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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi guys just wanted to draw on your experiences if we may....any tips for a newbie couple?? dos and donts

please be gentle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take things literally. Just go with the flow and don't dwell on anything. Talk to each other tho and your most likely discover things you like/dislike that you didn't think you would/wouldn't

I think the most important one is don't be afraid to say no to meets or your partner

When I joined I wanted to meet couples and females mostly and go to clubs. I now much prefer mmf and wouldn't go to a club again

Also don't be afraid of "hi how's you" messages. It's the next few lines of the conversation you'll find out if they're for you or not

Good luck to you both and hope you really enjoy it x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Be honest in what you both want from this and what your boundaries are.

Don't rush into anything and communicate with each other. You may think you're okay with seeing your partner with someone else but the reality can be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be honest in what you both want from this and what your boundaries are.

Don't rush into anything and communicate with each other. You may think you're okay with seeing your partner with someone else but the reality can be different.

"

The green eyed monster is never far away

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

RUN.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"RUN. "

Loooooooooool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

he he maybe I should run...thankyou ladies much appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi guys just wanted to draw on your experiences if we may....any tips for a newbie couple?? dos and donts

please be gentle lol "

All the new couples have to arrange their first meet with me, only after I gave you the veri you can continue here...

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Have a social first.

Discuss your what you are happy to do and not.

Never be made to feel pressured into doing something your not comfortable with whether it's by your partner or another.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

Message people and chat, never feel pressured and go at your own pace

It's meant to be fun, if you're not having fun or don't feel comfortable don't be afraid to say so. Be honest with yourselves not just each other

I say this as I was once part of a couple on here

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By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants


"hi guys just wanted to draw on your experiences if we may....any tips for a newbie couple?? dos and donts

please be gentle lol

All the new couples have to arrange their first meet with me, only after I gave you the veri you can continue here... "

And just in case you were wondering, ‘the veri’ isn’t an sti.

Just to clarify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's meant to be fun, if you're not having fun or don't feel comfortable don't be afraid to say so. Be honest with yourselves not just each other

"

This ^

Kxx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

The one thing I'd add ,is have pics of you both on your profile if you are looking for couples .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is the key. Talk talk and talk again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set your boundaries and just go with the flow.

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