to that because of their experiences or are they naturally that way?

The people in the chat were saying they don't take bullshit and stuff but isn't it possible to do that without being aggressive or quick to judge? Is it a defensive tactic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did they say you are a cunt?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I think some people are just very unpleasant in real life too. Some seem to get off being trolls unfortunately.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't understand. Was this on Fab or about Fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?"

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that? "

You should know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that? "

Tbf that's how I perceived it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand. Was this on Fab or about Fab? "

Sorry it was hard to explain. It was in a conversation with a group of people in conversation about the way they are on fab.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok. A few of the girls in the conversation declared themselves to be that way.

I was quoting them. They weren't talking about me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

Tbf that's how I perceived it"

It could read like that,but I knew it didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You hear that a lot on here, as though it’s a badge of honour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do u care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people that say stuff like that it's just bravado or hot air. Nowadays you can't just have a casual fight cos there'd be police involvement, you could lose your job and serious stuff like that so people can really say anything without fear of comeback. Same as arguing on the internet, people are safe in the house, nothing's gonna happen to them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some people get off acting like a cunt. It does their egos good

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You hear that a lot on here, as though it’s a badge of honour.

"

Yeah that's my point I should've got you to write my OP!

I just kinda don't understand why you would want to call yourself that or act in a way you would perceive to be that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do u care?"

I'm just interested. It's a different way to how I approach things so I was looking for opinions.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't understand. Was this on Fab or about Fab?

Sorry it was hard to explain. It was in a conversation with a group of people in conversation about the way they are on fab. "

This is a face to face conversation with a group of women all on Fab? What was bitchy about it and who are they calling a cunt, if not you?

I still don't understand.

I think the term bitchy gets thrown around too readily (although rarely for men kvetching). Sometimes that style of communicating is encouraged by the group and people play up to it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment "

My thoughts exactly. I dislike cunt being used a pejorative insult.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think some people are just very unpleasant in real life too. Some seem to get off being trolls unfortunately. "

Are they different though? Trolls seem to seek it out whereas the girls I know act that way in response to people or situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You hear that a lot on here, as though it’s a badge of honour.

Yeah that's my point I should've got you to write my OP!

I just kinda don't understand why you would want to call yourself that or act in a way you would perceive to be that. "

I know what you mean. I feel as though it’s a bit of an act a lot of the time - I do think it’s a defence tactic, most definitely.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment

My thoughts exactly. I dislike cunt being used a pejorative insult.

"

where have you been all my life

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I think some people are just very unpleasant in real life too. Some seem to get off being trolls unfortunately.

Are they different though? Trolls seem to seek it out whereas the girls I know act that way in response to people or situations. "

I don't think so, bitchy is bitchy, however it's done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand. Was this on Fab or about Fab?

Sorry it was hard to explain. It was in a conversation with a group of people in conversation about the way they are on fab.

This is a face to face conversation with a group of women all on Fab? What was bitchy about it and who are they calling a cunt, if not you?

I still don't understand.

I think the term bitchy gets thrown around too readily (although rarely for men kvetching). Sometimes that style of communicating is encouraged by the group and people play up to it.

"

It was a conversation in a group chat. They were calling themselves it.

Yeah maybe the group environment adds to it. Bravado maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most people that say stuff like that it's just bravado or hot air. Nowadays you can't just have a casual fight cos there'd be police involvement, you could lose your job and serious stuff like that so people can really say anything without fear of comeback. Same as arguing on the internet, people are safe in the house, nothing's gonna happen to them. "

So it's maybe for show?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure why it's something to be proud of.

If you don't like someone, scroll past and ignore them. To go out of your way to be a cunt is more than a bit sad.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"You hear that a lot on here, as though it’s a badge of honour.

Yeah that's my point I should've got you to write my OP!

I just kinda don't understand why you would want to call yourself that or act in a way you would perceive to be that. "

Ah! got it now.

Isn't it the same as when people say "treat them mean to keep them keen"? I have heard that in various forms from countless men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people get off acting like a cunt. It does their egos good"

Yeah it gets attention I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people want to be loved, if they can't then liked, then if not accepted....after that they decide that being obnoxious is a way of getting attention.

Beats me. Daresay they don't go home particularly happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment "

About themselves? Maybe I'm a pussy?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I use chat a lot and can totally imagine this conversation happening, where each person claims to be more of a cunt than the last. I could even take a guess at a few of the names involved!

I don't know why it's something people strive to achieve. Yeah I can be a little bitchy sometimes, though it's usually down to a dry sense of humour. Generally I'd rather be seen as friendly and approachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we were having a chat and some of the girls declared "I'm a cunt" in respect to the whole fab thing.

It just got me thinking where that attitude comes from? Is it a conscious decision to be that way?

Are some people driven to that because of their experiences or are they naturally that way?

The people in the chat were saying they don't take bullshit and stuff but isn't it possible to do that without being aggressive or quick to judge? Is it a defensive tactic? "

Yes, it’s a conscious decision to be this way for me. I know where it stems from, I learnt a great deal over five years trying to certain please people by tiptoeing around how they feel, all while wanting them to be honest with me about how they feel. They made it extremely obvious and were horrible, nasty people to myself and others, all while telling us we were ‘paranoid’. I got walked all over, taken as a fool, laughed at and humiliated, all at mine and my husband’s expense. Because that’s what I thought was right. To be nice. Karma will get them.

Well nope. From the moment I was upfront and honest about how I felt, they were too. It was a better outcome for myself and my husband, we both felt so much better and wish we had been blunt and upfront from the beginning.

Nobody said they were a cunt regarding the ‘fab thing’. I stated that me being blunt gets me into trouble in day to day life, work life and fab life.

What was also discussed is that there is a time and place for people being blunt and upfront and a ‘cunt’ about things. I don’t ‘bullshit’ people, I’m either lovely and nice and happy, tell them how I feel, or keep quiet because it isn’t the right time, place, situation, or it isn’t something worth bothering about. Nobody in the chat said they don’t take bullshit. I said that I myself don’t bullshit.

And yes - it is possible to do this without being aggressive and quick to judge. But sometimes, it happens. I try and restrain myself, but it’s who I am. I’d rather people be honest with me and tell me exactly how it is. In regards to fab, I used to try and be as lovely and nice as possible - when I first started, I replied to every message I got, carried conversations on even though I wasn’t interested in the slightest. Now, I will be upfront and tell men (or women or couples) that I’m not interested.

