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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Affect everyone else with their (bad) mood

Does anyone know anyone like this?

In the work place it's just horrible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Sister! I can’t speak to her sometimes because she’s so negative!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do, i tell them to dry their eyes and stop being a fuckin quim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t stand it in the work place either.

None of us want to be here but you spend all day with these people!!

I’m a joy to be around!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun suckers. They walk into a room and suck the fun right out of it.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"Affect everyone else with their (bad) mood

Does anyone know anyone like this?

In the work place it's just horrible!

I work with one. It can make it a VERY long shift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smiles and walks away..

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Fun suckers "

Try saying that twenty times fast

Yes, if they were a cartoon character they'd have a wee rain cloud over their head at all times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I find it so hard to talk with them I end up just avoiding them and end up looking like the grumpy one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do, i tell them to dry their eyes and stop being a fuckin quim.

Or a melt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do, i tell them to dry their eyes and stop being a fuckin quim.

Or a melt

Tuna melt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do, i tell them to dry their eyes and stop being a fuckin quim.

Or a melt

Stop stealing my favourite words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mother. She's a negativity magnet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I solved it by leaving work early

I can't be arsed to have my joy hovered it's Friday FFS!

She's one of those women that's always unwell at the doctors every 5 mins, suffers from anxiety etc ...

I would feel sorry for her if she didn't affect everyone else with her mood.

Yawn - isn't it time for wine yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Where we going

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah. Where we going

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Yawn - isn't it time for wine yet?

It's always wine time somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yawn - isn't it time for wine yet?

It's always wine time somewhere

Yes it is!

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a trait of a narcassist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boss. Grrrrr I balance her out by being annoyingly cheerful all the time!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

We have a real mood hoover at work, always has a lousy weekend and never happy. I sometimes play ‘yes but’ with him so no matter what he says, I say ‘yes, but...’ and then come up with something positive.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Yes I do, i tell them to dry their eyes and stop being a fuckin quim.

Quim. Ain't heard that word in years.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Its a trait of a narcassist"

Defo. "Sympathise with me. Feel and share my pain. Give me attention."

'Fuck off' is an acceptable response.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Mood Hoovers! Avoid at all costs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its a trait of a narcassist"

Is it?

Well that makes sense - she is self obsessed!

The worst thing about it is I can't stop thinking about her and having to work with her.

It's really getting me down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its a trait of a narcassist

Defo. "Sympathise with me. Feel and share my pain. Give me attention."

'Fuck off' is an acceptable response."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to sit within slapping distance of this woman who would say everyday how she hated the job and just wanted to quit. She's still there after 20 years.

Eventually, I quit.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Yawn - isn't it time for wine yet?

It's always wine time somewhere

Yes it is!

Cheers

Bottoms, erm, up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told one of my colleagues that at times it;s like having a dementor in the room just sucking the joy out of everything. It didn't go down well.

But one of the biggest triggers to my own mental health is 2 of my colleague's moods and behaviour. Itls completely draining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite good at ignoring them. That irritates them even more. And makes me more amused. I'm such a kid

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Drains and Radiator syndrome...

Drains = fun suckers!

Radiators = warm, huggable, happy people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Urgh!

I can't stop thinking about this stupid woman and why she's upset with me

Even though she's upset by everything!

It's ruining my weekend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Urgh!

I can't stop thinking about this stupid woman and why she's upset with me

Even though she's upset by everything!

It's ruining my weekend!"

Why is she upset with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a trait of a narcassist

Defo. "Sympathise with me. Feel and share my pain. Give me attention."

..."

Never thought of this before. It makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Urgh!

I can't stop thinking about this stupid woman and why she's upset with me

Even though she's upset by everything!

It's ruining my weekend!

Why is she upset with you? "

I'm changing my hours at work so I get an extra day off a week.

This means she will have to work with someone else on that day.

I pity them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem"

True story

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By *hyntravCouple
over a year ago

North Somerset

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By *hyntravCouple
over a year ago

North Somerset

"My mother. She's a negativity magnet"

Mine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they suck everyone’s good vibes away. I avoid people like that, especially in my home life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be a bit of grumpy old sod at work sometimes, but I try to keep myself to myself on the office when those days occur, I'm the antithesis of the phrase "misery loves company", I usually perk up again.

Mr B

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