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By *r discreet472 OP   Man
over a year ago

Durham

Been on here for nearly 2 years now and I hardly get any meets or socials I’m young healthy physically fit and a decent physique

Can someone let me know where I’m going wrong pls any advice would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't know what you're doing so how can we know what you're doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh. You literally have nothing on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be the no hair thing for me.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You look physically good but try a smile! Your profile doesn't say anything which wouldn't bother me as long as your message is good. No doubt others will tell you to add profile text though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh. You literally have nothing on your profile. "

Like absolutely nothing. Wow.

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By *r discreet472 OP   Man
over a year ago

Durham

I’ve had a written profile before but nobody took any notice of it

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

You’re verified by a couple whose profile name suggests that they are looking for somebody who is bisexual.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Your profile needs a bit of work. Your photos are all very samey, you’ve not got any write up & the only thing I know about you is you’re a gym bunny.

Most women will read a profile before they respond to a message. If you messaged me, you’d get a delete no response.

Have a look at some of the other profile help threads & check out some of the Male profiles who have commented with advice - they usually have great profiles

Hope that helps! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know.. you don’t have boobs pics

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London

OP, your profile is blank with just photos of your body(good body).

I would skip profile like yours as will think that "this guy is egocentric, thinking that all it takes is good body".

I would advise you to remove most photos, and leave just few, and definitely write something about you, and what your interests are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got 10 verifications! Can't be that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have a completely blank profile, and you're puzzled why people don't respond to it??

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

You can't accom so that won't help with meets unfortunately and you haven't written anything.

It's all about selling yourself op on here and giving people reasons to want to meet you.

Miss

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By *r discreet472 OP   Man
over a year ago

Durham

Thank you mortica really appreciate that thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics. You look better with the beard.

For gods sake smile.

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By *r discreet472 OP   Man
over a year ago

Durham

Yeah In nearly 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got 10 verifications! Can't be that bad "

Thinking the same thing.

What are you expecting OP?

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By *r discreet472 OP   Man
over a year ago

Durham

Like I said to someone else I had a profile written and nobody took any notice so I deleted it

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London


"Like I said to someone else I had a profile written and nobody took any notice so I deleted it"

Why do you say that? You can't possibly know that unless people ask for totally opposite to what is in the profile, but still makes no sense to delete it.

If that was the way, I would of delete our profile, instead of further developing it, and making sure I cover every single bit that has been asked, misunderstood etc.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Oh. You literally have nothing on your profile.

Like absolutely nothing. Wow. "

He's discreet. Maybe a tad too discreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, your profile is blank with just photos of your body(good body).

I would skip profile like yours as will think that "this guy is egocentric, thinking that all it takes is good body".

I would advise you to remove most photos, and leave just few, and definitely write something about you, and what your interests are. "

This exactly... sorry to say there is a sense of entitlement that is eminating from your responses on the thread too.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Empty profile ~ write something about yourself.

Pics ~ take some new ones and smile, I don't think you look very approachable with your current ones.

Can't accomadate ~ the moral police will assume you have a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay so my take on your profile - no text so I'm assuming you've got little to say. You've got a gorgeous body and love the hat shot too, but would like to see a smile. Lots of TV friends so likely your Bisexual and you're into dogging - neither of those last two aspects turn me on so I'd scroll on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From no profile text to your photo’s it suggests that all you needed was to show off your body and they would be queuing out the door.

Think about what you can offer other than your body...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If you hadn't suggested otherwise OP I'd have questioned if this was purely a look at me thread in which you were hoping people would be sold on the fact you're obviously a gym bunny - especially as your most recent meet was a week ago, so you're hardly struggling.

In fact 10 veris in two years is pretty good going for most single guy profiles on here.

As others have said, your most recent veri would suggest you are bi - now it's entirely up to you whether you choose to identify as straight/bi etc, but you will find some people call you out on that and may choose not to meet because they suspect you are hiding something.

No profile text at all suggests a level of arrogance that your body will sell you too - even if you're not great with words, at least put something there that tells people a little about you and what you are looking for

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP what were/are your expectations of fab?

Many single men think that all they have to do is sign up and they will be knee deep in clunge. They don't realise that there are so many men on the site that getting regular meets is nigh on impossible.

At any one time there is 25,000+ people on the site but only a few thousand of these are women and couples. That means that you are competing with many thousands of other single men for the attention of the ladies and couples. 10 meets in two years is actually pretty good.

It takes far more than a few pictures of a ripped body to attract us. Make an effort on your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know OP. Perhaps it’s because you look like Ross Kemp and when they click on your profile, they run away saying ‘So I got out of there’.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

I looked at your profile, theres nothing on your Bio as a woman I like to read a well written Bio, your pics are very samey, try some in jeans with cock peeping out of top, a bum shot, nice torso without gym in background and like someone else said try to smile

SC xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!"

Homer Simpson. - The Homer they fall. 1996

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!

Homer Simpson. - The Homer they fall. 1996"

Love your culture cinematographic !

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By *ikely ladMan
over a year ago

Hounslow


"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!

Homer Simpson. - The Homer they fall. 1996"
copy and paste (2018)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!

Homer Simpson. - The Homer they fall. 1996

Love your culture cinematographic ! "

Truly a great man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!

Homer Simpson. - The Homer they fall. 1996 copy and paste (2018)"

Learning quick 11th may 2018

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for nearly 2 years now and I hardly get any meets or socials I’m young healthy physically fit and a decent physique

Can someone let me know where I’m going wrong pls any advice would be appreciated "

You’ve had 9 meets that’s good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for nearly 2 years now and I hardly get any meets or socials I’m young healthy physically fit and a decent physique

Can someone let me know where I’m going wrong pls any advice would be appreciated "

No profile to read. Maybe spend a little time selling yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like I said to someone else I had a profile written and nobody took any notice so I deleted it"

No text, no effort, no attempt to tell me about yourself = no meet

Seems like quite a few of us on here want more on a profile than a few pics.

As a single woman I could probably delete all my text and still get meets, but I choose to add text (make an effort) so you know a bit more about me and can get some idea of whether I’d be your type.

It looks like you can’t be bothered. Sorry

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

You are 35

So probably been going out on the pull for 18 years ,

What happened there then .

My point is stop counting .

Just enjoy the ride, get to more clubs & socials & the fun will roll in , unless you are a numpty

then youll get told so.

Good luck fella .

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