In day to day life, I am currently in a situation where I have to be upfront, blunt and honest. It’s difficult and very challenging as some things I am bringing forward are very blunt, but it is for the best so the correct procedures can be followed.

It was a defensive tactic for me, the first time I was blunt and upfront when it really mattered. I snapped. But learnt from it. Now that’s how I am. And I prefer it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t give a flying fuck about what others think to be fair, my preferences are quite specific so not many bother me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You hear that a lot on here, as though it’s a badge of honour.

Yeah that's my point I should've got you to write my OP!

I just kinda don't understand why you would want to call yourself that or act in a way you would perceive to be that.

I know what you mean. I feel as though it’s a bit of an act a lot of the time - I do think it’s a defence tactic, most definitely. "

One of the girls (she knows this) was really bitchy when we first met. To the point I really didn't like her because of it but now she's one of my closest friends, because I got to see the soft side and see that it's all show.

She says I broke her though, she's not a "cunt" now cos I pull her up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not liked because I don't say what people like. I don't think I'm a cunt. I'm never personal (although many take things I say personally). I don't understand why people would want to claim to be like me. It means people don't like you and ignore you. I think they like to be likeable cunts. Like it's something to aspire to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we were having a chat and some of the girls declared "I'm a cunt" in respect to the whole fab thing.

It just got me thinking where that attitude comes from? Is it a conscious decision to be that way?

Are some people driven to that because of their experiences or are they naturally that way?

The people in the chat were saying they don't take bullshit and stuff but isn't it possible to do that without being aggressive or quick to judge? Is it a defensive tactic?

Yes, it’s a conscious decision to be this way for me. I know where it stems from, I learnt a great deal over five years trying to certain please people by tiptoeing around how they feel, all while wanting them to be honest with me about how they feel. They made it extremely obvious and were horrible, nasty people to myself and others, all while telling us we were ‘paranoid’. I got walked all over, taken as a fool, laughed at and humiliated, all at mine and my husband’s expense. Because that’s what I thought was right. To be nice. Karma will get them.

Well nope. From the moment I was upfront and honest about how I felt, they were too. It was a better outcome for myself and my husband, we both felt so much better and wish we had been blunt and upfront from the beginning.

Nobody said they were a cunt regarding the ‘fab thing’. I stated that me being blunt gets me into trouble in day to day life, work life and fab life.

What was also discussed is that there is a time and place for people being blunt and upfront and a ‘cunt’ about things. I don’t ‘bullshit’ people, I’m either lovely and nice and happy, tell them how I feel, or keep quiet because it isn’t the right time, place, situation, or it isn’t something worth bothering about. Nobody in the chat said they don’t take bullshit. I said that I myself don’t bullshit.

And yes - it is possible to do this without being aggressive and quick to judge. But sometimes, it happens. I try and restrain myself, but it’s who I am. I’d rather people be honest with me and tell me exactly how it is. In regards to fab, I used to try and be as lovely and nice as possible - when I first started, I replied to every message I got, carried conversations on even though I wasn’t interested in the slightest. Now, I will be upfront and tell men (or women or couples) that I’m not interested.

In day to day life, I am currently in a situation where I have to be upfront, blunt and honest. It’s difficult and very challenging as some things I am bringing forward are very blunt, but it is for the best so the correct procedures can be followed.

It was a defensive tactic for me, the first time I was blunt and upfront when it really mattered. I snapped. But learnt from it. Now that’s how I am. And I prefer it. "

That’s a lot of typing

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I'm a cunt... it's just how I say I say it straight.. I'm not a BITCH.. just a pure cunt

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Most people hate the word... it's my fave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You hear that a lot on here, as though it’s a badge of honour.

Yeah that's my point I should've got you to write my OP!

I just kinda don't understand why you would want to call yourself that or act in a way you would perceive to be that.

I know what you mean. I feel as though it’s a bit of an act a lot of the time - I do think it’s a defence tactic, most definitely.

One of the girls (she knows this) was really bitchy when we first met. To the point I really didn't like her because of it but now she's one of my closest friends, because I got to see the soft side and see that it's all show.

She says I broke her though, she's not a "cunt" now cos I pull her up for it "

I have this too, and some from the forums I really didn’t like, but I’ve seen a much softer side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not liked because I don't say what people like. I don't think I'm a cunt. I'm never personal (although many take things I say personally). I don't understand why people would want to claim to be like me. It means people don't like you and ignore you. I think they like to be likeable cunts. Like it's something to aspire to "

I'm sure those that matter, don't need to be spoken to so directly?

If you don't aim to be like that then I doubt you are a c##t.

It's when you aspire to it? Why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we were having a chat and some of the girls declared "I'm a cunt" in respect to the whole fab thing.

It just got me thinking where that attitude comes from? Is it a conscious decision to be that way?

Are some people driven to that because of their experiences or are they naturally that way?

The people in the chat were saying they don't take bullshit and stuff but isn't it possible to do that without being aggressive or quick to judge? Is it a defensive tactic?

Yes, it’s a conscious decision to be this way for me. I know where it stems from, I learnt a great deal over five years trying to certain please people by tiptoeing around how they feel, all while wanting them to be honest with me about how they feel. They made it extremely obvious and were horrible, nasty people to myself and others, all while telling us we were ‘paranoid’. I got walked all over, taken as a fool, laughed at and humiliated, all at mine and my husband’s expense. Because that’s what I thought was right. To be nice. Karma will get them.

Well nope. From the moment I was upfront and honest about how I felt, they were too. It was a better outcome for myself and my husband, we both felt so much better and wish we had been blunt and upfront from the beginning.

Nobody said they were a cunt regarding the ‘fab thing’. I stated that me being blunt gets me into trouble in day to day life, work life and fab life.

What was also discussed is that there is a time and place for people being blunt and upfront and a ‘cunt’ about things. I don’t ‘bullshit’ people, I’m either lovely and nice and happy, tell them how I feel, or keep quiet because it isn’t the right time, place, situation, or it isn’t something worth bothering about. Nobody in the chat said they don’t take bullshit. I said that I myself don’t bullshit.

And yes - it is possible to do this without being aggressive and quick to judge. But sometimes, it happens. I try and restrain myself, but it’s who I am. I’d rather people be honest with me and tell me exactly how it is. In regards to fab, I used to try and be as lovely and nice as possible - when I first started, I replied to every message I got, carried conversations on even though I wasn’t interested in the slightest. Now, I will be upfront and tell men (or women or couples) that I’m not interested.

In day to day life, I am currently in a situation where I have to be upfront, blunt and honest. It’s difficult and very challenging as some things I am bringing forward are very blunt, but it is for the best so the correct procedures can be followed.

It was a defensive tactic for me, the first time I was blunt and upfront when it really mattered. I snapped. But learnt from it. Now that’s how I am. And I prefer it.

That’s a lot of typing "

TL;DR

Just like to give my opinion and experiences haha. I actually typed more and removed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also - cunt is my favourite word

I’m a lovely cunt at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not liked because I don't say what people like. I don't think I'm a cunt. I'm never personal (although many take things I say personally). I don't understand why people would want to claim to be like me. It means people don't like you and ignore you. I think they like to be likeable cunts. Like it's something to aspire to

I'm sure those that matter, don't need to be spoken to so directly?

If you don't aim to be like that then I doubt you are a c##t.

It's when you aspire to it? Why??"

Yeah it's a bit fucking weird. A bit like being the bad kid at school. Most of us just think "twat!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure why it's something to be proud of.

If you don't like someone, scroll past and ignore them. To go out of your way to be a cunt is more than a bit sad. "

Yeah that's my way of dealing with things. Or if it can't be avoided then speak without attacking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You hear that a lot on here, as though it’s a badge of honour.

Yeah that's my point I should've got you to write my OP!

I just kinda don't understand why you would want to call yourself that or act in a way you would perceive to be that.

Ah! got it now.

Isn't it the same as when people say "treat them mean to keep them keen"? I have heard that in various forms from countless men.

"

To be fair a lot of the guys seem to get excited by a feisty girl!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Most people want to be loved, if they can't then liked, then if not accepted....after that they decide that being obnoxious is a way of getting attention.

Beats me. Daresay they don't go home particularly happy."

So it's maybe an insecurity thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use chat a lot and can totally imagine this conversation happening, where each person claims to be more of a cunt than the last. I could even take a guess at a few of the names involved!

I don't know why it's something people strive to achieve. Yeah I can be a little bitchy sometimes, though it's usually down to a dry sense of humour. Generally I'd rather be seen as friendly and approachable. "

I have to admit I'm the same. My sense of humour can come across as a bit dry but I'm never intentionally being offensive and I am genuinely sorry when I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt have the energy to be either. Seems like a lot of effort and playground-ish type behaviour, to keep up an act of being one of the hard or cool kids. Women are all meant to be bitches nowadays and take no shit.

But then I always was a bit of a boring loner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t give a flying fuck about what others think to be fair, my preferences are quite specific so not many bother me "

But would you use that word to describe yourself?

I try not to care what others think too but I don't want them to have a bad impression of me, I'd rather they had none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we were having a chat and some of the girls declared "I'm a cunt" in respect to the whole fab thing.

It just got me thinking where that attitude comes from? Is it a conscious decision to be that way?

Are some people driven to that because of their experiences or are they naturally that way?

The people in the chat were saying they don't take bullshit and stuff but isn't it possible to do that without being aggressive or quick to judge? Is it a defensive tactic?

Yes, it’s a conscious decision to be this way for me. I know where it stems from, I learnt a great deal over five years trying to certain please people by tiptoeing around how they feel, all while wanting them to be honest with me about how they feel. They made it extremely obvious and were horrible, nasty people to myself and others, all while telling us we were ‘paranoid’. I got walked all over, taken as a fool, laughed at and humiliated, all at mine and my husband’s expense. Because that’s what I thought was right. To be nice. Karma will get them.

Well nope. From the moment I was upfront and honest about how I felt, they were too. It was a better outcome for myself and my husband, we both felt so much better and wish we had been blunt and upfront from the beginning.

Nobody said they were a cunt regarding the ‘fab thing’. I stated that me being blunt gets me into trouble in day to day life, work life and fab life.

What was also discussed is that there is a time and place for people being blunt and upfront and a ‘cunt’ about things. I don’t ‘bullshit’ people, I’m either lovely and nice and happy, tell them how I feel, or keep quiet because it isn’t the right time, place, situation, or it isn’t something worth bothering about. Nobody in the chat said they don’t take bullshit. I said that I myself don’t bullshit.

And yes - it is possible to do this without being aggressive and quick to judge. But sometimes, it happens. I try and restrain myself, but it’s who I am. I’d rather people be honest with me and tell me exactly how it is. In regards to fab, I used to try and be as lovely and nice as possible - when I first started, I replied to every message I got, carried conversations on even though I wasn’t interested in the slightest. Now, I will be upfront and tell men (or women or couples) that I’m not interested.

In day to day life, I am currently in a situation where I have to be upfront, blunt and honest. It’s difficult and very challenging as some things I am bringing forward are very blunt, but it is for the best so the correct procedures can be followed.

It was a defensive tactic for me, the first time I was blunt and upfront when it really mattered. I snapped. But learnt from it. Now that’s how I am. And I prefer it.

That’s a lot of typing

TL;DR

Just like to give my opinion and experiences haha. I actually typed more and removed it "

Internet,

Meet my grammar assistant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also - cunt is my favourite word

I’m a lovely cunt at times "

I know

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I wouldn’t call myself bitchy or a cnut. I find some declare themselves to be so as a badge of honor to make themselves seem tough or something

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not liked because I don't say what people like. I don't think I'm a cunt. I'm never personal (although many take things I say personally). I don't understand why people would want to claim to be like me. It means people don't like you and ignore you. I think they like to be likeable cunts. Like it's something to aspire to "

I think expressing your opinion is totally commendable. Going against the grain isn't always easy and it takes a strong person to do it. I think the likeable thing is a good point too, like being the outspoken one gets a "following" of sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't try to understand why some get off on being bitchy and wear the name tag with pride. I just avoid. Even my real life friends are sweet natured. My sister is very bitchy and says she " says it like she is", I personally prefer to surround myself with people with a little more tact. You can put your point across without potentially hurting another person's feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why did they call you cunt again?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Apart from glorifying the ‘C’ word, still not sure what this thread is about? Sorry Rubi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You hear that a lot on here, as though it’s a badge of honour.

Yeah that's my point I should've got you to write my OP!

I just kinda don't understand why you would want to call yourself that or act in a way you would perceive to be that. "

Im with you!!

I’m a nice person. I’m kind. I care about people. I’m a dirty fucker in bed and I’m sex mad. But I’m not a Cword

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most people hate the word... it's my fave "

I find it upsetting I've typed it so much in this thread my autocorrect has learned it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You hear that a lot on here, as though it’s a badge of honour.

Yeah that's my point I should've got you to write my OP!

I just kinda don't understand why you would want to call yourself that or act in a way you would perceive to be that.

I know what you mean. I feel as though it’s a bit of an act a lot of the time - I do think it’s a defence tactic, most definitely.

One of the girls (she knows this) was really bitchy when we first met. To the point I really didn't like her because of it but now she's one of my closest friends, because I got to see the soft side and see that it's all show.

She says I broke her though, she's not a "cunt" now cos I pull her up for it

I have this too, and some from the forums I really didn’t like, but I’ve seen a much softer side. "

I guess it's often a mask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people that say stuff like that it's just bravado or hot air. Nowadays you can't just have a casual fight cos there'd be police involvement, you could lose your job and serious stuff like that so people can really say anything without fear of comeback. Same as arguing on the internet, people are safe in the house, nothing's gonna happen to them.

So it's maybe for show? "

Yes most definitely for show and a defence mechanism. I remember being in a night club toilet with my mate and these girls were stealing lollies off the black toilet attendant and spraying her perfumes, one of the girls called the toilet attendant the N word and my friends son is mixed race so I was like oh fuck here we go. As expected my friend grips one of them by the throat there's 4 of them 2 of us no bouncers can see, another girl jumps on my mates back, I was thinking I'm gonna have to get involved and I'd just put my lipstick on, one of the girls was like you better tell your mate cos they are psychos and she'll get battered blah blah blah, I was just thinking yeah and she's a fucking gypsy and not even I would have a serious fight with her. Chaos ensued I tried to drag my friend off them before bouncers ran in.

Moral of the story, my best friend would call herself a cunt who doesn't give a shit for no one or nothing, and I believe her and have a healthy respect for her because she has no normal fear of society or cctv or police or nothing because she has a big family that really would come down on you hard. Bitch pressed a red hot tea spoon on my cheek once because I moaned about her putting the milk in first when she made me a cuppa tea. Thought she was gonna gauge my eye out the socket.

Now normal person on the street saying oh I'm a cunt oh I don't take any shit, I'd just think nah fuck off you dopey bastard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldnt have the energy to be either. Seems like a lot of effort and playground-ish type behaviour, to keep up an act of being one of the hard or cool kids. Women are all meant to be bitches nowadays and take no shit.

But then I always was a bit of a boring loner "

I'm the same. I just watch from afar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t call myself bitchy or a cnut. I find some declare themselves to be so as a badge of honor to make themselves seem tough or something "

I agree it's often an act. They do it because they've said they will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s nice to be nice. It’s less stressful, you’re a happier person!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't try to understand why some get off on being bitchy and wear the name tag with pride. I just avoid. Even my real life friends are sweet natured. My sister is very bitchy and says she " says it like she is", I personally prefer to surround myself with people with a little more tact. You can put your point across without potentially hurting another person's feelings. "

I'm the same. My friends are straight talking without attacking. I would generally avoid people who would say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s nice to be nice. It’s less stressful, you’re a happier person! "

What were you saying about the blowjob?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apart from glorifying the ‘C’ word, still not sure what this thread is about? Sorry Rubi"

I can't think of another way to explain it than how I have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You hear that a lot on here, as though it’s a badge of honour.

Yeah that's my point I should've got you to write my OP!

I just kinda don't understand why you would want to call yourself that or act in a way you would perceive to be that.

Im with you!!

I’m a nice person. I’m kind. I care about people. I’m a dirty fucker in bed and I’m sex mad. But I’m not a Cword "

And happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from glorifying the ‘C’ word, still not sure what this thread is about? Sorry Rubi

I can't think of another way to explain it than how I have "

Shall we just crack open a cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from glorifying the ‘C’ word, still not sure what this thread is about? Sorry Rubi

I can't think of another way to explain it than how I have

Shall we just crack open a cake?"

Does it say cunt on it? If so go ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't try to understand why some get off on being bitchy and wear the name tag with pride. I just avoid. Even my real life friends are sweet natured. My sister is very bitchy and says she " says it like she is", I personally prefer to surround myself with people with a little more tact. You can put your point across without potentially hurting another person's feelings.

I'm the same. My friends are straight talking without attacking. I would generally avoid people who would say it. "

Exactly. Just because you have tact, does not make a person a walk over. I don't take shit, but I won't get in a slanging match over it. I prefer to walk away and cut someone out, if they do something that is hurtful beyond repair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most people that say stuff like that it's just bravado or hot air. Nowadays you can't just have a casual fight cos there'd be police involvement, you could lose your job and serious stuff like that so people can really say anything without fear of comeback. Same as arguing on the internet, people are safe in the house, nothing's gonna happen to them.

So it's maybe for show?

Yes most definitely for show and a defence mechanism. I remember being in a night club toilet with my mate and these girls were stealing lollies off the black toilet attendant and spraying her perfumes, one of the girls called the toilet attendant the N word and my friends son is mixed race so I was like oh fuck here we go. As expected my friend grips one of them by the throat there's 4 of them 2 of us no bouncers can see, another girl jumps on my mates back, I was thinking I'm gonna have to get involved and I'd just put my lipstick on, one of the girls was like you better tell your mate cos they are psychos and she'll get battered blah blah blah, I was just thinking yeah and she's a fucking gypsy and not even I would have a serious fight with her. Chaos ensued I tried to drag my friend off them before bouncers ran in.

Moral of the story, my best friend would call herself a cunt who doesn't give a shit for no one or nothing, and I believe her and have a healthy respect for her because she has no normal fear of society or cctv or police or nothing because she has a big family that really would come down on you hard. Bitch pressed a red hot tea spoon on my cheek once because I moaned about her putting the milk in first when she made me a cuppa tea. Thought she was gonna gauge my eye out the socket.

Now normal person on the street saying oh I'm a cunt oh I don't take any shit, I'd just think nah fuck off you dopey bastard."

I'm scared of your friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s nice to be nice. It’s less stressful, you’re a happier person! "

It takes less muscles to smile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apart from glorifying the ‘C’ word, still not sure what this thread is about? Sorry Rubi

I can't think of another way to explain it than how I have

Shall we just crack open a cake?"

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"So we were having a chat and some of the girls declared "I'm a cunt" in respect to the whole fab thing.

It just got me thinking where that attitude comes from? Is it a conscious decision to be that way?

Are some people driven to that because of their experiences or are they naturally that way?

The people in the chat were saying they don't take bullshit and stuff but isn't it possible to do that without being aggressive or quick to judge? Is it a defensive tactic? "

I think it’s spoiled for choice with men. It’s hard to introduce yourself to women as they just often block, delete or not read email, chat rooms are great way to find friends on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a cunt... it's just how I say I say it straight.. I'm not a BITCH.. just a pure cunt"

Do you see saying it straight as a good thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from glorifying the ‘C’ word, still not sure what this thread is about? Sorry Rubi

I can't think of another way to explain it than how I have

Shall we just crack open a cake?

Does it say cunt on it? If so go ahead "

nah. It was £5/letter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But do you see what I mean though. My mate would never ever go round saying she was hard or anything of the sort. If you have to say you are something then you're generally not.

I think I'm too blunt sometimes and amongst my peers I have been known to be a little bit scrappy in my past, but the thing that makes me feel good and cool is when someone says you're a really good mum or you're actually quite funny or smart or nice. They are the kind of qualities that I'd like to be known for. I wouldn't want to aspire to be a cunt, like I was told earlier in a different thread that stuff I say is vitriolic and that hurt my feelings more than when another guy called me a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So we were having a chat and some of the girls declared "I'm a cunt" in respect to the whole fab thing.

It just got me thinking where that attitude comes from? Is it a conscious decision to be that way?

Are some people driven to that because of their experiences or are they naturally that way?

The people in the chat were saying they don't take bullshit and stuff but isn't it possible to do that without being aggressive or quick to judge? Is it a defensive tactic?

I think it’s spoiled for choice with men. It’s hard to introduce yourself to women as they just often block, delete or not read email, chat rooms are great way to find friends on here. "

They are indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But do you see what I mean though. My mate would never ever go round saying she was hard or anything of the sort. If you have to say you are something then you're generally not.

I think I'm too blunt sometimes and amongst my peers I have been known to be a little bit scrappy in my past, but the thing that makes me feel good and cool is when someone says you're a really good mum or you're actually quite funny or smart or nice. They are the kind of qualities that I'd like to be known for. I wouldn't want to aspire to be a cunt, like I was told earlier in a different thread that stuff I say is vitriolic and that hurt my feelings more than when another guy called me a cunt. "

I don’t think you’re cunty with your bluntness. You just ask blunt questions and give your honest opinion. Plus, you’re willing to listen. Lots will say it like it is, but refuse to hear other sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from glorifying the ‘C’ word, still not sure what this thread is about? Sorry Rubi

I can't think of another way to explain it than how I have

Shall we just crack open a cake?

Does it say cunt on it? If so go ahead nah. It was £5/letter"

Which indicates £20 quid for a cunt!

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about? "

Lol let’s talk football as me and you will be better off and maybe safer if it kicks off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But do you see what I mean though. My mate would never ever go round saying she was hard or anything of the sort. If you have to say you are something then you're generally not.

I think I'm too blunt sometimes and amongst my peers I have been known to be a little bit scrappy in my past, but the thing that makes me feel good and cool is when someone says you're a really good mum or you're actually quite funny or smart or nice. They are the kind of qualities that I'd like to be known for. I wouldn't want to aspire to be a cunt, like I was told earlier in a different thread that stuff I say is vitriolic and that hurt my feelings more than when another guy called me a cunt. "

Yeah that's exactly it. It's a word they use and then maybe go out of their way to be that way.

I'm the same. I would always prefer to be thought of positively. To me being a cunt is a negative thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But do you see what I mean though. My mate would never ever go round saying she was hard or anything of the sort. If you have to say you are something then you're generally not.

I think I'm too blunt sometimes and amongst my peers I have been known to be a little bit scrappy in my past, but the thing that makes me feel good and cool is when someone says you're a really good mum or you're actually quite funny or smart or nice. They are the kind of qualities that I'd like to be known for. I wouldn't want to aspire to be a cunt, like I was told earlier in a different thread that stuff I say is vitriolic and that hurt my feelings more than when another guy called me a cunt. "

I don't see you as bitchy though. You are actually very sweet. Your manner and approach may come off the wrong way with some, but it comes from a good place, not a hurtful one.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I'm a cunt... it's just how I say I say it straight.. I'm not a BITCH.. just a pure cunt

Do you see saying it straight as a good thing? "

always.. to be honest it's more used up north and without malice.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

Lol let’s talk football as me and you will be better off and maybe safer if it kicks off "

I know it’s about cunt or a cunt and that’s all I know lol help!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

Lol let’s talk football as me and you will be better off and maybe safer if it kicks off "

What size boobs do you like then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But do you see what I mean though. My mate would never ever go round saying she was hard or anything of the sort. If you have to say you are something then you're generally not.

I think I'm too blunt sometimes and amongst my peers I have been known to be a little bit scrappy in my past, but the thing that makes me feel good and cool is when someone says you're a really good mum or you're actually quite funny or smart or nice. They are the kind of qualities that I'd like to be known for. I wouldn't want to aspire to be a cunt, like I was told earlier in a different thread that stuff I say is vitriolic and that hurt my feelings more than when another guy called me a cunt.

I don't see you as bitchy though. You are actually very sweet. Your manner and approach may come off the wrong way with some, but it comes from a good place, not a hurtful one. "

I'd agree. You are honest and you justify why you say what you say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that? "

That's what I thought you meant.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

Lol let’s talk football as me and you will be better off and maybe safer if it kicks off

What size boobs do you like then? "

Well I don’t play it I’m Rugby but I’m size 13 I support Arsenal though bad times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

That's what I thought you meant. "

Please explain it to me in plain English

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

That's what I thought you meant. "

Yeah I see that. I clarified though.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Boobs like it just seen that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

Lol let’s talk football as me and you will be better off and maybe safer if it kicks off

What size boobs do you like then?

Well I don’t play it I’m Rugby but I’m size 13 I support Arsenal though bad times!"

There is no size 13 in boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

That's what I thought you meant.

Yeah I see that. I clarified though. "

Can you clarify a bit more?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

Lol let’s talk football as me and you will be better off and maybe safer if it kicks off

What size boobs do you like then?

Well I don’t play it I’m Rugby but I’m size 13 I support Arsenal though bad times!

There is no size 13 in boobs "

.

Well there always good at any size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

Lol let’s talk football as me and you will be better off and maybe safer if it kicks off

What size boobs do you like then?

Well I don’t play it I’m Rugby but I’m size 13 I support Arsenal though bad times!

There is no size 13 in boobs .

Well there always good at any size "

Most men don’t know this but 32C is the best seller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about? "

You are allowed to sit one out occasionally

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

That's what I thought you meant.

Yeah I see that. I clarified though.

Can you clarify a bit more? "

I’m to save you! it will not end well !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

You are allowed to sit one out occasionally "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. A few of the girls in the conversation declared themselves to be that way.

I was quoting them. They weren't talking about me. "

Glad to hear it and frankly i dont expect to hear such a potty mouth on here of all places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

You are allowed to sit one out occasionally "

I agree but not this one

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

You are allowed to sit one out occasionally

"

is trying hard!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from glorifying the ‘C’ word, still not sure what this thread is about? Sorry Rubi

I can't think of another way to explain it than how I have

Shall we just crack open a cake?

Does it say cunt on it? If so go ahead nah. It was £5/letter

Which indicates £20 quid for a cunt! "

Lol

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Good cunt bad cunt I guess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So op. We need to know. Who thinks you're a cunt? We'll sort em

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok. A few of the girls in the conversation declared themselves to be that way.

I was quoting them. They weren't talking about me.

Glad to hear it and frankly i dont expect to hear such a potty mouth on here of all places"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So op. We need to know. Who thinks you're a cunt? We'll sort em "

Even she’s asking!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one who is not getting what this thread is about?

You are allowed to sit one out occasionally

I agree but not this one "

I think someone mentioned the word cunt or something!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good cunt bad cunt I guess?"

What makes it worse is I'm Scottish. Cunt is a term of endearment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So op. We need to know. Who thinks you're a cunt? We'll sort em "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So op. We need to know. Who thinks you're a cunt? We'll sort em

Even she’s asking!!! "

What the fuck is that supposed to mean???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who has to self proclaim anything aren't what they proclaim to be.

I'm an intellectual so please don't argue this, you'll lose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who has to self proclaim anything aren't what they proclaim to be.

I'm an intellectual so please don't argue this, you'll lose."

You wear glasses so you must be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone who has to self proclaim anything aren't what they proclaim to be.

I'm an intellectual so please don't argue this, you'll lose."

You're a sweetheart. If someone else says it it's true.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment "

They didn’t say it to her she was quoting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment

They didn’t say it to her she was quoting them. "

Thanks for clearing that up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment

They didn’t say it to her she was quoting them.

Thanks for clearing that up."

When you understand what’s going on you can help me understand as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment

They didn’t say it to her she was quoting them.

Thanks for clearing that up.

When you understand what’s going on you can help me understand as well "

I thought you were out with your mates?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Creeping into corner to hide behind sofa and watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment

They didn’t say it to her she was quoting them.

Thanks for clearing that up.

When you understand what’s going on you can help me understand as well

I thought you were out with your mates?"

I was going to come back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment

They didn’t say it to her she was quoting them.

Thanks for clearing that up.

When you understand what’s going on you can help me understand as well

I thought you were out with your mates?

I was going to come back lol "

Did you wear your ginger wig again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cunts are beautiful and very useful so I'd take it as a compliment

They didn’t say it to her she was quoting them.

Thanks for clearing that up.

When you understand what’s going on you can help me understand as well

I thought you were out with your mates?

I was going to come back lol

Did you wear your ginger wig again?"

Still waiting for it to arrive in post? Did you go out or still on sofa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread will always be a mystery about cunt

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's terribly sad that some people seem only comfortable with others who are very similar, disliking even people who do what they would also like to but don't have the guts to.

I've met with some bitchiness and block them from my life - lifes tough enough without people who will degrade you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's terribly sad that some people seem only comfortable with others who are very similar, disliking even people who do what they would also like to but don't have the guts to.

I've met with some bitchiness and block them from my life - lifes tough enough without people who will degrade you. "

Ladies and gentlemen,

Meet my spokesperson

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Reminds me of the time I was flagged down by a woman with a flat tyre that had a sticker on her car window proclaiming how she was a strong independent woman and men suck etc etc etc. It was funny reading it aloud while I was changing the wheel and seeing her embarrassed/outraged but not being able to say a thing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reminds me of the time I was flagged down by a woman with a flat tyre that had a sticker on her car window proclaiming how she was a strong independent woman and men suck etc etc etc. It was funny reading it aloud while I was changing the wheel and seeing her embarrassed/outraged but not being able to say a thing about it "

Hope you are wearing your helmet mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly to address the word its self, cunt. Where i come from in Scotland, there are more uses for this term than the word there in the English language. It can be a term of endearment, disgust or indifference, or purely just a random indiscriminate term. But, that said we are illiterate cunts. Or genuinely just give reference to the old vajayjay.

But moving on, OP, i know you not to be an atom C bomb, as we have chatted in the past. With regards to those who take pleasure in describing themselves as such, i congratulate them. We all come on here to be our true selfs that the vanilla world would not approve of. Could you imagine auld Betty's pals from the bingo if they saw her with her gimp mask on and horse tail but plug swinging about? At the end of the day its empowerment. If those individuals get that empowerment and be the most confident self gratifying they can be, whos to complain?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Reminds me of the time I was flagged down by a woman with a flat tyre that had a sticker on her car window proclaiming how she was a strong independent woman and men suck etc etc etc. It was funny reading it aloud while I was changing the wheel and seeing her embarrassed/outraged but not being able to say a thing about it

Hope you are wearing your helmet mate "

Na dude I have a thick skull I can handle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reminds me of the time I was flagged down by a woman with a flat tyre that had a sticker on her car window proclaiming how she was a strong independent woman and men suck etc etc etc. It was funny reading it aloud while I was changing the wheel and seeing her embarrassed/outraged but not being able to say a thing about it

Hope you are wearing your helmet mate

Na dude I have a thick skull I can handle it "

I once saw on a Lexus SUV’s plate - Rebecca the wrecker in north London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people that say stuff like that it's just bravado or hot air. Nowadays you can't just have a casual fight cos there'd be police involvement, you could lose your job and serious stuff like that so people can really say anything without fear of comeback. Same as arguing on the internet, people are safe in the house, nothing's gonna happen to them.

So it's maybe for show?

Yes most definitely for show and a defence mechanism. I remember being in a night club toilet with my mate and these girls were stealing lollies off the black toilet attendant and spraying her perfumes, one of the girls called the toilet attendant the N word and my friends son is mixed race so I was like oh fuck here we go. As expected my friend grips one of them by the throat there's 4 of them 2 of us no bouncers can see, another girl jumps on my mates back, I was thinking I'm gonna have to get involved and I'd just put my lipstick on, one of the girls was like you better tell your mate cos they are psychos and she'll get battered blah blah blah, I was just thinking yeah and she's a fucking gypsy and not even I would have a serious fight with her. Chaos ensued I tried to drag my friend off them before bouncers ran in.

Moral of the story, my best friend would call herself a cunt who doesn't give a shit for no one or nothing, and I believe her and have a healthy respect for her because she has no normal fear of society or cctv or police or nothing because she has a big family that really would come down on you hard. Bitch pressed a red hot tea spoon on my cheek once because I moaned about her putting the milk in first when she made me a cuppa tea. Thought she was gonna gauge my eye out the socket.

Now normal person on the street saying oh I'm a cunt oh I don't take any shit, I'd just think nah fuck off you dopey bastard."

Yikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum wolves seem to think it makes them cool and funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum wolves seem to think it makes them cool and funny. "

It's men too, not just the girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

Tbf that's how I perceived it"

Same here, until I just re-read it then worked out that one of the other girls was declaring herself as a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reminds me of the time I was flagged down by a woman with a flat tyre that had a sticker on her car window proclaiming how she was a strong independent woman and men suck etc etc etc. It was funny reading it aloud while I was changing the wheel and seeing her embarrassed/outraged but not being able to say a thing about it "

Was it Beyoncé ?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Reminds me of the time I was flagged down by a woman with a flat tyre that had a sticker on her car window proclaiming how she was a strong independent woman and men suck etc etc etc. It was funny reading it aloud while I was changing the wheel and seeing her embarrassed/outraged but not being able to say a thing about it

Was it Beyoncé ?"

Na but I did meet her once and I asked her why she kept singing "to the left to the left"? She said it was because women are never right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum wolves seem to think it makes them cool and funny.

It's men too, not just the girls."

I’ve been much more aware of this since we’ve had a few threads about it, and on many occasions, the forum wolves are people who don’t use the forum very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

Tbf that's how I perceived it

Same here, until I just re-read it then worked out that one of the other girls was declaring herself as a cunt. "

Same here too, as I read it, it comes across as OP declared herself a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

Tbf that's how I perceived it

Same here, until I just re-read it then worked out that one of the other girls was declaring herself as a cunt.

Same here too, as I read it, it comes across as OP declared herself a cunt "

The quotation marks suggest differently.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

There are those who are openly and admittedly cunts... there are those who are softies and pretend to be cunts as a defense mechanism... there are those who say they're bewildered by others' cuntish attitudes while drawing attention to them to make themselves appear less of a cunt... Thing is... we can all be cunts at times... whether we have one or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

Tbf that's how I perceived it

Same here, until I just re-read it then worked out that one of the other girls was declaring herself as a cunt.

Same here too, as I read it, it comes across as OP declared herself a cunt

The quotation marks suggest differently. "

Please feel free to correct me if I’m wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are those who are openly and admittedly cunts... there are those who are softies and pretend to be cunts as a defense mechanism... there are those who say they're bewildered by others' cuntish attitudes while drawing attention to them to make themselves appear less of a cunt... Thing is... we can all be cunts at times... whether we have one or not "

What are you? A cunt expert?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"There are those who are openly and admittedly cunts... there are those who are softies and pretend to be cunts as a defense mechanism... there are those who say they're bewildered by others' cuntish attitudes while drawing attention to them to make themselves appear less of a cunt... Thing is... we can all be cunts at times... whether we have one or not

What are you? A cunt expert? "

Aren't we all? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments "

So can you clarify the issue at hand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are those who are openly and admittedly cunts... there are those who are softies and pretend to be cunts as a defense mechanism... there are those who say they're bewildered by others' cuntish attitudes while drawing attention to them to make themselves appear less of a cunt... Thing is... we can all be cunts at times... whether we have one or not

What are you? A cunt expert?

Aren't we all? lol"

I’m doing a channel 4 documentary called The Cunt Catcher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reminds me of the time I was flagged down by a woman with a flat tyre that had a sticker on her car window proclaiming how she was a strong independent woman and men suck etc etc etc. It was funny reading it aloud while I was changing the wheel and seeing her embarrassed/outraged but not being able to say a thing about it

Was it Beyoncé ?

Na but I did meet her once and I asked her why she kept singing "to the left to the left"? She said it was because women are never right."

I spoke to her once, she said ‘excuse me how do you get to Wembley?’ I said ‘my brother takes me!’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are those who are openly and admittedly cunts... there are those who are softies and pretend to be cunts as a defense mechanism... there are those who say they're bewildered by others' cuntish attitudes while drawing attention to them to make themselves appear less of a cunt... Thing is... we can all be cunts at times... whether we have one or not "

What about people that don't think they're cunts but get called a cunt. I'm one of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are those who are openly and admittedly cunts... there are those who are softies and pretend to be cunts as a defense mechanism... there are those who say they're bewildered by others' cuntish attitudes while drawing attention to them to make themselves appear less of a cunt... Thing is... we can all be cunts at times... whether we have one or not

What about people that don't think they're cunts but get called a cunt. I'm one of those. "

I have my own problem, I get called black on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are those who are openly and admittedly cunts... there are those who are softies and pretend to be cunts as a defense mechanism... there are those who say they're bewildered by others' cuntish attitudes while drawing attention to them to make themselves appear less of a cunt... Thing is... we can all be cunts at times... whether we have one or not

What about people that don't think they're cunts but get called a cunt. I'm one of those.

I have my own problem, I get called black on here "

Because the first picture in your gallery looks like a black mans willy, the rest of the willys look more caramel. I'd just take the first one off cos its confusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are those who are openly and admittedly cunts... there are those who are softies and pretend to be cunts as a defense mechanism... there are those who say they're bewildered by others' cuntish attitudes while drawing attention to them to make themselves appear less of a cunt... Thing is... we can all be cunts at times... whether we have one or not

What about people that don't think they're cunts but get called a cunt. I'm one of those.

I have my own problem, I get called black on here

Because the first picture in your gallery looks like a black mans willy, the rest of the willys look more caramel. I'd just take the first one off cos its confusing. "

Yeah, who’s is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are those who are openly and admittedly cunts... there are those who are softies and pretend to be cunts as a defense mechanism... there are those who say they're bewildered by others' cuntish attitudes while drawing attention to them to make themselves appear less of a cunt... Thing is... we can all be cunts at times... whether we have one or not

What about people that don't think they're cunts but get called a cunt. I'm one of those.

I have my own problem, I get called black on here

Because the first picture in your gallery looks like a black mans willy, the rest of the willys look more caramel. I'd just take the first one off cos its confusing. "

Bloody coconut oil!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are those who are openly and admittedly cunts... there are those who are softies and pretend to be cunts as a defense mechanism... there are those who say they're bewildered by others' cuntish attitudes while drawing attention to them to make themselves appear less of a cunt... Thing is... we can all be cunts at times... whether we have one or not

What about people that don't think they're cunts but get called a cunt. I'm one of those.

I have my own problem, I get called black on here

Because the first picture in your gallery looks like a black mans willy, the rest of the willys look more caramel. I'd just take the first one off cos its confusing.

Yeah, who’s is it?"

It’s my willy covered in oil lol

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments

So can you clarify the issue at hand? "

I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments

So can you clarify the issue at hand?

I could "

I’m excited

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"The people in the chat were saying they don't take bullshit and stuff but isn't it possible to do that without being aggressive or quick to judge? Is it a defensive tactic? "

Yes. And no. I have strong opinions and don't mind expressing them at appropriate moments but that doesn't mean I have to be a bitch, aggressive or particularly cunty about it (and if I were then it is more a reflection on the fact they have got to me and inspired an emotional rather than logical response). I am well aware that many people on fab don't like me - but I am comfortable with that fact since they don't like me for me rather than for something I purport to be for the sake of fab efficacy.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments

So can you clarify the issue at hand?

I could

I’m excited "

Don't be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments

So can you clarify the issue at hand?

I could

I’m excited

Don't be "

Thought you were going to clarify?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments

So can you clarify the issue at hand?

I could

I’m excited

Don't be

Thought you were going to clarify? "

No, I said I could

But as all you seem to do on the forums is make snide comments, I won't waste my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did they say you are a cunt?

Can you tell me where in my post I wrote that?

Tbf that's how I perceived it

Same here, until I just re-read it then worked out that one of the other girls was declaring herself as a cunt.

Same here too, as I read it, it comes across as OP declared herself a cunt

The quotation marks suggest differently.

Please feel free to correct me if I’m wrong "

I just did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments

So can you clarify the issue at hand?

I could

I’m excited

Don't be

Thought you were going to clarify?

No, I said I could

But as all you seem to do on the forums is make snide comments, I won't waste my time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual cunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum wolves seem to think it makes them cool and funny.

It's men too, not just the girls.

I’ve been much more aware of this since we’ve had a few threads about it, and on many occasions, the forum wolves are people who don’t use the forum very much. "

Is it really? I need to pay more attention.

Not sure if that's good or bad. (re: non frequent forum users being wolves)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments

So can you clarify the issue at hand?

I could

I’m excited

Don't be

Thought you were going to clarify?

No, I said I could

But as all you seem to do on the forums is make snide comments, I won't waste my time "

I wasn’t the only one who couldn’t understand what that thread was about you know

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Keyboard warriors nothing more nothing less. They get their kicks from the 'attention' be it bad or good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s onlu fair if OP her self can explain what she meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s onlu fair if OP her self can explain what she meant "

She has. Many times. Not her fault you can’t understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s onlu fair if OP her self can explain what she meant

She has. Many times. Not her fault you can’t understand. "

I don’t think she has

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments

So can you clarify the issue at hand?

I could

I’m excited

Don't be

Thought you were going to clarify?

No, I said I could

But as all you seem to do on the forums is make snide comments, I won't waste my time

I wasn’t the only one who couldn’t understand what that thread was about you know "

No, but you're the onjy one that makes a habit of trolling all of Rubis threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was involved in the chat that Rubi mentions, so I knew exactly what she was referring too.

I more of twat than a cunt, but I have my moments

So can you clarify the issue at hand?

I could

I’m excited

Don't be

Thought you were going to clarify?

No, I said I could

But as all you seem to do on the forums is make snide comments, I won't waste my time

I wasn’t the only one who couldn’t understand what that thread was about you know

No, but you're the onjy one that makes a habit of trolling all of Rubis threads "

Maybe not all, but this is a gold one

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I think people take things on here too seriously in general, if people lightened up a bit and just chilled out it would be more fun and there would be less need for any bitching. Not that I really give a fuck.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I think people take things on here too seriously in general, if people lightened up a bit and just chilled out it would be more fun and there would be less need for any bitching. Not that I really give a fuck."

Fully agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people take things on here too seriously in general, if people lightened up a bit and just chilled out it would be more fun and there would be less need for any bitching. Not that I really give a fuck."

I can’t wait to buy you a beer next month

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